True Confessions - Don't Judge
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GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »happilymegan wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
I don't mean any offense to anybody at all, but it's sort of like a clubhouse in there. If you're not one of a handful of people, nobody pays that much attention to you
You're beautiful and funny. *kitten* what anyone else thinks.
but most importantly just care what I think.
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Thanks guys @happilymegan @littlemissbgiff0
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Thanks guys @happilymegan @littlemissbgiff
no body lies in here about this kind of stuff!!! milk it for as long as you can!!
In all seriousness, you have nothing to worry about posting that beutiful face in the selfie thread.. You've got it, flaunt it and wear it proud!2 -
Love at first sight after 11 Years1
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nolan44219 wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
you are very good looking women and should be blowing up that thread with selfies!!!
thank you but you have to say that cuz you are one of my best friends here and I pay you to like me.3 -
mizcandice wrote: »I just ate some dark chocolate drizzle carmel popcorn... totally not width it
Someone gave me a large raspberry dark chocolate Ghirardelli bar. First thing I did was look at how many calories it would be to eat the whole thing.0 -
I made my Environmental Science class pick chocolate chips out of cookies with toothpicks for the sake of science today... And then they had to put the cookies back together. bwahahaha...1
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RunHardBeStrong wrote: »nolan44219 wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
you are very good looking women and should be blowing up that thread with selfies!!!
thank you but you have to say that cuz you are one of my best friends here and I pay you to like me.
Ha! You can compensate me in naked selfies1 -
angiecook82 wrote: »confession: I often want more in the bedroom than my husband is interested in giving, or doing as often. sometimes I wish I was in my young 20s again and slutting around. J/k! kinda.
Man, I would love to help you but I'm not that great in bed. I mean, aside the tongue thing and judicious use of toys...0 -
littlemissbgiff wrote: »Thanks guys @happilymegan @littlemissbgiff
Look darling, I'm 40 years old, I'm beaten and battered, I've got crows feet, I've got gray roots, I've got the skin of a pubescent teenager. It's intimidating throwing my pic up with the likes of @happilymegan @LL5lifts and the rest of those bombshells but this is what I got to work with. So I do. And being confident is just as beautiful as being beautiful.
Pffft you're hottie mchotterton1 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »nolan44219 wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
you are very good looking women and should be blowing up that thread with selfies!!!
thank you but you have to say that cuz you are one of my best friends here and I pay you to like me.
hey you don't pay me and I think you are a hottttttttie!!
back at ya!0 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »nolan44219 wrote: »RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
you are very good looking women and should be blowing up that thread with selfies!!!
thank you but you have to say that cuz you are one of my best friends here and I pay you to like me.
hey you don't pay me and I think you are a hottttttttie!!
I have super sexy *kitten* names I say to myself over your selfies. I'll tell them to you one day when I get my courage up or maybe after a couple glasses of bourbon1 -
I confess I am ready to get started with schooling but there keeps seeming to be hold up that are preventing me from getting started and its get frustrating....
I confess I love the banter in here and love the selfies.... just wish I could upload one into the selfie thread thru the app on my phone.2 -
RunHardBeStrong wrote: »
I don't mean any offense to anybody at all, but it's sort of like a clubhouse in there. If you're not one of a handful of people, nobody pays that much attention to you
and this is a good point too. i feel out of place in there forget how terrible looking I am..lol
I first started to post selfies as a kind of therapy. I am pretty much invisible at home unless its "MAMA...get me that, I need this, we're gonna be late!". I don't post for the validation of strangers. I mostly post because I want my friends to see me so people know I exist and to say hey, this is me, this is the lulu who makes those posts you read, take it or leave it. On a different level, at home for family pics, I started to take selfies of myself when I realized there were never any pictures of me...because I was always the one taking the pictures of everyone else. And the pics of me I did have were when I looked AWFUL like on Christmas morning in my pajamas and thats it. I figured that when I die I want my kids to have some pics to look back at on me at least. So now I still take the pics but I'll always take a selfie and I'll try to get selfies with the kids too. Plus they have phones with cameras now that they are older and they take pics that I am in...so I don't take as many selfies at family functions anymore. People might have thought it was weird but I don't *kitten* care. I had the same conversation with my friends about the selfie threads as you guys are having. Same doubts. Had to overcome the fear and insecurity. I just did it. I know a lot of people will read this and think its weird...think "whats the big *kitten* deal? Its just a stupid selfie!" But I understand. Been there. Now I post anyways. Mostly on sunny days when I look best.
I confess that I am crying after reading this..there is not a whole lot I can do about my face, about the past I led to get me to the wrinkles and hard miles I put on my body and my face. I confessed about this many many weeks ago (about scare to post a selfie) as this was a way for me to get out of my box and just do it. And I did and it felt great for a couple of days.
I then started taking random selfies at home (my husband laughed me many times not understanding what I was doing) so I could post another one. I hated them all. The lighting shows imperfections in my face, perhaps my smile was not what I wanted, etc.. etc.. then I did the comparison selfie thing and I just got down right depressed about it and stopped.
It is prolly about a little validation, so I should be honest about that. Please do not judge me in this regard, I have two grown daughters, I have had personal issues up until 3 years ago and I am now a menopausal woman.. and well I think all that shows. And I want it to be all gone and not show anymore..
I love seeing yours and the others beautiful faces, some serious, some are just funny that show your personality, perhaps your mood and well they show you! They are all awesome
I am a little embarrassed about this, and I have to say that right now with tears running down my face I am a bit ashamed that I am missing something. I need to work on this.
Thanks @LL5lifts for this. I truly admire what you wrote and you are just awesome in my book!4
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