What's something you wish you could tell your younger self?

ghudson92
ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
edited December 22 in Chit-Chat
Just interested to read people's life lessons. I would tell myself to walk away from people who continue to hurt me. I've had to really work on setting boundaries with people as I've got older. Still not the best at it in my late twenties!
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  • andrewhastings5628
    andrewhastings5628 Posts: 60 Member
    If there’s a chance, take it !
  • laprimaJenny
    laprimaJenny Posts: 1,495 Member
    Treat others the way you expect to be treated.
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    ordering Thai food extra, extra hot ,while taunting the chef, might not be the best idea....

    I feel there's a funny story here
  • Pandemonium_
    Pandemonium_ Posts: 945 Member
    Wishes and hopes dont do *kitten*. Work for what you want.
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    generically- maybe back in high school i guess i'd tell myself to go to more parties and don't talk about books as much
    specifically- later on, don't get married and don't be afraid to tell her family off when they're being terrible

    IDK man, without your books you're just another pretty face. 😉

    Also yes to part II
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    ordering Thai food extra, extra hot ,while taunting the chef, might not be the best idea....

    I feel there's a funny story here

    Only for the chef..... :D
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    there's no pool on the roof
  • laprimaJenny
    laprimaJenny Posts: 1,495 Member
    scarlets640 wrote: »
    Don’t do things you don’t want to do just to make other people happy

    This is so true.
  • PAFC84
    PAFC84 Posts: 1,871 Member
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    am i the only one that wouldn’t tell myself anything because i’d be afraid of horrifically altering the course of history

    I find I only truly learn through direct experience. Unfortunately sometimes it takes me a few times to learn the lesson,
  • cbstewart88
    cbstewart88 Posts: 453 Member
    Whatever you decide to do - DO IT!!! Everything works out fine and you'll have a blast!! One small word of advice: take all the money you will spend on shoes and put it in a little stock called "Intel". *Trust Me*. :)
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Do what you want
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  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    scarlets640 wrote: »
    Don’t do things you don’t want to do just to make other people happy

    A lesson I only learnt in recent years unfortunately
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    ghudson92 wrote: »
    scarlets640 wrote: »
    Don’t do things you don’t want to do just to make other people happy

    A lesson I only learnt in recent years unfortunately

    well you've still got more ahead than behind so is a victory in my book
  • JennyJacobsen
    JennyJacobsen Posts: 72 Member
    Think before you Do things! Trust your heart in every choice, it will help you in the end! :smiley:
  • mtndewme
    mtndewme Posts: 724 Member
    Idk .... I’d just tell myself to leave all my relationships sooner 🤷🏻‍♀️
  • bennettinfinity
    bennettinfinity Posts: 865 Member
    - Don't be afraid to say no
    - Don't be afraid to say yes
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    nighthawk584 wrote: »
    I would tell my younger self, don't waste your life just existing and hiding away from the world.
    I would also tell myself to not tell my parents I was too tired or didn't feel like going out with them (when I felt fine)
    Both my parents passed away last year and I would give anything to have all those selfish moments back.

    I'm sorry to hear about your parents
  • ethantelfer39
    ethantelfer39 Posts: 34 Member
    Play while you can, you have your whole life to work.
  • J72FIT
    J72FIT Posts: 6,009 Member
    edited August 2019
    Believe in yourself, you can do it. Don't take everything so seriously. On the other side of discomfort is growth...
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