How to handle spouse/s.o who distracts you from dieting or going to the gym
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jcstevens86 wrote: »*kitten* is beginning to affect me...i dont work out alone....so i basically dont go if my gym partner dont go
You're a big boy... you can go on your own...1 -
Just stop being needy and thinking others must understand your motives, motivate yourself and kick your *kitten* man.1
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jcstevens86 wrote: »*kitten* is beginning to affect me...i dont work out alone....so i basically dont go if my gym partner dont go
Maybe learning to work out alone might be a good idea. If your wife doesn't want to go with you, can you find another partner? Or does that bother her?
As far as meals, make a list of things you can eat and hopefully she can adapt meals to suit both of you. Otherwise, you may need to be more flexible: eat smaller portions of what she makes sometimes and cook for yourself (and for her) other times.
Honest communication is important in every aspect of a relationship so keep discussing this until you can both find a happy medium.1 -
This is really a tough situation! Have you tried to sit her down and really explain to her why this is important to you and tell her exactly what you need/plan to do to make it happen? If you have, and she chooses not to be supportive, unfortunately your only choice is to just do what you gotta do and let her be mad. Hopefully she will get tired of the sulking at one point. In a previous relationship, I let myself get manipulated and guilted into breaking a diet again and again and again, and it was f*ing annoying, and wasted me a lot of time. So I know how you feel. Sorry.0
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smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »I cant wrap my head around why someone would even deal with that kimda *kitten*....he goes to the gym he is accused of cheating l.ao i think his girl wants him to stay over weight so no1 would want him idk
Had a feeling we’re suddenly be talking about “someone else”
Lmao you sure do like my posts dont you....you wanna be my friend huh
Do I get free whoppers & a mix tape if I say yes
Asking for a friend
Free whoppers sure ill buy you 1 and a mixtape sure why not ill make you 1 of those 2 give me a list of songs you want....hooe you aint rhinking i make music cuz i sound like a dyin goat when i sing and if your thinking i work at burger king nope wrong there 2 i dont like ppl enough to work fast food1 -
I'll go to the gym with you. What do you say? Planet Fitness. 4 am tonight. We'll stroll the treadmills together at a relaxing pace while holding hands and watching Fox on TV. Then we'll recline on the hydromassage beds. Afterwards, some purple Tootsie Rolls, a peck on the cheek, and we'll go our separate ways.
Negative im not with the homo stuff if you are cool not me tho0 -
jcstevens86 wrote: »smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »smut_muffin wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »I cant wrap my head around why someone would even deal with that kimda *kitten*....he goes to the gym he is accused of cheating l.ao i think his girl wants him to stay over weight so no1 would want him idk
Had a feeling we’re suddenly be talking about “someone else”
Lmao you sure do like my posts dont you....you wanna be my friend huh
Do I get free whoppers & a mix tape if I say yes
Asking for a friend
Free whoppers sure ill buy you 1 and a mixtape sure why not ill make you 1 of those 2 give me a list of songs you want....hooe you aint rhinking i make music cuz i sound like a dyin goat when i sing and if your thinking i work at burger king nope wrong there 2 i dont like ppl enough to work fast food
Will your partner allow you to buy a whopper for someone else though?
Also, how come you went from first to third person in your post?
Was as if you posted then your spouse posted
Wot1 -
TeacupsAndToning wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »I cant wrap my head around why someone would even deal with that kimda *kitten*....he goes to the gym he is accused of cheating l.ao i think his girl wants him to stay over weight so no1 would want him idk
ummmmm
I second that "Wot?" and it actually made me lol for reasons
For great reasons
U wot m8?1 -
jcstevens86 wrote: »I'll go to the gym with you. What do you say? Planet Fitness. 4 am tonight. We'll stroll the treadmills together at a relaxing pace while holding hands and watching Fox on TV. Then we'll recline on the hydromassage beds. Afterwards, some purple Tootsie Rolls, a peck on the cheek, and we'll go our separate ways.
Negative im not with the homo stuff if you are cool not me tho
All you have to do is say no homo, everyone knows this.1 -
jcstevens86 wrote: »I'll go to the gym with you. What do you say? Planet Fitness. 4 am tonight. We'll stroll the treadmills together at a relaxing pace while holding hands and watching Fox on TV. Then we'll recline on the hydromassage beds. Afterwards, some purple Tootsie Rolls, a peck on the cheek, and we'll go our separate ways.
Negative im not with the homo stuff if you are cool not me tho
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Lmao so what are yall the talk *kitten* to new members click.....yall gonna have to try alot harder to annoy me...sorry for the untimely responses give me about an hr to get home from work and i can respond faster0
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jcstevens86 wrote: »Lmao so what are yall the talk *kitten* to new members click.....yall gonna have to try alot harder to annoy me...sorry for the untimely responses give me about an hr to get home from work and i can respond faster
People actually tried to help you ITT
But you're one confusing young chap
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smut_muffin wrote: »ManBehindTheMask wrote: »jcstevens86 wrote: »Lmao so what are yall the talk *kitten* to new members click.....yall gonna have to try alot harder to annoy me...sorry for the untimely responses give me about an hr to get home from work and i can respond faster
People actually tried to help you ITT
But you're one confusing young thug
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