The worst addiction in the world is FOOD

kshama2001 wrote: »

UltimateRBF wrote: »

kshama2001 wrote: »

TheopolisAmbroiseIII wrote: »

I accidentally fell into this forum trap once. Note; fat weighs the same as muscle and addiction is limited SOLELY to heroin. If you remember those two facts, you're better able to swim these waters. Oh, and speaking of waters, you don't need 8 glasses a day.

You forgot meth, but otherwise got it

And the need to always have peer-reviewed studies to back your claims.

Yeah, don't you hate it when people ask for evidence of claims made. Those haters!

The irony is when someone was bashing Lustig and I asked for evidence using the same standard and no one had anything but some blogs.

There's a difference between asking for proof of an opinion and proof of a scientific claim.

I can form an opinion of Lustig's work based on simply reading it and comparing it to other's work in his field.

Sugar addiction in humans? There's no scientific finding on that. It's all rat studies.

Try an equal comparison next time.

ManiacalLaugh wrote: »

lemurcat12 wrote: »

ManiacalLaugh wrote: »

TheopolisAmbroiseIII wrote: »

kshama2001 wrote: »

TheopolisAmbroiseIII wrote: »

I accidentally fell into this forum trap once. Note; fat weighs the same as muscle and addiction is limited SOLELY to heroin. If you remember those two facts, you're better able to swim these waters. Oh, and speaking of waters, you don't need 8 glasses a day.

You forgot meth, but otherwise got it

Something something lack of willpower..

I think this particular argument resurfaces again and again because of the different levels of power different people give the word 'addiction'.

Yes, there's a clinical definition, but there's a clinical definition of a lot of things that we 'misuse' the name for and it doesn't generate this level of wrath.

Some people have never witnessed hard drug addiction first hand, and some people deal with it daily.

This disparity generates some people cavalierly using a hot button word. We all either need to take the power the word has away by agreeing that any 'compulsion' can be overcome with various levels of personal effort, support and struggle, or we all need to agree that 'addiction' is a serious word, and we shouldn't bandy it about.

The same thing occurs with the term "depressed". It doesn't mean 'sad', you're not 'depressed' because they're out of sprinkles for your sundae.

I really want to see this argument pop up whenever someone says they're totally "addicted" to Quest Bars, or the new donuts at Tim Hortons. It only ever seems to become a major debate when someone uses the term when talking about their negative obsession/compulsion/whatever-you-want-to-call-it with food. That's a bit of a shame, considering the discussion gets bogged down by semantics when the OP is usually just hoping for a genuine vent or is asking for help (and, from what I've found, is more than aware of the difference between meth/heroine addiction and food "addiction").

I actually thought the discussion had moved on from the semantic one, and it's really the people complaining that there's a negative reaction to using the word who are dragging it back into the semantic discussion.

Personally, I think it's usually quite clear when someone uses the term casually -- I'm addicted to pizza or shoes or whatever -- and am not bothered by that. On MFP, though, it's common to directly compare an addiction to "sugar" to one to "heroin" which is why it gets responded to in those cases as if the point being made is, in fact, intended seriously.

Here, I think OP was genuinely talking about feelings of out of controlness around food that many of us have dealt with, and I understand where she's coming from, but I still really hate the "food is the hardest addiction" thing because that's really not accurate to my experience (which yes is colored by too much experience with alcohol and drug addiction).

I don't think I was mean to OP, though -- I do think the out of control feeling is a real thing and is important to talk about and figure out how to deal with, even if I don't happen to think focusing on it as an addiction is actually useful to that. I don't think it's a terrible thing to use the word, but I also will disagree. (Sometimes on this forum you get the idea that disagreeing is considered cruelty and I find that odd.)

I don't think it's a matter of being "mean" to anyone. Most people can learn through the civil debates that go on here and take them for what they are.

I just find it a shame when someone posts "I feel lost; I feel out of control; I need help" and 20 people reply, "Let me tell you why you're wrong and by the way, you just trivialized addiction, so shame on you."

IMO, posts like, "I know you feel out of control, but you're not, and you can do this. Here's some legitimate advice for helping you gain traction..." are a lot more helpful while shifting the focus off of "helpless addiction" and back onto them and what they can do to take responsibility for their own health.

You know you're not exactly helping either?

However, there's a point to be made for those feeling themselves addicted that I used to try to get across. I don't bother any more, because these threads always get pulled. I'll give it a go one last time just for you, though.

I used to consider myself addicted to all carbs, and especially sugar.

After working past that, I came to realize that having thought of myself that way was a horrible thing to have done, because it put me in a position of powerlessness over the food. I gave the food too much credit and me far too little.

It wasn't until I embraced the notion that I really and truly could control what I put in my mouth and that all food was just fine to have that I was able to sensibly consume those foods without feeling like they controlled me. It's all a circular sounding sort of thing, but really, it's a mind game.

When I believed the food had the power, it did. When I believed I have the power, I do.

It sounds easy on the face of it, but I know it's not. It's a long road getting there, and there's a lot of work to do on yourself.

However, I think it's an important journey to take, and I think it would be foolish of me, with the experience I've had, to encourage others to disempower themselves with their own thought process.

I understand they are trying to use a word that sums up their feelings of helplessness. It's all well and fine to validate the fact that they are suffering. It's not well and fine to reinforce the idea that they're helpless. Because they're not. Everyone has it within themselves to be amazing. They just might need someone to tell them they believe it's their time to shine.

So OP, I know you're struggling now, but I believe you can get past this. It's just food. It's just ... chemicals. Grouped together in different combinations. Even that apple is just a group of chemicals. You're bigger and more powerful than any of that food. And some day, you'll grow into that realization and ... it will be fantastic.