He's/She's Just Not That Into You
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AliNouveau wrote: »AliNouveau wrote: »When he tells you he's trying to date someone else. No matter how much you think you are the one for him clearly he doesn't agree. (my friend needs to move on)
Update.... Just cause the girl he wants to date is psycho and stands him up cause she got a DUI still doesn't mean he's going to realize you're the one.....aftwr he's said we're good friends. How do you make your friend see this!!!!
Thats even more reason to run because you know he likes them crazy...1 -
AliNouveau wrote: »AliNouveau wrote: »When he tells you he's trying to date someone else. No matter how much you think you are the one for him clearly he doesn't agree. (my friend needs to move on)
Update.... Just cause the girl he wants to date is psycho and stands him up cause she got a DUI still doesn't mean he's going to realize you're the one.....aftwr he's said we're good friends. How do you make your friend see this!!!!
Hugs....
Sometimes no matter what you say or do, they just have to figure it out for themselves.....
Otherwise you are just beating your head against a wall. I just went through this. I saw the warnings and red flags EVERYWHERE..... told her... multiple times. What happens? oh, she moves in with him. Then about 5 months before the lease is up, she sees EVERYTHING I had told her. But doesn't remember that I had told her. And tells me this like she's had an epiphany. Took everything in me not to beat my head against the wall again....2 -
AliNouveau wrote: »AliNouveau wrote: »When he tells you he's trying to date someone else. No matter how much you think you are the one for him clearly he doesn't agree. (my friend needs to move on)
Update.... Just cause the girl he wants to date is psycho and stands him up cause she got a DUI still doesn't mean he's going to realize you're the one.....aftwr he's said we're good friends. How do you make your friend see this!!!!
Thats even more reason to run because you know he likes them crazy...
Most guys I know like them at least a *little* crazy. Wherever that line is, give me someone right on the edge. Too far away from the line in either direction just won't work.
Yeah, and for people who dont like drama or others who like drama, run.
A person doesnt have to be crazy to be fun or passionate.1 -
AliNouveau wrote: »AliNouveau wrote: »When he tells you he's trying to date someone else. No matter how much you think you are the one for him clearly he doesn't agree. (my friend needs to move on)
Update.... Just cause the girl he wants to date is psycho and stands him up cause she got a DUI still doesn't mean he's going to realize you're the one.....aftwr he's said we're good friends. How do you make your friend see this!!!!
Thats even more reason to run because you know he likes them crazy...
Most guys I know like them at least a *little* crazy. Wherever that line is, give me someone right on the edge. Too far away from the line in either direction just won't work.
Yeah, and for people who dont like drama or others who like drama, run.
A person doesnt have to be crazy to be fun or passionate.
While this is true, people define "crazy" differently, as well. So while I might think I am just being fun and passionate, someone else might think I'm out of my damn mind and need to be medicated.0 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »If they are blowing up my phone all day, that screams needy and I don’t do needy.
Is that why you won't answer my last 542 texts???
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If he ignores you when the game is on.1
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If he prefers whiskey over wine.1
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When you’re finally banging your biggest crush and she keeps asking when “fill in name of your more attractive friend” is getting here.
*True story, by the way.9 -
_Deadman_Walking_ wrote: »When you’re finally banging your biggest crush and she keeps asking when “fill in name of your more attractive friend” is getting here.
*True story, by the way.
Yeah, but still ... smash
Smash but
That’s smashing under false pretences. 3 -
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Cameron_1969 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »Needs to be humble..
That's me. . I'm the most humble person who has ever lived!
Hellooo
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Materialism/Fixation on my money as opposed to their own. (Keep your hands out my pockets damnit! Make your own money! The 1950's are over. The old school sexism of men paying for your whole life is over. Get a job!)
Social media/phone obsession.
Cares too much about what other people think.
Smoking.
Casual disregard for others.
Hate-based worldview/trumpism/bigotry, etc.
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A lot has been mentioned in previous posts. Here are a few of mine
I don't like being lied to. Over the top needy/clingy people suffocate me. I don't like people in general who smoke, but if that's what they like, to each their own. I tend to just put some distance between myself and them - like 50 yards lol. I dated a guy once who chewed tobacco to try and quit smoking, it's a pretty gross habit to acquire. Growing up with an alcoholic father/brother, I don't like alcoholism. Drug use is just not a good thing. Jealousy breaks everything it touches. Being hateful. Bad hygiene, bad teeth, being lazy. Being disrespectful towards family/others. Making racial slurs/comments. And of course, I'd hope he's not a serial killer lol I'm far from perfect but I do try to find something about myself to improve on daily/weekly haha
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waytoofat3 wrote: »waytoofat3 wrote: »Smoking is a deal breaker
Always btchy
Lazy
Glued to their phone
Nagging
Poor hygiene
Sometimes is okay though as long as it's not most of the time. I figure three days out of a seven day week is fair.
Being like that nearly 50% of the time is fair? Not in my house it isn't. I'll take sarcasm , sassy remarks and occasionally being cussed out when I'm an *kitten* ,but no way in hell am I listening to continual btching and nagging. I grew up listening to that *kitten* and don't put up with it as an adult.
I think it was mostly meant as a joke.
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Bad teeth
Bad hygiene
Skinnier than me
Shorter than me
Age
No sense of humour
Aggressive or degrading behaviour towards women or children
If he looks in the mirror more than me
If he wants to wear my frocks and heals at the weekends
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Arrogance
Stereotypical
Prejudice
Uses racial slurs
Lacks sense of humor
Turns too many conversations into debates
Shorter than me (that’s just a preference since I’m 5’5)
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if a man had all the qualities you liked, but he was shorter than you - you'd turn him down?
i dated men shorter than me, but i'll admit my husband is 6'3"
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if a man had all the qualities you liked, but he was shorter than you - you'd turn him down?
i dated men shorter than me, but i'll admit my husband is 6'3"
Yes I would turn him down. I am 5 feet. I dont want to date a midget. My kids have to have a chance in life. I only date men 6 feet and taller.13 -
Sounds like most women 😂4
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if a man had all the qualities you liked, but he was shorter than you - you'd turn him down?
i dated men shorter than me, but i'll admit my husband is 6'3"
Yes I would turn him down. I am 5 feet. I dont want to date a midget. My kids have to have a chance in life. I only date men 6 feet and taller.
I am also 5 ft. (+ 1/2 inch!) -- so probably 99% of the male population is taller than me, so I'm not as particular as some re: height. You're five ft. and will only date men 6 ft. and taller? That's sure dismissing a whole bunch of men who could have wonderful qualities . . . just sayin'!8 -
beachgal0626 wrote: »if a man had all the qualities you liked, but he was shorter than you - you'd turn him down?
i dated men shorter than me, but i'll admit my husband is 6'3"
Yes I would turn him down. I am 5 feet. I dont want to date a midget. My kids have to have a chance in life. I only date men 6 feet and taller.
I am also 5 ft. (+ 1/2 inch!) -- so probably 99% of the male population is taller than me, so I'm not as particular as some re: height. You're five ft. and will only date men 6 ft. and taller? That's sure dismissing a whole bunch of men who could have wonderful qualities . . . just sayin'!
I know. But, my preferences are no different than men who will only date blondes, big busted, or skinny women.5 -
beachgal0626 wrote: »if a man had all the qualities you liked, but he was shorter than you - you'd turn him down?
i dated men shorter than me, but i'll admit my husband is 6'3"
Yes I would turn him down. I am 5 feet. I dont want to date a midget. My kids have to have a chance in life. I only date men 6 feet and taller.
I am also 5 ft. (+ 1/2 inch!) -- so probably 99% of the male population is taller than me, so I'm not as particular as some re: height. You're five ft. and will only date men 6 ft. and taller? That's sure dismissing a whole bunch of men who could have wonderful qualities . . . just sayin'!
I know. But, my preferences are no different than men who will only date blondes, big busted, or skinny women.
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I'm 5'9", if I hadn't been willing to date shorter than me my options would have been greatly reduced. There aren't really that many guys willing to date a taller woman though. IME a lot of men who are less than 6' like to say they're an inch or two taller than they really are and it's difficult to keep up the pretence of being 5'11" when we're eye to eye.
SO is 6'9" however. And wishes I was a bit taller.1 -
I like to think I am ridiculously funny, but I have a fairly dry and sarcastic sense of humor. If someone doesn't get my jokes, I am instantly turned off. That could just mean I need to work on my material. 😅0
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