Sex.. Is it really what keeps the relationship together?

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  • Jonesingmucho
    Jonesingmucho Posts: 4,902 Member
    Interesting question. I need research, data, and scientific studies please...
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  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    Of course. That's why people have their tingly bits.. Well.. Tingle, when they want that person.
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    kinkyslinky16 wrote: »
    BFDeal wrote: »
    I think maybe trying it in the pooper a couple times a year is the key. Maybe I'm wrong. Who's to say? YMMV.

    I like it up the pooper. I would agree with this statement.

    When the roller coaster is out of commission, they don't close the entire theme park. The log flume is always a great second choice.

    Sex may or may not be important in your relationship, but having a matching sex drive sure is. I'm in the best relationship of my life, in part, because I've finally met my sexual match. That happiness permeates to every other part of our relationship.
  • kiousd
    kiousd Posts: 917 Member
    Is it important. ... of course. But it's not the only thing. If your relationship is based solely around sex then you're missing out on the emotional connection.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    acquilla30 wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    MoiAussi93 wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    MoiAussi93 wrote: »
    Sex isn't the only thing that matters, but it is a "must have". If the sex isn't good, I won't want to be with the person very long. I would never be with them long enough to "love" them if the sex isn't good.

    I don't know If I would say all of that. I guess you might not like virgins at all because there not good in bed. (Maybe)

    I think since I never answer the OP that yes sex is also a must have in a relationship. I am one of those every other day types at minimum. Now if she sucks in bed then two qualities could help with that which will help build the relationship. Trust and communication. She does not have to be the best at sex for it to work. It would be up to me to also use those two qualities so she can become an amazing partner and also me for her which will lead to great sex

    Maybe even mind blowing sex. I'm still trying to figure out what this means for men? Actually nevermind I think I can answer my own questions. I have a better guess what it means for women.

    I'm a 44 year old woman, and have absolutely no interest in virgins!! Never had, never will.

    I think with any new person, there is a learning curve. But that is very different than having bad sex. I'n my experience, a person who is good in bed is a good communicator, open minded, and will very quickly figure out what works for me...either by observation/trial & error, or by actually listening to what I tell them...I think I have a responsibility to speak up if I want something I'm not getting or if what they're doing isn't working for me. If they don't...then I don't see the point in sticking with them long enough to get attached emotionally and make the ultimate breakup more painful. This is not a process that takes months...you're either compatible or you're not and that is usually clear very quickly.

    Preach. Tell us men what you want. There is no better feeling than hear the woman you're with scream exactly what she wants.

    Except when your neighbors have to hear it lol.

    At least they will know what good sex is suppose to sound like.
  • mynameisoliverqueen
    mynameisoliverqueen Posts: 63 Member
    It might be the case until you get married, then it becomes almost non-existant!!!! LOL
  • lisalsd1
    lisalsd1 Posts: 1,519 Member
    My husband and I have been together 15 years. It wouldn't have lasted this long if it wasn't good. I imagine it will drop off when we are in our 80s; but by then, it will be too late to trade him in.
  • Dared2Evolve
    Dared2Evolve Posts: 2,803 Member
    I believe chemistry is necessary to maintain a relationship, sex generally is part of that .. so yes.
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    mynameisoliverqueen wrote: »
    It might be the case until you get married, then it becomes almost non-existant!!!! LOL

    If that happens you're doing marriage wrong. ;)
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    mocadet95 wrote: »
    Absolutely not. I am 20 years old and still am a virgin and I have had quite a few long relationships. And sex was never involved I am still young, but I do not believe that sex ever has to be involved before marriage for it to be successful. Now when you are married I believe that it is a special way to show your love to one another and it could be a bond in the relationship. What I am getting to is sex can be important but it is not a crucial factor!

    Come back here after you marry, have sex and that sex life dries up. If it doesn't then good for you!
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Sex.. Is it really what keeps the relationship together?

    Online and on the side, yes.
  • wolfruhn
    wolfruhn Posts: 3,025 Member
    You gotta let your light shine ;0)
  • La_Malfaisante_
    La_Malfaisante_ Posts: 1,064 Member
    edited March 2015
    Theres alot more to a relationship than sex but what's a relationship without good sex?! The jack rabbit is good for a while but that *kitten* gets expensive on batteries
  • wolfruhn
    wolfruhn Posts: 3,025 Member
    Ooh, let's not put duracell out of business, cheaper to run, and much more fun?
  • K9flash
    K9flash Posts: 48 Member
    I can tell you from my experience being in a relationship with a woman that has no interest in sex its very tough. You start to think its your fault and just not attractive enough. So I do think its veryimportant
  • Northernlight03
    Northernlight03 Posts: 1,980 Member
    I think you def need good sex to have a happy lasting relationship BUT good sex with nothing else is not going to make a good relationship either
  • wolfruhn
    wolfruhn Posts: 3,025 Member
    Me and you babe! Me and you!
  • Northernlight03
    Northernlight03 Posts: 1,980 Member
    Haha your everywhere
  • wolfruhn
    wolfruhn Posts: 3,025 Member
    lol don't worry, I can't stay out when the sun is shining..
  • natalegreen2015
    natalegreen2015 Posts: 33 Member
    edited March 2015
    kinkyslinky16 wrote: »
    Chaelaz wrote: »
    kinkyslinky16 wrote: »
    BFDeal wrote: »
    I think maybe trying it in the pooper a couple times a year is the key. Maybe I'm wrong. Who's to say? YMMV.

    I like it up the pooper. I would agree with this statement.

    Annnnd...inbox full in 3...2...1...

    Nope!

    Pahaaha
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