Sex in your 20s compared to sex in your 30s ?

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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited August 2017
    cabronlobos wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    cabronlobos wrote: »
    My sex drive has never been higher.....I get it everyday :)........im hoping having a partner someday can only add to the fun ;)

    Lol..
    Reading through, so many are saying they have a super high sex drive..c'mon peeps someone has to be fibbing...lol

    Well since you chose to use my quote let me explain.....at least for myself....i am a very energetic and driven person in general. I am also very fit and extremely happy and satisfied at who I am as a person. I think this has a lot to do with really just enjoying all life has to offer. Sex is one of the most pleasurable things we can partake in.....if your mind and body is in a good place, why wouldn't you crave that what gives you extreme pleasure?

    Uhh no ..your reply was just the "lol" bit..the rest was just my observations, as I started with "reading through" I thought it was evident what I was talking about ..Sorry, I should have put a bigger gap between lol and then the rest of my observations.

    All I have to say to your further response is, I agree..Im also in a good place and the fittest Ive ever been and enjoy all the benefits, sexual and otherwise of that, ...just pointing out as a mum of 4 children, my sex drive took a back seat at different times when they were younger.
  • deputy_randolph
    deputy_randolph Posts: 940 Member
    I've been with my husband from age 20-37. There has been an increase all around; I credit it to the fact that we're done having kids...and he's been "neutered." No more pressure to have kids.
  • Aggressor04
    Aggressor04 Posts: 12 Member
    I've crossed into the 30's realm and have noticed the same. Like you, I've also shed some pounds. Starting to think it might be a bit of both. It's the body's way of saying "Aye we're getting a little older, lets get while the getting is good!"
  • BigDougie1211
    BigDougie1211 Posts: 3,531 Member
    I think the big difference is in your 20's you don't really have a clue what you're doing, but you'll do it ANYWAY.
    In your 30's, you'll still want it just as much, but you also know what it is you want.
  • Lone_wolf46
    Lone_wolf46 Posts: 2,709 Member
    Wait till you hit your 40's kids... wow!
  • BigDougie1211
    BigDougie1211 Posts: 3,531 Member
    Lone_wolf46 wrote: »
    Wait till you hit your 40's kids... wow!

    I got like, 3 months to go. Should I start gearing up?

  • ccruz985
    ccruz985 Posts: 646 Member
    Mine has actually dropped a lot since entering my thirties (I'm 31) but I also work a lot more now than I used to and have been on Depo for the last four years which I think are the culprits behind that.
  • Joanna2012B
    Joanna2012B Posts: 1,448 Member
    MEADOWS_FIT wrote: »
    I've been with the same girl for years. I'm not talking about sleeping around. I talking about sex drive.
    Obviously, being with someone for a long time will make you more comfortable. But, I've been in long term relationships before and it's never been like this. And maybe being fit as made me more confident? IDK.

    Being Fit definitely has something to do with it!!!! I have been with my hubby for 18 years, I am early 40's, he is late 40's. I started my fitness journey 3 years ago, he started earlier this year. His sex drive has increased A LOT!!!!!! I know sex is better than when I was in my 30's and 20's....looking forward to 50's!!
  • suffolkbobby
    suffolkbobby Posts: 14 Member
    Wait till you get to my age.......its just a memory....but you last a whole lot longer.
  • 3M_TA3
    3M_TA3 Posts: 1,036 Member
    My sex drive has decreased significantly...Seems the chloroform is not lasting as long on her so I have to find the nearest dark alley...
  • noirelb
    noirelb Posts: 216 Member
    It's about endorphins, much higher testosterone and confidence. All due to you now doing strength training. I'm always more sexually active when I weight less and am active.

    I'm also baffled by married people seriously flirting. Personal opinion.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    leut_underpants wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    cabronlobos wrote: »
    My sex drive has never been higher.....I get it everyday :)........im hoping having a partner someday can only add to the fun ;)

    Lol..
    Reading through, so many are saying they have a super high sex drive..c'mon peeps someone has to be fibbing...lol

    Ehhh, it's mfp. Everybody here is a 10 in looks with Wilt Chamberlain's sex drive. You expected what? :laugh:

    I will say that wife working has dented ours. Maybe not my own, but it's a collective thing anyway. I'm far more respectful of "I'm tired" than I used to be. If that means my testosterone is dropping, oh well. I thought it just meant I was less of an *kitten*. :bigsmile:

    :laugh: oops I forgot .

    Im sure you are less of a *kitten* :bigsmile:
  • Muscle_for_Fitness
    Muscle_for_Fitness Posts: 2,198 Member
    Mine has not gotten higher in my 30's but of course didn't have a lot of room to go higher to begin with.
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  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    edited August 2017
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    I've always had a high sex drive. I'm now in my mid 30s and the drive is just like it was in my 20s :)

    ^^ This. Friends of mine who are around the same age (either gender) have seen a decrease in theirs due to all sorts of factors. I, however, remain the same and my weight and/or physical fitness has never really affected it. **shrugs**
  • Tigg_er
    Tigg_er Posts: 22,001 Member
    Hell I can't remember my 20s
    or my 30's
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    _har_T_Swallow wrote: »
    no, mines the highest of any human being that ever existed its like i'm mount vesuvius

    Sounds messy.
  • Irontri7
    Irontri7 Posts: 143 Member
    More muscle mass = higher testosterone = increased libido
  • FireTurtle75
    FireTurtle75 Posts: 2,014 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Merrysailor5 wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    cabronlobos wrote: »
    My sex drive has never been higher.....I get it everyday :)........im hoping having a partner someday can only add to the fun ;)

    Lol..
    Reading through, so many are saying they have a super high sex drive..c'mon peeps someone has to be fibbing...lol

    mine is negative 10.... you're so right Jo!

    Yeah..I find it interesting, I mean I have a pretty strong sex drive..but then there were times when I was working 15 hours, a kid might be sick so I was up all night and I most definitely would have said to ex "if you touch me I'll hurt you" :laugh:
    That's pretty much the attitude I get every time I try anymore. It's getting pretty *kitten* old too. Bad thing is my drive is probably as high now as it was in my late teens & early 20's after going on the keto diet.
  • tcunbeliever
    tcunbeliever Posts: 8,219 Member
    I would like sex twice a day every day, and I've always been that way.

    My husband used to be up for every day, multiples on the weekends. That dropped off after about 42 years old. Now it's more like every other day, sometimes singles on the weekends, sometimes multiples. Though I have discovered that if I hit him up early in the day like right after work, then he's still good with every day. So, I think it's more of an energy level issue than a testosterone issue. He's just tired at night and wants to sleep.

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