Worst Relationship

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  • Tinaatpeace
    Tinaatpeace Posts: 6 Member
    That was a good one. Thanks for sharing
  • Hootsmamma
    Hootsmamma Posts: 254 Member
    My First Marriage! I was married for 3 L O N G, Horrible, terrible, horrible, terrible years! Finally decided I had to get out and I walked away from everything. Let him have the house, all the furniture all the money in savings etc. Oh, and I took ALL of the bills! (Was I stupid or what??!!) Didn't care. I took my dog, my 2 cats, my horse and my saddle and left. Didn't want to fight him or drag it out. Knew if I didn't leave and leave soon, I was going to do something silly. Wasn't worth it. Stayed single for 12 yrs after until I met my soul-mate and best friend (my current husband of 11 years --StevLL).
  • aegira
    aegira Posts: 201 Member
    My marriage...thank god that's long gone.
    Time does help you to heal.
    I am now in the early part of a new relationship...moving slowly and carefully :bigsmile:
    Thankfully I now know what I will and will not tolerate :happy:
  • melo78
    melo78 Posts: 32 Member
    ~~I'm about to end this thread. I've got the heavyweight belt of bad relationships.

    Ahem...

    Former fiancee faked terminal brain cancer to cover drug/alcohol addiction.


    *bows* thank you, thank you.

    ______

    wow! that is pretty low! people are sick
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    That would be the one where I was 21 and pregnant and found out I had been cheated on AND that the other woman was also pregnant. He was in a "relationship" with her too. I dropped him and all of his belongings off at a gas station an hour away, in the middle of the night where the other woman could pick him up. I never went back for him. Ever. I found out he was an addict. My "relationship" with him has always been a non-relationship where I spent my pregnancy alone, raised our son without him, and kept him at an arm's distance (or more when he is using) so he can't do any more damage.
  • busywaterbending
    busywaterbending Posts: 844 Member
    a client of mine in a fitness class I taught was going through a pretty bad divorce, then started clinging to me and my husband for emotional support. Then he confided in us that he is Bipolar, and wanted to change his life. He started getting friendly, intrusive, then possessive, stalkerish, rude, and crazy.

    Broke off friendship and kicked him out of our business, but he was smart and started going to Church where we worshiped, telling everyone behind our back that we were having "maritial problems", and separating us from our friends. Then he completely started stalking me and sharing with me his feelings, giving me long emails (I would share with my husband), and love songs on CDs he would burn.

    After a spring of that behaivor we sat him down and told him good bye, and we went to another church to worship, and kept him out of our business. But he kept stalking me by follwing me everywhere I would be in public, and I also found out he was interfering in my business by calling peers and slandering us, or publicly slandering and defaming them using my emails or my profiles.

    By the fall, death threats, gun fire outside of our home, vandalizims, he would send me emails to my business explaining of how he would "warn" me to becareful against rapers or serial killers who get away with such actions and never get caught, emails or flat out telling me that he was fantazing about killing my husband and explainign to me how he would get me pregnant...
    we were freaked. Got a stalking restraining order on him, which only made him worse.

    Next time, shoot the *kitten*, never play nice. That was the oddest nonrelationship I've ever had. Crazy people suck.
  • heather7marie
    heather7marie Posts: 506 Member
    I've been in an abusive relationship and I never want to go back there. It was more mental than physical.

    I also dated a guy for a very long time. I was completely convinced that I was going to marry him... until I walked in on him cheating on me with my best friend of 15 years.

    One of my really good friends had a life saving operation earlier this summer. Her fiance stood by her during everything leading up to the operation and the recovery afterward. However, when she had complications and was put back in the hospital, her fiance cheated on her and ultimately broke up with her while she was in the ICU in critical condition. He is so freakin' low that I wouldn't even classify him as human.
  • jennor8or
    jennor8or Posts: 204 Member
    I'm about to end this thread. I've got the heavyweight belt of bad relationships.

    Ahem...

    Former fiancee faked terminal brain cancer to cover drug/alcohol addiction.


    *bows* thank you, thank you.

    ...they make medicine for ppl like that
  • dawndelicious
    dawndelicious Posts: 22 Member
    I've only made it through 2 pages of this post and I can't believe some of the **** you all have gone through!
  • elliecolorado
    elliecolorado Posts: 1,040
    Let's just say a legal no-contact order is currently in place.

    Ditto.

    I have one of those too!

    My last relationship was my worst!

    Him, 40 year old who managed to hold a job for 3-4 months out of the 2.5 years we were together (not 3-4 months consecutively either). Alcoholic/drug addict who liked to hit girls when he was drunk. And for all of the times that I told the cops 'no, he didn't hit me' (the cops were called on us pretty often) one time I had hit him back and he had me arrested...
  • veganbaum
    veganbaum Posts: 1,865 Member
    Do these kind of stories make anyone else a little wary of starting a new one? I mean, all I'm looking for is a partner who is stable, kind, and can hold a job and equally contribute to a relationship both emotionally and financially. Is that so much to ask? (To answer my own question, apparently it is, as I keep finding men who do not seem capable of finding steady employment and are permanently stuck in an adolescent state.)
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    Not the entire thing, but the ending of my last marriage was the worst. I am TIRED of giving HALF of my **** away every few years. Never again.
  • SkateboardFi
    SkateboardFi Posts: 1,322 Member


    Next time, shoot the *kitten*, never play nice. That was the oddest nonrelationship I've ever had. Crazy people suck.

    exactly. there was this one guy..i wouldn't even count him as a boyfriend, we were only 'seeing' one another, but he used to talk really to me in a really disrespectful way, (calling me out of my name, cussing me out etc) so i let his *kitten* go. he then apologized and wanted to come over and explain and try to salvage our 'friendship' because i was working with this brother at the time so i let him come over, and this *kitten* started going ape**** on me telling me he saw me out at the movies with another guy and started cussing me out. i went CRAZY, i started yelling and screaming at him and told him to get out. he then punched me in my jaw. luckily my apartment was a studio at the time so i could make it to my purse because it looked like he was going to hit me again, got out my pocket knife, and left him a five stitch reminder on his cheek to never hit a woman who was a tad bit crazier than he was. he never bothered me again.
  • Ntdrkyet
    Ntdrkyet Posts: 64 Member
    my 10 year relationship/marriage. Married at 18 divorce finalized in April. Physical abuse, couldnt keep a job and nothings changed- dont get child support cuz he still cant get/keep a job.


    This is like reading a page from my life! Married at 18 and stayed for 10 long years.
    I work like crazy to support our two kids while he lives with his parents!! Oh and he's a drunk....think his parents enable him much? UGH!
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