WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE
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Just popping in to say hello. It's wonderful to see the "old" faces and great to see so many new ones. Welcome to the best group of women I've ever had the pleasure of meeting - led - so consistently and so sensibly - by our own, faithful, Barbie.
My goal this month is to read the posts and post every day. We are such a prolific bunch that I'm not going to try to (in fact, I'm going to try NOT too, but it's so hard) say hello to each of you. Please know that I read your posts and think about you. I'm glad we're all in this together.
I did see a mention of "portion control," my old nemesis. I so do NOT believe in portion control anymore. What works for me is to eat lots and lots - of fruits and veggies. I don't do well with deprivation so this strategy works for me.
I've been up and down every few weeks since last October. I've thought and thought about it. It doesn't work to beat myself up (has the opposite effect in fact) so I'm not going there. I'm not planning to never change my routine changing my routine is where I get into trouble)....so, what to do, what to do.
I've been paying attention to Barbie and many of you saying not to eat to please other people. Well...I never did (!) BUT, I have done a lot of eating to "please" myself. I put "please" in quotes because, when I eat a lot of crappy food, it doesn't really please me. I still have the straggling thought that it will, but it doesn't!
That's not to say that I don't - and won't - enjoy a treat once in awhile. I do and will. However, I want to focus on what I do when I haven't decided to have a treat. It's the brain-turned-off, mindless eating I want to change.
Although I don't eat to please others I think I do go with the flow. I am going to be braver about eating separately when I need to and weighing and measuring my food. Truly, nobody minds. It's just me being self-conscious.
So...that's my plan! I also plan to walk more. I've been thinking about the best way to motivate myself. I have gotten to enjoy walking - that's a huge first for me. It's easy to be distracted though. When I hop on the computer first thing in the morning, I'm lost!
I'd love to hear your ideas for the best way to get in more walking. (As long as you don't suggest self-discipline. I put that in the same category as portion control!) Hmmm.
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Hi Mary: Just to let you know, my birthday is January 5th. What an amazing list of birthdays you have compiled.
Thanks,
Cathy0 -
Just checking in to mark my spot, so that I can find the new June thread when I have time to make a real post! Hope everyone is doing well! TTYL!
Deborah0 -
Hi everyone....I stopped by invited...and didn't quite make it back. I would like to become an official participant I am trying to lose ...but it is ever so slow..don't really know what my problem is...but I just keep plugging along, trying. I will try to read the post and keep up and be very supportive with all. I like to garden and paint. My hobbies can be endless...and I do work part-time as a bookkeeper. I am 57, my birthday is Feb. 7. Looking forward to getting to know everyone!0
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:bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: it is so great to see everyone posting with great ideas for goals for June.
:bigsmile: Mimi, about walking.......lately I have decided that my dogs love to walk with me on their leashes:bigsmile: whether that is true or not, it is motivating because I go for a walk thinking I am helping my dogs :laugh: :laugh: The other thing is that I will often just go out and walk for a few minutes (10, 20, 30, whatever) rather than thinking it has to be a big deal.....slow and steady wins the race.
:bigsmile: in an hour I'm going to a potluck........I ate my usual small supper already and am bringing bananas to the potluck......at the potluck I will eat a banana and maybe something else (if there is anything I would normally eat like raw veggies) otherwise I will relax and enjoy the company of my friends. I consider eating at potlucks to be a good example of eating to please other people. i don't like to eat food with unknown ingredients or unknown preparation methods or foods with creamy dressings or other high calorie, high sodium, low nutrition qualities. So the only reason I would be eating such foods would be to please or appease other people. It was difficult the first time I went to a potluck and ate nothing but once I did it, I realized that I felt much better for having done so.
:bigsmile: my goal for June is to dance more
yes, I already go to three line dance classes a week and on Saturday I'm going to an all day (8AM to 10PM) line dance workshop, but at home I want to choose dancing more often over walking poodles or sitting at the computer..0 -
Lorri - those zucchini pineapple muffins ARE very good. The people's house we went to, the husband likes things made with zucchini so I made them for him. But, of course, I HAD to taste test.
Did an hour of a power sculpt class today (Tues), tomorrow yoga and then deep water. Then I'll probably go food shopping some (just to get what is on sale), then our senior bowling league.
Mary - glad you had such a wonderful birthday!
Congrats to everyone who is losing and passing up on foods
For our geneeral meeting with the Newcomers, since we're having it at night, I'll need a couple of tables so I thought I'd make (really, cut down) some tablecloths. I was going to make them anyway for my own 6' banquet tables, so this just made me have to make them sooner. I just finished the third one today. One of them I'm not happy with at all -- it's the first one I made. Earlier this year I'd taken the measurements for the buffet table and another table we have downstairs, someone made Christmas tablecloths for me. Well, I had those measurements, but I originally cut one which I thought was for the banquet table but it really was for the other table. Now I know which is which. Like I said, I'm not happy with the one, and if I can, I might cut it down more so that I have a tablecloth for our card table.
Happy Anniversary and birthday Mary. What a great accomplishment! 37 years, that's totally awesome. Thanks so much for the update about Deborah
Did a hour of yoga today then an hour of the deep water, went food shopping for the things on sale that I can give to the food pantry, I also ordered cantaloupe and watermelon to be cut up so I can take it to the Newcomer's general meeting next week -- before the meeting I'll buy some strawberries and clean them, came home, took a triple chocolate cheesecake to this lady at the Y (yes, it IS low in calories for a cheesecake, but high in flavor), then went bowling. The first game I got a 90 (yuk), but the next game was truly an anomoly -- 148, the third game was a 94. Then came home, browned short ribs for Vince to cook in the pressure cooker, made my dinner of leftover salmon cake, veggies, tomato sauce (Vince won't eat it, I personally think it's pretty good), Vince wondered why the barbecue sauce on the short ribs looked different. Well, it's because I made it, it doesn't have all those additives and preservatives, but he would prefer the bottled stuff. I'm not about to buy a bottle for a tiny bit. Tomorrow we're going out to lunch with the Newcomers so I'll do a band workout DVD at home, then lunch, then take my car to get the oil changed, then pick up Jessica's cats at the vet. Vince said the short ribs were pretty good, they were falling off the bone when I took them out of the pot.
We went to that cookout at this lady's house. Well, she had 17 people there and it was so hot that everyone had to be inside. There weren't enough chairs. Actually, we wound up eating outside, well, most of us. I just don't understand it, her hubby and her were both in the house. When Vince and I have company, he's usually with one group (the guys, or the people inside) while I'm with the other group. Then she played canasta. Now, I like canasta, but both she and her hubby were both playing. There were people (like Vince) who weren't into playing cards. They just left early. I had the marinated chicken breast. Honestly, it was on the dry side. I think that happens when you make some foods ahead of time and then reheat them. To me, the chicken tasted salty, wonder what she marinated them in? I left the cauliflower for her that I brought, since I know she likes cauliflower. I also left the rest of the zucchini/pineapple muffins since her hubby likes things made with zucchini (also, I want to make them again, but this time make them in mini-muffin tins). She'd made a zucchini/chocolate bread. I'd made one a while ago for her hubby and he really liked it.
Thanks, Barbie, for starting the new thread. You're wonderful!
Question for people (barbie, you might be able to give some advice), what do you do when you go somewhere to eat, and there's nothing good (diet-friendly, I'm talking about)? You're hungry, but you really don't want all the pasta salads with mayo? Mimi - you go away so much, what hints do you have?
Welcome Cheryl and Rose! Looking forward to "seeing" more of you both. Wow, Rose, 36 years is awesome! 2youngatheart - you ARE an official member already! Keep plugging along and posting!
Here's hoping everyone has a great evening.
Michele0 -
Wow, another month, where do they go and why are they flying by so darn quick now....
Just back from a day in Tulsa, my DH had a dr. appt. and I had a date with Target, Ulta and Sam's.
Bought large boxes of yummy fresh blueberries and raspberries so we will have those with cereal for breakfast for a few days, I found a brown puffed rice that is gluten free and actually has some taste..
There are some wonderful ideas and thoughts on this board and I feel so connected to some of you. After a couple of years of inactivity because of knee problems and 3 knee surgeries I now feel well enough to get rid of the weight I added...wow, what a shocker to me when I realized nothing I had fit anymore and no way was I buying larger sizes. I am seeing and feeling a difference but I am one of those who like to see it in lost pounds ...that has been a little slow..I will celebrate the day that my loss reaches 10 pounds...right now it is still at 9 and holding...Sissy0 -
Welcome to the newbies....I love to make friends, so feel free to add me.
I measured today....I am stunned... I lost 2 inches off my waist in a month. I am going to add the total later. I was speechless. I knew that I lost a few inches here and there but didn't think 2 inches just from my waist. No wonder my pants are falling down!
Hope that you all have a great evening!0 -
Can't believe it's June already.. going golfing tomorrow, 18 holes with a cart, but you burn lots of calories, because you still get in and out of the cart and swing the club... 800 according to this MFP, if you play 4 hours of golf, which 18 holes usually is.. hard to believe..
anyway, I have started 17 DD again on cycle 1 for round 2... hope to lose some more weight, since I have not lost anything in 34 days... maintained, but not lost.
Natalie0 -
Hi everyone....I stopped by invited...and didn't quite make it back. I would like to become an official participant I am trying to lose ...but it is ever so slow..don't really know what my problem is...but I just keep plugging along, trying. I will try to read the post and keep up and be very supportive with all. I like to garden and paint. My hobbies can be endless...and I do work part-time as a bookkeeper. I am 57, my birthday is Feb. 7. Looking forward to getting to know everyone!
Welcome! Just keep coming by; it's addictive!0 -
Busy day today. I will be back in the morning to read through all the post and reply.
Thanks, Barbie for getting this started.0 -
Hello. My name is Sue and Id like to take part too.
My goal for June is to exercise every day. I cant run or do the treadmill but theres lots of things I can do.
Took last week off from calorie counting as it was my BD and my sons BD (same day) and we had lots of stuff going on. Wont be doing that again in a hurry as I put a over a pound on . Hoping its water weight. So my second goal is to log my food every day.
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Just popping in to say hi. We had tornados in this area that are very uncommon for New England. I hope Debbieanne is OK. It hit pretty hard around her area. 40 miles north of where I live so we were safe. Makes you appreciate mundane and boring days.
Hugs
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Thank you Barbie, for starting the month of June off right for all of us. Mary Happy Birthday and Happy Anniversary! How wonderful it is that you are married to your best friend. Happy Birthday to all the special ladies whose birthdays I have missed, while I have been out of touch. I am wrestling my way through an audit.:grumble: This was not the way I planned to spend my spare time in the spring. This, like all things will pass and I will be back on track. Still exercising, and still eating well. Oh, fresh veggie season is almost here1
I have something raiding my bird feeders. I keep them about 6 feet off the ground so the deer don't tear them down, and out on thin limbs so the raccoons can't get them. I think I have a bear stopping by now. He not only takes the feeders down, but tears them apart and carries them off. The local game warden stopped by today and she seems to agree. There was on stopping here for a few days last spring also. I hope he leaves soon as the birds are getting hungry.
Tonight the coyotes were just down the road, calling there wavering calls. There is a heron fishing in the pond by my drive way, and a beaver has moved into the pond behind my house. I love my neighbors, but Mr. Beaver will have to go as he is cutting trees down and sooner than later will go after the birch and the redbud. I am rather fond of my trees. The redbud came from my parents house in VA and I would hate to lose it.
Time for this farmer to get to bed, those chickens get up early! Nite all, Alice0 -
:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: I just came back from the potluck. There were 14 women there and I was one of four who ate their dinner at home before coming. Except for the bananas that I brought there was nothing there that I would have eaten. I no longer expect to find anything I will eat at a potluck so I eat at home.
:yawn: :yawn: :yawn: time for bed :yawn: Bernie, the cat will be waking me at 5AM
:bigsmile: big exercise today----walking with poodles, four and a half mile walk with my friend on the Olympic Discovery Trail, and two hour line dance class:bigsmile: :bigsmile: 24,000 steps on my pedometer:bigsmile:0 -
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Hello everyone and welcome new people. This is a great group of supportive women.
I had a break through tonight: Usually if I don't have a full hour or if I'm too tired, I just don't walk at all. Something in me shifted tonight, came home from work at 8, (tired) it was still light and I thought, I don't want to do my 3 miles uphills...but I certainly can go out and walk for 30 minutes. And I did! My Aussie/Border mix appreciated it too. I know that seems simple enough but it was just one of those blocks for me.
For those of you who have read my previous posts about my struggles with sugar... I read this article and have been sugar free for 4 days now.
Mimi - I have learned that I cannot have a sugary treat because even just one little thing leads me into a "mindless" spiral of more sugar.
www.nytimes.com/2011/04/17/magazine/mag-17Sugar-t.html?_r=1&emc=eta1
If you can't paste this into your browser, you can google NY Times sugar.
My husband and I also saw a movie called Forks Over Knives. It was mind boggling and eye opening. My meat eating, bacon loving DH actually is embarking on a plant based diet after seeing this film. I had already given up meat and poultry, now I'm working on dairy. I do love my cheese!
www.forksoverknives.com
Barbie - love the dancing girl and cat
Mary - Happy Birthday and Happy Anniversary!
Birdie -I was astounded to see a tornado in Massachusetts on the news!
Alice - where do you live? I would love to have an assortment of critters in my yard
I had quite an indulgent, tasty treat tonight. One Trader Joes multigrain waffle covered with a tablespoon of Tofutti better than cream cheese spread, drizzled with a bit of mesquite honey -- topped with sliced fresh organic strawberries! Total of 187 calories! If you haven't tried the Tofutti spread, It's quite satisfying and DH even says it's very close to the real deal. The best part is that it's only 60 calories per serving and no sugar or cholesterol.
Happy June Everyone,
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Okay I know this has nothing to do with anything other than that I just LOVE frogs.
Well I was going to say that my June goal was to do water aerobics, but this morning I pulled out my swimsuit and tried it on and it looked like a dress on me. I just stood there looking at myself in my closet mirror shocked at what I saw. The bathing suit looks like a mini dress which I used to filll out completely. Now my boobs don't fill the cups and the whole thing just hangs! I was staring because I actually thought I looked halfway decent in the bathing suit despite the fact that it was way too large now. For once I actually liked what I saw. Which as any woman will tell you is virtually impossible! Mind you, I am no way close to a bikini body, but I can look at myself without being depressed. Nice. But now I have to go and buy another bathing suit and fast, because the classes are going to fill up fast. And I want to be able to do these aerobics because I have such bad knees and I heard swimming was one of the best exercises you can do for low impact workouts.
I also will continue with my normal 1200 calories and low carb food and now taking the liquid glucosamine. I know it is only day 4 but I wish the month would finish so that I can see the results of taking it and am praying it will help the pain in my knees.
Mom told me the other day that she is seeing people in her room. In particular 2 little kids and an old woman on separate occasions. Of course they aren't there, she is hallucinating. She also mysteriously can no longer use the remote she has had sincle Novemeber 2010 . I called my doctor and she said she suspected dementia. She told me to have her draw the face of the clock with its numbers and hands pointed at ten minutes after 11, which she did .....perfectly. So I looked up dementia and saw that the hallucinations are common when dementia is very severe. i don't think that is mom. I also read that sometimes thyroids being out of whack can cause this affect. She does have a thyroid problem and is taking medication, so I contacted the doctor and asked for blood work to see if her thyroid has gotten worse or she is lacking in vitamins. Mom is so sensitvie to medicines that I am thinking it is associated with it. Either that or we have ghosts in her room. Either way I will sleuth out the answer and find out what is wrong wth her.
Today was my guyfriends birthday and I got him Dolce Gabana's "the one" cologne (Mathew Mc Conahey is the spokesperson and they have him so handsomely dressed in a tux and it smells amazing!!! I told my friend to use it everyday. The scent drives me wild, i just want to tear his clothes off when he is wearing it. Talk about an aphrodisiac!!!:smooched:
I am still watching my carbs and calorie intake and it slowly is working itself off slowly but surely. I am very proud that I haven't gained any weight and am losing slowly. Tried on 2 pairs of pants today that I bought that were snug and are now loose.Life is good right now. Now if I can get my knees working ..... okay and maybe sneak in some sex ....FINALLY!!!!:blushing: I will be in 7th heaven. HERE'S TO ACHEIVING ALL MY GOALS FOR JUNE!!!
Good luck to all of you in yours too!!!:drinker:
Chiclet0 -
Morning everyone! A beautiful morning here...hope you all are blessed with the same. The birds singing....sun is shining...and looking forward to a day of acheivements. I plan to exercise today..something I didn't get to do yesterday...had a miagraine. I struggle with that...seems I work around here all the time, gardening..etc. and there just isn't enough time to always fit it in. I hope June will be filled with more days of exercise! My weight is in limbo...but at least I am not gaining. Trying new recipes....healthier versions of old favorites...I like to cook!
Barbie...when I go to pot luck, I take something low cal that I will eat...and hope others will too. At least I am assured that there is something for me.... and anyone else weight concious. Pot lucks are very hard to manuver...everyone brings their "most tasty dishes" which means they bring the fattiest too! I agree the fellowshipping is the best part We have a small group that meets each week and it is very hard....I applaud your will power! Thank you so much for starting this thread....I am lookiing forward to getting to know everyone and finding the inspiration to continue this journey....with friends! what a bonus! Hope all has a blessed and great day!0 -
My goal for June is to not beat myself up everytime I fail. Just keep on going. I only lost 4 pounds in May - not the 8 I wanted. But 4 pounds of butter stacked up looks pretty good. Still going to Curves 4 days per week. Get weighed and measured tomorrow . pERHAPS i GAINED MUSCLE AND LOST INCHES - ONE CAN HOPE!!
smwert0 -
Good morning ladies,
Well I made the start. Kenneth and I walked for 40 minutes yesterday pulling wagon with 2 grandbabies and today I walked this morning for 45 min. I ran 3 times for 7 houses (borrowed your idea barbie) working up to a whole block (about 10 houses) I am drinking my morning drink and going shower. have hair appt today and taking kids bowling. I plan to do each day and continue on vacation. vacations are easy i have company. I am not self motivator. working on it but not natural for me. will read posts and check in later. have a good day. smert that is a good loss for a month. we always want more but that is good just continue doing what you are doing and it will happen. good luck with measure. sometimes we lose lots more inches than pounds. I need to measure soon.
vicki m0 -
(none of the MFP apps work on my phone )
I have a Motorola Q9c. It's an older model smartphone but I love it and it works great! It runs Windows Mobile 6.1 and can't be upgraded to WM 7 because it's been discontinued.0 -
We have a major food centered vacation every year in July. Last year I did fairly well and this year I intend to come back the same weight or less. We go to the beach with a couple from out of state and lots of family shows up too. The guy from out of state loves to cook and is very good at it. He and I used to trade off cooking and trying to outdo one another. Everyone else at the beach is grilling hotdogs and hamburgers and eating out while our kitchen is producing Italian beef, herb and breading stuffed pork roast, potato soup with cream and bacon, marbled steaks, cheesecakes, red velvet birthday cakes etc etc. You get the idea. Last year I tried to join in in moderation. It's not happening this year. Doing that just makes it so hard when I get back to normal at home. I have to fight my demons all over again.
I just had a thought--and if I wait it will be gone again!--Could you talk to your cooking pal and see if you could come up with a way to 'healthify' the fancy foods? Could even be a contest or challenge type of thing! Healthy Gourmet at the Beach!Bought large boxes of yummy fresh blueberries and raspberries so we will have those with cereal for breakfast for a few days, I found a brown puffed rice that is gluten free and actually has some taste..
Sissy
Did you know that most of the Chex brand cereals are gluten free? I'd never thought of that before my DSs girlfriend needed to go gluten free for a while. She says they are so much better than most of the cereals out there--and less expensive, too!0 -
Good morning everyone
Just caught up with all the posts for June - wow what an active group we are, into page 3 already and we are only part way through Day 2.
Much cooler here in Ottawa today after 2 days of very high temperatures and humidity. So, I'm off out to cut the gass and do some other outside work for a while. It is very, very windy and stuff was blowing around in the night. There are several areas with power cuts this morning.
I like the thing on the tracker at the end of the day where it says "If every day were like today in 5 weeks you'd weigh" I can really see improvements in my long term forecast where I only see baby steps day by day. The other thing that works for me is that I try to use most, if not all of my calories, but do find that I tend to go over on protein, but I don't log in my exercise until the end of the day. For me, the exercise is what gives me the 'kick' to lose weight - the 1500 or so calories that are my allowance tend to keep me at the same weight which is useful to know when I'll be trying to maintain in the future. So, if I put in my exercise at the end of the day, I don't eat the extra calores that it gives me. Works for me, might be useful for someone else.0 -
Michele asked what to do when going to a potluck or similar. For me it is always a problem as I have major food allergies. I either call the person organizing to see if she/he knows of any of the things that will be there, but I always take something that I can eat - usually a salad that can be easily made with one of the packets of prepared salad but then augmented with other things to make it more interesting, i.e. tomatoes, shrimps, grated cheese, celery, spring onions (for others - I'm allergic), cucumber etc.
I also make my own dressing - have a recipe for a wicked basil/lemon dressing that is to die for. If anyone is interested I'm happy to give you the recipe.
By the way I'm a January birthday (28th).0 -
Hi everybody,
I'm felling pretty good about myself! I've been tracking ALL of my food for the past 4 days now and I'm amazed at how close I've been coming to the nutritional goals that MFP set for me. My carbs are close to target (a little over) and my sodium and fats are under the target, but my sugar is a little over. I have to drink less orange juice and eat more oranges. I did go 156 calories over yesterday. I should have walked yesterday and I didn't do it. That would have taken care of almost all the extra calories! I WILL walk today I promise.
I have type 2 diabetes and have had my best success losing weight using the diabetic exchange system along with walking. So I started focusing on that method of eating again this week. I am also trying to cut down on starch--potatoes, rice, and flour products--by eating smaller portions. I'm still eating all fruit and vegetables.
I hope you all have a great day. Take care and stay cool!0 -
Hello everyone,
Just marking the thread in case I do actually have time to start posting again.
Happy Birthday to our June ladies:
June:
3 - eotrg
4 - Caminogirl
4 - Shirley61
12 – Ldspill
13- tiarapants
23 - goldwingrider
27 - Donna56
Good luck this month everyone.
Jeannie0 -
Barbie, thanks for starting June with such wise words.
Mary, Happy Anniversary.
Deborah, Sorry about your husband. I hope you continue to find a short time to peek in. I believe your Birthday is coming up. I hope it can be enjoyable.
Congratulations to all who lost pounds and inches. Keep up the good work.
Have a good day everyone.
Star
June goals: continue walking and breathing and stretching exercises.
lose 2 lbs
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Hi everyone. I have just started to get serious (once again). I am a 50+ and have over 100 lbs to lose. Yikes! I have been up and down most of my life. Quitting smoking this year, going through menopause and basically just eating whatever the H I wanted has contrubuted to packing on the pounds. I need all the help and support from those like minded. Please feel free to add me as a friend. I'll eventually get around to building my profile. Happy to have found this thread.0
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June goal is to lose 10 lbs.0
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