WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2018
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Kim, I am such an introvert that I would probably have declined the invitation to the wedding and saved myself a ton of money and preparation and anxiety. I assume that you are looking forward to spending time with your friend (the bride) and the others who will come to the wedding. That's a great way to get yourself back on track for your weight loss. You are very focused and resourceful.3
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Lanette: I seldom use a treadmill because I tend to pound my knees and I have an old over-use knee injury. I love the stationary bike. I also love to go for long walks though it isn't as likely I'll do that in winter due to weather issues. It is one of the reasons that the gym membership is so valuable to me.
I don't seem to have much to say today. Yesterday we went to Portland Saturday market with our son and grandson. We bought a wonderful handmade puppet for our grandson. The lady who made them has been making puppets and selling them at Saturday Market since my 40 year old son was little, and now his son has one of her puppets, too. We took all sorts of photos of the event.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Kim ~ Maybe you will be able to find someone going to the wedding to share the motel room with. Good for you vowing to lose those extra 20 lbs. I liked the idea of you being "Warrior Woman" because I see you as a strong uncompromising person to be admired.
Heather ~ Good luck on defrosting your freezer. Think that would be a messy task to undertake.
Rebecca ~ Your food choices look so healthy.
Kelly ~ I was telling my DnL about your great ideas for your daycare students. She had 5 little girls over Friday night to celebrate her daughter's 7th birthday. Evidently, 5 little girls screaming for hours was something to behold. The screaming was just the excitement of being together and having fun.
Today is my 49th wedding anniversary! We will celebrate by going out for a steak dinner!
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Hi Gals,
Thinking of all!
So a bit of a story – I’ve been here for a good long while – I joined 2-14-14 and when I started I counted everything as best I could and lost, 30 lbs ! I was so happy and proud; I hit a plateau and decided to take a week or so break. Well, the break has lasted for over a year now – but I have stayed within 5 lbs of my 30 lbs off. But there has always been an additional 20lbs that need to come off – and maybe more; but the total of 50 has been the long-term goal.
I have a gal friend who is getting married – She’s about 55, it’s a second marriage for her and a 3rd for her guy. The wedding is in May 2019. They are big lovers of “dress up/pretend” – I’m not sure how else to explain it – She loves Renaissance fairs, costumes, they both ride motorcycles and have all the biker gear – and for the wedding which will be in a park overlooking the ocean – you are supposed to come in costume, as who you’ve dreamed of being - I am not big into fantasy, comics, super heros, wishing to be “someone else”. So I have been at a loss of what I would wear to this costume party wedding. The only thing I really want is that next 20lbs off – so that’s the plan! I am starting tomorrow (as it is the end of the day here) back to full fledged working of MFP – and saving to buy a brand new outfit for the wedding. It is going to be in a pretty but secluded area of the California Coast and in looking at places to stay, they have 3 day minimums and $170-$300 per night…This will be an expensive wedding to attend. But if I’m going I am going 20 lbs lighter! I will also be investigating camping options.
Smiles
Kim from N. California
Congrats on the 30lb loss. That was not easily earned I bet. It sounds like a great way to celebrate a wedding, I too though would be most comfortable in more weight loss as that is my dream. good luck to you.0 -
Well, my friends, defrosting the enormous freezer took three and a half man hours of HARD work from the two of us. Layers of plastic bags, towels, duvet, cloths, kitchen towel. Lots of bowls and saucepans of HOT water. Lots of bending and sponging and chipping and ferrying and boiling of kettles. But it is DONE. I am exhausted and my hips hurt.
I will NEVER, EVER, buy another freezer that needs defrosting. Frost free for me for ever.
When/if we move we will just have to empty the shelves and drawers and sponge them. I have thrown a lot of stuff away so it's not as big a job in the future. I have a lot of chicken stock to use up! Think there is a lot of aveglemono in my future, especially as there are frozen egg yolks in there.
The good thing is that it has been absolutely pouring with rain all day, so it was a good way to spend the holiday! I pity the poor people who were planning a bbq, or a nice day out at the seaside. We deliberately chose this time because of the weather forecast. I must have burnt off a lot of calories.
All the towels and cloths are in the washing machine.
Tonight we have decided to have a bottle of champagne.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx
The freezer is on the right hand side as you look at it. We are leaving both the fridge and the freezer for the buyers. Still need to clean the fridge, but I think DH will do that.5 -
Woo HOO! Despite having 12 oz of REAL Oktoberfest yesterday and eating the most humongous breakfast, managed to stay exactly the same weight, thanks to lots of walking with company. Was great to have 'em, and a bit of a relief to see 'em go.
Left ear has been aching since before company came. Hot compresses, ear oil haven't helped much. Advil lets me sleep but then the ache returns in the morning. This morning trying turmeric, cayenne, lemon zest, honey. It didn't taste so good til added a splash of apple cider vinegar. Went back and ground a pinch of black pepper thanks to you gals' reminders. Fingers Xd.
Rebecca I sure wish we were closer, would leave some big surprises at your doorstep. SIL brought us GIANT zucchini. Heather would call them vegetable marrows. They look like submarines to me. Can only make so many muffins and loaves of bread. Never tried putting balsamic dressing on steamed zucchini, will try, thanks! Otherwise the only way I really like it is deep fried (of course) dipped in horseradish sour cream sauce
Barbie likewise would leave a zucchini submarine at your door, if I could be sure it wouldn't trip you up.
KJ thanks for asking Rori about her DH's GF's condo... I was thinking "Boy that Rori is sure more broadminded than I'd ever want to be..." :laugh: Hope this morning's turmeric concoction doesn't yellow my teeth any more than they are already
Michele tell me about stringing popcorn? Christmas already?
Kim love LOVE "Love" your plan to attend your friend's wedding as the 20 lbs lighter gal you've dreamed of being. You can make this dream come true! Good luck with the camping options!
Sue in WA ER discharged because they don't know why DH's labs are off? Beth said it, there is something seriously wrong with our health care system.
Machka beautiful beach, awesome run, wonderful second ride for your hubs.
Carol ConVERYgratulations on your 49th anniversary. What a marvelous accomplishment!
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD.
60 g protein 20/25, meditate 11/25, walk one more step 11/25, knee exercises 11/25, core 5/16, walk Tumble 11/16 times, SWSY 0/8, hang up or purge art 0/1, AF 18/25
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Good morning!
It has been a long time since I had to really take on the mama-bear stance with my older son's health care, but yesterday I found myself rearing up. My son was born extremely premature 31 years ago and one of the results of that is an overdeveloped startle reflex. He jumps at everything! IVs and needles have him moving even before they touch the skin. So inexperienced or nervous nurses have a hard time. This was the case yesterday when they needed to start a new IV. After multiple attempts the gave up and said he needed a picc line which would be fine if he needed it long term, but it would be removed on Wednesday since it would be near the area they're going in to locate the new pump. When the staff changed, and the new nurse said "I hear you want a picc line," I reacted. No we didn't. We wanted someone who could put in an IV. It caused a lot of commotion, but eventually they sent someone from ICU who put in not one but two IVs in a matter of minutes. Not having my son undergoing procedures because of someone's lack of ability.
Now, if you're into spiritual stories ...I'm going to share one. If this will offend you please feel free to move on. I couldn't find the spoiler button through the site on my computer.
Anyways, here's what also was happening yesterday during our mini hospital crisis. Over the years, I've had the experience of seeing rainbows whenever something of significance is occurring in my life. Hundreds of rainbows. Unexplainable rainbows. There was a huge rainbow over the hospital when my son was born. Rainbows when loved ones have died. Rainbows when I've been distressed. Being Irish and leaning towards an appreciation of the supernatural, I have always viewed these as reassurances from God. Anyways, when my son unexpectedly developed mental health problems about 6 years ago, I became very angry and resentful with God. My son was born premature, he is physically disabled and confined to a wheelchair, has health concerns, has struggled all of his life to be accepted and productive, and the only thing he could always count on was his sharp, clear mind. And then God allowed that to be taken away as well. And while I'm no longer angry, I stopped seeing rainbows. Recently a friend who is going through a significant health crisis sent me a photo of a rainbow with the caption "I immediately thought of you and your trust in God." And I shared with her that I'd stop seeing them, that it had even been years since I've seen a rainbow. God didn't use them with me anymore. She suggested that maybe she saw one and it was God who had prompted her to share it with me and she was praying I would see one again soon. So yesterday, as I was dealing with this mini-crisis regarding IVs and watching my son become highly agitated, I felt the familiar rising up of needing to stand my ground, to go against what was happening around me and make the right decision for my son. But I was concerned and truth be told, a little panicked. And then I looked outside the hospital window to see an enormously bright and huge rainbow!! I immediately noted the time and shared with my son who calmed down instantly. That rainbow stayed throughout the discussions with hospital personnel and the ICU nurse's successful procedure ... for at least 40 minutes (since I'm not sure when it actually began). Only after everything was done did that rainbow fade. And while the rainbow has left -- He has not.
Have a blessed Sunday.
Beth in Buffalo
Let me add ... within the last month or so, my son's mental health has stabilized and he is almost back to his normal self ... after 6 years of difficulties.18 -
I think I am going to try to find some progesterone here in the drug stores. It sounds like it's something I need.
I am just waiting for my daughter and grands to show up, I will watch the kids when she goes to work.
I don't know what our plans are for the day yet. We have been invited to a gender reveal party for a friends daughter, but I don't really care for the daughter's attitude at times. We may just hang out here at home, hubby had to go into work for a few hours so we can be as loud and noisy as we want!
I went to a yard sale and 4 antique stores yesterday with my youngest. We bought some items for the wedding and my daughter found a Classic Pooh dish set, we bought it for her future children. I found this little tea set for Michaela for Christmas. I couldn't resist it was only $20.00
The furnace has kicked in the last few days and it's damp and cold this morning again. I hope this isn't Fall already.
Tracey in a smoke free Edmonton today
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August is almost over, will be interested to see how Dee’s month went. I am a caregiver, and it is hands down the toughest and most depressing thing I have ever done in my life. My food got out of control during the worst months last winter/spring but I never stopped logging all the horrid things I was eating. The last few months I have pulled out of that nose dive and gotten back to eating only whole food....logging is the key to keeping a check on the reality of eating.6
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Tracey ... love the little tea set!
Heather ... good for you on defrosting the freezer. Mine needs to be done as well. And in the midst of all we've got going on, my son's landlord is moving him to another place while they do renovations on his current home. I've got to unload his freezer and fridge there too!
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Beth ~ Loved your story about the rainbows. So inspirational and so glad that you saw one again. Healing prayers for your son.1
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Good Sunday, Ladies!
It has been crazy around here. Work is like a third Spring season! Had customers lined up most of day yesteday. I got work sorted this morning and need to start on it, but......I am catching up with y'all! Husband and I went shopping yesterday. He is so impatient sometimes. I did manage to find the perfect anniversary card for him and a lovely pair of heels as well as a new pair of work shoes? or just jeans shoes. Jury is still out on that. Went to grandson's football game only to have it rained out 7 minutes into the game. Not sure we will make it back today at 530 to see or not. Picked up truck from repair shop. Brakes work! Still needs more work, but want to drive it some. Then we will take it back in while we are on vacation. Husband finally decided that we wouldn't be towing it down this year-YAY! It over heats quickly right now and 4 miles of slow moving traffic doesn't seem like a great idea to me. Maybe next year!
Love the Balloons, rainbows, before and after photos!
You are all such strong and lovely ladies!
May your day be full of the best choices you can make, a bit of laughter, and even a few smiles!
Kylia in back to summer in Ohio3 -
This was my eye opener photo. I was so not pleased with my body at this point in my life. This was taken almost 9 years ago. I had already lost 20 lbs, when it was taken.4 -
Tracey - that tea set is so special! Got one similar for my niece 30 years ago and she still cherishes it. Glad your smoke has left and hope it stays away! I think we might just find Fall arrives before we're ready.
Beth - loved that rainbow story. I'm glad you took the mama bear stance with your son. It makes me nervous being around hospitals, I guess they are so busy and mistakes can be made. Nurses don't have time to read charts or are just plum tired from long shifts and are running on caffeine perhaps. They have my admiration and I hope to avoid depending on them for as long as possible, lol. Glad you got someone from ICU to get those IV's installed quickly. Praying your DS's surgery goes without a hitch.
Machka - happy belated anniversary! I was thrilled that you and your DH were able to have a nice bike ride. Sorry turmeric isn't working for you.
What I'm taking is actually concentrated Curcumin. I'm lucky it seems to be working for me.
Carol -Happy Anniversary!! Steak dinner sounds great!
Heather - great job with the freezer. Jealous of your rain tho we've had some really heavy sprinkles in the past day. Not quite the same as a downpour but we'll take it.
Kim - I'm kind of like Barbie in that I'd send regrets for the wedding and think of an excuse not to go = what's the saying, "Introverts Unite! Separately in Your Own Homes" lol. Sounds like something you'll really enjoy.
OK ladies, that's it for now. Have a great Sunday!!
Lanette
Cool SW WA State
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Carol in GA: Happy 49th Anniversary!!!
Heather: Congratulations on all of your hard work defrosting the freezer. I think you are wise to get frost-free next time. :flowerforyou:
Snowflake: Pretty treasures! :star;
We had a great day at Saturday Market in Portland yesterday with our son and DGS. Today they are off doing something else and we have some home alone time. Getting a little personal rest is fabulous. We have more adventures in mind for the remainder of their visit. We still have several days with them. Yay!!!
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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kirby made me breakfast in bed, no reason, just because... whataguy.....
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Beth, your rainbow story had me in tears. You have always been an inspiration to me. I’m so glad you are seeing rainbows again.
Rbee, your post about logging even in the midst of wrong choices was also inspirational for me and just the reminder I needed today. Thank you!
Heather, wonderful idea! Leave that freezer that needs defrosting with the house and get you a frost-free one. Ours died back in the summer and you better believe our next will be frost free.
Kim, we are soul sisters in the stalled but maintaining the loss camp. I need a fire lit under me, too.
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Beth - Love your rainbow story. And I am not religious at all. It's so important in our lives to stand up for ourselves. And for those we love.
While we were dealing with the freezer DH's team won at soccer. He was following it on his laptop. They are now almost at the top of the Premier League. Three wins in a row. I am happy for him.
We had to put the heating on today. Sooooooo chilly! I'm nice and warm now after my chilli con carne. Enjoying the champagne.
Lots of love, Heather UK xxxxxxx
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Woo HOO! Despite having 12 oz of REAL Oktoberfest yesterday and eating the most humongous breakfast, managed to stay exactly the same weight, thanks to lots of walking with company. Was great to have 'em, and a bit of a relief to see 'em go.
Left ear has been aching since before company came. Hot compresses, ear oil haven't helped much. Advil lets me sleep but then the ache returns in the morning. This morning trying turmeric, cayenne, lemon zest, honey. It didn't taste so good til added a splash of apple cider vinegar. Went back and ground a pinch of black pepper thanks to you gals' reminders. Fingers Xd.
Rebecca I sure wish we were closer, would leave some big surprises at your doorstep. SIL brought us GIANT zucchini. Heather would call them vegetable marrows. They look like submarines to me. Can only make so many muffins and loaves of bread. Never tried putting balsamic dressing on steamed zucchini, will try, thanks! Otherwise the only way I really like it is deep fried (of course) dipped in horseradish sour cream sauce
Barbie likewise would leave a zucchini submarine at your door, if I could be sure it wouldn't trip you up.
KJ thanks for asking Rori about her DH's GF's condo... I was thinking "Boy that Rori is sure more broadminded than I'd ever want to be..." :laugh: Hope this morning's turmeric concoction doesn't yellow my teeth any more than they are already
Michele tell me about stringing popcorn? Christmas already?
Kim love LOVE "Love" your plan to attend your friend's wedding as the 20 lbs lighter gal you've dreamed of being. You can make this dream come true! Good luck with the camping options!
Sue in WA ER discharged because they don't know why DH's labs are off? Beth said it, there is something seriously wrong with our health care system.
Machka beautiful beach, awesome run, wonderful second ride for your hubs.
Carol ConVERYgratulations on your 49th anniversary. What a marvelous accomplishment!
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD.
60 g protein 20/25, meditate 11/25, walk one more step 11/25, knee exercises 11/25, core 5/16, walk Tumble 11/16 times, SWSY 0/8, hang up or purge art 0/1, AF 18/25
Oh what do they say during zucchini season? Never leave your car door unlocked in a church parking lot! I have taken the big ones, halved and hollowed out a bit. Then saute the innards with onions and added tomato sauce. Bake the halved parts until underside is browned, fill and put cheese on top. Pizza boats! I do want to get those zunoodle maker thingys. Have zucchini like a pasta. I'm usually making husband's dinner and fixing mine, so I usually pile mine up precut and ready to go.
Last night I just put on a pot of water to boil and then balanced on top my collapsible metal steamer, pile on the veggies, salt and pepper to taste, and put a fair size lid on it all. In 5 or so minutes its done. Toss with balsamic dressing! Sometimes I add 1/2 of a microwavable Minute Rice wild rice container, then sprinkle my veggies with some parmesan cheese!
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Beth, Your story made me teary eyed! I am not religious, but I do believe our lives follow paths. That things happen for a reason, and there are signs everywhere.
I too have had to stick up for my husband's health! Its instinctive, but so many people go into a hospital alone. You need to always have someone speak for you, keep taps on you. Nurses do the best they can but with shift changes things get lost in translation.
It sounds like with you by your son's side, you got him the care he's needing. I hope his upcoming surgery is smooth and all goes well👍💗! Keep us all mentally in your back pocket K?
💗Rebecca
Whidbey island
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Ooh today I am 233.2! Going down this fat mountain like a giddy mountaineer mama! Can you just see me clipping on carbeeners left and right, making knots and swinging????? I can!!!
Loopy Rebecca 💗3 -
Beth, I've been praying for a miracle for your son. I too love rainbows, but the special sign God sends me is hawks soaring in the sky. Every time I see one, I know God is reminding me he is watching over me. How often I have seen them in moments of despair, just when I need to know I am loved. Wendy4
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counted all my MS MONEY...all tallied up and accounted for6
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well I bought a magnetic diary and am putting all my passwords in it and putting it in my lockbox in case something happens and my daughter has access to it..right now I am just getting a will done, but eventually a trust..3
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No gym workout today per kirby2
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Jake read the directions from the doctor about caring for my back and decided that I should be walking more than I have been so he suggested that the two of us go for a walk. My response was to say that any walking I did should be for the dogs so I've been out with dogs more today. I even walked for 30 minutes slowly with the dogs and my friend. Jake did the laundry and the grocery shopping and fixed lunch.
Beth When Jake went for his most recent treatment, the first nurse had trouble inserting the IV and she mentioned that he might have to have a "port" from now on. Then another nurse tried and had no trouble and said his veins were fine and not to worry. You were so right to speak up for your son. Also, I love spiritual stories and I've learned to ignore any language in the story that doesn't fit my thinking and just listen for the message. Thank you for sharing.
Heather, frost free freezer is absolutely the right thing to buy. I still remember the mess of defrosting a freezer and the last time I did it was probably 20 years ago.
Barbara I would have enjoyed getting your zucchini. My two little plants only produced a few very small ones.
Barbie
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