ok ladies, what's a good way to a womens heart???

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  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
    katnroyal1987 wrote: »
    BasicGreatGuy wrote: »
    dave8623 wrote: »
    Just asking :)
    1. Be honest with yourself and with her at all times.
    2. Don't play mind games with her head or her heart.
    3. Be emotionally vulnerable. That means not hiding behind walls.
    4. Forget the macho man stereotype drivel that is seen and promoted on t.v. It is crap.
    5. Nothing wrong with a man crying. Nothing wrong with a man expressing his needs and feelings to a lady, without waiting on her to open up first.
    6. Say what you mean and mean what you say to a lady. Don't make her beg you to tell her what you meant all the time.
    7. Never ever tell a lady you love her, unless you truly mean it.
    8. Build a foundation with her. That means grow to be her best friend, confidant, and lover; in that order. Otherwise, you have a house built on sand with no real support or depth.
    9. There is a difference between having sex and making love to a woman. You better be very clear of your intentions, her intentions and heart before proceeding down that path.
    10. Relationships take time to grow and mature. They are a living entity. Take the time to enjoy getting to know each other.
    11. There is no such thing as 'the little things." Everything a man does (or doesn't do) to express how he feels about a lady is big, at least it should be. A lady shouldn't have to wonder how you feel about her and whether or not she can trust you, after you have gotten to know one another. If she does, there is a problem. In showing how you care and how you are committed to her as her best friend, confidant and lover, make sure it comes from the heart, and not because you feel you have to do x,y, and z because it is tradition or because others do so. Otherwise, your big things become empty along with your words.

    Be my valentine!?!?! :)

    Thank you for the compliment. :smile:
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    Bacon. All the bacon.
  • Ishii19
    Ishii19 Posts: 109 Member
    Listen to her. It's true we there are different paths to our different hearts - but most of us drop clues ;)
  • TSith
    TSith Posts: 244 Member
    Okay.... Here it is. Play with her hair. Tell her she's pretty. Back rubs.. Protein bars.. Gym dates.. Don't ask her all the time "what do you want to do" we just want to be with you doing whatever! Make herlaugh until she cries. Watch Star Wars. Or her favorite movie.. Star Wars is mine. Don't be on your phone constantly. Pick flowers. Take her on an already planned out set up picnic. Random text messages. Don't yell. Go on adventures. Did I mention gym dates?!

    These are all the ways to my heart. I can't really speak for other girls but I'm sure some girls like this *kitten* ahaha! Good luck!
  • TSith
    TSith Posts: 244 Member
    Oh and the whole honesty.. Don't cheat.. Stuff too lol
  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    TSith wrote: »
    Okay.... Here it is. Play with her hair. Tell her she's pretty. Back rubs.. Protein bars.. Gym dates.. Don't ask her all the time "what do you want to do" we just want to be with you doing whatever! Make herlaugh until she cries. Watch Star Wars. Or her favorite movie.. Star Wars is mine. Don't be on your phone constantly. Pick flowers. Take her on an already planned out set up picnic. Random text messages. Don't yell. Go on adventures. Did I mention gym dates?!

    These are all the ways to my heart. I can't really speak for other girls but I'm sure some girls like this *kitten* ahaha! Good luck!

    taking notes :-p
  • TSith
    TSith Posts: 244 Member
    leonidas_and_spartacus wrote: »
    TSith wrote: »
    Okay.... Here it is. Play with her hair. Tell her she's pretty. Back rubs.. Protein bars.. Gym dates.. Don't ask her all the time "what do you want to do" we just want to be with you doing whatever! Make herlaugh until she cries. Watch Star Wars. Or her favorite movie.. Star Wars is mine. Don't be on your phone constantly. Pick flowers. Take her on an already planned out set up picnic. Random text messages. Don't yell. Go on adventures. Did I mention gym dates?!

    These are all the ways to my heart. I can't really speak for other girls but I'm sure some girls like this *kitten* ahaha! Good luck!

    taking notes :-p

    Hahahaha gym dates!!!!
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    kkenseth wrote: »
    Bacon. All the bacon.

    Bacon??? Does that really work??? Lol
  • TSith
    TSith Posts: 244 Member
    Bacon?!!! Yes. Every time.
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    Ishii19 wrote: »
    Listen to her. It's true we there are different paths to our different hearts - but most of us drop clues ;)
    Yes! I like that... :)

  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    dave8623 wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    Bacon. All the bacon.

    Bacon??? Does that really work??? Lol

    bacon cures everything.
  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    TSith wrote: »
    leonidas_and_spartacus wrote: »
    TSith wrote: »
    Okay.... Here it is. Play with her hair. Tell her she's pretty. Back rubs.. Protein bars.. Gym dates.. Don't ask her all the time "what do you want to do" we just want to be with you doing whatever! Make herlaugh until she cries. Watch Star Wars. Or her favorite movie.. Star Wars is mine. Don't be on your phone constantly. Pick flowers. Take her on an already planned out set up picnic. Random text messages. Don't yell. Go on adventures. Did I mention gym dates?!

    These are all the ways to my heart. I can't really speak for other girls but I'm sure some girls like this *kitten* ahaha! Good luck!

    taking notes :-p

    Hahahaha gym dates!!!!

    ok, gym dates it is. Yoga?
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    dave8623 wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    Bacon. All the bacon.

    Bacon??? Does that really work??? Lol

    It does for me! My husband wraps it around steak and I married him.
  • TSith
    TSith Posts: 244 Member
    leonidas_and_spartacus wrote: »
    TSith wrote: »
    leonidas_and_spartacus wrote: »
    TSith wrote: »
    Okay.... Here it is. Play with her hair. Tell her she's pretty. Back rubs.. Protein bars.. Gym dates.. Don't ask her all the time "what do you want to do" we just want to be with you doing whatever! Make herlaugh until she cries. Watch Star Wars. Or her favorite movie.. Star Wars is mine. Don't be on your phone constantly. Pick flowers. Take her on an already planned out set up picnic. Random text messages. Don't yell. Go on adventures. Did I mention gym dates?!

    These are all the ways to my heart. I can't really speak for other girls but I'm sure some girls like this *kitten* ahaha! Good luck!

    taking notes :-p

    Hahahaha gym dates!!!!

    ok, gym dates it is. Yoga?

    Whatever you want! ;)
  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    TSith wrote: »
    leonidas_and_spartacus wrote: »
    TSith wrote: »
    leonidas_and_spartacus wrote: »
    TSith wrote: »
    Okay.... Here it is. Play with her hair. Tell her she's pretty. Back rubs.. Protein bars.. Gym dates.. Don't ask her all the time "what do you want to do" we just want to be with you doing whatever! Make herlaugh until she cries. Watch Star Wars. Or her favorite movie.. Star Wars is mine. Don't be on your phone constantly. Pick flowers. Take her on an already planned out set up picnic. Random text messages. Don't yell. Go on adventures. Did I mention gym dates?!

    These are all the ways to my heart. I can't really speak for other girls but I'm sure some girls like this *kitten* ahaha! Good luck!

    taking notes :-p

    Hahahaha gym dates!!!!

    ok, gym dates it is. Yoga?

    Whatever you want! ;)

    ok. lets get bendy then :-p
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    TSith wrote: »
    Okay.... Here it is. Play with her hair. Tell her she's pretty. Back rubs.. Protein bars.. Gym dates.. Don't ask her all the time "what do you want to do" we just want to be with you doing whatever! Make herlaugh until she cries. Watch Star Wars. Or her favorite movie.. Star Wars is mine. Don't be on your phone constantly. Pick flowers. Take her on an already planned out set up picnic. Random text messages. Don't yell. Go on adventures. Did I mention gym dates?!

    These are all the ways to my heart. I can't really speak for other girls but I'm sure some girls like this *kitten* ahaha! Good luck!
    TSith wrote: »
    Oh and the whole honesty.. Don't cheat.. Stuff too lol

    Gym dates??? Fkowers,picnic, random texts, make her laugh until she crys, and more gym dates haha... Got it! :)
  • CurvesCreations22
    CurvesCreations22 Posts: 1,076 Member
    A man that is a keeper isn't afraid to be himself. Is open honest and caring. He has an awesome personality and a sense of humor. He has good values and enjoys being healthy. He makes you a better person and you are there for him too.
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    kkenseth wrote: »
    dave8623 wrote: »
    kkenseth wrote: »
    Bacon. All the bacon.

    Bacon??? Does that really work??? Lol

    It does for me! My husband wraps it around steak and I married him.

    Hahaha. Good man
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    Newarski22 wrote: »
    A man that is a keeper isn't afraid to be himself. Is open honest and caring. He has an awesome personality and a sense of humor. He has good values and enjoys being healthy. He makes you a better person and you are there for him too.

    I agree 100%
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    So this whole time, I've been writing poems, writing songs, singing songs, doing random acts of kindness, being respectful, a complete genuine gentleman, just to get the woman of my dreams,

    and all along this whole time all I needed was a platter of BACON! I sure missed this one coming :-)
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    dave8623 wrote: »
    So this whole time, I've been writing poems, writing songs, singing songs, doing random acts of kindness, being respectful, a complete genuine gentleman, just to get the woman of my dreams,

    and all along this whole time all I needed was a platter of BACON! I sure missed this one coming :-)

    You're welcome.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    Be a funny and witty pervert with a dark sense of humor and a big hot dog.
  • christywinkle
    christywinkle Posts: 15 Member
    Don't lie and give your time and attention. Also do things she likes too.
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    christywinkle wrote: »
    Don't lie and give your time and attention. Also do things she likes too.

    Give her all my attention and do what she likes :)
    thanks
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    Now all I gotta do is find the girl of my dreams and take all the great advice I received on MFP and use is :)

    I'll find her one day :)
  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    dave8623 wrote: »
    christywinkle wrote: »
    Don't lie and give your time and attention. Also do things she likes too.

    Give her all my attention and do what she likes :)
    thanks

    And get dumped a month later ;-)
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    leonidas_and_spartacus wrote: »
    dave8623 wrote: »
    christywinkle wrote: »
    Don't lie and give your time and attention. Also do things she likes too.

    Give her all my attention and do what she likes :)
    thanks

    And get dumped a month later ;-)
    :laugh:

  • Hey_Its_That_One_Guy
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy Posts: 21,763 Member
    Pretty much everything posted in this thread is a one way ticket to the friend zone. Just saying.
  • kk_inprogress
    kk_inprogress Posts: 3,077 Member
    Michael_Lucas wrote: »
    Pretty much everything posted in this thread is a one way ticket to the friend zone. Just saying.

    Lies. I'm telling you ...BACON.
  • Hey_Its_That_One_Guy
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy Posts: 21,763 Member
    kkenseth wrote: »
    Michael_Lucas wrote: »
    Pretty much everything posted in this thread is a one way ticket to the friend zone. Just saying.

    Lies. I'm telling you ...BACON.

    The pretty much excluded the bacon.
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