What's something you wish you could tell your younger self?

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  • vggb
    vggb Posts: 132 Member
    Stand up for yourself, walk away, if you're doing all the work it ain't working.
  • laprimaJenny
    laprimaJenny Posts: 1,495 Member
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    ssshhhh. Just stop talking

    This is something I still have to tell myself on a regular basis.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    ssshhhh. Just stop talking

    This is something I still have to tell myself on a regular basis.

    same
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,308 Member
    🤔Nothing.. he'll learn soon enough.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,742 Member
    Hard to boil down to a single sentence, but I'd want to convey to my younger self that there are not just two types of relationships being either passionate yet horribly dysfunctional or boring with no attraction. There really IS a good middle ground that you can find and actually enjoy life & be happy and romantically fulfilled!

    It would have saved me from years in Marriage #1 (which fortunately was boring with no attraction and not the other type).
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,799 Member
    Root for a different football team, my boy. The Buffalo Bills are the leading cause of atherosclerosis in men.
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,799 Member
    Tell Mom you want to sign up for a Self Realization Fellowship Camp. It may very well save the Christmas of '97.
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,799 Member
    Eat more almonds, babe.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Sleep in clothes or naked
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    SLEEP IN CLOTHES OR NAKED!
  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    He’s not quiet because he’s mysterious. He’s quiet because he has nothing to say

    to you

    Is...is that a bad thing?
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    He’s not quiet because he’s mysterious. He’s quiet because he has nothing to say

    to you

    Is...is that a bad thing?

    well

    For me, yes.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Just do it and skip a boatload of crap later on
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    tinkerhellraiser wrote: »
    do the dishes more

    ...and this is why we need someone to invent a time machine
  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    He’s not quiet because he’s mysterious. He’s quiet because he has nothing to say

    to you

    Is...is that a bad thing?

    well

    For me, yes.

    Oh, can I ask why?
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    mattig89ch wrote: »
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    He’s not quiet because he’s mysterious. He’s quiet because he has nothing to say

    to you

    Is...is that a bad thing?

    well

    For me, yes.

    Oh, can I ask why?

    You want to know why I like what I like? I’m not sure how to answer that.

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