Do you get hit on?

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  • malavika413
    malavika413 Posts: 474 Member
    Once I posted a top comment on Humans of New York and I got a bunch of skeevy facebook messages from old Indian men. I suppose that counts.
  • sofaking6
    sofaking6 Posts: 4,589 Member
    Never, except by 20 years olds online.
  • dubird
    dubird Posts: 1,849 Member
    I never get hit on either, even when I was a good weight. It may have something to do with attitude when being in public, not just looks.
  • riotgurl87
    riotgurl87 Posts: 2 Member
    only by men who i have no interest in no piercings or tattoos or not alternative
  • lborsato1
    lborsato1 Posts: 1,011 Member
    I do.... I am always the one trying to hook up my single friends, but end up being the one that gets hit on.... lol
  • iheartinsanity
    iheartinsanity Posts: 205 Member
    Usually by teen boys or older men (by older I mean 20+ years). I wish I could say I was kidding. Was told one day "I'd appreciate" my "baby face". At 32, I could easily pass for 10 years younger (or more in their eyes).
  • ShaunShaunphenomenon
    ShaunShaunphenomenon Posts: 141 Member
    All the time, I wish people would see me for the kind hearted person who I am instead of a piece of meat. I AM A PERSON! haha jk, not really, sometimes i get the looks and smiles and just coy stuff, but not really, and sometimes on here.
  • Behxo
    Behxo Posts: 1,190 Member
    Yea but kind of hard to avoid whenever you go out to clubs haha
  • jpaulie
    jpaulie Posts: 917 Member
    LyndseyLovesToLift wrote: »
    I can honestly count the number of times I've been hit on in the past 7 years (since I met my husband) on one hand. I'm far from cocky, but I'm not ugly and I've got a decent body, especially with clothes on....

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    (No, I don't dress like this daily. It was a country-themed bachelorette party this past weekend.)

    But I never get hit on. The girls I'm with get hit on, I see other girls getting hit on. But not me. I'm not exactly heartbroken about it, being married and all, but it does make me wonder what kind of look or vibe I've got going on that causes men to not approach me. In some cases, it''s probably the wedding ring. However, I asked my husband what he thought and he said, "You just look too smart and high maintenance. Guys probably think you're either going to reject them or make them spend all of their money before they can get into your pants." Say whaaa? Haha!

    So, do you get hit on a lot? What is there to say about decent-looking girls that don't get creepy guys trying to hit her up in bars?

    I am a creepy guy and had decent looking girls hit on me at the beach this summer. Go figure
  • ShondaBihari
    ShondaBihari Posts: 14 Member
    edited January 2015
    Once, right in front of my husband. Never when I'm alone. Lol

    Edited for typo..
  • bship15
    bship15 Posts: 33 Member
    Nope, but then again I dont seem that girls are doing the hitting on usually.
  • Hermit_Girl
    Hermit_Girl Posts: 65
    Guys never look my way anymore. Have no idea why! My fiancee says it's cause I dress like a Mom, what ever the hell that means.. :(
  • dsimmons107
    dsimmons107 Posts: 387 Member
    I actually do by younger women. I have no freaking idea why!!!
  • rikracer1961
    rikracer1961 Posts: 318 Member
    Hermit_Girl wrote: »
    Guys never look my way anymore. Have no idea why! My fiancee says it's cause I dress like a Mom, what ever the hell that means.. :(

    OMG!! you are SO pretty, I don't believe that!
  • Hermit_Girl
    Hermit_Girl Posts: 65
    rikracer1961 wrote: »
    Hermit_Girl wrote: »
    Guys never look my way anymore. Have no idea why! My fiancee says it's cause I dress like a Mom, what ever the hell that means.. :(

    OMG!! you are SO pretty, I don't believe that!

    Aw thank you :)
    But believe it my friend. Lol
    It's probably the vibe I give out, or maybe I need to go out more.
    I'm not looking to stray, but it would be nice to get hit on every once In a while.
  • LynneW1983
    LynneW1983 Posts: 1,161 Member
    Nope never. :'(
  • moogplayer
    moogplayer Posts: 542 Member
    Not much. Only by drunk hags at a bar I go to.
  • ckmnacln
    ckmnacln Posts: 370 Member
    Lots and lots of stares but not really hit on (although a guy once asked me on a date in front of wal-mart lol). I tend to give off a bit of a whitchy vibe I think.
  • andrew_in_va
    andrew_in_va Posts: 20 Member
    If you are getting unwanted attention, stop smiling at people and avoid eye contact. And the reverse is true.
  • joshua3179
    joshua3179 Posts: 2,882 Member
    LynneW1983 wrote: »
    Nope never. :'(
    Oh??

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