What’s a red flag for you?

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  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Being allergic to not liking dogs is a huge red flag for me. I put it right up there with constantly cancelling plans so she can wash her hair

    Yeah but how do you feel when she cancels YOUR plans so she can wash her hair?
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Being allergic to not liking dogs is a huge red flag for me. I put it right up there with constantly cancelling plans so she can wash her hair

    Why would you even wanna date a chick with hair that nasty?

    I mean, it has NOTHING to do with a repressed fascination/love of werewolves...right?
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Being allergic to not liking dogs is a huge red flag for me. I put it right up there with constantly cancelling plans so she can wash her hair

    Yeah but how do you feel when she cancels YOUR plans so she can wash her hair?

    ...maybe I'm intrigued then, maybe. But still!
  • s131951
    s131951 Posts: 3,776 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    Being allergic to not liking dogs is a huge red flag for me. I put it right up there with constantly cancelling plans so she can wash her hair

    Why would you even wanna date a chick with hair that nasty?

    I mean, it has NOTHING to do with a repressed fascination/love of werewolves...right?

    Second.
  • yelliezx
    yelliezx Posts: 633 Member
    bourbon_n_barbells wrote: »
    yelliezx wrote: »
    - Anger issues
    - Controlling
    - A mean drunk
    - Too regimented (not willing to go on adventures, too serious about organization)
    - Takes themselves and situations too seriously all the time

    definitely red flags.

    You forgot "doesn't like dogs"

    Yessss! Gotta love the pups!
  • bourbon_n_barbells
    bourbon_n_barbells Posts: 425 Member
    yelliezx wrote: »
    bourbon_n_barbells wrote: »
    yelliezx wrote: »
    - Anger issues
    - Controlling
    - A mean drunk
    - Too regimented (not willing to go on adventures, too serious about organization)
    - Takes themselves and situations too seriously all the time

    definitely red flags.

    You forgot "doesn't like dogs"

    Yessss! Gotta love the pups!

    :p
  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    edited November 2019
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    When he doesn’t like that I don’t like that he doesn’t like coffee

    I don't like coffee or wine..makes people go bananas
    I don't care if you love coffee or wine...so dont make an issue that I don't think both are gross

    life is so unnecessarily complicated..LOL


  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    yelliezx wrote: »
    - Anger issues
    - Controlling
    - A mean drunk
    - Too regimented (not willing to go on adventures, too serious about organization)
    - Takes themselves and situations too seriously all the time

    Dis me 😏
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    An older brother named Rocco. 👀
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    When he has a droopy sombrero
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    If she writes poetry that I can feel
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    tinak33 wrote: »
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    If she writes poetry that I can feel

    Like in braille?

    Or just puffy sticker letters?

    Puffy sticker letters preferably cause I can’t read Braille
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    When they start saying "my mom does this for my dad"

    You will forever be compared to that woman.
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    Probably when someone kicks Furby’s to death, that’s probably a pretty big red flag
  • kimber0607
    kimber0607 Posts: 994 Member
    loud open mouthed nasty chewer
    not listening watching that *kitten* for the next 20 years...

    *start lining up boys to date this gem...LOL*
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    Missing in action on the weekends and holidays.
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    If he’s an *** towards service workers and people driving.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    shonnakraft89 wrote: »
    Financial instability.


    Sounds awful but I promise I'm not a gold digger or anything. I dont care about Income etc.
    I care that you can be responsible with that income so that I'm never in the same situation my ex always put me in having to step in and fix his stupid financial choices.

    I totally get this. When I first started dating my husband his income was pretty crazy low but he lived a minimalist lifestyle and had zero problems making ends meet, very good credit, etc. There's a lot to be said for responsibility and living within your means.

    My ex wasn't too bad financially but he was always stretching himself to the limit and it was a bad influence on me, too. It was hard to save up a lot of extra money when someone else in the household regularly splurges on fancy electronics and car parts and other $1k "treats" for himself.
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  • Silver_Gent
    Silver_Gent Posts: 61 Member
    edited November 2019
    “Separated”

    Hmmmmm I wonder if their spouse knows?
  • Pandemonium_
    Pandemonium_ Posts: 945 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When he has a droopy sombrero

    I'm afraid to look this up on urban dictionary
  • shaf238
    shaf238 Posts: 4,022 Member
    When they're a Liverpool fan
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Pandemonium_ wrote: »
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    When he has a droopy sombrero

    I'm afraid to look this up on urban dictionary

    hahaha..... yeah, somethings can't be unseen.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Shallow people...

  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    An adult who still thinks farting loud is funny. Sorry, I don't date 6 year olds.
  • jujaws
    jujaws Posts: 190 Member
    Men wearing fashion necklaces 😂. It was always a thing of mine, ESPECIALLY if it was a gold chain.

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