Is the idea that we should gain just a little as we age a fallacy?
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Also, if I could be pedantic for a moment though
isn't there a difference between vanity lbs and being overweight? And isn't there a difference between "it's bad to be underweight" and "it's good to be a bit overweight"?
At 5'4 I have been maintaining at @ 125 which is right around the middle of the healthy weight range for my height. If I dropped all the way down to 110, that would be underweight and probably not the best place to be in my 70s if longevity is a goal. But I could gain 10 vanity lbs putting me at 135 and still not be "overweight".
I'd also guess older folks who are in fact overweight would be more likely to take to heart the idea that the extra weight is protective, simply because it sounds better than "I never figured out how to lose it like I wanted to"
Most of the stuff that I've read addresses BF% rather than weight with higher levels of BF% being ideal as we age, but they're all still in the healthy BF% range and not overly fat.
Here's the chart that was created using the research done by Jackson and Pollock...
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This link was posted earlier in the thread:
http://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/older-adults-build-muscle-and-271651
I'm kind of wondering how many people read it.
The lead paragraph says:
"New UCLA research suggests that the more muscle mass older Americans have, the less likely they are to die prematurely. The findings add to the growing evidence that overall body composition — and not the widely used body mass index, or BMI — is a better predictor of all-cause mortality."
The study abstract conclusion statement is:
"This study demonstrates the survival predication ability of relative muscle mass and highlights the need to look beyond total body mass in assessing the health of older adults."4 -
If there is a fallacy, it's the notion that older people will necessarily live longer if they weigh more.
My opinion on this issue is based on watching both of my parents age and die (my father died at 89 and my mother at 101) is that you not only become less active and exercise less and are more likely to gain weight, as you age from your 60-80's, BUT that, as you age from your 80's to 100+, you become even more sedentary (which results in the further loss of strength and fitness that makes you even more sedentary) AND lose your appetite (which causes you to lose weight resulting in a lack of nutrition that further endangers your health and fitness) that results in a gradually increasing rate of physical and mental deterioration that finds you 1st in a walker, then in a wheel chair, then bed ridden and ultimately dead.
The "assisted living" caretakers I met who cared for my mother over 10+ years b4 her death saw this happen to everyone who resided in their facilities.
It is the later course of aging, usually at 70+, where you will see most seniors lose weight due to lack of activity and appetite and this is why I believe that some people (especially medical and health care professions who see this most often) think that it's "better" for seniors to carry more weight than less.
However, assuming a "normal" level of activity and appetite, there is no reason why a senior cannot remain healthy and fit and have a normal (if not longer) life expectancy by maintaining his/her weight at a "normal" (neither under or over weight) level.
For me personally, at age 67, I really don't want to go out the way my parents did and it is my personal experience watching them age and die which motivates me to stay fit and healthy.
Based on my parents, I expect to live into my 90's. Will I be able to be as active, fit and healthy as I am now?
Unlikely but my primary goal will simply be to retain my independence by maintaining my ability to walk, drive and think for myself. There are some people in their 90's who are capable of doing that and I hope to be one of them.
However, if there's, any danger of me ending up in a wheelchair and bedridden for YEARS and YEARS, like my mother and an aunt b4 they died, I'll probably take the matter into my own hands and opt for assisted suicide so that I can go out w/dignity on my own terms.8 -
Ann, I have heard fairly often that a few extra pounds in old age are better than being underweight. Like you, I can’t recall the source, EXCEPT for my friend the nurse.
Her observation is also, obviously, anecdotal, but she believes the older folks who are carrying that ‘vanity’ weight (that is if she saw them outside the hospital she’d say they could lose a little weight but didn’t really need to) come through most of the hospital stays better than the overweight/obese or the people that are lower weight (the ones she would recommend To NOT lose any weight.). I asked her about lean folks with lots of muscle and she said most of the folks she sees in the hospital are NOT fit and working out so she has no opinion or relevant observation.
Your source (your nurse friend) is certainly more informed/insightful anecdotally than anything I might notice. I do wonder what the effect is of being older, fit and working out, since that is the non-visible segment.
I'm sure part of it is that that group is statistically fairly small. But, again, only based subjectively on looking at people around me, I suspect that older/fit people spend less time in the hospital, relatively speaking, for two reasons: (1) fewer procedures needed, and (2) shorter stays for any given behavior.
Sample of my anecdata ( ):
One of the fittest older guys I know is 72, quite thin but very strong. As a lifelong athlete, he's starting to have some joint issues despite being thin. After a morning knee replacement surgery last Fall, they took him to PT in the afternoon, and told him "when you can get up these steps, you can go home". He said "like this?", went up the steps, and they sent him home that day: Effectively, he had knee replacement as an outpatient surgery. In February, he unfortunately contracted sepsis consequent to a respiratory infection. His doctors told his wife that if he were not so fit, he would have died. A couple of weeks ago, still much thinner than he'd prefer post-sepsis, he had to have a hip joint re-replaced (it had popped out 4 times over the year since it was put in, and this time they couldn't get it back in). They sent him straight from the doctor's office in the morning to surgery that same day, and he was back at home the following day. He's recovering well at home, starting to get around pretty well and return to routine activities, though not yet back to athletic pursuits.
An obese friend of mine (I'd guess close to 300 pounds at around 5'8", age 65) had hip replacement a year or so ago. She was in the hospital for several days, then in a rehab facility for a couple of weeks, and struggled with daily life for some time after that. She's been through other surgeries in the last year or so, too, including some for conditions more likely when obese; all of them had difficult recoveries; one had an abdominal incision that infected then failed to heal for several months.
Now, I'd rather have none of those problems, but, watching both of them, the guy definitely has spent less time in the hospital, and was back to normal faster.
Ryen, this is not intended to dispute anything you're saying: I think what you're saying is insightful and useful. I'm just continuing the thread conversation by talking about a couple of the people I've observed in my own life that have led me to be where I am as I think about what weight I want to be as I age, how much value I should put on working out, etc. But it's just anecdotes.2 -
AnnPT77: Being at the time 34yrs ago! Being Married, with 2 kids, and one day your in the car with your husband and he turns his head and remarks! I wish you had Big booobs like she does~ You take it as a joke, then he turns his head and says, I like a size C at least~ Smart assss me remarks~ Well if you want them then go get a apair like my mother did who went from a size A to a size C+ all because she was vain. See these JOKES years later after going from a size 101lbs at 21yrs old to 187 with "our child in my tummy". to not once but twice~ Then losing weight and staying at a avrage of 123lbs or so. The point is "what the heck did he see in me if his images of a women was nothing like me". I was thin and tall, Bcup, With long brown hair and big brown eyes. If he knows this was not what he wanted then why?
After Therpy and lots of talking about his, he was putting me in his place as a wife, keeping me "HIS". Insults in a hidden fashion, keeps a women for 35yrs in the house taking care of kids and grandkids, and everyone elses kids. To strip the Beauty that you loved about your Girlfriend but is she is beautiful all the time you could or might or will lose her to another person. But in the end he realized I was not his type and found another 7 yrs older! That is what he gets for dating young girls that are 4 to 8yrs younger. He needed a Mother Figure and I could not fill those shoes. This is why I went from a size 101 at 21yrs old to a size 210lbs with in a 12yrs. It's the little hidden words with in the meanings that play on the mind for years. So to make that wish come true it took me to gain weight, and gain weight so I would be a size C+. The sad thing is now that he had it he hated that I was FAT~ I became a person he no longer wanted to show off to his friends. "LOOK THIS IS MY BEAUTIFUL WIFE". Now it was to hide me in the house and not take me any where.
But Phycoligists see to wake a person up and tell them how wonderful they are and Mine was the BEST! I got strong and I got a personality that stook up and that is when he walked out the door knowing "I WILL NOT TAKE IT ANYLONGER". Later it took a friend to tell me it's his loss, he lost his wife and child because he could not be happy with what he had! That was a kind thing to say! Think my adult weight gain was all because "my husband wanted me to have boobs". Now how funny is that~ Boobs caused me to become FAT~6 -
WinoGelato wrote: »I used to believe that’s just what happens as you get older, have kids, etc. I used it as a convenient excuse for 10+ years as to why my weight was creeping up and why it wasn’t worth trying to lose weight, I figured it would be a futile exercise.
Then I found MFP, decided to give weight loss a serious go, learned about CICO, NEAT and my TDEE, figured out that not only could I lose weight I could do so while becoming more fit and active, so that I actually eat more now that I’ve lost weight than I did 30 lbs ago because I’m so much more active.
So now at 43 I weigh less than I did when I was 23, and I’m in better shape than I was at any point post college (I was a competitive gymnast and cheerleader in high school and college so I don’t actually aspire to that as a weight/body type).
So yes I think it’s a bit of a fallacy and a bit of a convenient excuse for why women in particular put on weight as they get older. There are plenty of badass women in their 40s, 50s and 60s on this site who are fit and active and have achieved these goals later in life, some like @AnnPT77 and @GottaBurnEmAll already posting here but also @middlehaitch and @LivingtheLeanDream also come to mind.
@winogelato and you could/should have quoted yourself too there because you rock 
Thanks btw, I have a huge grin plastered on my face currently. You have made my day
OP I was a bit like @winogelato too, thought being a bit older it was par for the course to let myself slip into that middle aged spread sort of thinking. I'm so glad I found MFP in 2012, (I ended up being fed up trying to hide a muffin top and having chubby cheeks and chubby everythin!) I haven't looked back since.
I think its probably best [for me] not to get too thin. My aim is to keep as much muscle mass and retain bone density as best I can and to do that means lifting heavy things
Ruth
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AnnPT77: Being at the time 34yrs ago! Being Married, with 2 kids, and one day your in the car with your husband and he turns his head and remarks! I wish you had Big booobs like she does~ You take it as a joke, then he turns his head and says, I like a size C at least~ Smart assss me remarks~ Well if you want them then go get a apair like my mother did who went from a size A to a size C+ all because she was vain. See these JOKES years later after going from a size 101lbs at 21yrs old to 187 with "our child in my tummy". to not once but twice~ Then losing weight and staying at a avrage of 123lbs or so. The point is "what the heck did he see in me if his images of a women was nothing like me". I was thin and tall, Bcup, With long brown hair and big brown eyes. If he knows this was not what he wanted then why?
After Therpy and lots of talking about his, he was putting me in his place as a wife, keeping me "HIS". Insults in a hidden fashion, keeps a women for 35yrs in the house taking care of kids and grandkids, and everyone elses kids. To strip the Beauty that you loved about your Girlfriend but is she is beautiful all the time you could or might or will lose her to another person. But in the end he realized I was not his type and found another 7 yrs older! That is what he gets for dating young girls that are 4 to 8yrs younger. He needed a Mother Figure and I could not fill those shoes. This is why I went from a size 101 at 21yrs old to a size 210lbs with in a 12yrs. It's the little hidden words with in the meanings that play on the mind for years. So to make that wish come true it took me to gain weight, and gain weight so I would be a size C+. The sad thing is now that he had it he hated that I was FAT~ I became a person he no longer wanted to show off to his friends. "LOOK THIS IS MY BEAUTIFUL WIFE". Now it was to hide me in the house and not take me any where.
But Phycoligists see to wake a person up and tell them how wonderful they are and Mine was the BEST! I got strong and I got a personality that stook up and that is when he walked out the door knowing "I WILL NOT TAKE IT ANYLONGER". Later it took a friend to tell me it's his loss, he lost his wife and child because he could not be happy with what he had! That was a kind thing to say! Think my adult weight gain was all because "my husband wanted me to have boobs". Now how funny is that~ Boobs caused me to become FAT~
Not on topic to this thread, but my story is near opposite: Obesity probably contributed to my getting breast cancer (stage III, so fairly advanced) at age 44. Breast cancer led to my having no breasts at all from age 44 to current (62). So, you could say that fat caused me to have no boobs. (My husband "left" before any of that . . . esophageal cancer when he was 45 (he was slim & fit, BTW).)
Nowadays, I'm very lucky to be here, and able to look at aging as a gift I don't want to waste.
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a mistaken belief, especially one based on unsound argument. I think it has a lot to do with this site, Only because as we get older many people have made commits over the years about us and how we should look, or feel.
After my husband was no longer in my life, I got to become "ME". As you can see in my Picture I just posted, This was me in 2008 one year out of cancer! just weeks away from getting my teeth pulled all 18 of them. Cancer can destroy the body. From this size 5# at 46yrs old, my world turned up side down. Every year after i just kept gaining weight. I didn't see a need to care any more, I was never going to get married, or date anyone, I changed and not for the best. I lost a lot of hair, no teeth, not really a image someone wants to date~ I understood my role in life.
I am sorry for your Breast Cancer, I had a wonderful neighbor growing up in the early 70 who babysitted me and she had it also. I am also sorry about your husband. Mine could not deal with what was happening to my body changing, we didn't know 10yrs prior the outcome of all those medical bills and dr vistis why I was sick for so long.
I don't want to go to Heaven FAT~ So I want to lose weight, I don't know how long I have with Alzhimers but I can say their is no cure and most only have 3 to 7yrs some are lucky they get 10.
So at 57 on Thursday, I don't know if I will see 67yrs old. All I get is $147.00 for S.s. so not really looking forward to thouse Great YEARS! That does not even pay for food for a month. I have to live with my daughter to survive.
This is a lot of stress and in stress weight gain sits at the devils table waiting for me to slip up. This week my daugther bought Bom Boms and put it on my side of the freezer. It took all I had to remove them and put them in the deep freezer so am not tempeted. Bom Boms was what my husband gave me for my birthday every year.
I think everything, everythought, every emotion or fealings have to do with gaining weight. If we loved ourselves and we were "HAPPY" we would not be here. We are all trying to find a cure because the Doctors have not found one for us or our thinking, or actions.4 -
LivingtheLeanDream wrote: »WinoGelato wrote: »I used to believe that’s just what happens as you get older, have kids, etc. I used it as a convenient excuse for 10+ years as to why my weight was creeping up and why it wasn’t worth trying to lose weight, I figured it would be a futile exercise.
Then I found MFP, decided to give weight loss a serious go, learned about CICO, NEAT and my TDEE, figured out that not only could I lose weight I could do so while becoming more fit and active, so that I actually eat more now that I’ve lost weight than I did 30 lbs ago because I’m so much more active.
So now at 43 I weigh less than I did when I was 23, and I’m in better shape than I was at any point post college (I was a competitive gymnast and cheerleader in high school and college so I don’t actually aspire to that as a weight/body type).
So yes I think it’s a bit of a fallacy and a bit of a convenient excuse for why women in particular put on weight as they get older. There are plenty of badass women in their 40s, 50s and 60s on this site who are fit and active and have achieved these goals later in life, some like @AnnPT77 and @GottaBurnEmAll already posting here but also @middlehaitch and @LivingtheLeanDream also come to mind.
@winogelato and you could/should have quoted yourself too there because you rock Thanks btw, I have a huge grin plastered on my face currently. You have made my day
OP I was a bit like @winogelato too, thought being a bit older it was par for the course to let myself slip into that middle aged spread sort of thinking. I'm so glad I found MFP in 2012, (I ended up being fed up trying to hide a muffin top and having chubby cheeks and chubby everythin!) I haven't looked back since.
I think its probably best [for me] not to get too thin. My aim is to keep as much muscle mass and retain bone density as best I can and to do that means lifting heavy things
Ruth
I still remember the sting of being told I had middle aged spread when I was 13 years old by the school nurse.
That was 43 years ago. Good thing I weigh 15 pounds less now than I did then!6 -
cwolfman13 wrote: »Also, if I could be pedantic for a moment though isn't there a difference between vanity lbs and being overweight? And isn't there a difference between "it's bad to be underweight" and "it's good to be a bit overweight"?
At 5'4 I have been maintaining at @ 125 which is right around the middle of the healthy weight range for my height. If I dropped all the way down to 110, that would be underweight and probably not the best place to be in my 70s if longevity is a goal. But I could gain 10 vanity lbs putting me at 135 and still not be "overweight".
I'd also guess older folks who are in fact overweight would be more likely to take to heart the idea that the extra weight is protective, simply because it sounds better than "I never figured out how to lose it like I wanted to"
Most of the stuff that I've read addresses BF% rather than weight with higher levels of BF% being ideal as we age, but they're all still in the healthy BF% range and not overly fat.
Here's the chart that was created using the research done by Jackson and Pollock...
Love the chart; love, love, love! I am 59 and the admittedly suspect handheld device said I am 20.5%. I am planning to drop another 5 from my current weight, which I have been maintaining at and one reason is to get under 20%. The chart isn't convincing me not to do that though; thee is also a small amount of fat hangin around just above the beltline that I hope is affected (I know I can't spot reduce, but it is the last really obvious spot).0 -
When my mom's cancer went to her brain, we (reluctantly) put her in a nursing home. Her roommate was a very large woman - 300+#. Staff had to use a cherry picker to get her in and out of the bed and into a wheelchair. Why, oh why, would anyone say it is better to gain weight in our golden years?4
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YOU just said a MOUTH FULL! I don't want to be a women 300lbs! I don't know what my kids will do with me when I get really bad with Alzhimers, hell they could just throw me on the streets? I don't want to be that women that is carried out in a streacher. You can see my picture in 2008 163lbs I was happy, and I am going to look like this again by the end of Next YEAR! Death or Diet? Call it what ever you want I lose both ways regardless. I have a time stamp on my forhead. "NO CURE". I'm 3 yrs in and most only live to 7yrs.
Seven Stages of Alzheimer's
Stage 1: No impairment.
Stage 2: Very mild decline.
Stage 3: Mild decline.
Stage 4: Moderate decline. [2015diagnosed with stage 4 (coconut) has dropped this to stage 2# 2018]
Stage 5: Moderately severe decline.
Stage 6: Severe decline.
Stage 7: Very severe decline. "DEATH" I will be 163 lbs regardless~8 -
Is the idea that we should gain just a little as we age a fallacy?
You might think thata person who reflect on themself as a 300-pound that it would be with disdain or pity. Hell no. The longer one is thin, though, the more the miss the gifts of living in a body so big that people often turned away. It may sound strange to some, but here are five things some miss about the old, obese self:
1. Power
Being fat gave them natural physical strength. As a thin person, One has to go out of there way to be strong. Despite daily strength training oneis nowhere near as powerful as they used to be. Once upon a time they could confidently lift a couch into and out of a moving truck (a U-Haul, not a truck in motion — being fat never did give anyone super powers). Today, most labor under the weight of heavy things. They miss the natural, organic strength that they used to take for granted, the sheer power born of moving under the weight of ones own fat day after day.
2. Comfort
At bedtime one can lie down in a sea of pillows. A husband/ or wife might laughs at them, but one needs all those pillows because one has spent most of their life in a large, soft body. When they are lying on there side, the feeling of knee bone on knee bone is enough to keep them up all night; Most hug a pillow to compensate for the generous expanse of tummy the arms are used to rest on. They haven’t slept on there stomach in over a decade because they lost the nice, round belly that softened the space between my spine and the bed. Also, they could write a whole post about how awful it feels to sit on a hard surface with a bony butt. Tail bones and hard seats: never the two should meet.
3. Perspective
When one is fat they understood that most weight changes are fleeting and insignificant. At 300 pounds, they wore clothes forgiving enough to accommodate ten pounds lost or gained, so they didn’t think much of it. Sadly, some going from a size 6 to an 8 can make them nuts in a way that going from a size 26 to a 28 just never did. They miss the freedom they once had from noticing and obsessing over Every. Single. Pound.
For some obese woman they experience the world every day in a body that was judged, undervalued, demonized, mocked, feared, despised, and avoided. Those awful experiences gave them more empathy, more character, more personality, and a broader, richer and more inclusive perspective than lifelong thinness ever could have (back off, deep and interesting lifelong-skinny women — I’m speaking for all of us here). They also have a much more meaningful appreciation for my health and the body they have today, and they sure as hell will never take it for granted. Not to mention the deep respect they automatically have for every person they meet who doesn’t fit the (white, straight, middle-class, able-bodied) mold.
4. Friendships
Starting and maintaining friendships was easier whensome are fat. Women/men rarely see themselves as a rival and are less self-conscious than they are around others in today's society. One's larger body can make it easier for other peers to let their guard down and be themselves. Because they felt less-than when they were fat, some was way more forgiving and accommodating, and others often edited themself for maximum social appeal.
Friendships today are more likely to feel prepiered with insecurities. Confident and candid, strong and outspoken, today many represent the real them, and, at times, ruffle the feathers of the sort of people they spent their early life catering to. The friendships that remains require real, sometimes uncomfortable heart-to-heart discussions, and true open-mindedness; they can be exhausting. When they had a long, hard day, they miss the easy, comparatively effortless friendships of yesteryear.
5. Presence
Finally, there’s the weird disconnect between the size of one in our minds and the size of everone else — The physical body — in the world. The “me” in our brains is big. There voice is big. There feelings are big. There attitude is big. Ten years ago, all that bigness was reflected in everyones body — fat, round, impossible to miss. Now, everyones personality and everyones body feel mismatched, like ones mind is walking around in shoes several sizes too small. They miss feeling like a cohesive whole. They miss inhabiting the grander space they once did.4 -
I’m 63, 5’2” and 129. In high school I vacillated between 120 and 135. A few years ago I got down to 121, my GW. I still had belly fat. I never had it at that weight in college. I’m active and have always worked out.
My point is that it was frustrating to see pudge at 121. I’m less gaunt and wrinkly at around 125 so that’s my new goal. Maintaining my weight has been a lifelong project. It isn’t easy!4 -
I don't think we need to go out of our way to gain weight, but having a 'bumper'/not being a super low BMI exists for a reason.
I'm 29 and in the last year I've had an emergent appendectomy and my father died. It took 7lbs from me I didn't really have to lose. I'm 5'11ish and I went from 145 > 138 > currently 140.
To go through all that when I'm older but without the bolster of youth? I don't know if I would have made it out as well as I did. It's not to say I agree with gaining 20lbs and calling it 'health', I just think that we should be careful about where we situate ourselves in terms of our body composition.0 -
gosh.. i don;t sit around thinking...'i'm getting older, i want to put on weight so if i get sick i won't waste away.' that is so odd to me. i notice how most people get larger as they get older..especially famous actors..like 'angie dickinson ..tom hanks, dan aykroyd...and so on. i started thinking that gaining weight was a fact of life.
However, i don't want to be like that..therefore..here i am almost at goal. my overall goal is to not swell and puff up as i age. i do think maintaining muscle mass ..stregnth and balance are key as we age.3 -
elisa123gal wrote: »gosh.. i don;t sit around thinking...'i'm getting older, i want to put on weight so if i get sick i won't waste away.' that is so odd to me. i notice how most people get larger as they get older..especially famous actors..like 'angie dickinson ..tom hanks, dan aykroyd...and so on. i started thinking that gaining weight was a fact of life.
However, i don't want to be like that..therefore..here i am almost at goal. my overall goal is to not swell and puff up as i age. i do think maintaining muscle mass ..stregnth and balance are key as we age.
My thoughts exactly - it happens so we think it's not a problem.
My hope is that it doesn't have to happen for health - and that it is healthier not to happen.
Strength and activity essential - but diet most important I think.0 -
When my mom's cancer went to her brain, we (reluctantly) put her in a nursing home. Her roommate was a very large woman - 300+#. Staff had to use a cherry picker to get her in and out of the bed and into a wheelchair. Why, oh why, would anyone say it is better to gain weight in our golden years?
Absolutely nobody has said it is better to be massively obese at any age.
I do think for many people it is realistic and healthy to weigh more as an older person than they did when they were a young adult.
by ' more' I mean slightly more - so they may be in higher end of healthy BMI range or just over it. ( see my n=1 example upthread)
PS - needing lifting machine can be for many reasons and applies to thin people as well. If they are in Aged Care facility after a stroke, for example.
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I am at the lower end of my BMI at 46. I am pretty fit and healthy but a bit more muscle mass would not go astray. I weigh less now than I ever have since childhood as I had been overweight most of my life. My biggest concern is if I get sick that I only have a couple of kilos in reserve until I am underweight which could delay recovery. However, I believe I am less likely to get sick because I am fitter and healthier than the average person in my age bracket. Ideally I think a few extra kilos as a buffer would be an advantage but I see no advantage of being heavier than the top end of my BMI range.3
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Lillymoo01 wrote: »I am at the lower end of my BMI at 46. I am pretty fit and healthy but a bit more muscle mass would not go astray. I weigh less now than I ever have since childhood as I had been overweight most of my life. My biggest concern is if I get sick that I only have a couple of kilos in reserve until I am underweight which could delay recovery. However, I believe I am less likely to get sick because I am fitter and healthier than the average person in my age bracket. Ideally I think a few extra kilos as a buffer would be an advantage but I see no advantage of being heavier than the top end of my BMI range.
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CarvedTones wrote: »cwolfman13 wrote: »Also, if I could be pedantic for a moment though isn't there a difference between vanity lbs and being overweight? And isn't there a difference between "it's bad to be underweight" and "it's good to be a bit overweight"?
At 5'4 I have been maintaining at @ 125 which is right around the middle of the healthy weight range for my height. If I dropped all the way down to 110, that would be underweight and probably not the best place to be in my 70s if longevity is a goal. But I could gain 10 vanity lbs putting me at 135 and still not be "overweight".
I'd also guess older folks who are in fact overweight would be more likely to take to heart the idea that the extra weight is protective, simply because it sounds better than "I never figured out how to lose it like I wanted to"
Most of the stuff that I've read addresses BF% rather than weight with higher levels of BF% being ideal as we age, but they're all still in the healthy BF% range and not overly fat.
Here's the chart that was created using the research done by Jackson and Pollock...
Love the chart; love, love, love! I am 59 and the admittedly suspect handheld device said I am 20.5%. I am planning to drop another 5 from my current weight, which I have been maintaining at and one reason is to get under 20%. The chart isn't convincing me not to do that though; thee is also a small amount of fat hangin around just above the beltline that I hope is affected (I know I can't spot reduce, but it is the last really obvious spot).
Ooohhh, I hate hate hate the chart! I’m 53, teetering over 18.5 BMI, under 19%BF (navy formula). I’ve been +/- the same wt since college but may have more lean mass since I started weight lifting a few years ago. I fantasize about doing bulk-cut to end up with 5 lb more lean with the same fat pounds. Which, obviously, would put me at an even lower BF.... like that of a 20 year old. The chart depresses me terribly. It makes me wonder if I’m just in denial about hopes/expectations at my age. It makes me wonder if I could ever really gain LMB with weight lifting, if it’s all downhill from here.2 -
https://www.nhs.uk/news/obesity/bmi-and-survival-in-older-people/
An interesting response from the NHS here...2 -
VanVanDiane wrote: »https://www.nhs.uk/news/obesity/bmi-and-survival-in-older-people/
An interesting response from the NHS here...
By looking at 70+, they've left out a bunch of people who've already died of things that are higher risk when overweight (CV events, cancer, complications of poorly-managed diabetes . . . ).3 -
Yes, it is only commenting on risk once one has already reached the cohort age.
Nevertheless is interesting article - and the conclusion is tentatively that people in that age group were at greater overall risk if they were underweight or low in the healthy range than those who were higher in the BMI range or slightly above it.
The greatest risk was still for those who were obese.
They tentatively suggest healthy BMI range for older people should be slightly adjusted upward - they did not say how much but I expect to about 28.
Of course there are outliers, as with all BMI guidelines - it is not saying any individual who is lower in the range is at more risk - just that the guidelines for healthy weight range for older adults may need to be adjusted upward.0 -
It may well be a self fulfilling prophecy if you choose to believe it.
I am 49, weigh less than when I was 17 and have more muscle than ever in my life. I worked hard at that (down at least 25Kg) but most of all I stoped believing these "generally accepted wisdoms" that are IMO just defeatist6 -
dutchandkiwi wrote: »It may well be a self fulfilling prophecy if you choose to believe it.
I am 49, weigh less than when I was 17 and have more muscle than ever in my life. I worked hard at that (down at least 25Kg) but most of all I stoped believing these "generally accepted wisdoms" that are IMO just defeatist
I also weigh less than when I was 17 hope I can keep this up 4 -
So it happens that people gain weight as they age. But it doesn't have to. I am underweight according to BMI charts, but feel better then I have ever felt before and the mirror says the BMI chart and the bodyfat % chart for older women are just wrong in my case.
I got the flu this past January. I didn't lose weight but stayed about the same even tho I was really sick for weeks. I think how older people (I am 59) are able to handle illness and disease has a lot more to do with condition than a # on a chart. Would I have not gotten the flu or recovered sooner if I was 10 pounds heavier? I doubt it.
I feel like we are only limited by what we allow to limit us as far as goals. Sure, injuries can take longer to heal and we probably injure easier than youngsters but being 10-20 pounds heavier isn't going to save me if I get cancer or get hit by a car. (oops - I did get hit by a truck earlier this year and because I was lighter I was able to dive out of the way and NOT break anything landing.).5 -
after a year on keto/low carb and having lost 17 lbs - i'm able to maintain my current weight of 133 lbs at 5'7" and age 56. i feel amazing in my clothes and *lighter* (obviously lol) - even though i've got a grocery list of health issues. losing the weight has done wonders for my self esteem during these difficult times. i work out as often as i can and am as active as possible. the only thing vanity wise i don't like about losing the weight is more wrinkles and some saggy skin. for me personally - i don't want to gain any of that back. i will admit i see women carrying more weight and their skin looks much better than mine. however - i'm very happy where i'm at!
each to their own i always say...4 -
My doctor prefers that her older female patients be borderline normal/overweight (BMI 25-27). She is mostly concerned with bone loss and believes a little extra weight is beneficial. There is some research to support this view. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4016235/0
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Interesting discussion! I'm 67 and using the age-adjusted BMI tables am right in the middle of "optimal" and using the non-adjusted BMI tables I am just about 8# over the top-end of "normal." Would I like to drop a dress size? Hell, yeah. I had to drop calories over the winter months to compensate for lower daily activity (thank you ice and snow for making my daily walks daily creeps). My "maintenance" level was around 1400 which made me cranky.
I've upped my routine daily activity again and also upped my maintenance by about 200 calories, and that feels sustainable. I'm fortunate enough with the gene pool roulette to not have to take any prescribed medication & would like to maintain strength and mobility as long as possible - functionally, I need to be able to climb flights of stairs easily, and haul 40# bags of dog food into the house
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