He's/She's Just Not That Into You

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  • michael1976_ca
    michael1976_ca Posts: 3,488 Member
    A liar

    Cheater like say she admitted that she did cheat on a previous partner. I live with motto once a cheat always a cheater.

  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Selfish guys who lie or liars who are selfish


    Are you a lesbian?


    Or have you actually met a man that wasn't a liar?


    yes

    To what? I'm guessing the first one, cause I never met anyone who could say yes to the second one.

    Ummm really not sure how to respond...but I'll say this. Yes.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    SwannySez wrote: »
    Selfish guys who lie or liars who are selfish


    Are you a lesbian?


    Or have you actually met a man that wasn't a liar?


    If she is, she’s like the worst lesbian ever.

    Im working on it sheesh so judgy.

    How many licks does it take to reach the tootsie roll center of a tootsie roll pop?

    Thats deeply personal.

    That’s just hurtful. You know I can’t go deep.
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    SwannySez wrote: »
    SwannySez wrote: »
    Selfish guys who lie or liars who are selfish


    Are you a lesbian?


    Or have you actually met a man that wasn't a liar?


    If she is, she’s like the worst lesbian ever.

    Im working on it sheesh so judgy.

    How many licks does it take to reach the tootsie roll center of a tootsie roll pop?

    Thats deeply personal.

    That’s just hurtful. You know I can’t go deep.

    Well. Thats what vr is for...take it there. Go as deep as you want.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    SwannySez wrote: »
    SwannySez wrote: »
    Selfish guys who lie or liars who are selfish


    Are you a lesbian?


    Or have you actually met a man that wasn't a liar?


    If she is, she’s like the worst lesbian ever.

    Im working on it sheesh so judgy.

    How many licks does it take to reach the tootsie roll center of a tootsie roll pop?

    Thats deeply personal.

    That’s just hurtful. You know I can’t go deep.

    Well. Thats what vr is for...take it there. Go as deep as you want.

    Nurse, I’ll be needing the #9 speculum today.
  • shaf238
    shaf238 Posts: 4,022 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Any woman who gets mad that their sidepiece is dating others......
    Tell us what happened bro...
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    If he does not lift me up in his arms when I walk through the door and kiss me like Noah does Ally in the Notebook, then hes not for me.
  • makkimakki2018
    makkimakki2018 Posts: 414 Member
    If shes not outdoorsy im out.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited August 2018
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    If he does not lift me up in his arms when I walk through the door and kiss me like Noah does Ally in the Notebook, then hes not for me.

    what if he tries but he cant cause he doesn't lift?

    Then he fails. I am not that heavy. Next!

    He must also worship the ground I walk on and massage my feet. These are non-negotiable.

    Oh, and he must like my parrots and not complain if they nip him or poop on occasion.

    And, he has to know how to swim and be willing to race me in the pool.

  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    If shes not outdoorsy im out.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CcseOQKFSo
  • dtelsah
    dtelsah Posts: 584 Member
    The basics. Dishonesty, being unkind/inconsiderate, a track record of being unfaithful, poor financial skills. Also, if she isn't fond of children it will not work.
  • Shaggy_T
    Shaggy_T Posts: 44 Member
    Smoking
    Drugs
    Excessive Alcohol
    Diva Personality
    Lazy
    Narcissistic
    Constantly on their Phone
    Talking to much.
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    RDahling wrote: »
    Things that push me away from dating someone include:

    - co-dependence or excessive neediness (any good relationship needs time apart)
    - bad personal hygiene (bad breath, BO, thinking that washing your hair once every two weeks {that's ONCE every TWO weeks - name that tune!} is sufficient ... ewwww)
    - desperation (with or without the flop-sweat)
    - no ambition (have dated some women who claim to have dreams/goals and do nothing to achieve them - sad, really)
    - bad teeth (I currently live in Asia, and there are lots of pretty women who have the most egregious snaggle-teeth - I seriously worry about what would happen to my tongue if I kissed them - would it get hooked up or shredded or what?)
    - laziness/inactivity (I want someone I can hit the squash courts with or go hike a mountain or do some trail riding)
    - victim mentality (one thing about human beings is that the longer we live, the more baggage we have, but some people just can't learn to cope with their past {or worse, conflate the tiniest of events into a personal apocalypse}, and I'm not looking for a project to save)
    - ignorance (I can deal with stupidity - stupidity can be cured - but ignorance, not so much)
    - HYPOCRISY - oh this one really rattles my cage now that I think about it.
    - People who insist on taking pictures of food they ordered in restaurants instead of, oh, I don't know, EATING IT.
    - Instagram-based narcissism (wow, you took 100 photos of yourself in various poses and finally found one that looks good ... yes, you are total wife material)
    - People who duck-face for photos. Seriously? What the Hell is wrong with you?
    - 撒娇 (sājiāo) - this means acting like a spoiled child when you're an adult, usually to get your way or get attention. See comments above about neediness.
    - Cellphone addicts - no, I don't need to be the entire focus of every minute of every day, but if we can't have a conversation without you looking at your gd iPhone or eat a meal without you suffering DTs from not having it in easy reach ... yeah, we're not going anywhere.

    I'm sure I have a lot more, but these are just off the top of my head (as I try to avoid doing work).

    You're single aren't you? 😂😆 kidding..

    lol. That made me giggle.
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    If he won't join in my kitchen dance parties while I'm washing dishes, he's out.

    From what I recall, it would be difficult not to wanna join wit doze movez.
  • pudgy1977
    pudgy1977 Posts: 13,499 Member
    Just please don't be needy. I can't do needy.
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  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    If he doesn't hold my hair for me when I eat spaghetti, it's a deal breaker.

    Bonus points if he cups his hands under your chin to catch the noodles like a bib.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    He has to pull my toes also. If he wont do this, hes gone.
  • ChrystalMiller
    ChrystalMiller Posts: 6 Member
    Bad hygiene. Mama’s boy.

    I love it when they're a mama's boy, I think it's the cutest thing ever ❤

    Lol you haven't dated a reeeeeal mama's boy then. They're literally the worst.
  • Mbcx8
    Mbcx8 Posts: 3 Member
    They don't respect my time for working out 😑
  • bhadbahabi
    bhadbahabi Posts: 575 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    He has to pull my toes also. If he wont do this, hes gone.

    I like this too so this is going on my list


    Bad hygiene. Mama’s boy.

    I love it when they're a mama's boy, I think it's the cutest thing ever ❤

    Lol you haven't dated a reeeeeal mama's boy then. They're literally the worst.


    Mama's boys are the worst. Never again!
  • shaf238
    shaf238 Posts: 4,022 Member
    Mbcx8 wrote: »
    They don't respect my time for working out 😑
    Big one
  • Just_Mel_
    Just_Mel_ Posts: 3,992 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    bufger wrote: »
    I could have just said 'energy vampires' and saved you all 30 seconds of life.

    I agree. Negativity is hard to deal with. Especially if you’re the sort who vibes off of other people. Also when they are insecure. It can be a lot to handle. Confidence is sexy. It’s difficult to be in a relationship with someone when you begin to feel like it’s your responsibility to lift their confidence, more than a partner typically would.

    Gotta be honest, allowing other people to affect your mood is not sexy. People's bad moods are there issue, how we choose to deal with that is totally in our control. Somebody that doesn't need to vibe off another, someone that is self aware enough to not be affected by other people's moods, that's confidence, that's secure, that's sexy.

    Yes, but attitudes are contagious. Good or bad.
  • saucyshirley1
    saucyshirley1 Posts: 1 Member
    hey al