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  • Posts: 3,661 Member
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    People who don't care don't have to be hurtful to prove anything.

    They're busy not caring.

    sounds like a break up lol
  • Posts: 17,525 Member
    You weren't even friends- you have already invested WAY to much time into this.

    Just keep nodding and saying hi.
  • Posts: 1,903 Member
    I'd say it's rude. You don't have to pretend to be best friends with the person, but at least be civil.
  • Posts: 663 Member
    Listen, OP: You've had a conversation where you expressed that you disagreed with her behaviour. She/he apologized. Sincere or not, it's time to move on.

    She/he isn't your friend anymore, that's fine. But to be intentionally rude or try to hurt someone's feelings sits right on the border line of bullying/revenge depending on if you happen to be over the age of 12 or not.

    Instead of letting it get to you every time you see them, realize that you have an entire life filled with things that don't involve that person and that being polite and saying "hi" when it's extended to you is just part of being a social, human being.

    Dear god, I Can't wait until you end up having to work with someone and don't get along with them or something -- it's really just a fact of life.

    Don't be rude. Use your manners. Be a grown up.
    /end thread.
  • Posts: 5,585 Member
    ignore them pretend they are shrubbery
  • Posts: 624 Member
    This sounds like a page out of my middle school diary..
  • Posts: 10,477 Member
    I am SO in. *LOL*


    "I want to be rude to show her I don't care, but need random stranger's input first."


    WAAAAY too much energy is being put into this. If you care that much, you should just tell her, "Listen, I know you apologized, but I still think you're a ***** and really wish nothing to do with you."

    There. Done. Move on.
  • Posts: 9,003 Member
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  • Posts: 177 Member
    Yes it's rude. There is a couple in my town who go out of their way to offend me, but I refuse to lower myself to their level
  • Posts: 3,498 Member
    ignore them pretend they are shrubbery

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  • Posts: 3,556 Member
    Am I back in junior high?
  • Posts: 884 Member
    i would say ignoring anyone is rude, i never turn my nose up or ignore anyone, if they say hi say hi back and walk on by. be the bigger person

    What he said^ I recently went through the OP 's scenario but I continue to acknowlege the individual even though I would like to throat punch them.
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    What he said^ I recently went through the OP 's scenario but I continue to acknowlege the individual even though I would like to throat punch them.

    screw that, i cant even look at this person and I will not force myself to talk to her .I have had someone stopped talking to me at work for no reason before so I don't see why its a big deal
  • Posts: 3,498 Member
    I think as well as walking by her and saying nothing you should add in a strategically timed hair flip:

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  • Posts: 10,477 Member
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    screw that, i cant even look at this person and I will not force myself to talk to her .I have had someone stopped talking to me at work for no reason before so I don't see why its a big deal

    Obviously you DO see that it's a big deal.


    You, honey, are the epitome of passive aggressive. And I'll let you in a little secret. No one, and I mean no one, likes a passive aggressive person.

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  • Posts: 1,039 Member
    If you're an adult, it's rude. If you're a kid, it's childish. If you're a teenager, it's still rude. There's enough rudeness in this world, why not try to reverse that?
  • Posts: 3,262 Member
    yes it would be rude to snub them. just do the nod and move on
    sounds though really you need to have a talk with this person to discuss your feelings, you seem really upset about what happened and their apology. i bet you they are oblivious to your feelings.
  • Posts: 1,823 Member
    Okay so if you're going to just do whatever you want, then why did you ask?
  • Posts: 1,893 Member
    I can only imagine the amount of relief this person would feel knowing that they no longer have to pretend to even care enough to say "Hi" in passing. I say you send them a memo absolving them of this level of acquaintance-responsibility. That will really stick it to them.
  • Posts: 3,845 Member
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    That's the point,i am trying to be hurtful towards her to show that I don't care about her

    Rude and childish.
  • Posts: 2,135 Member
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    Rude and childish.

    Right. Grow up.
  • Posts: 16,414 Member
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    This makes this thread totally worth it.
  • Posts: 811 Member
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    screw that, i cant even look at this person and I will not force myself to talk to her .I have had someone stopped talking to me at work for no reason before so I don't see why its a big deal

    You aren't really talking to her. You are acknowledging her "hi", the same way you might to a complete stranger on a walking trail. It's called being polite and being a grown up. Intentionally snubbing someone and being hurtful is childish. Grow up.
  • Posts: 329 Member
    Yes it's rude, but wouldn't that kinda be the point? If you care at all about manners, why would you "snub" anyone?
  • Posts: 34,971 Member
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    Obviously you DO see that it's a big deal.


    You, honey, are the epitome of passive aggressive. And I'll let you in a little secret. No one, and I mean no one, likes a passive aggressive person.

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    Watch out Odus, otherwise she'll put you on ignore. Then spend her next 5 posts talking about how funny it is someone who is on ignore is being ignored, even though, technically, you aren't ignoring them if you keep responding them even if not directly.

    #passiveAggressiveTactics
  • Posts: 552 Member
    *checks profile*

    Ok. OP is 20 years old so yeah. Stands to reason why they would want to act in such a childish way.
  • Posts: 949 Member
    1.rebuff, ignore, or spurn disdainfully.

    noun
    an act of showing disdain or a lack of cordiality by rebuffing or ignoring someone or something.


    so....of course it is. was that a legit question?
  • Posts: 4,535 Member
    *checks profile*

    Ok. OP is 20 years old so yeah. Stands to reason why they would want to act in such a childish way.

    Was wondering how anyone got to be a "grown up" without knowing how to act like one. It all makes sense.
  • Posts: 949 Member
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    That's the point,i am trying to be hurtful towards her to show that I don't care about her

    but clearly you do. if you truly didn't care this thread would never have happened.
  • Posts: 741 Member
    They offended you and apologized. The apology wasn't good enough for you and now you want to snub them to hurt them. I'd say go ahead and snub them - they are better off without you.
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