Let's have an actual chat - no "would you date/*kitten*/marry/add the person below you" games

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  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
    They're having blizzards in New Mexico and in NYC we're breaking temperature records. That's pretty scary.
  • michaelafoor916
    michaelafoor916 Posts: 710 Member
    They're having blizzards in New Mexico and in NYC we're breaking temperature records. That's pretty scary.

    agreed. super weird weather
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.
  • GDLAZ
    GDLAZ Posts: 3,784 Member
    They're having blizzards in New Mexico and in NYC we're breaking temperature records. That's pretty scary.

    It's trying to snow here in AZ, but not making much progress. Mostly just cold. BRRRRRRR
  • MondayJune22nd2015
    MondayJune22nd2015 Posts: 876 Member
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.

    Unfortunately for me, those that irate me; give great advice. So I won't, ignore them. The problem, is in how they; convey it. They're very arrogant!
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.

    I like when they rage quit. It's entertaining.
  • robertw486
    robertw486 Posts: 2,398 Member
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.

    Don't get your hopes up, I'm baaaaacckk!

    synchkat wrote: »
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.

    I like when they rage quit. It's entertaining.

    Rage quits are the best. Especially when they rage unquit, because you know, they never left.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.

    I like when they rage quit. It's entertaining.

    Lol..truth ..
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Guess take anything here is entertaining?
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    robertw486 wrote: »
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.

    Don't get your hopes up, I'm baaaaacckk!

    synchkat wrote: »
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.

    I like when they rage quit. It's entertaining.

    Rage quits are the best. Especially when they rage unquit, because you know, they never left.

    The rage quit is the best when they make a thread about it, then are posting in the same thread like six hours later under a new username, being like "My bad, nevermind."
  • L_Master
    L_Master Posts: 354 Member
    I love it when I realize users I can't stand have just randomly stopped posting on the forums, never to appear again.

    Unfortunately for me, those that irate me; give great advice. So I won't, ignore them. The problem, is in how they; convey it. They're very arrogant!

    This post was excellent. I was reading it. A bit like, a robot.
  • SharpPI
    SharpPI Posts: 66 Member
    I woke up the other morning and realized that I had gained a lot of weight. I stepped out of the shower and saw myself in the mirror and said ...."Who is that fat old grey haired guy?" So as the day went on I started thinking that I can't change my age, my hair is grey but at least I have some. So the only thing I really have control over is the FAT, so I made a decision to work on that and joined MFP .... now I am on day 2!

    About me .... I am a 50 old retired cop turned Private Investigator with a great family. For fun I tend my heard of Fainting Goats and my Flock of chickens .....

    That's all for now.
  • michaelafoor916
    michaelafoor916 Posts: 710 Member
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  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
    Woot woot! This year is almost over! It really took a dive the end of September. Things are picking up though. If I can avoid stupid people in their cars, 2016 should be a great year.

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  • _fitness4life_
    _fitness4life_ Posts: 4,374 Member
    robertw486 wrote: »
    I gave up on those sites. If you're older, the guys are all looking for attractive women 20+ years younger than them. As if. B)

    Or the young guys are just looking to hook up with attractive older women like me :(

    @47Jacqueline @tracyannk28

    Fixed for both of you.

    Face facts, nobody is going to troll or hope to just find a quick hookup with the ugly ducklings. I'm not saying it's the fault of either of you for being attractive ladies, but if any profile has a photo it leaves opportunity for the "creepy" guys to try. Maybe find a less flattering photo for your profiles, maybe one funny if sense of humor is important, one in professional clothing if that is important to you, etc. Or a very vague photo might attract less creepers and only people with real like interests or something.

    And keep in mind that maybe the guy that sent the message you think was "creepy" is just socially awkward, and thought that being forward was the only way to provoke a possible response, especially if they were setting their sights high. I realize that this excludes any guy that calls you a crack ***** when he doesn't get his way, but really most people are somewhat deficient in some aspect. Some of them could be nice guys looking for a similar relationship but just be poor at communicating or understanding what you think is appropriate.

    Because, once again facing facts... a lot of the "hook up" type sites and attitudes is because not all women are ladies either. If they were just sites where the guys fished and never got a bite, they probably wouldn't exist all that long.


    And totally agree on the blocking likely due to his wife! :o



    Legal Disclaimer: Robertw486 assumes no liability for dating advice given on this site. Dating restrictions may apply. Married people out of the dating loop may not be suggested for dating advice. Read all directions carefully, and discard if they do not apply. Creepers might find you even if you have no photo. "Sexy" is not always a physical thing. Shipping and handling charges are extra. But one, get one free only applies to really cheap dates. Your mileage may vary.

    loved this response...I have been out of the dating pool for 20 years now but his perspective seems legit. Which doesn't solve the dilemma of where should people (men and women alike) go to find relationships instead of quick hookups.
  • robertw486
    robertw486 Posts: 2,398 Member
    robertw486 wrote: »
    I gave up on those sites. If you're older, the guys are all looking for attractive women 20+ years younger than them. As if. B)

    Or the young guys are just looking to hook up with attractive older women like me :(

    @47Jacqueline @tracyannk28

    Fixed for both of you.

    Face facts, nobody is going to troll or hope to just find a quick hookup with the ugly ducklings. I'm not saying it's the fault of either of you for being attractive ladies, but if any profile has a photo it leaves opportunity for the "creepy" guys to try. Maybe find a less flattering photo for your profiles, maybe one funny if sense of humor is important, one in professional clothing if that is important to you, etc. Or a very vague photo might attract less creepers and only people with real like interests or something.

    And keep in mind that maybe the guy that sent the message you think was "creepy" is just socially awkward, and thought that being forward was the only way to provoke a possible response, especially if they were setting their sights high. I realize that this excludes any guy that calls you a crack ***** when he doesn't get his way, but really most people are somewhat deficient in some aspect. Some of them could be nice guys looking for a similar relationship but just be poor at communicating or understanding what you think is appropriate.

    Because, once again facing facts... a lot of the "hook up" type sites and attitudes is because not all women are ladies either. If they were just sites where the guys fished and never got a bite, they probably wouldn't exist all that long.


    And totally agree on the blocking likely due to his wife! :o



    Legal Disclaimer: Robertw486 assumes no liability for dating advice given on this site. Dating restrictions may apply. Married people out of the dating loop may not be suggested for dating advice. Read all directions carefully, and discard if they do not apply. Creepers might find you even if you have no photo. "Sexy" is not always a physical thing. Shipping and handling charges are extra. But one, get one free only applies to really cheap dates. Your mileage may vary.

    loved this response...I have been out of the dating pool for 20 years now but his perspective seems legit. Which doesn't solve the dilemma of where should people (men and women alike) go to find relationships instead of quick hookups.

    As two people that have a combined time out of the dating pool of 50 years, I think me and you should become the new experts in finding people relationships here on MFP. Similar to the @AskTracyAnnK28 thread for MFP dating advice!
  • marcelo_templario
    marcelo_templario Posts: 653 Member
    freak4iron wrote: »

    Ohh and I'm going to be moving to Australia At the end of September

    U are so lucky..I'd love to move there (have a great reason for moving in there).

  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    robertw486 wrote: »
    robertw486 wrote: »
    I gave up on those sites. If you're older, the guys are all looking for attractive women 20+ years younger than them. As if. B)

    Or the young guys are just looking to hook up with attractive older women like me :(

    @47Jacqueline @tracyannk28

    Fixed for both of you.

    Face facts, nobody is going to troll or hope to just find a quick hookup with the ugly ducklings. I'm not saying it's the fault of either of you for being attractive ladies, but if any profile has a photo it leaves opportunity for the "creepy" guys to try. Maybe find a less flattering photo for your profiles, maybe one funny if sense of humor is important, one in professional clothing if that is important to you, etc. Or a very vague photo might attract less creepers and only people with real like interests or something.

    And keep in mind that maybe the guy that sent the message you think was "creepy" is just socially awkward, and thought that being forward was the only way to provoke a possible response, especially if they were setting their sights high. I realize that this excludes any guy that calls you a crack ***** when he doesn't get his way, but really most people are somewhat deficient in some aspect. Some of them could be nice guys looking for a similar relationship but just be poor at communicating or understanding what you think is appropriate.

    Because, once again facing facts... a lot of the "hook up" type sites and attitudes is because not all women are ladies either. If they were just sites where the guys fished and never got a bite, they probably wouldn't exist all that long.


    And totally agree on the blocking likely due to his wife! :o



    Legal Disclaimer: Robertw486 assumes no liability for dating advice given on this site. Dating restrictions may apply. Married people out of the dating loop may not be suggested for dating advice. Read all directions carefully, and discard if they do not apply. Creepers might find you even if you have no photo. "Sexy" is not always a physical thing. Shipping and handling charges are extra. But one, get one free only applies to really cheap dates. Your mileage may vary.

    loved this response...I have been out of the dating pool for 20 years now but his perspective seems legit. Which doesn't solve the dilemma of where should people (men and women alike) go to find relationships instead of quick hookups.

    As two people that have a combined time out of the dating pool of 50 years, I think me and you should become the new experts in finding people relationships here on MFP. Similar to the @AskTracyAnnK28 thread for MFP dating advice!

    hahahahaha! I honestly don't think it's possible to find real relationships (other than friendships) here on MFP. Too many catfishes, married people and headless torso pics

  • I'm late to the party! But I'm Nikki. I have been on here off and on, and I'm back again! Just had a baby 10 months ago and want my body back by summer!
    I wish to find someone real to talk on here as friends to help keep me motivated! Not someone who just wants to flirt, or send dck pics! Lol even girl-friends would be great!
    I just moved to a new state as well, 3000 miles away from "home" so I don't have many friends where I am right now or even much of a life after having my daughter :)
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,964 Member
    I'm craving coffee. I keep telling people I'm not an alchy I crave other forms of drink

    JESUS F CHRIST.