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And.... yet another date on POF, this one led me to CLOSE my POF account afterwards....
Ran across a profile as I was preparing to delete my account, and it struck a chord with me as he talked about how he really wanted a woman in his life that could travel with him. He was a high ranking well paid businessman who had to travel for work and he wanted a companion for the drives to and from various locales. He was a fan of the outdoors and exploring area landmarks and Hiking trails. He hated flying, so he drove to various locations throughout the midwest. Oh and his ideal lady would be self sufficient, educated, able to support herself, and independent yet looking for a long term commitment. His profile met my filter requirements of divorced, over 6 foot tall (to accommodate for the 2 inch height slight) college educated, non smoker, with no children at home, and looking for a relationship. I responded that he really needed a puppy, because he was essentially asking for a lap dog companion who was willing to give up everything in life just to be his travel companion but reap no benefits. Apparently my snarkiness appealed to him. We hit it off beautifully.
We talked into the night for weeks on end, emailed, shared pictures, went on entertaining dates when he was in town, and planned a wonderful romantic weekend in Missouri wine country. "Two rooms though, just so no pressure...." this was for two wonderful months..... until the romantic wine weekend in Hermann and two bottles of wine later, he referred to his ex as his WIFE.... yep, guys and gals....HE WAS MARRIED.
Lesson... even if their divorce story sounds completely convincing and legit, check casenet.
I was crushed. And thankful we had separate rooms.0 -
I_see_skinny_Me15 wrote: »And.... yet another date on POF, this one led me to CLOSE my POF account afterwards....
yep, guys and gals....HE WAS MARRIED.
To call him a pig would be insulting to pigs. Is it any wonder some of us have trust issues? Jeez.
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Markdjones83 wrote: »
Not looking for the married folks!0 -
on POF I get an abnormal amount of messages from men wanting me to dominate them and do whatever gross fetish they may have
also a lot of couples that want me to join a 3 way because i am bisexual
also dudes become obsessed with me very fast its creepy as *kitten* i think im going to ask my mom to go with me on my next "meet up" tester with someone just so *kitten* doesnt get cray
she can like sit at the table next to me or something ...lol i dont give a fvck if thats weird people are creepy0 -
I went to coffee with a guy who didn't buy me coffee. He kept telling me how smart and talented he was. Brought an ipad and played some awful music he wrote and showed me pathetic pictures he had created. And he kept touching himself on his upper back. Could not keep his hands out of his shirt. And his picture must have been taken in 1985.0
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I agree online dating sucks big time!!!!!0
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The one that turned up with holes in his shoes, started playing with his phone, showed me a picture of his kids (WHAT KIDS ???) and informed me that he still lived with his exwife (WHAT WIFE) but nothing sexual was going on. Total time of date from start to end was 15 minutes.0
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acquilla30 wrote: »Lol I have had quite a few. I have met guys with weird fetishes, including dating a black girl as a fetish. one guy wanted to play slave/master in reversal roles; he was the slave I was the master. One guy took me to McDonald's on a date for ice cream and than got angry when I wouldn't go home with him.
Wow mcdonalds for ice cream! I though that was only in movies0 -
This guy messaged me on OKCupid and even though we had like...20% compatibility I talked to him. I even agreed to go on a date with him because, why not? I'm pretty laid back. So we're talking and he's just...kinda over-excited and creepy. He even creeps on me on facebook and sees where I go to school and says he's coming to my university to try and spot me (it's a small school). I literally see him near my dorm and I down to tell him to get the hell out and he talks about how he knew he felt "something special" about me already and how he thinks he might marry me some day. EWWW. I blocked him on every site I could think of and then like two weeks later I met the guy I would marry...also on OKCupid. Don't give up people! ^_^0
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The guy that wanted me to pee on him . . . . (I didn't)0
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kendall916 wrote: »I know this is going to sound immature (this is just a thought) but why not try online dating in MFP? There's a lot of good looking people and most of the people on here are very understanding and patient.
I am trying online dating right now, and it is like anything else in life- a mixed bag. You have to be smart and stick to your priorities. On a personal note, with all the crappy guys you women run into with online dating, its no wonder I am seeing very apprehensive results.
Oh and ladies, if you are doing online dating, please have recent pics. I am 51 and I see women my age posting pics that were taken 20 years ago. Just lets be honest about ourselves and it shouldnt be that bad.
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Yeah I'm seeing the Pof trend. Bout ready to dump the POF one I have now cuz he wants to marry me asap.
Hm... Something definitely 'fishy' with POF0 -
Sorry what is POF ?0
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Plenty of Fish. more of a spicier version of Match or Eharmony0
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findinglssjess wrote: »Just had another thought about this topic...the guys who judge you by your weight and or looks yet they have no room to judge or speak.
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I was dating a guy I met online for 9 months. Suddenly he reveals that his parents hooked him up with a girl form his country and he's been skyping her for a year. AND he HAS to marry her because his mom says so.
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DavesGoal185 wrote: »findinglssjess wrote: »Just had another thought about this topic...the guys who judge you by your weight and or looks yet they have no room to judge or speak.
Agree on this one big time!!
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Met my husband on OkCupid.
They're not all bad.0 -
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