Celibacy for a set amount of time

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  • LAMCDylan
    LAMCDylan Posts: 1,218 Member
    I also keep a rubberband around my wrist and yank/slap myself with it whenever I fantasize about women. This is a well known technique to retrain your brain.
  • LAMCDylan
    LAMCDylan Posts: 1,218 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    jgkoutr wrote: »
    I went w/o for two weeks..didn't go well...out of frustration slept w ex



    That's the fear, I turn into a raging monster at 10 days

    There is an underlying issue when you act out like that. Compulsive *kitten*, chasing women and sleeping around, etc is always a sign of a bigger issue and you use the sex/*kitten* to soothe it. What I explain above is learning to heal myself of that so I can have healthier relationships/sex/*kitten*. And, it helps you pick better women instead of needy/crazy ones. I am actually following some guy's plan who wrote this all out and gives steps on how to do all of this. Lots of men are doing it and having great results.

  • LAMCDylan
    LAMCDylan Posts: 1,218 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    Well. Celibacy was kind of forced tonight. Ended up going for lots of drinks and the girl I was with passed out when we got back to her place. Easy 2nd night of celibacy.

    You have to stop chasing women and hanging out with women. Make more male friends and hang with them.
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  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    How the F does celibacy clear your head?
    I’m like a maniac. Celibacy is the worst.

    Ok. To be fair, I have heard of this. Longest I’ve ever gone is 2 months, no way no how ever trying it. However, an old yoga teacher of mine and his gf went celibate for one year together. He spoke of it as a sort of spiritual experience. Maybe try reaching out to people who practice this regularly —likely not too many MFPers
  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    It really is like Seinfeld, Elaine vs George up in here ^^
  • flynntrader
    flynntrader Posts: 210 Member
    The only thing that is the highest in my life is my sex drive

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  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    flynntrader wrote: »

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    A train?
  • flynntrader
    flynntrader Posts: 210 Member
    edited May 2020
    goatg wrote: »
    flynntrader wrote: »

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    A train?
    You didn’t see the movie.

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  • goatg
    goatg Posts: 1,399 Member
    flynntrader wrote: »
    goatg wrote: »
    flynntrader wrote: »

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    A train?
    You didn’t see the movie.

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    No, but a group of camels is a train....
    As is a three humped.....


    My humor is not kid friendly.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    edited May 2020
    I have been celibate for as long as 2.5 years. There were 2 other times I was celibate for about 2 years. I don’t have sex outside of serious relationships and I don’t jump from one relationship to another so it just happened that way. It wasn’t fun.
  • that_night_in_paris
    that_night_in_paris Posts: 457 Member
    All power to those who can be celibate and come out a better person. It's not for me though. I love nachos too much.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    im saving it for marriage
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I'm saving it for the prom.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    im saving it for marriage
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    I'm saving it for the prom.

    Something you would never actually say
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    im saving it for marriage

    Agree with you. But in a long marriage, expect some down time. My wife had three C-Sections, a miscarriage, endometriosis, surgery for fibroids, a hysterectomy, and the recovery periods varied from 5 to 12 weeks.

    Life after a hysterectomy is the best. No more fear of consequences. And the down time is measured in days now instead of weeks.
  • Naijasfitbodi
    Naijasfitbodi Posts: 2 Member
    Also saving myself for marriage; it’s a struggle though.
  • ghudson92
    ghudson92 Posts: 2,061 Member
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  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,669 Member
    that_night_in_paris wrote: »
    All power to those who can be celibate and come out a better person. It's not for me though. I love nachos too much.

    Same. With salsa.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    The neighbor's cat is scared to death.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    It's honestly the lamest oldest trick in the book...

    Playing on the old, people want what they can't have rule 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    It's honestly the lamest oldest trick in the book...

    Playing on the old, people want what they can't have rule 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Some people feel that what one does with their physical body impacts their spiritual/mental lives. I can understand that.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    So, how'd ya go Benny @strozman ;)

    It's been 4 years, come back and let us know
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited May 2020
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    So, how'd ya go Benny @strozman ;)

    It's been 4 years, come back and let us know

    I want to know this too
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    TwitchyMacGee wrote: »
    Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
    It's honestly the lamest oldest trick in the book...

    Playing on the old, people want what they can't have rule 🤷🏽‍♂️

    Some people feel that what one does with their physical body impacts their spiritual/mental lives. I can understand that.

    You've got more faith in people than I then... 😂
  • MrAcavano
    MrAcavano Posts: 197 Member
    goatg wrote: »
    flynntrader wrote: »
    goatg wrote: »
    flynntrader wrote: »

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    A train?
    You didn’t see the movie.

    acgx9k7oquwe.gif

    No, but a group of camels is a train....
    As is a three humped.....


    My humor is not kid friendly.

    Not kid friendly but funny🤣🤣
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