Sex in your 20s compared to sex in your 30s ?

I'd say in picked up in my 30's part of that was confidence. Part was getting out of a bad marriage. But honestly at 49 it has not changed much since early 30's. I think it depends on the confidence you have in yourself and how you feel about the person you are with.

It's definitely higher for me at 35...
But I spent most of my 20s, out of shape and high
I'm a little wiser, ambitious, harder and a lot happier
But also more high strung and I guess irritated too

sw33tp3a1 wrote: »

slimgirljo15 wrote: »

cabronlobos wrote: »

My sex drive has never been higher.....I get it everyday ........im hoping having a partner someday can only add to the fun

Lol..
Reading through, so many are saying they have a super high sex drive..c'mon peeps someone has to be fibbing...lol

Okay fine.... I'm bs-ing. Y'all can stop sending me FR now

:laugh: lol..

jtegirl1 wrote: »

abetterme9366 wrote: »

Is there some correlation between the people with high sex drives and the people who aren't getting any? When I wasn't getting it regularly I wanted it non stop. Now that it's available to me whenever I want, sometimes I would just rather go to sleep.

This could be true, but I won't know for sure til I find someone. lol

I had a high sex drive from my late teens through my 20's. 30's I was married to a crappy husband and had a baby, sex drive was low to medium. Divorced at 44 and my sex drive went through the roof. I don't know if it's pre menopausal hormones or what, it could also correlate to when I've been in the best shape which was before my son and after my divorce.

good afternoon !

Ironandwine69 wrote: »

MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »

tjkita wrote: »

Booo, so you have a very low sex drive then?

You can always chase any of the other thirsty "omg-my-sex-drive-is-so-high-but-I-don't-get-any-from-my-partner" girls in here

I still have to meet a guy/man that doesn't think about sex half of the day.

only half of the day?


.... jeez, what would one think about the rest of the day?

I don't know any statistical result, thus I can only speak about my experience, and that shows nothing about a general trend, but only about my case

MEADOWS_FIT wrote: »

Alright everyone. Let's get serious for a second. My sex drive as increased dramatically in my 30s. I don't know if it's because I workout everyday or because I'm healthier or what but it's pretty surprising. I've always heard men peak in their mid 20s? Can anyone relate to this or am I just weird? Lol

I'm in my mid 20s, and it's at the lowest it's ever been. We'll see how it will be in 10 years, but I doubt it can really be any lower.

tlpina82 wrote: »

There's a correlation between insulin resistance and Testosterone binding, which means, fatter people are statistically more prone to have lower testosterone levels in the bloodstream.

I maintained a good level of fitness from 14 until an injury when I turned 30 and only after gaining weight, i saw a decrease in sex drive.

When the healing ended and the workouts pushed my metabolism up again, my favorite little guy has been like Trigonometry.

That's interesting, I've noticed the absolute opposite. Since I've started working out, and losing weight, I've seen the decrease. It was very high a long time ago (I was a 1 per day guy), but has been lower and lower with the years, and it's pretty much down to none now.

abetterme9366 wrote: »

Is there some correlation between the people with high sex drives and the people who aren't getting any? When I wasn't getting it regularly I wanted it non stop. Now that it's available to me whenever I want, sometimes I would just rather go to sleep.

And I also take exception from that. I've not got any in years, and the more time it's been, the less I want some

So much better in my 30s, and even better in my 40s. Although I need a chiropractor and a few stretches after these days lol.

the last time I had sex it was the best 45 seconds of my life.


when I 'came-to', I was expecting to see a beautiful woman; instead......well: