Are you a hugger?

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  • ukexplorer
    ukexplorer Posts: 380 Member
    edited June 2016
    I'm worse than meatloaf in fight club, love a good hug,
    Anyone want ? :)
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  • SassyMommasaurus
    SassyMommasaurus Posts: 380 Member
    No, don't touch me! lol
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    With my family and very close friends, yes...if it's just an acquaintance or a more distant friend then usually no...unless they come in for one, and in that case I'm not going to be an butt.
  • 2011rocket3touring
    2011rocket3touring Posts: 1,346 Member
    Married so I'm used to not being touched. I do like my distance from people... Dogs on the other hand; BRING ON THE PUPPIES!!!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    I think dudes that greets a female with a kiss on the cheek are cool as hell I have a friend that does that and he kisses my wife on the cheek when we see him I like that although I can't bring myself to do it
    We do that with everyone close to us, my wife included. Cultural thing for us.


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  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,021 Member
    melmelw03 wrote: »
    I only hug my daughters and my BF or ex hubs. I don't even hug my family members. It gives me anxiety.
    Lol, bet you'd hug Westbrook though.


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  • Rohbean
    Rohbean Posts: 45 Member
    Hugging people makes me somewhat uncomfortable. I don't mind hugging my cats though.
  • fitnessjustin01
    fitnessjustin01 Posts: 239 Member
    I don't mind if someone wants to give a hug, but I'm definitely not a hugger in general.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    PurringMyrrh wrote: »
    Love hugging and being hugged! Apparently I'm good at it. I'm also pretty good at sensing who is and isn't keen on it and don't smother those with a defensible space.

    C'mere and hold meh!

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  • lilbitmeme
    lilbitmeme Posts: 89 Member
    I am with people I love. Otherwise not big on being touched
  • Fitnin6280
    Fitnin6280 Posts: 618 Member
    Only with my parents, hubby, and kids. Other than that hugs make me soooo uncomfortable! I've never understood hugging someone outside your immediate family.
  • Jazz_Hands
    Jazz_Hands Posts: 55 Member
    It depends on the circumstance. Socially, I'll hug+kiss if I've met someone before or we're saying goodbye (and it seems like the other person is okay with it, of course).

    But at a work function or a professional setting, absolutely not. Get off me.
  • KD454
    KD454 Posts: 1,548 Member
    I hug all kinds of people. Maybe not everyone but a lot of them.
  • Owlie45
    Owlie45 Posts: 806 Member
    Nope.
    My dad's side isn't much for hugs, but my mom's side is. Hugs and kisses on cheeks. I'll except them but I don't initiate them.
  • jaelynsmith
    jaelynsmith Posts: 82 Member
    With people I love and care about? I absolutely am a hugger :) if I don't know you? Don't touch me lol
  • SuperheroSadie
    SuperheroSadie Posts: 167 Member
    I'm a hugger, but only if people's armpits are covered. I refuse to hug anyone (family, boyfriend, close friends included) if it includes touching their armpits. Vomit worthy.
  • SuperheroSadie
    SuperheroSadie Posts: 167 Member
    Villae81 wrote: »
    SuperheroSadie wrote: »
    I'm a hugger, but only if people's armpits are covered. I refuse to hug anyone (family, boyfriend, close friends included) if it includes touching their armpits. Vomit worthy.

    When you're having sex I'm guessing he has a white shirt on while naked waist down?

    I'm not sure what kind of sex you're having that touching the shirtless person's armpits is necessary. Can't think of a single position where any sort of anchorage around or touching of the armpits is essential
  • Tallawah_
    Tallawah_ Posts: 2,475 Member
    PurringMyrrh wrote: »
    Love hugging and being hugged! Apparently I'm good at it. I'm also pretty good at sensing who is and isn't keen on it and don't smother those with a defensible space.

    This! :blush:
  • Bonny132
    Bonny132 Posts: 3,617 Member
    I hug everyone and everything, I even smother my poor cat in my sleep if he gets too close. Nothing better than a good hug or two or three.
  • RoxieDawn
    RoxieDawn Posts: 15,488 Member
    I live in the south, it is against the law if you do not hug! Just do not slap me with a kiss and I a good!

    Now I do hug my dogs (they don't like it) and my two cats.. they love it, but cats are weird anyways..
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    melmelw03 wrote: »
    I only hug my daughters and my BF or ex hubs. I don't even hug my family members. It gives me anxiety.
    Lol, bet you'd hug Westbrook though.


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    All sweaty too!
    True story....Kendrick Perkins hugged me on my birthday a few years ago at a Thunder game. I made a sign that said "All I want for my birthday is for Perk to crack a smile!". He loved it and came over at half time and signed my poster, hugged me and took pics. He was super nice.
  • BaDaSsBrUnEtTe
    BaDaSsBrUnEtTe Posts: 518 Member
    I hate hugs...not a fan of being touched by people.
  • PBWaffleCakes
    PBWaffleCakes Posts: 900 Member
    I'm not a hugger but I will try my best at hugging when a close friend comes in for a hug. I use to just stand their armed dangled
  • InfoomaousTete
    InfoomaousTete Posts: 1,383 Member
    Oh I am a hugger...

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  • saragd012
    saragd012 Posts: 693 Member
    I'm a selective hugger. If we are friends/family I am a big hugger, but if I dont know you very well I really do not like to be touched. So basically if I like you I have very little personal space requirements, but if I dont then even putting your hand on my shoulder makes me uncomfortable.
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