Less Alcohol - April 2019 - One Day at a Time

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  • WinoGelato
    WinoGelato Posts: 13,454 Member
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    MissMay wrote: »
    Orphia wrote: »
    @MissMay I sent you a PM.
    @Orphia I never received it. I sent you one, reply back to me from that message. 😁

    FYI for both of you, I recently learned that people only receive PMs if they are on your friends list. I don’t know if this is a glitch or intentional on MfPs part but it was surprising to me as I know this wasn’t always the case. Just in case that may be part of the challenge...
  • MissMay
    MissMay Posts: 3,553 Member
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    THANKS @WinoGelato. Nice to hear from you as always.
  • MissMay
    MissMay Posts: 3,553 Member
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    Awesome job @sunscoutie. Love how you said "it felt good to conquer that". Baby steps my friend. That is what we all do here. 👍 👍 👍
  • MissMay
    MissMay Posts: 3,553 Member
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    Hey gang you can find the monthly continuation of this thread at this link:
    https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10741426/less-alcohol-may-2019-one-day-at-a-time#latest
    Hope to see all these familiar faces and new ones as well.
  • dawnbgethealthy
    dawnbgethealthy Posts: 7,559 Member
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    I am going to continue with my goal of 4AF days per week.
    Weight loss is my main motivator.

    April 1 - AF
    April 2 - AF
    April 3 - AF
    April 4 - 3 drinks
    April 5 - AF - super glad to have this forum to check in to for accountability, it really does stop me some days when I have had crazy days at work and really feel like having drinks.
    April 06 - 3 drinks, and up 1.6 pounds in one day from it. All the more reason for AF days : - )
    April 07 - AF - planning AF for the next 3 days at least
    April 08 - AF
    April 09 - AF
    April 10 - AF
    April 11 - AF - planned night out for the 12th, jam session at a bar. I have sang without drinking before, but prefer to loosen up with a couple first...we'll see. I love being less bloated, especially in the face.
    April 12 - 4 drinks - Didn't even go out to the jam in the neighbouring town. I had such a long busy workday and 9pm just seemed too late for me to start to gussie up and drive there. I probably wouldn't have had any drinks had I gone, because I was driving. I was just too tired lol. It actually was nice to relax, have a few drinks, watch hockey.
    April 13 - AF
    April 14 - 3 drinks - Sunday - going to make at least the next 3 days AF
    April 15 - AF
    April 16 - AF - home sick from work. A brandy or a glass of red wine might have been soothing, but I didn't.
    April 17 - AF - after months of being on this thread I feel like it is finally becoming my new normal. As much as I have done many AF days each month, not a day went by that I didn't feel like having drinks - I just didn't. I truly feel like I am not craving it as much now.
    April 18 - AF - Still not logging until the following day so far : - )
    April 19 - 2 drinks hours ago. Actually logged on the current day for a change.
    April 20 - AF - Still battling this terrible flu/cold thing and wine would have eased the coughing...but so will Neo Citran or something before bed. Alcohol probably doesn't help much with healing anyway.
    April 21 - AF - It is nice to wake up without a bloated stomach and face.
    April 22 - AF
    April 23 - AF
    April 24 - AF
    April 25 - 2 drinks. When I first got started at drinking less, when the days came that I would have drinks I think that I was feeling deprived and drank more than usual. I don't feel that way anymore. 3 would be normal for me, but tonight (a few hours ago) I had 2 and was good with that. Progress.
    April 26 - 3 drinks - broke the never drink 2 days in a row : - ( I know that I could so easily go back to drinks every day.
    April 27 - 3 drinks. That was too easy. Of course my food discipline goes out the window too when I have drinks. I was on a pretty good roll this month before this. I will need to get a handle on it.
    April 28 - AF
    April 29 - AF



    Running total: 20AF days out of 29 days so far
  • AbandondedKSCharger
    AbandondedKSCharger Posts: 562 Member
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    @thomasjohnlynch YES!! Thank you for addressing this. I know so many AA friends and family members who have found success. I love talking to them. Envy them. but yet...…….I don't dare go to the one and only local AA meeting in a town of only 3k people. I am familiar with the AA program as I attended Al Anon for several years in the early days of our marriage. So I understand the anonymity thing...…….but I can not get the courage to attend. I want to keep it a secret as much as possible within this gossipy judgmental community. THIS is my safe place…….This group. For years I have said...….."one is too many and one more is never enough". Thank you for sharing. I did need to hear that.
  • MissMay
    MissMay Posts: 3,553 Member
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    AbandondedKSCharger wrote: »
    THIS is my safe place…….This group.
    💖 💖 💖
  • annshandle
    annshandle Posts: 68 Member
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    Sounds like people are doing well! I had a moderately okay weekend -- 2 drinks on Friday, but more on Saturday, 3 on Sunday. Back to AF during the week. See you all in the May thread!
  • Mike_Check
    Mike_Check Posts: 16 Member
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    Ok so I didn't really track every day but I can say that at least checking in with this group occasionally has been really beneficial to my health. Most days I went to bed pretty sober, although not so many were AF. But only having a few hungover days at work was a big change. See you all in May!
  • MissMay
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    Nice to hear the end of the month success stories. yes each and everyone one is a success because your all being conscience drinkers.

    Great to have you joining us @amybhunt965. My best end of the day stress inhibitor to have less alcohol is to recall the many times I regretted having that "one drink", that led into oh so many. No one I was around would tell me I drank to much....so I had to tell myself.
  • Orphia
    Orphia Posts: 7,097 Member
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    Day 454 Alcohol-free.
    amybhunt1965 wrote: »
    Hi, everybody. This is my first-ever post. I was drawn to this board because booze is one of my biggest downfalls. Or, as I like it say, it's not the one glass of wine. It's the cheeseburgers and more wine I inevitably have after the first glass of wine.

    Anyway, just looking for some tips to cut waaaay back on my alcohol consumption as a way to stay on-track and get some of these pounds gone.

    Also, what's your best "stressed at the end of a long day" tip for not drinking?

    (Also, unrelated, what forums do you recommend for someone who's done MFP several times and does great for a few weeks but inevitably falls off the tracking wagon and goes back to old habits? I need to stay engaged this time, for real...)

    Read the Helpful Posts in the general section. Most "serial starters" tend to starve/binge in cycles. A more moderate and gentle approach is best. Fast weight loss is bad, and makes people increasingly overweight over time.

    Read the OP in our Less Alcohol threads. So many tips from what everyone has learned. Dip into it whenever you need advice.

    My best tip about not drinking when stressed is that drinking leads to more stress: you feel guilty for drinking, you get a buzz which wears off and/or leads to anxiety and aggressive/defensive behaviour; you feel bad in the morning and tired/stressed in the evening... Stress Drinking leads to more drinking.

    Have a night off to do something kind, fresh, and beautiful for yourself. It's a reward, a treat, not a punishment. <3

  • AbandondedKSCharger
    AbandondedKSCharger Posts: 562 Member
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    Hi @amybhunt1965 I am part of this thread and Ultimate Accountability Challenge (Group). It is a group that commits to 20 minutes of exercise, tracking your food and keeping within your calories. It has also helped me to be more accountable. A few of us here are in that group also.
    I am not one for advise on how to reduce the alcohol yet...…..still working on it so much myself. I just bought two books to help me out. Quit Drinking and The Alcohol Experiment. Keep trying is so far my key! :)
  • AbandondedKSCharger
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    Mike_Check wrote: »
    Ok so I didn't really track every day but I can say that at least checking in with this group occasionally has been really beneficial to my health. Most days I went to bed pretty sober, although not so many were AF. But only having a few hungover days at work was a big change. See you all in May!

    That is the same success I feel I have had. I think I went two weeks at work without a hangover. But the last one...whewww, it was a doozie on the 26th from Thursday night. It was a great reminder of why the less alcohol nights are so important and reminded me that I really do want to quit drinking.
  • sunscoutie
    sunscoutie Posts: 34 Member
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    Was AF yesterday as well as today. But....see this is what my mind got on earlier (and hasn't stopped)...

    ..."Since I didn't drink Sunday and Monday, I could have a couple drinks tonight as a reward."

    Really?

    I almost stopped at the liquor store on the way home, but I continued to tell myself how "unpresent" I would be tonight and how bad I might feel tomorrow. It worked....but I had to continually tell myself this until just now when I started typing this. I think I'll just go to bed now. haha.

    I'm looking forward to May and cutting a few days out of the month (at least).

  • sunscoutie
    sunscoutie Posts: 34 Member
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    Oh and I have a question for everyone. Has cutting alcohol helped lose weight? I've cut it out for a couple weeks here and there and never lose any weight.
  • Womona
    Womona Posts: 1,604 Member
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    sunscoutie wrote: »
    Oh and I have a question for everyone. Has cutting alcohol helped lose weight? I've cut it out for a couple weeks here and there and never lose any weight.

    I started to finally lose weight. Not only did I cut the calories from the drinks, I also cut the “drunk eating” that invariably went with having too much.

    Also, my skin looks a lot better and I’m not bloated and tired looking! Win win!

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