Curves or Slim - what doo you prefer?

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  • DarthMetalHead
    DarthMetalHead Posts: 49 Member
    Love them curves!
  • jessica22222
    jessica22222 Posts: 374 Member
    I'm happy that having a badonk is in style now. I was always teased for it growing up now I can embrace it!
  • Jonny15121983
    Jonny15121983 Posts: 573 Member
    What's a badonk?
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    The thing I don't have. :(
  • brokebutfun
    brokebutfun Posts: 262 Member
    My mother was a seamstress and slim people are fine to show off clothes, but curves make a person who they are and owning it makes them sexy.
  • jessica22222
    jessica22222 Posts: 374 Member
    What's a badonk?

    Quote from urban dictionary
    Badonk; adjective used to described buttocks of exceptional quality and bounce.
    That girl has a badonkadonk fo sure.
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    A man with curves
  • Jonny15121983
    Jonny15121983 Posts: 573 Member
    What's a badonk?

    Quote from urban dictionary
    Badonk; adjective used to described buttocks of exceptional quality and bounce.
    That girl has a badonkadonk fo sure.

    Haha that made me laugh out loud, I love urban dictionary.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    A man with curves
    I love a man with some curves
    So is it with curves or only some curves?
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    What's a badonk?

    Quote from urban dictionary
    Badonk; adjective used to described buttocks of exceptional quality and bounce.
    That girl has a badonkadonk fo sure.

    Haha that made me laugh out loud, I love urban dictionary.
    One of the best sites ever!
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    A man with curves
    I love a man with some curves
    So is it with curves or only some curves?
    Both
  • conqueringsquidlette
    conqueringsquidlette Posts: 383 Member
    edited August 2015
    What's a badonk?

    Quote from urban dictionary
    Badonk; adjective used to described buttocks of exceptional quality and bounce.
    That girl has a badonkadonk fo sure.

    See also: Callipygian :D

    ETA: Is anybody else vaguely irritated that urban dictionary says it's an adjective but uses it as a noun? I EXPECT HIGHER STANDARDS, URBAN DICTIONARY! :-P
  • Jonny15121983
    Jonny15121983 Posts: 573 Member
    What's a badonk?

    Quote from urban dictionary
    Badonk; adjective used to described buttocks of exceptional quality and bounce.
    That girl has a badonkadonk fo sure.

    Haha that made me laugh out loud, I love urban dictionary.
    One of the best sites ever!

    Lol I just love the frank bluntness of those descriptions xD
  • praksindiafit
    praksindiafit Posts: 526 Member
    Curves
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    So...what are all the male curvy preferers picturing when you think of "curvy"?
    This?
    curvy%20kate%201.jpg

    This?
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    This?
    curvacious.jpg

    Or this?
    tess-13.jpg
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    ^ now that is a good question
  • Riz72
    Riz72 Posts: 67 Member
    No hard fast rule. Depends on the girl.

    Being fit doesn't just come in one shape. So when someone is getting in "shape", they're getting in the shape that works for them.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    edited August 2015
    I was gonna do guys too but my connection sucks ar$e right now...too lazy.
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    I was gonna do guys too but my connection sucks ar$e right now...too lazy.

    It's ok I think I draw the line at Chris Christie
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    I was gonna do guys too but my connection sucks ar$e right now...too lazy.

    It's ok I think I draw the line at Chris Christie

    Visually, physical attraction-wise, my line is before that I'm certain...lol.

    Blah blah, personality, etc etc..

  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    edited August 2015
    Somewhere in the 30% range or under (10-20% looks nice) is where I'm still turning my head. Above 30%, be funny and smart.

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  • awkwardunknown
    awkwardunknown Posts: 25 Member
    Slim
  • conqueringsquidlette
    conqueringsquidlette Posts: 383 Member
    Once upon a time, in the early King of Queens years, I thought Kevin James was kinda cute.

    I immediately regret admitting that since his movies are so, so, bad.

    Kenan Thompson was one of my teenage crushes too.

    I don't know where my upper limit on men goes. It's certainly not limitless, but I don't have a specific cut-off that I can think of.
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    Somewhere in the 30% range or under (10-20% looks nice) is where I'm still turning my head. Above 30%, be funny and smart.

    body-fat-levels-men1-580x196.jpg

    Hahaha
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    Once upon a time, in the early King of Queens years, I thought Kevin James was kinda cute.

    I immediately regret admitting that since his movies are so, so, bad.

    Kenan Thompson was one of my teenage crushes too.

    I don't know where my upper limit on men goes. It's certainly not limitless, but I don't have a specific cut-off that I can think of.
    But would have either one of them turned your head if you had no idea who they were or had never seen them before?
  • conqueringsquidlette
    conqueringsquidlette Posts: 383 Member
    edited August 2015
    Once upon a time, in the early King of Queens years, I thought Kevin James was kinda cute.

    I immediately regret admitting that since his movies are so, so, bad.

    Kenan Thompson was one of my teenage crushes too.

    I don't know where my upper limit on men goes. It's certainly not limitless, but I don't have a specific cut-off that I can think of.
    But would have either one of them turned your head if you had no idea who they were or had never seen them before?

    With those two in particular, you probably nailed it with funny and smart for at least 75% of the appeal.

    With actual guys I dated who were well over 30% BF, some of them were genuinely physical attractions that I can't explain with personality traits at all. Trust me, I wish I could.... some of them were TERRIBLE people. lol

    (Pheremones? I don't know. Sometimes people just transcend any preconceived notions of hotness I think I have. I'm down with Tess Holliday too, though I don't think you grabbed one of her best photos in your list.)
  • jensquish1
    jensquish1 Posts: 499 Member
    I'm tall (5'11) so there's a fine line between being thin and flat as a board. I was a stick at one point in my life and it's just flat out unattractive to me. I like to be somewhere in between. But that's what I feel suits ME best.
  • Jonny15121983
    Jonny15121983 Posts: 573 Member
    So...what are all the male curvy preferers picturing when you think of "curvy"?
    This?
    curvy%20kate%201.jpg

    This?
    c2a955a31ee22b2d61e7f98e9b76408b.jpg

    This?
    curvacious.jpg

    Or this?
    tess-13.jpg

    They are all curvy, though admittedly if I was dating the last woman then I would be concerned for health reasons, if you are with someone then you want them to stick around.
  • karenkasbi
    karenkasbi Posts: 216 Member
    I look at eyes, connection, sense of humour. I personally don't like super skinny guys, a little chubby for a good hug :smile:
  • dfavela1988
    dfavela1988 Posts: 892 Member
    curves are great not to big nor to small, i do the hand measurements if it fits its a pass.
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