What are you insecure about?

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  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
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    Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
    I am insecure now chatting with my 2 friends who are way more successful than me

    It's a good thing you realise that success comps are "all in your head," not theirs, as that would be the furthest thing on their minds. They're likely proud of your accomplishments, more than you'd give yourself credit for. It isn't easy being a young New York landlord ++
  • k8eekins
    k8eekins Posts: 2,264 Member
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    • When I'm cutting like I am right now, I feel fat and sloppy. Otherwise - I'm fine.
    • Now that we're nearing Summer - And depending on how I'm feeling with what I'm wearing, I'll be fine most times, until ... Then I get self-conscious about being endowed - top and bottom, thinking "so tacky."
    • Lately, as I'm getting on with my quality years, depending on what I'm watching (eg a movie) and who I'm zeroed in on exactly, I'll start to aggressively work on massaging my face.
  • SpartanRunner1978
    SpartanRunner1978 Posts: 1,049 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Alright, I’ll share. I have a line on my neck. I have always hated it.

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    It doesn’t matter my weight, it is always there. So I wear stupid scarves that are stupid (doesn’t work)
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    I have tried bronzer (way worse)
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    And I have resorted to plain old distraction tactics
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    People say ‘it’s no big deal, it’s cute, it’s just you’ but then we have professional pics done and they edit it out
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    Anyway. That’s my biggest one.

    Pretty much agree with everyone else...you are beautiful.
  • SpartanRunner1978
    SpartanRunner1978 Posts: 1,049 Member
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    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    I feel like strangers secretly criticize me when I'm in public. Like if they're standing behind me in a line, they see all my flaws.

    My eczema. It flares up so bad when I'm stressed. The amount of time I spend treating it and dealing with it is exhausting.

    My short, fat body.

    My huge asss.

    Large arms.

    Scarred up flabby stomach from a vertical cut c-section. Stretch marks for days!

    Thunder thighs.

    Not symmetrical facial features.

    Crazy hair.

    I don't like my voice

    I never feel good enough.

    I fear I will repel everyone because of my insecurities.

    Mel Mel Mel! I can’t speak for all of these, however, your hair, face and body are fine...and by fine I mean, Holy *kitten* you’re hot!
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
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    Dang, where do I start.
    I have to say my body is on top of a very long list of insecurities. I can’t possibly list them all here and I won’t bore you all with it.
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,105 Member
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    Versicolour wrote: »
    81Katz wrote: »
    Body/looks.
    Mental illness.
    I have way too many feelings.
    Dysfunctional family.
    'Crazy cat lady'.
    Being forgotten.

    There are people with functional families? Don't trust them, it's all lies

    Truth
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,105 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Alright, I’ll share. I have a line on my neck. I have always hated it.

    fnydw25h78gc.jpeg

    It doesn’t matter my weight, it is always there. So I wear stupid scarves that are stupid (doesn’t work)
    sgx0wk6slapx.jpeg

    I have tried bronzer (way worse)
    57slamgdcnur.jpeg

    And I have resorted to plain old distraction tactics
    2fp0fn9ljevw.jpeg


    People say ‘it’s no big deal, it’s cute, it’s just you’ but then we have professional pics done and they edit it out
    8s701pugr2gy.jpeg


    Anyway. That’s my biggest one.

    This was really cute and funny. I agree with Trish I’m not seeing an issue here.
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,105 Member
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    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    I'm insecure about how my body looks. I have the habit of buying "daring" outfits and & NEVER wear them because I'm too self conscious. While losing weight, I did that alot. I'd buy something with the intention of wearing it when I slimmed down. By the time I got the courage to wear it, it was 3 sizes too small. :'(
    Hers a pic of an outfit that's been in my closet for over a year.
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    This looks great
  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
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    Exposing my insecurities to random strangers.
  • bootyrubsandtacos
    bootyrubsandtacos Posts: 775 Member
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    81Katz wrote: »
    Always feeling like a convenient option and never a first choice.

    Yup!

    My weight and face shape. I wish I had more angular features. My face is just round and chubby. At times my personality. I can be a little quirky, awkward and intense sometimes, and I think most people just think I’m a straight up weirdo lmao. Maybe I am.

  • barefootboatnik
    barefootboatnik Posts: 134 Member
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    81Katz wrote: »
    Always feeling like a convenient option and never a first choice.

    THIS.

    Also, my weight. Public speaking. Work.. I keep expecting them to figure out I'm just a dumb redneck and cut me loose.. hasn't happened yet. Reckon I'm pretty good at fakin' it, at least!
  • rickiimarieee
    rickiimarieee Posts: 2,212 Member
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    My hips! I have big hips and small everything else!
  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
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    81Katz wrote: »
    Always feeling like a convenient option and never a first choice.

    I wasn’t aware that there was another option for someone to treat me :(
  • Deadman_Diggingup
    Deadman_Diggingup Posts: 3,082 Member
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    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    My hips! I have big hips and small everything else!

    Based on your profile pic, I going to have to disagree with you.
  • shi7934
    shi7934 Posts: 16 Member
    edited June 2018
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    rickiimarieee wrote: »
    My hips! I have big hips and small everything else!
    having big butt is a sexy thing... many must be dying to get like yours hehe .. .. nd by doing some upper body exercises you will surely get the figure u desire .. :smile:
  • Mychal_008
    Mychal_008 Posts: 166 Member
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    I hate the awkwardness of people not understanding sarcastic humor...that’s when I get the urge to just back away slowly

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