What screams "I'm very insecure"?

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  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    melissawill2017 wrote: »
    The__ViKinG__BATMAN wrote: »
    People who post cryptic messages

    Yeeesssss!!! This drives me insane in any social media outlet!!

    It's only cryptic if ya don't know what's goin on ffs 😂
  • melissawill2017
    melissawill2017 Posts: 1,131 Member
    pizzamyheart wrote: »
    melissawill2017 wrote: »
    The__ViKinG__BATMAN wrote: »
    People who post cryptic messages

    Yeeesssss!!! This drives me insane in any social media outlet!!

    Or how about the old “please send prayers! Something terrible has happened” but don’t ask me questions and I’m not giving any details yet I need to post that cliffhanger.

    “Y’all silent prayers needed but please respect my privacy and don’t ask me about it”🙄🙄🙄.. I cringe every time.. lol

  • melissawill2017
    melissawill2017 Posts: 1,131 Member
    George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »
    melissawill2017 wrote: »
    The__ViKinG__BATMAN wrote: »
    People who post cryptic messages

    Yeeesssss!!! This drives me insane in any social media outlet!!

    It's only cryptic if ya don't know what's goin on ffs 😂


    True.. but why be cryptic in the first place? I hate when people fish for *kitten*... annoys the *kitten* out of me!
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
    CanesGalactica wrote: »
    pizzamyheart wrote: »
    CanesGalactica wrote: »
    Just_Mel_ wrote: »
    pizzamyheart wrote: »
    I think people who update and inform social media all day long about every minute of their day and every aspect of their life tend to scream “I’m insecure!!!”. It’s just the impression I get when I see people who do that.

    I see this a lot of Facebook. And sometimes I think maybe social media is the only social life they have and it kinda makes me sad. Or maybe they don't have jobs so they're bored and it's the only way they have to interact with others besides their cats and lizards. 🤷‍♀️

    Hey now, just because I talk to my cats and non-existent lizards doesn't mean I don't have a life.

    P.S. Not everyone who is unemployed sits around posting to FB and social media all day.

    Tbh, this afternoon I pulled into my driveway, got out of my car, and proceeded to have a five minute conversation with my cat who was sitting in the open upstairs window. We just meowed back and forth. I started it and she kept answering me.

    Hey, they know. You may not think they know or care, but I insist that cats can and do care about their "humans".

    They definitely do. My previous cat was very protective of me - he growled at anyone who came near me, including my ex 😂 but with me he was just the most darling little lovebug
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Possessiveness
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    Possessiveness

    Well yes MY sweet girl....i think MY friend ....you maybe onto something there.....now get over here and let me see your phone real quick MY dear ...😏😖😅😅😅😍🤘
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    Tinydancer106 wrote: »
    your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
    Possessiveness

    Well yes MY sweet girl....i think MY friend ....you maybe onto something there.....now get over here and let me see your phone real quick MY dear ...😏😖😅😅😅😍🤘

    Laughed out loud 😂🤗❤️
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Taking a shower with the lights turned off. #psoriasis😑
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Wearing a burlap sack on an 82 degree day.
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Turning the volume down on a Rod Stewart song at a red light.
  • Tinydancer106
    Tinydancer106 Posts: 3,678 Member
    kam26001 wrote: »
    Turning the volume down on a Rod Stewart song at a red light.

    Ok you went too far sir....i was with ya up until this one😖.....rod needs to be heard!?🤘😎🤷


    🤗💗
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    BachataDancer wrote: »
    I have to go with the overuse of filters. (And I don't say that to judge anybody who does use a filter or when we have fun using the silly filters) I just feel like I'm looking at a picture of a person who isn't comfortable in her own skin and it makes me sad. And then below it to read all the comments from guys "wow, you look great" which just reinforces the use of blurry glamour filters. It kind of makes me want to punch somebody.

    I have mixed feelings about it. I understand the desire to hide wrinkles, uneven skin tone, dark circles. I wear makeup. I get it.

    And the men gushing. Are they being nice? Trying to ingratiate themselves? Fooled? Are they disappointed if they meet in person?
  • KosmosKitten
    KosmosKitten Posts: 10,476 Member
    BachataDancer wrote: »
    I have to go with the overuse of filters. (And I don't say that to judge anybody who does use a filter or when we have fun using the silly filters) I just feel like I'm looking at a picture of a person who isn't comfortable in her own skin and it makes me sad. And then below it to read all the comments from guys "wow, you look great" which just reinforces the use of blurry glamour filters. It kind of makes me want to punch somebody.

    Bam. Thank you. I post in our dedicated (now) thread to filter use, but yes.. it is disheartening to see what you are describing in the regular selfie thread. Personal opinion, of course.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    When a person is uncomfortable looking you in the eye when they speak.. sometimes they are just shy or might even be telling a lie but sometimes to me it feels like there is something about their face they are insecure about.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When a person is uncomfortable looking you in the eye when they speak.. sometimes they are just shy or might even be telling a lie but sometimes to me it feels like there is something about their face they are insecure about.

    I once dated a girl with a lazy eye.

    It was great.

    She could look me in the eye and describe the house at the end of the street at the same time.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When a person is uncomfortable looking you in the eye when they speak.. sometimes they are just shy or might even be telling a lie but sometimes to me it feels like there is something about their face they are insecure about.

    I once dated a girl with a lazy eye.

    It was great.

    She could look me in the eye and describe the house at the end of the street at the same time.

    :laugh:
    I once dated a guy who had 2 lazy eyes, he couldn't look me in the eye but could look where he'd been and where he was going at the same time
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  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited October 2019
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When a person is uncomfortable looking you in the eye when they speak.. sometimes they are just shy or might even be telling a lie but sometimes to me it feels like there is something about their face they are insecure about.

    I agree with this for the most part.

    But, sometimes I have trouble making prolonged eye contact sometimes but not always because I feel insecure. Sometimes, a look can transfer energy that’s very intense, and I’m sensitive to that......that’s all.

    Not sure if that makes sense to anyone.

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