Worst Relationship

i was 15 dating a 18 and he was abusive, obsessive and controlling. lost all my friends, its been hard to make new ones since i came from a little town. people in my religion didnt want their kids to hang out with me cuz i was a "bad influence" . My parents about disowned me....the man i married almost didnt marry me cuz of it....and even 4 or 5 years later while living two states away from my old area he still stalks me and talks about me...and now my husband and i are about to move back to that terrible place ...not excited to move make to a place where no one likes me cuz i was in a bad relationship that i didnt know how to get out of that was abusive and basically still destroys my life...sad especially since i have moved on but its still tagging along with me like a piece of toilet paper stuck to my shoe

With an alcoholic who always did bad things and then turned everything around, and said I did all those bad things, and then told everyone he knew, that I did these things, I should have got him for slander!!

my worst relationship isn't with a man, I'm very much in love...my bad relationship is with food. We don't get along, but it's intoxicating, dangerous and unhealthy how much I love it. No wonder i'm 50lbs overweight. I wish I could break up with food, but it would kill me. Learning how to have a decent relationship with it is tough. but with support, I'm learning.

ah ha ha! I see what you did there- you anthropomorphized food into a significant other! I get it!!!!!

Interesting, this might explain my popcorn addiction.

my worst relationship isn't with a man, I'm very much in love...my bad relationship is with food. We don't get along, but it's intoxicating, dangerous and unhealthy how much I love it. No wonder i'm 50lbs overweight. I wish I could break up with food, but it would kill me. Learning how to have a decent relationship with it is tough. but with support, I'm learning.

ah ha ha! I see what you did there- you anthropomorphized food into a significant other! I get it!!!!!

It can be your best friend or your worst enemy. It can make you really healthy or kill you.

Interesting, this might explain my popcorn addiction.

He left me for my best friend, two weeks after my mother died. BAM! Worst.week.ever.

hmm...my last two are pretty great, my college boyfriend who I financially supported while going to college full time and working full time to support said education, would get his phone turned off and i'd pay to turn it on, would "borrow" my car and return it to me, late, with NO gas in the tank, oh yea and had a gambling addiction. and it took him cheating on my with his best friend's little sister for me to end it. oh to be young and naive.

The winner is definitely my last ex, dated for 3 years, very serious, a few months into us dating he tells me his ex is 5 months prego and it's his (drunken post break-up booty calls)...so no cheating was involved (not yet anyway) just bad timing...so i stick with him being all noble and whatnot, help him raise his son for 2 1/2 years....all the while him being CRAZY controlling, going through my phone, emails, chats etc for no reason...we finally decide to put things on hold for a couple months to get our lives together separately before i officially move in (he was in search of a new job, as was I)...and he starts dating a receptionist at work. What really makes him a winner, though, is his son's mother and I became friends, and in conversation realized he had cheated on both of us with each other for over a year! No wonder she was so "crazy", because he was going over there every few nights and telling her he wanted to try to make them work "as a family", while i was at his house doing our laundry and taking care of his dog waiting for him!

Um yeah pretty sure my entire 6 year marriage has been a lie so I would classify that is my worst so far.

It was with a grower boy...

He was the one smoking all the time, but I was the one who was always paranoid!

Let's just say a legal no-contact order is currently in place.

Let's just say a legal no-contact order is currently in place.

Ditto.

i have a tie for my worse relationship

so the last guy i dated before i came out as bisexual was a complete and total disaster. we were long distance but i told him he could move in with me for a month or so until he got on his own feet and got his own place...which never happened. i continued going to school, working full time and paying the rent and utilities while he worked and spent all his money on alcohol and drugs. then, we went on a vacation with my best friend and another friend, and we all had split the cost evenly between the 4 of us. after my bf at the time had all of us waiting on him while he shopped for vacation clothes the MORNING WE WERE SUPPOSED TO LEAVE, he then informs me when get to florida that he doesn't have the money to pay his part of the vacation. so i end up paying for both of us. then when we get back he tells all of our friends how he 'took his girl on vacation'..get outta here. but to put the icing on the cake, he also lied to me about talking to ex girlfriends, was even at one's house and i caught them out together in MY car. not to mention after i graduated i was jobless and STILL paying the bills while he contributed nothing with his money, and after we broke up he had the audacity to think he 'took care' of me, and that the apartment that i had lived in for 4 years prior to meeting him was now somehow 'his' and i had no right to kick him out.

THEN..my last relationship was with a sociopath of a woman. she was ridiculously possessive, went through my phone, was clingy as ever and then had the nerve to still be conversing with her crazy ex girlfriend who not only pulled a knife on her, but called my phone 25 times at 3 am. she went away to bootcamp, i didn't see her for 5 months, i was COMPLETELY faithful, only to find out this heifer cheated not only with her abusive ex, but a girl in bootcamp AND a girl that she met when she went with her friend somewhere and had me waiting in a parking lot for an hour waiting for her to tell me where she was so i could meet up with her and hang out.

mind you. both of these exes are aware that i'm in a great relationship now and are hounding me on facebook and through mutual friends. please. lmao!

Husband I'm seperated from. He out of the blue dumped me when our son was 10 mths old, I had no job...awesome...and it gets better. Turns out he'd been cheating on me throughout our relationship (I found damning e-mails and other proof). Um....we were talking about working it out and he knocked up some other girl, lied to her about how long him and I had been split up, still tries to get with me. Everything out of his mouth is a lie. He's a real winner.

On the plus side I'm dating a really great guy at the moment

16 and dating a 23 year old cocaine addict.

That makes your screen name hilarious.

OMG YES!!! Too funny.

I'm about to end this thread. I've got the heavyweight belt of bad relationships.

Ahem...

Former fiancee faked terminal brain cancer to cover drug/alcohol addiction.


*bows* thank you, thank you.

BWAHAHA!!!! RACHEL!!! I think we know who to set this guy up with!

The one I'm in. LOL

SAME HERE! UGH!

Then get out of them.