Feeling unattractive?
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Steep_Burrito wrote: »
Does this happen to you when you get your roots touched up?0 -
There will always be someone younger, in better shape,and more appealing to the eye. The one thing they can't be is me. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.2
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I would love to feel atractive to someone = \
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I always tell people, that believe that; they're unattractive: "That's great because it means, that you don't have so many other problems; to consume that time with."!0
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I've learned that even though I don't ever feel attractive, I am happy being me. That came with age for me though.
I'm glad you are happy being you. For the record, you ARE an attractive man._Sugar_interrupted wrote: »I never feel attractive TBH. I come off like I do, and plenty of people think I'm totally full of myself, but I struggle with insecurity pretty bad most days.
We are all guilty of self deprecating... despite compliments (which I am really bad at taking), attention from partners, or even strangers. Some days you just feel like a pile of crap. And that's ok, you're allowed to have an ugly day- we all are.
Don't let it make or break you, OP. It's really minuscule in the grand scheme of things- there's far more to life- feeling pretty is low on the totem pole.
The truth is...regardless of whether or not you will believe it... You are truly a beautiful person, inside and out.
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Feeling unattractive doesn't mean people don't have other problems. In fact it's often a symptom of deeper problems. Dealing with the deeper issues can resolve it. I haven't read these books. But, I saw someone recommending The Gift of Imperfection by Brene Brown.0
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BinaryPulsar wrote: »Feeling unattractive doesn't mean people don't have other problems. In fact it's often a symptom of deeper problems. I haven't read these books. But, I saw someone recommending The Gift of Imperfection by Brene Brown.
I agree, that's why I said: "so many"! I have so many issues that consume my time, that if I spent anytime focusing on my attractiveness; I'd then have no time to enjoy anything!0 -
_SummerGirl_ wrote: »I've learned that even though I don't ever feel attractive, I am happy being me. That came with age for me though.
I'm glad you are happy being you. For the record, you ARE an attractive man._Sugar_interrupted wrote: »I never feel attractive TBH. I come off like I do, and plenty of people think I'm totally full of myself, but I struggle with insecurity pretty bad most days.
We are all guilty of self deprecating... despite compliments (which I am really bad at taking), attention from partners, or even strangers. Some days you just feel like a pile of crap. And that's ok, you're allowed to have an ugly day- we all are.
Don't let it make or break you, OP. It's really minuscule in the grand scheme of things- there's far more to life- feeling pretty is low on the totem pole.
The truth is...regardless of whether or not you will believe it... You are truly a beautiful person, inside and out.
Omg- where did you come from?!?!
I am going to cry, Cali!
Why didn't I know you were back?!
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_Sugar_interrupted wrote: »_SummerGirl_ wrote: »I've learned that even though I don't ever feel attractive, I am happy being me. That came with age for me though.
I'm glad you are happy being you. For the record, you ARE an attractive man._Sugar_interrupted wrote: »I never feel attractive TBH. I come off like I do, and plenty of people think I'm totally full of myself, but I struggle with insecurity pretty bad most days.
We are all guilty of self deprecating... despite compliments (which I am really bad at taking), attention from partners, or even strangers. Some days you just feel like a pile of crap. And that's ok, you're allowed to have an ugly day- we all are.
Don't let it make or break you, OP. It's really minuscule in the grand scheme of things- there's far more to life- feeling pretty is low on the totem pole.
The truth is...regardless of whether or not you will believe it... You are truly a beautiful person, inside and out.
Omg- where did you come from?!?!
I am going to cry, Cali!
Why didn't I know you were back?!
I thought you were just ignoring me.
So I was hiding. 0 -
_SummerGirl_ wrote: »_Sugar_interrupted wrote: »_SummerGirl_ wrote: »I've learned that even though I don't ever feel attractive, I am happy being me. That came with age for me though.
I'm glad you are happy being you. For the record, you ARE an attractive man._Sugar_interrupted wrote: »I never feel attractive TBH. I come off like I do, and plenty of people think I'm totally full of myself, but I struggle with insecurity pretty bad most days.
We are all guilty of self deprecating... despite compliments (which I am really bad at taking), attention from partners, or even strangers. Some days you just feel like a pile of crap. And that's ok, you're allowed to have an ugly day- we all are.
Don't let it make or break you, OP. It's really minuscule in the grand scheme of things- there's far more to life- feeling pretty is low on the totem pole.
The truth is...regardless of whether or not you will believe it... You are truly a beautiful person, inside and out.
Omg- where did you come from?!?!
I am going to cry, Cali!
Why didn't I know you were back?!
I thought you were just ignoring me. So I was hiding.
I have been accused of many things--- but this, this hurts!
I would never. Ever. Ever!
As usual, I'm behind bars (:insert not surprised face here
and I just respond to whoevers quoted me to avoid the... Drama. 
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DeficitDuchess wrote: »BinaryPulsar wrote: »Feeling unattractive doesn't mean people don't have other problems. In fact it's often a symptom of deeper problems. I haven't read these books. But, I saw someone recommending The Gift of Imperfection by Brene Brown.
I agree, that's why I said: "so many"! I have so many issues that consume my time, that if I spent anytime focusing on my attractiveness; I'd then have no time to enjoy anything!
That's a healthy outlook. You allow yourself to enjoy things (even though you face many challenges) rather than focusing on your attractiveness. A lot of people don't allow themselves to enjoy life in favor of worrying about their attractiveness. And I mean it often comes from a much deeper place.0 -
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Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »
I think I love you0 -
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I dont think that I am unattractive I am just tired of being "pretty for a big girl" like can't you just say im pretty its super annoying1
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Heck no I am a sexy beast!1
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