What are you insecure about?

JakedOnGreenBeers wrote: »

CanesGalactica wrote: »

It's somewhat interesting reading these responses from people I consider much better looking and in better physical condition than I am.

Part of me sympathizes with all of you, but the petty part of my mind that wishes I looked as nice as some of y'all (physically) pretty much just goes "what the *kitten* is wrong with these people?? They're gorgeous/amazing.. what have they to complain about??"

Weird how the mind works, right?

Let's just say there's a reason I now hide behind cat images and snark.

I bet many people think the same about you. I saw your multi-colored hair selfie. You're beautiful. You're unique and you're yourself. (aaand there i go being a creep again)

Thanks. I'm surprised you (or anyone) saw it as I really don't post many images of myself here (anymore). This weight loss journey has been longer and harder than anticipated and honestly? I worry now that I'm not in the right mental space to get where I want to be in regards to my health or diet. < -- another insecurity, I guess.

I do love threads like this because it is eye-opening to see that people I might think have it "all put together" actually have fears, insecurities and things that still trip them up.. even if they are out there doing it and putting up the good fight.

natty_or_not wrote: »

Down to the last $152,489. Kind of worried about how this may end..

@natty_or_not Having read your opinions throughout the forum, you don't seem reckless in any way @last $152,489. Decisions ... Considerations ... Investments ... Maturity. If this is your very last tranche ... [Breathe]

natty_or_not wrote: »

777Gemma888 wrote: »

natty_or_not wrote: »

Down to the last $152,489. Kind of worried about how this may end..

@natty_or_not Having read your opinions throughout the forum, you don't seem reckless in any way @last $152,489. Decisions ... Considerations ... Investments ... Maturity. If this is your very last tranche ... [Breathe]

I was being facetious to BS around on this thread. I don’t actually have that kind of money

That's a relief. That would have been a sad eventuality. :drinker:

Avocado_AS5 wrote: »

I feel like strangers secretly criticize me when I'm in public. Like if they're standing behind me in a line, they see all my flaws.

My eczema. It flares up so bad when I'm stressed. The amount of time I spend treating it and dealing with it is exhausting.

My short, fat body.

My huge asss.

Large arms.

Scarred up flabby stomach from a vertical cut c-section. Stretch marks for days!

Thunder thighs.

Not symmetrical facial features.

Crazy hair.

I don't like my voice

I never feel good enough.

I fear I will repel everyone because of my insecurities.

@Avocado_AS5


if all of that is true..... then how are you still so gorgeous ?

growing up - insecurities were my number one thing. In elementary and high school, I was insecure about my eyes, my hair, how skinny I was, I even hated that I was native. In my 20's, I was insecure about the relationships I was in, that I wasn't pretty enough, fit enough, worth knowing, etc. etc. Now? Many of my insecurities have dwindled. I've decided to stop feeling so bad about things I can't change and work on things I can. Insecurities have sucked up so much of my life. No bueno. Life is too short to waste it being insecure.

Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »

I am insecure now chatting with my 2 friends who are way more successful than me

It's a good thing you realise that success comps are "all in your head," not theirs, as that would be the furthest thing on their minds. They're likely proud of your accomplishments, more than you'd give yourself credit for. It isn't easy being a young New York landlord ++

caco_ethes wrote: »

Alright, I’ll share. I have a line on my neck. I have always hated it.



It doesn’t matter my weight, it is always there. So I wear stupid scarves that are stupid (doesn’t work)


I have tried bronzer (way worse)


And I have resorted to plain old distraction tactics



People say ‘it’s no big deal, it’s cute, it’s just you’ but then we have professional pics done and they edit it out



Anyway. That’s my biggest one.

Pretty much agree with everyone else...you are beautiful.

Dang, where do I start.
I have to say my body is on top of a very long list of insecurities. I can’t possibly list them all here and I won’t bore you all with it.

Versicolour wrote: »

81Katz wrote: »

Body/looks.
Mental illness.
I have way too many feelings.
Dysfunctional family.
'Crazy cat lady'.
Being forgotten.

There are people with functional families? Don't trust them, it's all lies

Truth

Cutemesoon wrote: »

I'm insecure about how my body looks. I have the habit of buying "daring" outfits and & NEVER wear them because I'm too self conscious. While losing weight, I did that alot. I'd buy something with the intention of wearing it when I slimmed down. By the time I got the courage to wear it, it was 3 sizes too small.
Hers a pic of an outfit that's been in my closet for over a year.

This looks great

Exposing my insecurities to random strangers.

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My hips! I have big hips and small everything else!

rickiimarieee wrote: »

My hips! I have big hips and small everything else!

Based on your profile pic, I going to have to disagree with you.

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