True Confessions - Don't Judge

lun4wub wrote: »

I confess that I have a really hard time socializing in real life, and I dislike most people.

PamelaW41 wrote: »

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Guns_N_Buns wrote: »

I confess that I have unfollowed about 75% of my facebook friends/family. We might be friends and/or family, but I can't stand the *kitten* out of their facebook personas.

I will confess i unfriended and blocked my kids and their wives from my fb bc everything i did or everywhere we went they had to call or text with a petty comment. Nobody has time for that crap.

lithezebra wrote: »

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PamelaW41 wrote: »

Guns_N_Buns wrote: »

I confess that I have unfollowed about 75% of my facebook friends/family. We might be friends and/or family, but I can't stand the *kitten* out of their facebook personas.

I will confess i unfriended and blocked my kids and their wives from my fb bc everything i did or everywhere we went they had to call or text with a petty comment. Nobody has time for that crap.

I just blocked my bro-in-law! Maybe I should block them all.

lauranorr wrote: »

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Louise1491 wrote: »

Kasner1975 wrote: »

Louise1491 wrote: »

lauranorr wrote: »

Louise1491 wrote: »

lauranorr wrote: »

I confess that although people say they appreciate what is on the inside more...and that the obvious external physical appearance flaws don't bother them (sags,wrinkles, buddha mama belly)... I have trouble believing that. Who wants a station wagon? I'm sure the Ferrari's are whats in demand. And I confess that I wonder if its even possible to turn a broken down old station wagon into something else...besides a mini van. Maybe a vw beetle lol. They are round...

You've obviously just not met the right people.
I think anyone who says physical attraction doesn't matter to them atall is a liar, BUT what people find attractive differs from person to person.
Some people want a mini van and don't like ferrari's one bit.

Kasner1975 wrote: »

lauranorr wrote: »

I confess that although people say they appreciate what is on the inside more...and that the obvious external physical appearance flaws don't bother them (sags,wrinkles, buddha mama belly)... I have trouble believing that. Who wants a station wagon? I'm sure the Ferrari's are whats in demand. And I confess that I wonder if its even possible to turn a broken down old station wagon into something else...besides a mini van. Maybe a vw beetle lol. They are round...

I am soooo on the same page as this confession @lauranorr. Just park that station wagon at a Ferrari dealership and see what happens. You can rebuild that station wagon from the inside out, and shine it up real nice, but next to the ferraris, it's still a station wagon to the people looking for ferarris.

@Louise1491 I'm not saying that physical attraction isn't important...I'm saying I find it hard to believe when people say they find a station wagon appealing no matter what, despite the flaws. Station wagons are reliable, dependable, trustworthy, solid but they sure don't look like a Ferrari. They get parked in the back where nobody sees. And @Kasner1975..you get it.

I get what you are saying but all you can do is be the best version of yourself possible and guess what..you still won't be the most attractive or the smartest but who gives a *kitten*? My point is that we should stop comparing ourselves to others (and cars/vans ha!) and just be what and who we are.

And just for the record, i think ferrari's are nice to look at but i'd much rather a classic with a nice solid engine

I think perhaps you're not completely grasping what Laura and I agree on. All it takes is one quick look at the selfie thread to see that the the "minivan" people are clearly being compared to the "ferarri" people. It's not a matter of comparing ourselves (although there are some like myself that do out of insecurities), it's a the state of society. The pretty people win. It doesn't matter how hard we work and how far we've come... you can get to work in a minivan, but everyone is dreaming of Ferraris.

"Pretty" people always win? That isn't true atall. Think of all the people throughout history that are truly remembered and legendary for their life's achievements, how many of those people were models or even considered attractive atall?
If your idea of winning is that you have to be "pretty" then i guess the problem lies with you.
I also think you will find that most people on the selfie thread have different tastes and find different people attractive.
And not everyone wants a ferrari!

Nobody said pretty people always win. This started with the confession that my insecurities make it hard for me to believe when others say they don't mind what I perceive to be my flaws...And this is because I see and know how human nature is...we look at the ferrari's..the beautiful people..the fittest and strongest.... and see perfection. Where is blame coming into this equation?

Guns_N_Buns wrote: »

Why would you wanna be a Ferrari?! Don't you realize how much those things depreciate right as you drive them off the lot.

JUiCY_KiSS wrote: »

Wish I could relive the past and make different decisions.