Do you get hit on?

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  • chevelle_9903
    chevelle_9903 Posts: 628 Member
    Nope.. Can't say that I do... :s:(
  • FitSpongebob
    FitSpongebob Posts: 315 Member
    I do now i've been to the gym and had my teeth fixed lol

    LOL. I had to laugh about the teeth remark... it's amazing to me how much bad teeth do make a difference in attractiveness.

    Ha ha exactly, I had a massive front tooth gap, now they're all inline, gap closed and straight :)
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I can honestly count the number of times I've been hit on in the past 7 years (since I met my husband) on one hand. I'm far from cocky, but I'm not ugly and I've got a decent body, especially with clothes on....

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    (No, I don't dress like this daily. It was a country-themed bachelorette party this past weekend.)

    But I never get hit on. The girls I'm with get hit on, I see other girls getting hit on. But not me. I'm not exactly heartbroken about it, being married and all, but it does make me wonder what kind of look or vibe I've got going on that causes men to not approach me. In some cases, it''s probably the wedding ring. However, I asked my husband what he thought and he said, "You just look too smart and high maintenance. Guys probably think you're either going to reject them or make them spend all of their money before they can get into your pants." Say whaaa? Haha!

    So, do you get hit on a lot? What is there to say about decent-looking girls that don't get creepy guys trying to hit her up in bars?

    "Look too smart"???

    I got hit on in a book store, FPS. Intelligence has never been a deterrent for me. *shrug*

    I don't know about the high-maintenance thing. I barely wear makeup.
  • msharrington315
    msharrington315 Posts: 199 Member
    I do now i've been to the gym and had my teeth fixed lol

    LOL. I had to laugh about the teeth remark... it's amazing to me how much bad teeth do make a difference in attractiveness.

    Ha ha exactly, I had a massive front tooth gap, now they're all inline, gap closed and straight :)

    Understood, I had braces as a teen, so I am ever grateful my parents helped fix my overbite. :smiley:
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    Sometimes ill have people stare at me when they see me. A lot of people act like they know me from somewhere. Women will try to touch my muscles if they are drunk. I get the occasional drink from a guy or a girl if im just standing at a bar and minding my own business.
  • OnAllFours
    OnAllFours Posts: 170 Member
    Being the comic relief, I am hardly hit on. Probably also cause I hang out with cuties like The_WoIverine. lol.
  • JuneGem6471
    JuneGem6471 Posts: 1,001 Member
    So I may have gotten hit on at the grocery store last night? I too am oblivious, and this was FAARRRRRRR from an attractive man but as I walked past him he said, "I'm trying to lose weight, I probably shouldn't eat these (chocolate covered pretzels) should I? I said all things in moderation! I kept walking, he kept talking. I refuse to make assumptions so I am going to assume he wanted the opinion of another overweight person....
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    This reminds me, I have to go grocery shopping tomorrow. I'll add oranges to my list.

    lol I do love oranges :D

    BTW do I need to clarify for all that I dont shove oranges in my butt?!
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    OnAllFours wrote: »
    Being the comic relief, I am hardly hit on. Probably also cause I hang out with cuties like The_WoIverine. lol.

    The ladies do seem to like The Wolverine, hes beard-tastic lol
  • Warchortle
    Warchortle Posts: 2,197 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    Warchortle wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    ^^ MFP is so bizarre with the flirting. I almost find it embarrassing for people "youre so pretty, no youre so pretty. Youre a 10, id kiss you.." and im over here like, what!?

    That's why I posted the ugliest deadlift face as my Tinder profile and now I'm going on my second date with this girl. It's a pretty bomb strategy.

    Haha i met my ex off tinder and within the first conversation i mentioned something about shoving oranges up my butt.

    Come to think of it... maybe thats why he kept buying oranges...

    Vitamin C up dat bu.. nvm
  • LiftingRiot
    LiftingRiot Posts: 6,946 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    This reminds me, I have to go grocery shopping tomorrow. I'll add oranges to my list.

    lol I do love oranges :D

    BTW do I need to clarify for all that I dont shove oranges in my butt?!

    and your suddenly less interesting
  • kchuskey
    kchuskey Posts: 882 Member
    I be like...... 79ajr34rjk0b.jpg
  • sw33tp3a15
    sw33tp3a15 Posts: 1,674 Member
    edited January 2016
    Marqiiz wrote: »
    I wouldn't know it if it slapped me across the face.

    @Marqiiz

    I don't believe you!

    I'm sure that "fleeky" bow tie brings plenty of girls to your yard ;)
  • Peter_Brady
    Peter_Brady Posts: 3,750 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »

    Haha i met my ex off tinder and within the first conversation i mentioned something about shoving oranges up my butt.

    Come to think of it... maybe thats why he kept buying oranges...

    There's a woman on MFP that..

    Oh, never mind.
  • katkins3
    katkins3 Posts: 1,359 Member
    Never.
  • ThatFatAsianNerd
    ThatFatAsianNerd Posts: 1,415 Member
    edited January 2016
    kchuskey wrote: »
    I be like...... 79ajr34rjk0b.jpg

    I like that guy's style. The glasses, the shirt, the chucks, the brown pants which I think are Dickey's, all clean man.

    Btw, why is he facing the same direction as the traffic? Shouldn't he be facing the drivers? (Well, maybe someone was undecided until they drove past him and finally called him out to buy some before the light turned green.)
  • PewterSky
    PewterSky Posts: 9,224 Member
    Not really and I'm glad, I'm horribly shy and would probably end up making a fool of myself.
  • Darklords
    Darklords Posts: 3,175 Member
    yes
  • Josh_lol
    Josh_lol Posts: 317 Member
    Not a single time.
  • FitGirl0123
    FitGirl0123 Posts: 1,273 Member
    Not being hit on if married isn't really something I would be worried about. I wouldn't mind some nice, appropriate compliments from time to time but I've got no desire to be hit on.
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    I’m a guy so of course I get hit on! Or at least that’s what I think every time a girl talks to me, smiles at me or even looks in my general direction. ;-)
  • southerman46
    southerman46 Posts: 828 Member
    Not really .
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    This reminds me, I have to go grocery shopping tomorrow. I'll add oranges to my list.

    lol I do love oranges :D

    BTW do I need to clarify for all that I dont shove oranges in my butt?!

    and your suddenly less interesting

    lol im 90% sure I was hardly interesting to begin with :D
  • KD454
    KD454 Posts: 1,548 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    This reminds me, I have to go grocery shopping tomorrow. I'll add oranges to my list.

    lol I do love oranges :D

    BTW do I need to clarify for all that I dont shove oranges in my butt?!

    and your suddenly less interesting

    lol im 90% sure I was hardly interesting to begin with :D

    Well that just made you more interesting
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    kchuskey wrote: »
    I be like...... 79ajr34rjk0b.jpg

    I like that guy's style. The glasses, the shirt, the chucks, the brown pants which I think are Dickey's, all clean man.

    Btw, why is he facing the same direction as the traffic? Shouldn't he be facing the drivers? (Well, maybe someone was undecided until they drove past him and finally called him out to buy some before the light turned green.)

    Youre right! Clearly, they dont live in southern california. Youre doing it all wrong man!
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    kchuskey wrote: »
    I be like...... 79ajr34rjk0b.jpg

    I have to admit, Im a little turned on right now.
  • The_WoIverine
    The_WoIverine Posts: 367 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »

    BTW do I need to clarify for all that I dont shove oranges in my butt?!
    What a disappointment :neutral:
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    OnAllFours wrote: »
    Being the comic relief, I am hardly hit on. Probably also cause I hang out with cuties like The_WoIverine. lol.

    The ladies do seem to like The Wolverine, hes beard-tastic lol

    @OnAllFours shut up dude! LOL

    @jlisa24 the beard those get all kinds of attention. That is a fact lol
  • martikri
    martikri Posts: 5 Member
    Maybe. . (just maybe) . . it has something to do with that rock that you are (hopefully) wearing on your left ring-finger. .

  • m2westwood
    m2westwood Posts: 1 Member
    From a man's perspective, and I hope this is helpful and does not come off as insulting in any way...

    Your current profile pic paints an image of a woman who thinks she is really something special - probably more special that any potential suitor thinks he is. Your facial expression appears to be of one of superiority. That is intimidating to men, and a turn off. I am sure it is not intentional, and may just be your normal expression, but the tightly pursed lips and facial expression may be off putting to men. Unfortunately, some of us have a normal expression that does not accurately convey our inner feelings - and this may be the case with you. Another example here. This is a woman who is telling me she does not want to be approached.

    However, this is picture of an approachable woman. In other words - perhaps a good amount of genuine smiles will make men feel more comfortable in approaching you.
  • kchuskey
    kchuskey Posts: 882 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    kchuskey wrote: »
    I be like...... 79ajr34rjk0b.jpg

    I like that guy's style. The glasses, the shirt, the chucks, the brown pants which I think are Dickey's, all clean man.

    Btw, why is he facing the same direction as the traffic? Shouldn't he be facing the drivers? (Well, maybe someone was undecided until they drove past him and finally called him out to buy some before the light turned green.)

    Youre right! Clearly, they dont live in southern california. Youre doing it all wrong man!



    Well that is a California license plate coming up behind him.... Wait. What kind of vehicle do you drive? :)