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  • solarex1
    solarex1 Posts: 408 Member
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    solarex1 wrote: »
    When they are too emotionally demanding

    This is me. I'm emotional and very demanding.

    Well I would make a good friend at best
  • BeamingBadass
    BeamingBadass Posts: 1,454 Member
    How much they're on their phone
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    solarex1 wrote: »
    When they are too emotionally demanding

    This is me. I'm emotional and very demanding.

    Nope, DISAGREE. I love you.
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    edited February 2020
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    solarex1 wrote: »
    When they are too emotionally demanding

    This is me. I'm emotional and very demanding.

    Nope, DISAGREE. I love you.

    Stop that. I like being insightful.

    ETA: I *kitten* love you MORE!
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
    r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »
    solarex1 wrote: »
    When they are too emotionally demanding

    This is me. I'm emotional and very demanding.

    Nope, DISAGREE. I love you.

    Stop that. I like being insightful.

    ETA: I *kitten* love you MORE!

    Oh you daggum insightful alright.
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    edited February 2020
    If I wake up at 2:00am and he’s in the other room on the MFP forums.

    To the curb.
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    Expecting me to be instantly available by phone, gets annoyed when I don't reply immediately
  • AllOutof_Bubblegum
    AllOutof_Bubblegum Posts: 3,646 Member
    He showed zero interest in my children.
  • mommabear4315
    mommabear4315 Posts: 3,424 Member
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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Red flag to me when a client pays a $2000 bill all in twenties

    Does seem like s/he works in a cash business. Maybe landlord or drug dealer

    yep, totally got a Breaking Bad vibe. Vanilla af seeming cute couple.
    But suspicious to me they have $2000 in twenties in pocket? If you got a bunch of cash, put it into the bank, safer + you earn interest
    ...unless you've earned it illegally...made me uncomfortable.

    If you want to pay cash for that amount, it should be in hundies, $20's is weird and sketchy
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited February 2020
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Red flag to me when a client pays a $2000 bill all in twenties

    Does seem like s/he works in a cash business. Maybe landlord or drug dealer

    yep, totally got a Breaking Bad vibe. Vanilla af seeming cute couple.
    But suspicious to me they have $2000 in twenties in pocket? If you got a bunch of cash, put it into the bank, safer + you earn interest
    ...unless you've earned it illegally...made me uncomfortable.

    If you want to pay cash for that amount, it should be in hundies, $20's is weird and sketchy

    I love the way you think & talk.❤️

    I have ties to the restaurant business. That is also heavy on cash.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Red flag to me when a client pays a $2000 bill all in twenties

    Does seem like s/he works in a cash business. Maybe landlord or drug dealer

    yep, totally got a Breaking Bad vibe. Vanilla af seeming cute couple.
    But suspicious to me they have $2000 in twenties in pocket? If you got a bunch of cash, put it into the bank, safer + you earn interest
    ...unless you've earned it illegally...made me uncomfortable.

    If you want to pay cash for that amount, it should be in hundies, $20's is weird and sketchy

    I love the way you think & talk.❤️

    I have ties to the restaurant business. That is also heavy on cash.

    Thanks Lady!
    Love the way you think and talk too!

    ...and tbh, I earn some "cash" jobs too

    My hairstylist is a "cash, no tax" person...presumably she pays tax as a self employed business, but maybe there is a benefit to cash transactions? Don't have to pay the credit card companies a percentage.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Red flag to me when a client pays a $2000 bill all in twenties

    Does seem like s/he works in a cash business. Maybe landlord or drug dealer

    yep, totally got a Breaking Bad vibe. Vanilla af seeming cute couple.
    But suspicious to me they have $2000 in twenties in pocket? If you got a bunch of cash, put it into the bank, safer + you earn interest
    ...unless you've earned it illegally...made me uncomfortable.

    If you want to pay cash for that amount, it should be in hundies, $20's is weird and sketchy

    I love the way you think & talk.❤️

    I have ties to the restaurant business. That is also heavy on cash.

    wait.

    ..... you have ties to the restaurant business ??



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  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    Red flag to me when a client pays a $2000 bill all in twenties

    Does seem like s/he works in a cash business. Maybe landlord or drug dealer

    yep, totally got a Breaking Bad vibe. Vanilla af seeming cute couple.
    But suspicious to me they have $2000 in twenties in pocket? If you got a bunch of cash, put it into the bank, safer + you earn interest
    ...unless you've earned it illegally...made me uncomfortable.

    If you want to pay cash for that amount, it should be in hundies, $20's is weird and sketchy

    I love the way you think & talk.❤️

    I have ties to the restaurant business. That is also heavy on cash.

    wait.

    ..... you have ties to the restaurant business ??



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    Restaurant. Not private carting. Sheesh
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    A guy who exhibits any of these behaviors:

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  • mattig89ch
    mattig89ch Posts: 2,648 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    A guy who exhibits any of these behaviors:

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    I actually didn't know what these terms meant. Thanks!
  • isalsayourface123
    isalsayourface123 Posts: 2,153 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    A guy who exhibits any of these behaviors:

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    And I've been guilty of all of these ... :o
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    A guy who exhibits any of these behaviors:

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    Yep!
  • solarex1
    solarex1 Posts: 408 Member
    seltzermint555 wrote: »
    email signature with a quote from Joel Osteen

    🤣🤣🤣
  • zeekngreatness
    zeekngreatness Posts: 68 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    A guy who exhibits any of these behaviors:

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    I wish I knew these terms back in hs, would’ve made it easier to compartmentalize 🤭
  • zeekngreatness
    zeekngreatness Posts: 68 Member
    When my boss calls me early in the morning 😐..I just clocked in, why you pressing me son
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,740 Member
    Ordering an appetizer without asking me for input before. Thoughtless of the date... selfish... both? Makes me curious what else he's thoughtless and/or selfish about, but not curious enough to actually make an assessment.
  • KickassAmazon76
    KickassAmazon76 Posts: 4,678 Member
    Rage, road or otherwise, and treating servers / service workers like crap when they make a simple mistake.
  • solarex1
    solarex1 Posts: 408 Member
    Delicate sense of humor.

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