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    Husband cheated on me here

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    • Posts: 5,753 Member
      Didn't read everything but that sucks but honestly I'm not surprised. This is the site where people will flirt with each other and send dick pics and titty pics to each other. If it wasn't this site, it would have been an actual dating site or irl. At least you found out
    • Posts: 20,506 Member
      Holy Smokes.

      9 pages? I have some catchin; up to do, I damn sure do.
    • Posts: 20,506 Member
      JLAJ81 wrote: »
      He also sent me nudes

      go on...
    • Posts: 20,506 Member
      Carillon_Campanello wrote: »
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      Smart guys know dick picks aren't the way.

      you're right.


      gifs are far more entertaining
    • Posts: 33,069 Member
      Motorsheen wrote: »
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      you're right.


      gifs are far more entertaining

      I do love a guy that can make me laugh.
    • Posts: 442 Member
      Those pesky humans and their pesky ways.
    • Posts: 127 Member
      MFP has it's dark side, anyone who has been around here for a few years knows some people treat this site as a dating/hookup site disguised as a fitness site.
    • Posts: 726 Member
      Motorsheen wrote: »
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      you're right.


      gifs are far more entertaining

      I keep trying to embed gifs, but no joy. I guess I'll start sending out the D.
    • Posts: 20,506 Member
      Carillon_Campanello wrote: »
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      I keep trying to embed gifs, but no joy. I guess I'll start sending out the D.

      practice makes perfect.
    • Posts: 20,506 Member
      jtegirl1 wrote: »
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      A few years?! It only took me a couple days to figure that out.

      ... what took you so long?
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      Carillon_Campanello wrote: »
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      Sticky keyboard from the sound of this thread.

      Or phone.
    • Posts: 13,499 Member
      Wait...people flirt and stuff here? Who knew
    • Posts: 1,625 Member
      pudgy1977 wrote: »
      Wait...people flirt and stuff here? Who knew
      pudgy1977 wrote: »
      Wait...people flirt and stuff here? Who knew
      pudgy1977 wrote: »
      Wait...people flirt and stuff here? Who knew

      apparently lives on here are changing for better and worse
    • Posts: 726 Member
      pudgy1977 wrote: »
      Wait...people flirt and stuff here? Who knew

      Not with you. Not with you AT ALL. ;)
    • Posts: 13,499 Member
      edited April 2017
      Carillon_Campanello wrote: »
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      Not with you. Not with you AT ALL. ;)

      Hmm. Must be visiting the wrong threads
    • Posts: 1,693 Member
      lizery wrote: »
      Your husband flirted via an electronic medium. It's a betrayal of sorts, but hardly cheating.

      And what right would you have to tell the other participants - alleged - husband (assuming you could do so)? She is responsible for operating within the parameters of her own relationship. That's hardly your responsibility.

      This is cheating annnnnd I get what you are saying here....but I get it.
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      edited April 2017
      leanjogreen18 wrote: »
      It's cheating to one spouse but not the other.

      This is why I brought up the whole its good to have that conversation. Preferable before it happens. But then you have the "is viewing porn" cheating? Is "going to a strip club" cheating, is "going to lunch with a coworker of the opposite sex" cheating etc.

      People have different opinions and when those two people are in a relationship it can get ugly.

      By the way again I think its cheating but can acknowledge that others do not think it's cheating.

      He know in a marriage you are not supposed to sext and kik with other females. He used that as an excuse to deflect the real issue. It's a poor tactic to make himself look like the cheater he is. I'm sure it wouldn't be okay for her to show nudes, sext and kik other men!

      It's only not cheating if both parties agree and dgaf....but clearly that's not the case.
    • Posts: 2,817 Member
      edited April 2017
      @Sooothathappened so why dont you cheat on him here? What is good for the goose and all that.

      I would suggest cheating on him with one of the people he cheated on you with.
    • Posts: 5 Member
      Wow. Sorry you are hurting! Ppl will use any social outlet to cheat. Just know its not ur fault and you deserve to be treated better! Good luck! **hugs**
    • Posts: 91 Member
      Crazy ! I'm really sorry that happened to you. Dump him.
    • Posts: 732 Member
      I fully acknowledge and expect to get some hate from this, but let me play devil's advocate a bit. It's not like he physically slept with anyone, did he? Granted, he broke your trust, but was talking to strangers on the internet explicitly forbidden or just left implied from when you got married? Does commenting on one of the many "Would you kiss/flirt message/date/marry, etc. the person above" threads count as cheating?
    • Posts: 20,506 Member
      captbklee wrote: »
      I fully acknowledge and expect to get some hate from this, but let me play devil's advocate a bit. It's not like he physically slept with anyone, did he? Granted, he broke your trust, but was talking to strangers on the internet explicitly forbidden or just left implied from when you got married? Does commenting on one of the many "Would you kiss/flirt message/date/marry, etc. the person above" threads count as cheating?

      Ut oh.
    • Posts: 4,984 Member
      I think if you can't say it on the forums, where everyone can read it, and you are married, you done *kitten* up and need to have your *kitten* kicked LOL
    • Posts: 732 Member
      lstrat115 wrote: »
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      I don't completely disagree with you, but..... there are some things that are implied. When someone gets married they don't expect to have to list out every possible scenario and say what is okay and what isn't. Most likely the thought of a spouse joining a fitness community and sending videos of their body parts to people wouldn't be on someone's radar. Right? You can't cover every what is cheating scenario out there.
      Where I see the difference between a guy pleasuring himself to some movie he bought and this scenario is that there is a relationship of some sort formed. Guys don't actually have relationships with the pornstars they see in movies. So in my mind if there is a relationship there and it gets sexual then that is cheating. Just my opinion.

      I'm just saying, it's the year 2017 and relationships vary pretty widely already. But you make a very valid point. You shouldn't have to sit down with a lawyer to list out all the possibilities that would constitute infidelity. But, if you leave things unsaid people will take advantage.
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