He's/She's Just Not That Into You

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  • bojack5
    bojack5 Posts: 2,859 Member
    Needs to be humble..

    Yeah.....I can't do the false modesty thing. ;)
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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    bojack5 wrote: »
    Needs to be humble..

    Yeah.....I can't do the false modesty thing. ;)

    :laugh:
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    backfat
  • thierrion
    thierrion Posts: 1 Member
    Let's see...

    Saying you can't come out to visit me, then going on a another trip around the same time.

    Texting me messages like, "You make me smile!," "We'd make a great couple," and "I was just thinking about you," then telling me you don't want a relationship because you can't handle one...THEN telling me that you're seeing someone.

    When I ask you to a baseball game on my birthday, and you tell me you can't make it on that date...then you post pictures to Facebook of you--with your new boyfriend--at the game I asked you to, on my birthday.

    I guess it's pretty much over when you date other guys. I mean, if you're not gonna answer my calls or return my texts, and you're going out with other guys, well...I don't know how long I can keep that up.

    I just may have to break up with you at that point.
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  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    Tells you to stay in your country and surf. Justifies this as being an unselfish act on his behalf.

    Charlie don’t SURF!
  • SummerTwentyOne
    SummerTwentyOne Posts: 521 Member
    Over confident guys or “Lads”. Nothing turns me off more. I like people who are more introverted
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    If he's always going out to bars and clubs, he's not for me. Not my kind of lifestyle and I don't really like people that much, especially annoying drunks :D

    I'm seriously starting to wonder if you're me. Well, a younger version.
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    He's not that into me if he won't suck my toes.

    What kinda person doesn't do this?
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    He's not that into me if he won't suck my toes.

    What kinda person doesn't do this?

    Eew
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    a woman who wants to kitten you will find a way to kitten you.

    if you make "plans" to meet up and she flakes- then she's just not that into you.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    SwannySez wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    He's not that into me if he won't suck my toes.

    What kinda person doesn't do this?

    That's what I am saying!
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    denny_mac wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    He's not that into me if he won't suck my toes.

    Shouldn't that say that YOU aren't that into HIM if he won't do that?

    Nope. This is based on his level of interest.
  • kchapman588
    kchapman588 Posts: 55 Member
    When they act more like a little brother, and always complain about their older brother (both the same person)
  • kchapman588
    kchapman588 Posts: 55 Member
    If they had bullied or harassed me before the relationship
  • kchapman588
    kchapman588 Posts: 55 Member
    if 95% of her friends are guys and her excuse is that girls are jealous

    98% of my close friends are guys, yet I have never used or thought of using that excuse
  • ChaelAZ
    ChaelAZ Posts: 2,240 Member
    When they are TOO emotionally avaiable.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    a woman who wants to kitten you will find a way to kitten you.

    if you make "plans" to meet up and she flakes- then she's just not that into you.

    I can see it now.

    Boy: Hey Gorgeous! Let's meet up and kitten, okay! After we get drunk at the bar we'll sneak behind the dumpster in the alley, kitten, and then shake hands and go home. Margaritas are on me, don't worry. Sound good sweetheart? See you there sexy and I sure luv dat booty :heart: :heart::heart:.

    Girl: Oh, ah, okay. See you there boss - yes indeedy. Yep I'll be right on time Romeo.

    see you get it. like- if you haven't kittened your significant other out by the dumpster behind the arbys in the bad part of town are you even really in a relationship?
  • SwannySez
    SwannySez Posts: 5,860 Member
    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    When they are TOO emotionally avaiable.

    OMG, one PM. ONE!
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    newmeadow wrote: »
    a woman who wants to kitten you will find a way to kitten you.

    if you make "plans" to meet up and she flakes- then she's just not that into you.

    I can see it now.

    Boy: Hey Gorgeous! Let's meet up and kitten, okay! After we get drunk at the bar we'll sneak behind the dumpster in the alley, kitten, and then shake hands and go home. Margaritas are on me, don't worry. Sound good sweetheart? See you there sexy and I sure luv dat booty :heart: :heart::heart:.

    Girl: Oh, ah, okay. See you there boss - yes indeedy. Yep I'll be right on time Romeo.

    see you get it. like- if you haven't kittened your significant other out by the dumpster behind the arbys in the bad part of town are you even really in a relationship?

    Well usually they would admit to kittening all my friends and co-workers when we accidentally bumped into each other in the town square 5 years after we broke up. Then he would laugh and I would turn pale. Seems all my significant ones would spring that kitten on me retroactively and leave me aghast.

    same
  • covetthycarbs
    covetthycarbs Posts: 300 Member
    If he looks aghast at me while I eat the whole pie out of the box with a spoon. Come on, Man. Its blueberry crumble.
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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    ChaelAZ wrote: »
    When they are TOO emotionally avaiable.

    So we should play games aka hard to get. Got it.
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    Needs to be humble..

    That's me. . I'm the most humble person who has ever lived!
  • AliNouveau
    AliNouveau Posts: 36,287 Member
    AliNouveau wrote: »
    When he tells you he's trying to date someone else. No matter how much you think you are the one for him clearly he doesn't agree. (my friend needs to move on)

    Update.... Just cause the girl he wants to date is psycho and stands him up cause she got a DUI still doesn't mean he's going to realize you're the one.....aftwr he's said we're good friends. How do you make your friend see this!!!!
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