If someone was to go onto your profile....

Karleyyy
Karleyyy Posts: 857
edited September 26 in Chit-Chat
and call you hot (or anything along those lines) would you be offended, or flattered? I know there are some of you that get that a lot anyway, but I have run into some people that don't like it...I know this isn't a dating site, but it is nice to here sometimes! :)

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  • manettaMikey
    manettaMikey Posts: 54 Member
    Hey I like hearing it. I use to have very low confidence so when I hear a positive comment, i'm all about it :)
  • Newmammaluv
    Newmammaluv Posts: 379 Member
    I tend to just blush and grin but not respond. I still roll my eyes even when my hubby says it. I'm not offended by it though!!!
  • ♥MyCrazyBeautifulLife
    ♥MyCrazyBeautifulLife Posts: 61
    flattered :)
  • RockaholicMama
    RockaholicMama Posts: 786 Member
    I'd take it as a compliment. I think sometimes compliments can give you motivation.
  • foxxybrown
    foxxybrown Posts: 838 Member
    Flattered!
  • Elzecat
    Elzecat Posts: 2,916 Member
    I haven't heard that on here...but I probably wouldn't mind. It's flattering and good for the ego ;)
  • jolarocknrolla
    jolarocknrolla Posts: 236 Member
    i guess i'd be flattered but i'm married so ... i'd let it go at that.
  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    Flattered. Defnatly flattered.
  • brittanyscherich
    brittanyscherich Posts: 355 Member
    I'd be flattered. But I'm married.
  • cdngirl71
    cdngirl71 Posts: 2,641 Member
    I have been flattered!! Always nice to hear, LOL. :happy:
  • FairyMiss
    FairyMiss Posts: 1,812 Member
    at this point i would still question their visual acuity.
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    Flattered. Defnatly flattered.

    Good! Cause I had you in mind when I started this post. :)
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,251 Member
    I wouldn't mind too much. But since nearly all my pics have my kids, and a few have my husband, I doubt that will ever happen.
  • CuteAndCurvy83
    CuteAndCurvy83 Posts: 570 Member
    flattered! And loving it! I'm married but I ain't dead!
  • AZKristi
    AZKristi Posts: 1,801 Member
    Creepy.... this isn't match.com
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    Creepy.... this isn't match.com

    Wow......
  • ejohndrow
    ejohndrow Posts: 1,399 Member
    Hmmm flattered once I was convinved they weren't messing with me.
  • Goal_Seeker_1988
    Goal_Seeker_1988 Posts: 1,619 Member
    I just say okay, whatever. I never believe people when they compliment me. I've never taken compliments well.
  • ChinniP
    ChinniP Posts: 166 Member
    at this point i would still question their visual acuity.

    I'm rolling on that one! I'm with you on that!
  • DonM46
    DonM46 Posts: 771 Member
    Why do people, women especially, refuse to take a compliment without thinking there must be an ulterior motive.
    I'm 64. When I tell a lady that I think she's pretty, that's all I mean.
    Over the last decade or so, some women connote sexual meaning to that.
    Why?
  • jessers26
    jessers26 Posts: 17 Member
    I would be flattered and that's about it! An ego boost is always good!
  • maddiex_x
    maddiex_x Posts: 43
    I would be flattered though I doubt it would happen to me anytime soon :ohwell: .
  • jessers26
    jessers26 Posts: 17 Member
    I would be flattered and that's about it! An ego boost is always good!
  • superhippiechik
    superhippiechik Posts: 1,044 Member
    Married and flattered! I have low self esteem so it is nice to hear.:blushing:
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    Why do people, women especially, refuse to take a compliment without thinking there must be an ulterior motive.
    I'm 64. When I tell a lady that I think she's pretty, that's all I mean.
    Over the last decade or so, some women connote sexual meaning to that.
    Why?

    I don't know. For me it used to be my weight and because BOYS my age are just that...boys. That's why I don't go for boys!
  • lbritt5
    lbritt5 Posts: 23 Member
    at this point i would still question their visual acuity.

    Me too!
  • nsciambi
    nsciambi Posts: 70 Member
    I agree! I mean, it's one thing for someone to give you a compliment (Great abs! Awesome progress! Check out those guns! You look great! Etc.), but in my opinion, the term "hot" has a sexual connotation and is inappropriate. I mean, would you go up to someone at the gym and tell them how "hot" they are? I hope not.

    I married, though, so I'm sure that makes a difference.
    Creepy.... this isn't match.com
  • stephanielynn76
    stephanielynn76 Posts: 709 Member
    I just take it to mean I must be doing something right! :wink:
  • savvynurse
    savvynurse Posts: 292
    Flattered.... most definitely flattered
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    I agree! I mean, it's one thing for someone to give you a compliment (Great abs! Awesome progress! Check out those guns! You look great! Etc.), but in my opinion, the term "hot" has a sexual connotation and is inappropriate. I mean, would you go up to someone at the gym and tell them how "hot" they are? I hope not.

    I married, though, so I'm sure that makes a difference.
    Creepy.... this isn't match.com

    It really depends with me..if it is on my profile it isn't bad, and it depends on the person saying it. If it is through message it can be kind of creepy.
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