True Confessions - Don't Judge
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LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.6 -
LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.
Tell them: Before you judge me, you better make sure you are *kitten* perfect.1 -
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I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
This is when you say "oh thank you so much for noticing! That's just the way my husband likes me"
He did appreciate the look when he came home.1 -
Kepplekakes wrote: »@FeraFilia I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you feel better soon.
Thank you. I'll get over it in a little bit... until the next time.0 -
I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Ah! The joys of being related to the pastor!
One of my best friends in College was a PK. Really messed him up. His Mom was pretty screwed up by it too!
"Church Ladies" can be brutal!0 -
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LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.
Tell them: Before you judge me, you better make sure you are *kitten* perfect.
Great advice ...1 -
LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.
Tell them: Before you judge me, you better make sure you are *kitten* perfect.Kasner1975 wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.
Tell them: Before you judge me, you better make sure you are *kitten* perfect.
Yup. Right there. There's the answer.slimgirljo15 wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.
Tell them: Before you judge me, you better make sure you are *kitten* perfect.
Great advice ...
I agree with all of you. I'm sure there will be a next time. This lady hates me for some reason.0 -
I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
You could quote the Bible with John 8:7 but in all honesty they won't listen
You need to put your head up high and ignore them. they'll talk...let them. If you ignore them eventually they will stop and you know what if they don't who cares. You are happy and proud of yourself. Don't stoop to their level.
If someone says something like that just say I'm happy with the way I look thank you.2 -
I confess tonight I had tater tots with queso but it was so damn worth it2
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Thank you everyone for the advise and words of encouragement. When I downloaded this app I didn't think I would ever make friends on it but I have met some of the best and greatest people I have ever known, some true real life friends.
I confess you guys are awesome!16 -
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jjewell1981 wrote: »Thank you everyone for the advise and words of encouragement. When I downloaded this app I didn't think I would ever make friends on it but I have met some of the best and greatest people I have ever known, some true real life friends.
I confess you guys are awesome!
We like having you around here ❤2 -
jjewell1981 wrote: »Thank you everyone for the advise and words of encouragement. When I downloaded this app I didn't think I would ever make friends on it but I have met some of the best and greatest people I have ever known, some true real life friends.
I confess you guys are awesome!
I like having you as a friend
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I confess i almost just dropped my phone on my face but i caught it in mid air. Taking my talents to the NFL with these hands4
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I confess that a good cry is sometimes the best medicine.
wow.
As a guy, I don't cry.
Today I lost it.
I mean completely lost it. (premature death of one of the best people I've ever had the honor to know.)
I left my office, sat in my car an sobbed for ten minutes. Her loss to me is unfathomable.
Nobody knew I cried. (except now everyone reading this; I don't care.)
cancer; *kitten* cancer.5 -
jjewell1981 wrote: »I need a cry right now but I can't. I have to be the one person that holds it together and makes the decisions. Sometimes I wish I was a ten year old boy again and didn't have to worry about things.
I feel for you, its really hard trying to put on a tough face out there when deep down, you're heart is breaking.0 -
_pollyprissypants_ wrote: »Cerealsensei wrote: »I confess i almost just dropped my phone on my face but i caught it in mid air. Taking my talents to the NFL with these hands
I confess I have had many a fat lips as I am not as talented as you.
I confess that the most other times when i drop it im not so lucky lol0 -
Cerealsensei wrote: »I confess i almost just dropped my phone on my face but i caught it in mid air. Taking my talents to the NFL with these hands
It's good to catch a phone. I usually can't. But I have super protection on mine for these occurrences.
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Motorsheen wrote: »I confess that a good cry is sometimes the best medicine.
wow.
As a guy, I don't cry.
Today I lost it.
I mean completely lost it. (premature death of one of the best people I've ever had the honor to know.)
I left my office, sat in my car an sobbed for ten minutes. Her loss to me is unfathomable.
Nobody knew I cried. (except now everyone reading this; I don't care.)
cancer; *kitten* cancer.
Sorry about your loss
Cancer frigging sucks. Not only does it rob someone of life but the after effects are horrible as I'm learning every single day.
I'm not a crier. I usually end up apologizing if I do...it's easier in the car or shower0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »I confess that a good cry is sometimes the best medicine.
wow.
As a guy, I don't cry.
Today I lost it.
I mean completely lost it. (premature death of one of the best people I've ever had the honor to know.)
I left my office, sat in my car an sobbed for ten minutes. Her loss to me is unfathomable.
Nobody knew I cried. (except now everyone reading this; I don't care.)
cancer; *kitten* cancer.
I am so sorry for your loss and I echo those sentiments, *kitten* cancer
Thanks.
There's a long story behind our relationship that has played out like a Shakespearean tragedy.
She wasn't supposed to die; not this early. Truth is, I've cried everyday this week about it.
... this too shall pass, right?
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FabulousFantasticFifty wrote: »I love being woken up in the middle of the night, so frisky !
I confess I would never try that with my boyfriend because he would probably turn me down.0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »I confess that a good cry is sometimes the best medicine.
wow.
As a guy, I don't cry.
Today I lost it.
I mean completely lost it. (premature death of one of the best people I've ever had the honor to know.)
I left my office, sat in my car an sobbed for ten minutes. Her loss to me is unfathomable.
Nobody knew I cried. (except now everyone reading this; I don't care.)
cancer; *kitten* cancer.
Im sorry for your loss ....yes cancer is a *kitten*0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »I confess that a good cry is sometimes the best medicine.
wow.
As a guy, I don't cry.
Today I lost it.
I mean completely lost it. (premature death of one of the best people I've ever had the honor to know.)
I left my office, sat in my car an sobbed for ten minutes. Her loss to me is unfathomable.
Nobody knew I cried. (except now everyone reading this; I don't care.)
cancer; *kitten* cancer.
I'm so sorry.
Cancer sucks.0 -
LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.
Tell them: Before you judge me, you better make sure you are *kitten* perfect.Kasner1975 wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.
Tell them: Before you judge me, you better make sure you are *kitten* perfect.
Yup. Right there. There's the answer.slimgirljo15 wrote: »LittleHearseDriver wrote: »I confess I'm ready to just give up. On everything. First a nasty rumor and then the insult tonight. I'm so over it.
Apparently, caring about my health and my appearance is enough to make cranky old ladies tell people I'm trying to "trade up"... And then, I was just starting to think I looked okay today, and instead I'm told that I'm "starting to look like a woman with loose morals."
I hate this so much.
Tell those old heifers God doesn't like busy bodies and you'll pray for them.
I smiled and channeled my snarky southern mama and said "well bless your heart... I think I look nice, it's a shame you don't agree." Then came home, made sure my son was okay, and cried for 10 minutes.
Tell them: Before you judge me, you better make sure you are *kitten* perfect.
Great advice ...
I agree with all of you. I'm sure there will be a next time. This lady hates me for some reason.
Maybe she should be reminded of this one.
Luke 6:37
“Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:”
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