How can anyone find Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss sexy?

People are saying how the OP is jealous. Can HE be jealous, considering HE's a HE?

I'm not saying that the sentiment wasn't a nasty one though.

i guess everyones different, but the way my hubby looks at me when the kids go to bed tells me i'm sexy :blushing: and every woman will find someone who looks at her that way, whatever her external appearance x

Beautiful.

This stems from jealousy, whether you acknowledge that to yourself, publicly or stay in denial. You may honestly not wish to be THAT skinny yourself however, the anti-twiggy-celebrity mentality comes from the fact that most 'regular' people feel their body could never reach those levels and in most cases, that is true.

My 'anit-twiggy-celebrity mentaility' comes from one LONG semester of Women's Studies at the collegiate level (which I received an A in) tehe Yet, I do understand that some insecure women feel this way based on their self-perception, and also that their self-image is usually skewed as a result of imposed patriarchal expectations.

I have a daughter, and I am PRAYING the standard of publicized beauty is shifted to a more attainable shape as she becomes an adolescent. A little WS trivia for you, only 5% of the female population have the body stats of models & celebrities with model-like structures. This opens up various issues for the rest of the 95% of females attempting to look like the women we see everywhere, from disordered eating to depression. I say that's grounds for beauty spectral broadening :flowerforyou:

This stems from jealousy, whether you acknowledge that to yourself, publicly or stay in denial. You may honestly not wish to be THAT skinny yourself however, the anti-twiggy-celebrity mentality comes from the fact that most 'regular' people feel their body could never reach those levels and in most cases, that is true.

My 'anit-twiggy-celebrity mentaility' comes from one LONG semester of Women's Studies at the collegiate level (which I received an A in) tehe Yet, I do understand that some insecure women feel this way based on their self-perception, and also that there self-image is usually skewed as a result of imposed patriarchal expectations.

I have a daughter, and I am PRAYING the standard of publicized beauty is shifted to a more attainable shape as she becomes an adolescent. A little WS trivia for you, only 5% of the female population have the body stats of models & celebrities with model-like structures. This opens up various issues for the rest of the 95% of females attempting to look like the women we see everywhere, from disordered eating to depression. I say that's grounds for beauty spectral broadening :flowerforyou:

by the same standards, maybe we shouldnt have good actors as role models, because most of the population cant act for toffee. Probably shouldnt have good lawyers or scientists or anything. in fact, lets pretend that EVERYONE is as good at everything as everyone else.

We cant have everything we want, and i think THATS the real problem people have trouble with grasping.
I never have, and never will look like a supermodel. Do i hate them for it, and think they should only have models of MY level of attractiveness? No. I dont look like a model or a pornstar and thats ok, because im not one.
Im not as clever as a top scientist. oh well, I dont need to be.

Wheres the challenge or whats the beauty or joy in being elite for something if its attainable by all

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Real women have curves!

Real women come in all shapes and sizes and colors.

So why are you looking to these people, because society has given them some label? You want sexy...have confidence in who you are...that is sexy!
....and to answer the question I do not find them sexy, attractive but no thanks.

This is kind of a silly topic... some people think Jenna Jamison is the epitome of a sexy woman and some kill for a night with Oprah Winfrey. Everyone has their own ideas as to what is physically attractive in a woman. But personally, I agree second MFPer I quoted here: having confidence in who you are is probably the sexiest attribute a woman can have! Over the years, our particular society has changed its mind on what kind of womanly figure is sexy on a whole several times over the past century. So many attributes that were sexy 30 years ago are not as desirable now and vice versa many attributes that are vogue now, aren't so sexy to those who've been around since the last 30 years. So my question is: why is there a need to criticize what people find sexy now or at any other point in time? It's purely subjective anyways and has no bearing (in my opinion) on how sexy I can be.

This stems from jealousy, whether you acknowledge that to yourself, publicly or stay in denial. You may honestly not wish to be THAT skinny yourself however, the anti-twiggy-celebrity mentality comes from the fact that most 'regular' people feel their body could never reach those levels and in most cases, that is true.

My 'anit-twiggy-celebrity mentaility' comes from one LONG semester of Women's Studies at the collegiate level (which I received an A in) tehe Yet, I do understand that some insecure women feel this way based on their self-perception, and also that there self-image is usually skewed as a result of imposed patriarchal expectations.

I have a daughter, and I am PRAYING the standard of publicized beauty is shifted to a more attainable shape as she becomes an adolescent. A little WS trivia for you, only 5% of the female population have the body stats of models & celebrities with model-like structures. This opens up various issues for the rest of the 95% of females attempting to look like the women we see everywhere, from disordered eating to depression. I say that's grounds for beauty spectral broadening :flowerforyou:

by the same standards, maybe we shouldnt have good actors as role models, because most of the population cant act for toffee. Probably shouldnt have good lawyers or scientists or anything. in fact, lets pretend that EVERYONE is as good at everything as everyone else.

We cant have everything we want, and i think THATS the real problem people have trouble with grasping.
I never have, and never will look like a supermodel. Do i hate them for it, and think they should only have models of MY level of attractiveness? No. I dont look like a model or a pornstar and thats ok, because im not one.
Im not as clever as a top scientist. oh well, I dont need to be.

Wheres the challenge or whats the beauty or joy in being elite for something if its attainable by all

Yes, that's a darwinistic approach lol. But on a serious note, of COURSE we need examples of the best, (educationally, forms of talent, etc.).

In no way am I saying let's glorify being morbidly obese, let's get real and less sarcastic. However, in terms of something as personal as one's body size, the only standard placed should be health-related. For my child, I'd like her to see billboards of fit, average sized women.

How can anyone find anyone sexy?

It is also annoying to automatically assume skinny people don't eat (I have been guilty of this in the past) My little sister is nicknamed "Stick chick" because she is tiny. She eats. I've had skinny friends that ate more than me and wished they could gain a little bit of weight but for whatever reason can't.

And the real women have curves junk...ALL women have curves just some are more curvy than others. I have never seen a body that was completely curve less. (even Kate Moss and Victoria Beckham have friggin curves!) :explode:

It is all about confidence and being comfortable in your own skin...when you can do that...you can appreciate everyone's beauty no matter what shape or size. :flowerforyou:


And that being said...some people think Vin Diesel is sexy :ohwell: ...I do not. Does that mean muscular guys aren't sexy? No.

I personally think Victoria and Kate fit into the Most Beautiful In The World category for me. I love them and their delicate figures.

I also love Kate Winslet and Catherine Zeta Jones too. They're beautiful.

I love a nice model look though.

For some reason I do NOT like Megan Fox. At all.

I dont know about sexy, but I saw a picture of Victoria with her newborn baby, Mom had no make up on. It was such a beautiful picture.

For some reason I do NOT like Megan Fox. At all.

It's her face. It's .... weird. It took me a long time to finally figure out what it was that made me think she was fugly. The face.

I think Megan Fox's face and body are just fine, quite lovely really, but I don't like HER. Just an undefinable something about her that makes me want to slap her.

Maybe she needs to appear on Ellen. Every celebrity I've ever seen on Ellen immediately seemed more likable to me. Even Mike Tyson... I saw an interview with him a while back and thought, "What a cool, down to earth guy!"

How can anyone find Victoria Beckham and Kate Moss sexy?

Bones ! Bones!

I know I do.....just cause you dont

This stems from jealousy, whether you acknowledge that to yourself, publicly or stay in denial. You may honestly not wish to be THAT skinny yourself however, the anti-twiggy-celebrity mentality comes from the fact that most 'regular' people feel their body could never reach those levels and in most cases, that is true.

My 'anit-twiggy-celebrity mentaility' comes from one LONG semester of Women's Studies at the collegiate level (which I received an A in) tehe Yet, I do understand that some insecure women feel this way based on their self-perception, and also that there self-image is usually skewed as a result of imposed patriarchal expectations.

I have a daughter, and I am PRAYING the standard of publicized beauty is shifted to a more attainable shape as she becomes an adolescent. A little WS trivia for you, only 5% of the female population have the body stats of models & celebrities with model-like structures. This opens up various issues for the rest of the 95% of females attempting to look like the women we see everywhere, from disordered eating to depression. I say that's grounds for beauty spectral broadening :flowerforyou:

by the same standards, maybe we shouldnt have good actors as role models, because most of the population cant act for toffee. Probably shouldnt have good lawyers or scientists or anything. in fact, lets pretend that EVERYONE is as good at everything as everyone else.

We cant have everything we want, and i think THATS the real problem people have trouble with grasping.
I never have, and never will look like a supermodel. Do i hate them for it, and think they should only have models of MY level of attractiveness? No. I dont look like a model or a pornstar and thats ok, because im not one.
Im not as clever as a top scientist. oh well, I dont need to be.

Wheres the challenge or whats the beauty or joy in being elite for something if its attainable by all

Yes, that's a darwinistic approach lol. But on a serious note, of COURSE we need examples of the best, (educationally, forms of talent, etc.).

In no way am I saying let's glorify being morbidly obese, let's get real and less sarcastic. However, in terms of something as personal as one's body size, the only standard placed should be health-related. For my child, I'd like her to see billboards of fit, average sized women.

i dunno, average looking women dont inspire me, and its not gonna make me want to go out and buy a dress or something if its advertised by some average looking average sized chick
The reason thin glamourous looking women are used to model stuff is because it works. It makes people wanna buy the product.
it inspires people and makes them want that lifestyle

Posh - no
Kate Moss - let me see. Do I find Kate Moss attractive and would like to do nasty things to her with chocolate flavoured body paint and fluffy handcuffs. Let me see...



Well, what do you think?

Is that flavored body paint low cal?

LOL! That's hilarious but I don't know if all that plastic looks "healthier."