He's/She's Just Not That Into You

Just_Mel_
Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
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So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?
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  • Pour_Decisions
    Pour_Decisions Posts: 1,053 Member
    - Bad hygiene
    - No job
    - Racist
    - Bad kisser

    not necessarily in that order
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?

    Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?

    Lack of respect for me by how they treat me, but more so how they talk to me. I dealt with that in some very big ways and hommie dun play day no'mo.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    Confidence is huge. People who constantly point out their flaws and insecurities will get on my nerves fast. We all have them, just be confident in the positive stuff.
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  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    _Maid_of_Mischief_ wrote: »
    Doesn't always want to put out when I want him to. 🙄

    What? That's not a man. Or even a human. I think it's probably a mannequin with a tape recorder duct taped to it.
  • covetthycarbs
    covetthycarbs Posts: 300 Member
    Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?

    Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?

    No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.

    Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕

    Some ppl may be afraid to commit esp if they are at an age where the next logical step is marriage and they just don’t know if thats what they want. So they run

    Dating more than three months doesn’t mean marriage automatically
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?

    Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?

    No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.

    Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕

    Ain't no cure for the 90 day itch.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?

    Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?

    No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.

    Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕

    Some ppl may be afraid to commit esp if they are at an age where the next logical step is marriage and they just don’t know if thats what they want. So they run

    Most come back around eventually, but by then my interest is gone.
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  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    If they don’t like my family or vise versa
    No work ethic
    No sense of humor
    Mocks my music choices
  • covetthycarbs
    covetthycarbs Posts: 300 Member
    Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
    covetthycarbs wrote: »
    Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    Avocado_AS5 wrote: »
    So what are some things (petty or otherwise) that would turn you off from continuing to date a person?

    Did you watch this movie when you were home not being sick yesterday?

    No, I watched like 7 episodes of Friends.

    Basically I wanna know if any of these things apply to me. Wondering why I can't get anyone to date me longer than like 3 months. 😕

    Some ppl may be afraid to commit esp if they are at an age where the next logical step is marriage and they just don’t know if thats what they want. So they run

    Dating more than three months doesn’t mean marriage automatically
    Not at all, but some people have a timer esp if thats what they think they want or completely not what they want but thinks its what the other wants
    So three months is the limit if you don’t want marriage yet you think the other person might. Why not seven months? Or five?
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,740 Member
    - if they smoke inside (home or car), infrequently enough that they don't smell like smoked meat is ok
    - if they are racist, disrespectful or inconsiderate
    - if they want (more) kids
    - if they are a Mama's boy (with @justinewillcutyou distinction) - I'm currently trying to raise boys that will be men that love their mom, not men that are controlled by or dependent on their mom
    - if there is no chemistry and/or not a match sexually
    - if they aren't into ongoing learning/growing as a person
    - if they are more than 5 years younger than me or older than my dad
    - if they are into consumerism
  • DreamAmalfi
    DreamAmalfi Posts: 211 Member
    Not on the dating scene but no brsiners are smoking, inability or unwillingness to think critically, lack if insight or reflection, extreme views, lack of compassion etc. And no open mouthers....just to name a few.
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    If they're selfish in bed.

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