My heart hurts

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  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    The only real advice I can bring to the table is to keep reminding yourself "why". Why it didn't work, why you wanted out...

    When my ex and I split, the best thing for me was to "fake it till I make it". Tell myself I'm ok, this is ok, I'll be ok...everything is ok...not perfect, but ok. Eventually, it was! Much love, OP..we all joke around here, but in the end, this is no joking matter. Your heart hurts, and we hear you...take care of yourself, mon ami...xo
  • Libertysfate
    Libertysfate Posts: 452 Member
    Workout...a lot. Listen to a lot of angry chick music and run. Then watch all the sappy chick flicks that I normally don't enjoy just to get all the crying out of the way and then find some way to get my aggression out.
  • Jerrypeoples
    Jerrypeoples Posts: 1,541 Member
    Libertysfate wrote: »
    Workout...a lot. Listen to a lot of angry chick music and run. Then watch all the sappy chick flicks that I normally don't enjoy just to get all the crying out of the way and then find some way to get my aggression out.

    i believe that is called the lifetime channel :)

  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    Workout, sex, read, work, drink, backpack, drink, sex, drink, run, lift, drink, drink, drink . . .
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    Jerrypeoples wrote: »
    Libertysfate wrote: »
    Workout...a lot. Listen to a lot of angry chick music and run. Then watch all the sappy chick flicks that I normally don't enjoy just to get all the crying out of the way and then find some way to get my aggression out.

    i believe that is called the lifetime channel :)

    aka "Tears and Tequila" or "Wine and Whine"
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    edited August 2016
    PlaydohPants wrote: »
    sunnybeaches105 wrote: »
    Workout, sex, read, work, drink, backpack, drink, sex, drink, run, lift, drink, drink, drink . . .

    My heart must hurt too because this sounds like a regular Tuesday

    Cheers. Mine is killing me . . .
  • brianbgboy
    brianbgboy Posts: 393 Member
    move on and find another guy that is willing to do right by you!
  • Alienique
    Alienique Posts: 122 Member
    Date around. A really nice way to get over someone is to find someone better :)
  • tomorrowistoday0000
    tomorrowistoday0000 Posts: 125 Member
    The biggest tip I'd say is don't play the victim. When you do so, you become helpless. Needless, this does not imply you are at fault either but rather acknowledge that there is opportunity for improvement within yourself (whether it is partner selection, getting over your fear of loneliness, or etc.). Your relationship doesn't define who you are as an individual so even though it didn't work out, appreciate everything else that still is in your life.

    Keep yourself busy. Work out, train hard! Look good, feel good! Before you know it, you'll wonder why you ever dated the guy.
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  • Damien_K
    Damien_K Posts: 783 Member
    Steep_Burrito wrote: »
    JessicaJS23 wrote: »
    My Grandma says the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Works every time!! <3

    Sounds like your grandma has gotten over a lot of people.

    Over and under it seems
  • JessicaJS23
    JessicaJS23 Posts: 1,863 Member
    Steep_Burrito wrote: »
    JessicaJS23 wrote: »
    My Grandma says the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Works every time!! <3

    Sounds like your grandma has gotten over a lot of people.
    Damien_K wrote: »
    Steep_Burrito wrote: »
    JessicaJS23 wrote: »
    My Grandma says the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Works every time!! <3

    Sounds like your grandma has gotten over a lot of people.

    Over and under it seems

    Actually no. She married my grandpa at 18 and they were still happily married when he died a few years ago. I'm pretty sure she was just being funny... Kind of like I was. :)

  • JukeboxHeroine
    JukeboxHeroine Posts: 348 Member
    sunnybeaches105 wrote: »
    Workout, sex, read, work, drink, backpack, drink, sex, drink, run, lift, drink, drink, drink . . .

    I'm sensing a pattern here.....
  • lexi3500
    lexi3500 Posts: 346 Member
    Be single mens are dogs some of them
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    First time, lots and lots of TV.
    Second time, lots and lots of gaming.
    Basically... keep yourself busy and distracted and don't think.

    Nighttime sucks horribly though. I would just watch TV until I basically fell asleep.
  • success84
    success84 Posts: 11 Member
    Same here. Writing poetry and Journeling seems to help me... Email me, we can talk.
  • Muppyooh
    Muppyooh Posts: 290 Member
    success84 wrote: »
    Same here. Writing poetry and Journeling seems to help me... Email me, we can talk.

    Sent you a friend request

  • IamLogan7
    IamLogan7 Posts: 11 Member
    Work out, focus on your goals and let some time go by before trying to dissect what went wrong in your relationship.
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