Do you get hit on?

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  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    joshua3179 wrote: »
    Never get hit on
    You look like Crowley from Supernatural! Be honest! You're getting hit on at least three times a day! <3
  • cad39too
    cad39too Posts: 874 Member
    Usually when I think I look a mess is when I get hit on..
  • indycoltz
    indycoltz Posts: 565 Member
    I mean is there anything wrong with walking up to someone randomly and saying that you think they're very attractive and then walking away? You're not creepy, and you have just made their day, maybe even their week. What's wrong with that?
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    cad39too wrote: »
    Usually when I think I look a mess is when I get hit on..

    Yep

  • SofaKingRad_II
    SofaKingRad_II Posts: 591
    Nope, never do.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    only when they are wearing beer goggles
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    indycoltz wrote: »
    I mean is there anything wrong with walking up to someone randomly and saying that you think they're very attractive and then walking away? You're not creepy, and you have just made their day, maybe even their week. What's wrong with that?

    There's nothing wrong with that! But, sadly, in these times most people are afraid to speak up because their afraid to be called out as a pedofile or socially awkward :/
  • determined_ella
    determined_ella Posts: 4,354 Member
    nope :confused: I think men are scared of me, even though I'm relatively shy lol
  • Noogynoogs
    Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
    Only when I walk into something.
  • rbfdac
    rbfdac Posts: 1,057 Member
    I see this is an old post, but I feel the OP probably didn't get hit on because of the fact that she obviously WANTED to get hit on. If her vibe is anything like the vibe of the whole post, I wouldn't hit on her either.

    Men can tell if you're thirsty, married or not. And for most, it's a turn off.

    I, personally, do not get hit on. But I'm not sure where the hitting on is supposed to happen for a married woman constantly toting around a baby on her hip.
  • Noogynoogs
    Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
    I think this was the topic last year or have I got dementia?
  • summerhaze71
    summerhaze71 Posts: 1,204 Member
    I have been with my husband 16 years... lost my wedding ring three years into our marriage and haven't been gifted a replacement. So, for all pretenses, I appear single and still... no one hits on me either. I don't know what vibe I'm putting out there either. LOL, not that it matters, but an ego boost never hurt anyone!! :wink:
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Old thread is old.... but all the time.
  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
    Nope, but I've got social anxiety and have been told I give off "cold prickly" vibes (probably because I find eye contact terrifying). Online, though, apparently I'm fair game even though I clearly state everywhere that I'm married. So I'm chalking it up to a body-language thing. I'm not looking, so it's no biggie that I apparently scare people away :p
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    wolfsbayne wrote: »
    cad39too wrote: »
    Usually when I think I look a mess is when I get hit on..

    Yep

    This, is also true, in my case.

    I'm starting to think the "messy" look attracts those that are imagining you in their beds... Ugh..
  • ThePoeToaster
    ThePoeToaster Posts: 1,681 Member
    summerhaze71 wrote: »
    I have been with my husband 16 years... lost my wedding ring three years into our marriage and haven't been gifted a replacement. So, for all pretenses, I appear single and still... no one hits on me either. I don't know what vibe I'm putting out there either. LOL, not that it matters, but an ego boost never hurt anyone!! :wink:

    The only reason I don't hit on you is you live soooo far away.
  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    justcat206 wrote: »
    Nope, but I've got social anxiety and have been told I give off "cold prickly" vibes (probably because I find eye contact terrifying).
    Same, but I can't even speak to a girl nevermind make eye contact D:

  • SunnyRJ
    SunnyRJ Posts: 5
    I get hit on quite often. Especially more so now that I've lost weight. Even when I'm with my 18 month old little girl AND have a ring on my finger. It only irks me when they come on too aggressively and won't leave me alone.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    Never. My current BF only approached me because I was the only girl standing alone at a social event. I get insulted by men far more often.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    wolfsbayne wrote: »
    cad39too wrote: »
    Usually when I think I look a mess is when I get hit on..

    Yep

    This, is also true, in my case.

    I'm starting to think the "messy" look attracts those that are imagining you in their beds... Ugh..

    Interesting observation. Perhaps, you are correct.

  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    malavika413 wrote: »
    Never. My current BF only approached me because I was the only girl standing alone at a social event. I get insulted by men far more often.

    Wow... Why do you let them? :|
  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
    JackKopCh wrote: »
    justcat206 wrote: »
    Nope, but I've got social anxiety and have been told I give off "cold prickly" vibes (probably because I find eye contact terrifying).
    Same, but I can't even speak to a girl nevermind make eye contact D:

    Yup. This. Even with good friends. It's sad *sigh* (thank god for the internet)
  • NotJustADieter
    NotJustADieter Posts: 229 Member
    Yup. By my little brother's friends (12-13 year olds) to men older than my father... apparently I have a "flirt with/ grab on me" face.
  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    malavika413 wrote: »
    Never. My current BF only approached me because I was the only girl standing alone at a social event. I get insulted by men far more often.

    Wow... Why do you let them? :|

    I'm shy. When I hear the insults I just try to shuffle away and not let it get to me. Doesn't work very often.
  • joshua3179
    joshua3179 Posts: 2,882 Member
    JackKopCh wrote: »
    joshua3179 wrote: »
    Never get hit on
    You look like Crowley from Supernatural! Be honest! You're getting hit on at least three times a day! <3
    Lmao can't fool you mfp peeps ehh
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    malavika413 wrote: »
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    malavika413 wrote: »
    Never. My current BF only approached me because I was the only girl standing alone at a social event. I get insulted by men far more often.

    Wow... Why do you let them? :|

    I'm shy. When I hear the insults I just try to shuffle away and not let it get to me. Doesn't work very often.

    If they try to insult you, just laugh, and walk off. Don't show your emotions. People will only use them against you.
  • andrew_in_va
    andrew_in_va Posts: 20 Member
    I hit on myself
  • Slacker16
    Slacker16 Posts: 1,184 Member
    I get the occasional glance or smile, but rarely get hit on and when it happens I'm usually too drunk to notice or care. I also seem to get more attention when I look disheveled than when clean-shaved and combed.
    indycoltz wrote: »
    I mean is there anything wrong with walking up to someone randomly and saying that you think they're very attractive and then walking away? You're not creepy, and you have just made their day, maybe even their week. What's wrong with that?
    A complete stranger... it would creep me out, even if it was a hot girl (srs)
    salembambi wrote: »
    sometimes yeah...i get stared at a lot more though
    wouldstareat/10
  • dbanks80
    dbanks80 Posts: 3,685 Member
    The way I feel right now I want to Hit someone! :#
  • determined_ella
    determined_ella Posts: 4,354 Member
    JackKopCh wrote: »
    joshua3179 wrote: »
    Never get hit on
    You look like Crowley from Supernatural! Be honest! You're getting hit on at least three times a day! <3

    have to agree with you there, he does ! :open_mouth:

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