Husband cheated on me here
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The bottom line is that if you're hiding activity from your spouse that he/she would lose their *kitten* over, it's probably in the darker edges of the above specified "grey" areas4
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browneyedgirl749 wrote: »I think if you can't say it on the forums, where everyone can read it, and you are married, you done *kitten* up and need to have your *kitten* kicked LOL
I really like you. I read your comments and for a short second think I wrote them...0 -
STLBADGIRL wrote: »browneyedgirl749 wrote: »I think if you can't say it on the forums, where everyone can read it, and you are married, you done *kitten* up and need to have your *kitten* kicked LOL
I really like you. I read your comments and for a short second think I wrote them...
Aw shucks
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Yeah social media is one of the leading causes of divorce now. There's so many temptations and people are weak. I don't believe we were suppose to be made monogamous but someone along the way said its what we should do. I'm sorry he hurt you and I hope you stand strong.3
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ericatoday wrote: »Yeah social media is one of the leading causes of divorce now. There's so many temptations and people are weak. I don't believe we were suppose to be made monogamous but someone along the way said its what we should do. I'm sorry he hurt you and I hope you stand strong.
Someone also along the way said we should: eat food with utensils rather than with our hands, use a toilet for urine and defecation and flush it, wear clothes when in public, refrain from gratuitously striking people when we feel angry, develop written languages and become literate in them, and not have sex openly in public places.
None of this comes naturally to humans per se, but it's learned in the course of the civilizing process. As is monogamy for the religions, cultures, and individuals that recognize value in it.
At least I'm okay with the toilet thing; the rest of them,well...0 -
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I fully acknowledge and expect to get some hate from this, but let me play devil's advocate a bit. It's not like he physically slept with anyone, did he? Granted, he broke your trust, but was talking to strangers on the internet explicitly forbidden or just left implied from when you got married? Does commenting on one of the many "Would you kiss/flirt message/date/marry, etc. the person above" threads count as cheating?
As was said earlier sending DP's and naked video's to other women isn't the same as 'talking to strangers on the internet'
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_har_T_Swallow wrote: »ericatoday wrote: »Yeah social media is one of the leading causes of divorce now. There's so many temptations and people are weak. I don't believe we were suppose to be made monogamous but someone along the way said its what we should do. I'm sorry he hurt you and I hope you stand strong.
Someone also along the way said we should: eat food with utensils rather than with our hands, use a toilet for urine and defecation and flush it, wear clothes when in public, refrain from gratuitously striking people when we feel angry, develop written languages and become literate in them, and not have sex openly in public places.
None of this comes naturally to humans per se, but it's learned in the course of the civilizing process. As is monogamy for the religions, cultures, and individuals that recognize value in it.
hol up wen dis happen?
Tuesday, I too missed the memo.2 -
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Motorsheen wrote: »ericatoday wrote: »Yeah social media is one of the leading causes of divorce now. There's so many temptations and people are weak. I don't believe we were suppose to be made monogamous but someone along the way said its what we should do. I'm sorry he hurt you and I hope you stand strong.
Someone also along the way said we should: eat food with utensils rather than with our hands, use a toilet for urine and defecation and flush it, wear clothes when in public, refrain from gratuitously striking people when we feel angry, develop written languages and become literate in them, and not have sex openly in public places.
None of this comes naturally to humans per se, but it's learned in the course of the civilizing process. As is monogamy for the religions, cultures, and individuals that recognize value in it.
At least I'm okay with the toilet thing; the rest of them,well...
Plus I think I've read that fewer people are getting married nowadays and that it's been declining for decades. Perhaps society doesn't value it as much anymore.0 -
ericatoday wrote: »Yeah social media is one of the leading causes of divorce now. There's so many temptations and people are weak. I don't believe we were suppose to be made monogamous but someone along the way said its what we should do. I'm sorry he hurt you and I hope you stand strong.
I hear ya. I don't think we are wired that way (monogamy) either, as far as the (meaningless) physical part. However, connecting and relying on one other person (as they connect and rely on you) is something that extremely difficult to build with more than one person. Sure you can have fleeting moments and good conversation with many people, but that's not exactly the same as the one person you can always count on (and live with without wanting to murder them for every stupid little thing...most of the time).1 -
ericatoday wrote: »Yeah social media is one of the leading causes of divorce now. There's so many temptations and people are weak. I don't believe we were suppose to be made monogamous but someone along the way said its what we should do. I'm sorry he hurt you and I hope you stand strong.
Someone also along the way said we should: eat food with utensils rather than with our hands, use a toilet for urine and defecation and flush it, wear clothes when in public, refrain from gratuitously striking people when we feel angry, develop written languages and become literate in them, and not have sex openly in public places.
None of this comes naturally to humans per se, but it's learned in the course of the civilizing process. As is monogamy for the religions, cultures, and individuals that recognize value in it.
Obviously, we didnt learn to well then did we. Even with them religions, cultures, and individuals you speak of. It was learned so people wouldnt kill each other because peeps get jealous and are controlling.
These religions you speak of, what kind of rights do women have in these religions typically??? Any??
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Motorsheen wrote: »Tayykisses wrote: »TannedTiger wrote: »STLBADGIRL wrote: »TannedTiger wrote: »Should have been putting out more and giving him more booty, admire his dick and body and I bet he won't be out there fooling around with other chicks.
It is so irrational to not give him what he wants and then be mad if he gets it elsewhere. Wake up Woman!
You are playing right? But I do hate the ego of a man
:grumble:
not playing, it happens time and time again..she needs to grab on to her husband and fulfill his needs even if she doesn't feel like it at times. Just like the man is supposed to take care of her needs.
You've got to be kidding me. Just because you aren't *kitten* 24/7 doesnt mean you should cheat. Everyone doesnt want or need sex ALL THE TIME.
Begs the question:
How much is too much?
And...
Not enough?
Or...
The right amount?
That's beside the point. If your partner isn't in the mood, they shouldnt feel like they NEED to satisfy you because they're afraid you're gonna go screw someone else. The problem with people is commitment. Apparently people don't understand their vows.1 -
_har_T_Swallow wrote: »ericatoday wrote: »Yeah social media is one of the leading causes of divorce now. There's so many temptations and people are weak. I don't believe we were suppose to be made monogamous but someone along the way said its what we should do. I'm sorry he hurt you and I hope you stand strong.
Someone also along the way said we should: eat food with utensils rather than with our hands, use a toilet for urine and defecation and flush it, wear clothes when in public, refrain from gratuitously striking people when we feel angry, develop written languages and become literate in them, and not have sex openly in public places.
None of this comes naturally to humans per se, but it's learned in the course of the civilizing process. As is monogamy for the religions, cultures, and individuals that recognize value in it.
hol up wen dis happen?
Can I have sex discreetly in public places?
.... like you need to ask1 -
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Tayykisses wrote: »TannedTiger wrote: »STLBADGIRL wrote: »TannedTiger wrote: »Should have been putting out more and giving him more booty, admire his dick and body and I bet he won't be out there fooling around with other chicks.
It is so irrational to not give him what he wants and then be mad if he gets it elsewhere. Wake up Woman!
You are playing right? But I do hate the ego of a man :grumble:
not playing, it happens time and time again..she needs to grab on to her husband and fulfill his needs even if she doesn't feel like it at times. Just like the man is supposed to take care of her needs.
You've got to be kidding me. Just because you aren't *kitten* 24/7 doesnt mean you should cheat. Everyone doesnt want or need sex ALL THE TIME.
When did TannedTiger say 24/7? He is right... if there isn't sexual contact, the relationship isn't going to work, I don't care what you say. Sex IS REQUIRED in a functioning relationship.0 -
adamgoleafs87 wrote: »I fully acknowledge and expect to get some hate from this, but let me play devil's advocate a bit. It's not like he physically slept with anyone, did he? Granted, he broke your trust, but was talking to strangers on the internet explicitly forbidden or just left implied from when you got married? Does commenting on one of the many "Would you kiss/flirt message/date/marry, etc. the person above" threads count as cheating?
As was said earlier sending DP's and naked video's to other women isn't the same as 'talking to strangers on the internet'
Is it really that different though? Because images are more intimate than communication?0 -
_har_T_Swallow wrote: »ericatoday wrote: »Yeah social media is one of the leading causes of divorce now. There's so many temptations and people are weak. I don't believe we were suppose to be made monogamous but someone along the way said its what we should do. I'm sorry he hurt you and I hope you stand strong.
Someone also along the way said we should: eat food with utensils rather than with our hands, use a toilet for urine and defecation and flush it, wear clothes when in public, refrain from gratuitously striking people when we feel angry, develop written languages and become literate in them, and not have sex openly in public places.
None of this comes naturally to humans per se, but it's learned in the course of the civilizing process. As is monogamy for the religions, cultures, and individuals that recognize value in it.
hol up wen dis happen?
Can I have sex discreetly in public places?
Of course, feel free to PM me for the meet-up spot, doll
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Tayykisses wrote: »TannedTiger wrote: »STLBADGIRL wrote: »TannedTiger wrote: »Should have been putting out more and giving him more booty, admire his dick and body and I bet he won't be out there fooling around with other chicks.
It is so irrational to not give him what he wants and then be mad if he gets it elsewhere. Wake up Woman!
You are playing right? But I do hate the ego of a man :grumble:
not playing, it happens time and time again..she needs to grab on to her husband and fulfill his needs even if she doesn't feel like it at times. Just like the man is supposed to take care of her needs.
You've got to be kidding me. Just because you aren't *kitten* 24/7 doesnt mean you should cheat. Everyone doesnt want or need sex ALL THE TIME.
Are we assuming that he is referring only to sex as a man's "needs"? I spent way too many years bending over backwards to meet my ex's needs and I couldn't even get her sit by me on the couch when we watched TV. For me that was a need. And no I didn't cheat because of it as that still doesn't make cheating right.1 -
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adamgoleafs87 wrote: »I fully acknowledge and expect to get some hate from this, but let me play devil's advocate a bit. It's not like he physically slept with anyone, did he? Granted, he broke your trust, but was talking to strangers on the internet explicitly forbidden or just left implied from when you got married? Does commenting on one of the many "Would you kiss/flirt message/date/marry, etc. the person above" threads count as cheating?
As was said earlier sending DP's and naked video's to other women isn't the same as 'talking to strangers on the internet'
...I feel like I'm not using the correct meaning for "DP" in the context this thread is using it... o_O3 -
LeGaCyGiAnT91 wrote: »Tayykisses wrote: »TannedTiger wrote: »STLBADGIRL wrote: »TannedTiger wrote: »Should have been putting out more and giving him more booty, admire his dick and body and I bet he won't be out there fooling around with other chicks.
It is so irrational to not give him what he wants and then be mad if he gets it elsewhere. Wake up Woman!
You are playing right? But I do hate the ego of a man :grumble:
not playing, it happens time and time again..she needs to grab on to her husband and fulfill his needs even if she doesn't feel like it at times. Just like the man is supposed to take care of her needs.
You've got to be kidding me. Just because you aren't *kitten* 24/7 doesnt mean you should cheat. Everyone doesnt want or need sex ALL THE TIME.
When did TannedTiger say 24/7? He is right... if there isn't sexual contact, the relationship isn't going to work, I don't care what you say. Sex IS REQUIRED in a functioning relationship.
Didn't say it wasn't. I'm married. I get that. But, if we were to go a few weeks and not have sex...I wouldnt go *kitten* someone else just because I needed some. LOYALTY. And if it's that bad, LEAVE. Don't cheat.4
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