married chit-chatters?

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  • heroldkelly
    heroldkelly Posts: 30 Member
    It is never sexy and hot all the time like in porno.

    LOL, I always laugh when I hear people who think sex should be like a porno. It's like thinking your Big Mac is going to look like the commercials! :tongue:

  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    Yum. Now I want a Big Mac...
  • dwatson925
    dwatson925 Posts: 143 Member
    Thanks for making me hungry when I'm out of calories :(
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    The Emu prefers foreplay to start at first light... and carry on throughout the day... emails... phone calls, texts... after all the brain is our largest stimulus... then... it can be pure porno...the beauty of a loving relationship is having the trust to share those most intimate thoughts... and to help materialize them... starting in the living room, the dining room , the kitchen floor... finishing in the bedroom a couple of hours later... or in the kitchen again after some snacks and water... hydration is important... :)
  • honesty71108
    honesty71108 Posts: 50 Member
    edited June 2016
    lonestar5715.....i like how u write....
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    I want a Big Mac and a pet emu...they're so wise.
  • honesty71108
    honesty71108 Posts: 50 Member
    this thread is v slowly...turning into a whole new thing...lol
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    I agree and not so sure I am comfortable. Seems more like sex chat than support chat.
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    It's chit-chat, which implies fluid conversation. The best way to change the direction is to supply another topic. What do you need support with, Darlene? By all means, take the wheel!
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited June 2016
    novio50 wrote: »
    Ladies, do you feel your husbands are enamored with you? Is he so in love with you that no matter what happens in life or what you do, you are never wrong? So in love with you that as long as he can look at you while the sky is falling he's ok with death? Is there a such thing?

    Definitely not never being wrong. And I would hate that! I want a partner that challenges me and helps me be my best and grow and learn. I do feel he is so enamored with me that he would never leave me. But, that means I must treat him well, take care of myself, be sexy, be a good partner that keeps that feeling alive and going. I hope he would never foolishly die for me (he wouldn't because he's smart), but I do think he would sacrifice his life to save me and I would do the same for him. But, I wouldn't want that to ever happen and I would be devastated if he sacrificed his life for me because I wouldn't want him too.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I like both. Quickies sometimes (in the morning before work). And taking a day off together while the kids are at school to be loud and elaborate anywhere we want. And medium length night time together. Just different things for different times. I need it to stay interesting. Sex and sexuality is a very important part of life for me. Dancing most important, then sex, and then just basic health with food and exercise being an obvious priority.
  • rrlogiurato
    rrlogiurato Posts: 7 Member

    Beautiful family, @heroldkelly

    novio50 : its called blind love, if you have it for your other half then yes it is possible...but i think to some extend we are selfish about ourself in our lives.....this kinda love your talking about is like romeo and juliet, lol

    that kida love will consist of a lot more of personality and will be near perfection...perfection again is different to everyones need:smile:

    :honesty71108 love what you wrote-kinda of funny I feel this way about my wife and my name is actually Romeo:
  • heroldkelly
    heroldkelly Posts: 30 Member
    edited June 2016
    OK, let me throw this new one out there. I have finally started being able to walk again after about a year off to get diagnosed and treat Rheumatoid Arthritis. I'm a dreamer, and my wife knows this, so she always knows I'm going to come up with some crazy new-fangled idea to try out. So this one is that I'm taking our 3 year old on his first camping trip. My wife loves being outside but refuses to sleep in a tent, so I have asked and she would love to do a hike with me. I have this dream of doing the Ice Age Trail here in Wisconsin which is over 1,000 miles, but obviously we would need to do like a day hike. Has anyone else here done hiking or backpacking with a spouse and/or kids? The kids are too small to go on long hikes now, but I am hoping to get them interested as they grow.
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    Yup! We hike/backpack quite often. My skids were about 7 and 9, respectively, when they started doing it with us, so they were able to keep up easily. I will say this...the first backpacking trip I ever did, I was very worried, as we didn't have a tent at the time and we live in the sierra nevada mountains! However, after a long 20 mile hike, the little patch of grass near an ant hill looked better than my temperpedic at home. I slept on the ground, with ants crawling on my face, all night and it felt amazing.
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    We never did hiking trips but as a young family we did camping/ fishing trips. Our kids always loved them, but that was before cell phones and Internet. So I am out of touch with today's youth. My baby is 27. My husband and I always hunted and fished together and our children did when they were growing up but as adults, they didn't continue to do it. As a couple we still hunt and fish, but we also just got restricted licenses so we can just go to gun range and target practise.
  • DarleneReid577
    DarleneReid577 Posts: 4,401 Member
    The kids always liked the canoe and boat. But we never made it a chore. It was fun time only, no pressure on anyone, so not all the rules like at home,got to stay up late around campfire, still expected good manners but it was okay to leave clothes on floor of tent until time to pack up. Then mom would clean and wash everything. And then the real world began again.
  • heroldkelly
    heroldkelly Posts: 30 Member
    Well, My 3 year old and I are doing one night in a park close by and camping with a friend of mine and his 5 year old. I want to make it fun for him and an adventure so he wants to go again! :smiley: I'm a pretty nerdy nerd, so I have been checking out websites and library books. I basically realized I just have to let him play and do things he wants to do at this age. Guide him some and just keep him safe! I'm excited to go since I haven't camped in 18 years!
  • honesty71108
    honesty71108 Posts: 50 Member
    edited June 2016
    I like both. Quickies sometimes (in the morning before work). And taking a day off together while the kids are at school to be loud and elaborate anywhere we want. And medium length night time together. Just different things for different times. I need it to stay interesting. Sex and sexuality is a very important part of life for me. Dancing most important, then sex, and then just basic health with food and exercise being an obvious priority.

    i like you miss..i like you a lot.... >:)

    errrr...not in a lesbian manner, but i like you as woman....*thumbs up*
  • sterrac
    sterrac Posts: 6 Member
    Married 25 years. Wife and I both working on getting healthy. When not working out, we are working, or riding the motorcycle all about western Pennsylvania. Everything in life is better now that we are doing this. Especially the intimacy and sex parts. That alone will keep me on the straight and narrow as far as maintaining weight once I reach my goal.

    This thread is awesome by the way. Hey there!!!
  • Lonestar5715
    Lonestar5715 Posts: 466 Member
    lonestar5715.....i like how u write....

    Thanks Honsety, I appreciate your saying so.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I like both. Quickies sometimes (in the morning before work). And taking a day off together while the kids are at school to be loud and elaborate anywhere we want. And medium length night time together. Just different things for different times. I need it to stay interesting. Sex and sexuality is a very important part of life for me. Dancing most important, then sex, and then just basic health with food and exercise being an obvious priority.

    i like you miss..i like you a lot.... >:)

    errrr...not in a lesbian manner, but i like you as woman....*thumbs up*

    Well, I am bisexual, so a lesbian manner would also be ok with me. :blush: But, I appreciate your friendship.
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    Competition threads? Did I miss something?
  • honesty71108
    honesty71108 Posts: 50 Member
    Competition threads?
  • vintagewinter
    vintagewinter Posts: 3 Member
    I'm married. 36. M. Massachusetts
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  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited June 2016
    What are the competition threads? Edit: Are those threads for those Challenges? I haven't done any challenges.
  • hdatres
    hdatres Posts: 635 Member
    My wife turns hostile whenever my family shows up.

    That's terrible. Is she hostile to your family? Did your family treat her badly?
  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    No, they are good to her. She is bitchy by nature, has anxiety problems and throws tantrums. I had a really rough weekend :'(

    Does she know how to use a computer?

  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    No, they are good to her. She is bitchy by nature, has anxiety problems and throws tantrums. I had a really rough weekend :'(

    Sorry about your weekend! Does she throw tantrums in front of the people making her anxious?

    I don't really have much advice; I'm the complete opposite, I like interacting and socializing with as many people as possible -- especially in laws. Was she always like this? I've had friends that were like this, in the past, and it annoyed the *kitten* out of me.