Has anyone found love on MFP?

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  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    Will tell you in a couple of years ;):joy:
  • notwaitin
    notwaitin Posts: 119 Member
    I found a love of GIFS
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  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'

    shocking, I know :p

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  • Nograce80
    Nograce80 Posts: 8,443 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    This goes for both the ladies and gents. Plenty of ladies that gush about how happily married they are, slutting it up with other guys.
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  • yusaku02
    yusaku02 Posts: 3,472 Member
    Of course.
    In late 2013/early 2014 I fell in love with my 9% body fat that I found on MFP.

    living-with-a-narcissist-001-johnny-bravo.jpg

    (now it's closer to 15% but I've also put on a bit of mass)
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    Nograce80 wrote: »
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    This goes for both the ladies and gents. Plenty of ladies that gush about how happily married they are, slutting it up with other guys.

    had a few of those in PM's. easy to deal with because they always just randomly delete their account out of nowhere with no further comment. i pretty much assume everybody on here is "married' nowadays anyhow.

    I'm not married! But I have a feeling that a lot of those deleted accounts were most likely 'catfishes'



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  • fitcurves6693
    fitcurves6693 Posts: 3,401 Member
    I thought everyone was married and looking on here. No?

    I think this site has ended more marriages than started happy endings sadly
  • RealDealVarela
    RealDealVarela Posts: 44 Member
    People change so much over the years it's almost impossible to find someone who progresses like you. There is nothing wrong with change. Live your life for you. It's yours people. Love,lust, pals. All good things.
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    I thought everyone was married and looking on here. No?

    I think this site has ended more marriages than started happy endings sadly

    The more PM's I get on here from married guys, the more thankful I am that I never got married.

  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'

    shocking, I know :p

    This is hilarious!
  • Soopatt
    Soopatt Posts: 563 Member
    Despite all the desperate flirting and *presenting* (monkeys do it when they point their bums at each other, humans do it to in their own sweet way) that goes on here, there are probably not a lot of true love matches.

    The ones that do happen, happen by accident.

    You can understand that a calorie counting site would attract a lot of folks who want to be looked at and/or validated. You can see how that type of person might feel the need to start yet another "what would you do if I pranced around naked in front of you? would you like it? Would you like it????? tell me I am attractive! tell me noooooow!" type thread to receive said attention and affirmation, no matter how lame or fleeting.
  • AMJ20152015
    AMJ20152015 Posts: 412 Member
    edited October 2015
    I think people find a lot more Lust than Love on here. lol
  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'

    shocking, I know :p

    Can't count how many times I've heard this one... :flushed::joy:
  • Nograce80
    Nograce80 Posts: 8,443 Member
    But ella, when I said it to you, I meant it! <3
  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    Nograce80 wrote: »
    But ella, when I said it to you, I meant it! <3

    :joy: aww love you too! :love: lol
  • MisterRok
    MisterRok Posts: 3,985 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'

    shocking, I know :p

    I've got to implement this in my gameplan! Thanks!
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  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    I thought everyone was married and looking on here. No?

    I think this site has ended more marriages than started happy endings sadly

    its like, yeah its fun to trade pics and chat or whatever gets you off, but its also pointless in the long run. its not going anywhere. i ain't moving just to meet or be with someone i don't even know really. that's why i don't get the married guy/gal thing. like jesus if you wanna do some dirty surely there's an easier more local way why waste your time on here?

    Why would they do it locally... Their husbands or wives would find out at one point or another... May as well sleep in their marital bed and await their partners return :joy:
  • Nograce80
    Nograce80 Posts: 8,443 Member
    It's just for the attention without having to actually end the marriages they are in now, because they aren't wanting to leave. They just want the fantasy of it without the reality.
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    edited October 2015
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'

    shocking, I know :p

    Can't count how many times I've heard this one... :flushed::joy:

    I think they all read from the same 'Married Man Looking to Cheat' script. You can find these people on any of the random 'blah blah blah Person Above You' threads.

  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    Nograce80 wrote: »
    It's just for the attention without having to actually end the marriages they are in now, because they aren't wanting to leave. They just want the fantasy of it without the reality.

    Spot on! If only that spark could be easily kept alive in all marriages.. That love they had when they first met.. It will be there... It just needs two willing people to re-light it... Unless that time has past and it's time to move on.. Then that is that I guess?
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  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'

    shocking, I know :p

    Can't count how many times I've heard this one... :flushed::joy:

    I think they all read from the same 'Married Man Looking to Cheat' script. You can find these people on any of the random 'blah blah blah Person Above You' threads.

    :joy: it is questionable isn't it? I would love to hear two side to that story rather than one... I think their other half may feel the same or feel the other has lost interest.. Isn't it weird that people find it so hard to just talk to each other? Couldn't that cut all the years short before it gets to the point of divorce or real life cheating?
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    No...but I did find lots of married guys :s

    totally and completely shocking!!!

    next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"

    and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'

    shocking, I know :p

    Can't count how many times I've heard this one... :flushed::joy:

    I think they all read from the same 'Married Man Looking to Cheat' script. You can find these people on any of the random 'blah blah blah Person Above You' threads.

    :joy: it is questionable isn't it? I would love to hear two side to that story rather than one... I think their other half may feel the same or feel the other has lost interest.. Isn't it weird that people find it so hard to just talk to each other? Couldn't that cut all the years short before it gets to the point of divorce or real life cheating?

    I know...it's really very sad. Like I said - I've never been married and at this point in my life I just don't see it happening - but I would like to think that if I was I'd be able to talk to my partner before things got so bad that they'd have to turn to a site like this for validation.

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