Sorry babe. That's a deal-breaker

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  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    The silent treatment... :|

    swear2.gif

    Heeeeyyyy

    Drives me crackers when someone does that, I like to thrash it out and get things sorted. 😁

    Same. And i hate that baby *kitten* game where they pretend that I’m unreasonable for insisting on talking it out.

    Yep.. I don't understand how they think silence solves a problem 🤷‍♀️ If you don't speak the problem festers and builds till there's one almighty freaking explosion. I think of talking it out as a pressure release valve.

    I agree 100%. If someone needs a few minutes to collect their thoughts and then come back to the discussion, that’s cool. Trying to just drop it without coming to a resolution is a recipe for disaster later.

    In the past I just left. Go to my room. Take a drive. Especially when it felt like we were going in circles.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited May 2020
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    The silent treatment... :|

    swear2.gif

    Heeeeyyyy

    Drives me crackers when someone does that, I like to thrash it out and get things sorted. 😁

    Same. And i hate that baby *kitten* game where they pretend that I’m unreasonable for insisting on talking it out.

    Yep.. I don't understand how they think silence solves a problem 🤷‍♀️ If you don't speak the problem festers and builds till there's one almighty freaking explosion. I think of talking it out as a pressure release valve.

    I agree 100%. If someone needs a few minutes to collect their thoughts and then come back to the discussion, that’s cool. Trying to just drop it without coming to a resolution is a recipe for disaster later.

    In the past I just left. Go to my room. Take a drive. Especially when it felt like we were going in circles.

    I do think there comes a point where every important thing has been said and after that it’s just... pointless. Rewording and repeating isn’t going to bring understanding. When that happens maybe you just hope for respect.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    edited May 2020
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    The silent treatment... :|

    swear2.gif

    Heeeeyyyy

    Drives me crackers when someone does that, I like to thrash it out and get things sorted. 😁

    Same. And i hate that baby *kitten* game where they pretend that I’m unreasonable for insisting on talking it out.

    Yep.. I don't understand how they think silence solves a problem 🤷‍♀️ If you don't speak the problem festers and builds till there's one almighty freaking explosion. I think of talking it out as a pressure release valve.

    I agree 100%. If someone needs a few minutes to collect their thoughts and then come back to the discussion, that’s cool. Trying to just drop it without coming to a resolution is a recipe for disaster later.

    In the past I just left. Go to my room. Take a drive. Especially when it felt like we were going in circles.

    I do think there comes a point where every important thing has been said and after that it’s just... pointless. Rewording and repeating isn’t going to bring understanding. At that point maybe you just hope for respect.

    IMHO... Talking about it, for some people is just code for, let me convince you I'm right...

    Sometimes talking about it is pointless, only thing you can do is just give up being right and let it go... But the other side has to be able to let it go as well otherwise it's just too much sometimes...

    That being said there is a fine line between letting it go and bottling it up...

    Yes, and I think some people have baggage from being beaten with the wordy stick so they give up too soon.

    I think it’s so nice when you can understand why someone feels differently than you and give that opinion respect. I think that makes good, interesting, fun conversations and relationships.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    The silent treatment... :|

    swear2.gif

    Heeeeyyyy

    Drives me crackers when someone does that, I like to thrash it out and get things sorted. 😁

    Same. And i hate that baby *kitten* game where they pretend that I’m unreasonable for insisting on talking it out.

    Yep.. I don't understand how they think silence solves a problem 🤷‍♀️ If you don't speak the problem festers and builds till there's one almighty freaking explosion. I think of talking it out as a pressure release valve.

    I agree 100%. If someone needs a few minutes to collect their thoughts and then come back to the discussion, that’s cool. Trying to just drop it without coming to a resolution is a recipe for disaster later.

    In the past I just left. Go to my room. Take a drive. Especially when it felt like we were going in circles.

    I do think there comes a point where every important thing has been said and after that it’s just... pointless. Rewording and repeating isn’t going to bring understanding. At that point maybe you just hope for respect.

    IMHO... Talking about it, for some people is just code for, let me convince you I'm right...

    Sometimes talking about it is pointless, only thing you can do is just give up being right and let it go... But the other side has to be able to let it go as well otherwise it's just too much sometimes...

    That being said there is a fine line between letting it go and bottling it up...

    Yes, and I think some people have baggage from being beaten with the wordy stick so they give up too soon.

    I think it’s so nice when you can understand why someone feels differently than you and give that opinion respect. I think that makes good, interesting, fun conversations and relationships.

    Yeah but where do you go from there, I mean respect that persons opinion sure but which way do you proceed... Sometimes it's more than just a matter of opinion and really a matter of direction...

    At some point someone's gotta give... I try to think of Mick Jagger and "Shrug it off" so to speak, but it ain't always easy...
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    The silent treatment... :|

    swear2.gif

    Heeeeyyyy

    Drives me crackers when someone does that, I like to thrash it out and get things sorted. 😁

    Same. And i hate that baby *kitten* game where they pretend that I’m unreasonable for insisting on talking it out.

    Yep.. I don't understand how they think silence solves a problem 🤷‍♀️ If you don't speak the problem festers and builds till there's one almighty freaking explosion. I think of talking it out as a pressure release valve.

    I agree 100%. If someone needs a few minutes to collect their thoughts and then come back to the discussion, that’s cool. Trying to just drop it without coming to a resolution is a recipe for disaster later.

    In the past I just left. Go to my room. Take a drive. Especially when it felt like we were going in circles.

    I do think there comes a point where every important thing has been said and after that it’s just... pointless. Rewording and repeating isn’t going to bring understanding. At that point maybe you just hope for respect.

    IMHO... Talking about it, for some people is just code for, let me convince you I'm right...

    Sometimes talking about it is pointless, only thing you can do is just give up being right and let it go... But the other side has to be able to let it go as well otherwise it's just too much sometimes...

    That being said there is a fine line between letting it go and bottling it up...

    Yes, and I think some people have baggage from being beaten with the wordy stick so they give up too soon.

    I think it’s so nice when you can understand why someone feels differently than you and give that opinion respect. I think that makes good, interesting, fun conversations and relationships.

    Yeah but where do you go from there, I mean respect that persons opinion sure but which way do you proceed... Sometimes it's more than just a matter of opinion and really a matter of direction...

    At some point someone's gotta give... I try to think of Mick Jagger and "Shrug it off" so to speak, but it ain't always easy...

    Idk. I always just do whatever i want😂
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    The silent treatment... :|

    swear2.gif

    Heeeeyyyy

    Drives me crackers when someone does that, I like to thrash it out and get things sorted. 😁

    Same. And i hate that baby *kitten* game where they pretend that I’m unreasonable for insisting on talking it out.

    Yep.. I don't understand how they think silence solves a problem 🤷‍♀️ If you don't speak the problem festers and builds till there's one almighty freaking explosion. I think of talking it out as a pressure release valve.

    I agree 100%. If someone needs a few minutes to collect their thoughts and then come back to the discussion, that’s cool. Trying to just drop it without coming to a resolution is a recipe for disaster later.

    In the past I just left. Go to my room. Take a drive. Especially when it felt like we were going in circles.

    I do think there comes a point where every important thing has been said and after that it’s just... pointless. Rewording and repeating isn’t going to bring understanding. At that point maybe you just hope for respect.

    IMHO... Talking about it, for some people is just code for, let me convince you I'm right...

    Sometimes talking about it is pointless, only thing you can do is just give up being right and let it go... But the other side has to be able to let it go as well otherwise it's just too much sometimes...

    That being said there is a fine line between letting it go and bottling it up...

    Yes, and I think some people have baggage from being beaten with the wordy stick so they give up too soon.

    I think it’s so nice when you can understand why someone feels differently than you and give that opinion respect. I think that makes good, interesting, fun conversations and relationships.

    Wordy stick😂

    And yes @Mr_Healthy_Habits when you're arguing or talking so that you convince the other person youre right...no one wins.
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    The silent treatment... :|

    swear2.gif

    Heeeeyyyy

    Drives me crackers when someone does that, I like to thrash it out and get things sorted. 😁

    Same. And i hate that baby *kitten* game where they pretend that I’m unreasonable for insisting on talking it out.

    Yep.. I don't understand how they think silence solves a problem 🤷‍♀️ If you don't speak the problem festers and builds till there's one almighty freaking explosion. I think of talking it out as a pressure release valve.

    I agree 100%. If someone needs a few minutes to collect their thoughts and then come back to the discussion, that’s cool. Trying to just drop it without coming to a resolution is a recipe for disaster later.

    In the past I just left. Go to my room. Take a drive. Especially when it felt like we were going in circles.

    I do think there comes a point where every important thing has been said and after that it’s just... pointless. Rewording and repeating isn’t going to bring understanding. At that point maybe you just hope for respect.

    IMHO... Talking about it, for some people is just code for, let me convince you I'm right...

    Sometimes talking about it is pointless, only thing you can do is just give up being right and let it go... But the other side has to be able to let it go as well otherwise it's just too much sometimes...

    That being said there is a fine line between letting it go and bottling it up...

    Yes, and I think some people have baggage from being beaten with the wordy stick so they give up too soon.

    I think it’s so nice when you can understand why someone feels differently than you and give that opinion respect. I think that makes good, interesting, fun conversations and relationships.

    Yeah but where do you go from there, I mean respect that persons opinion sure but which way do you proceed... Sometimes it's more than just a matter of opinion and really a matter of direction...

    At some point someone's gotta give... I try to think of Mick Jagger and "Shrug it off" so to speak, but it ain't always easy...

    Idk. I always just do whatever i want😂

    😑...
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    The silent treatment... :|

    swear2.gif

    Heeeeyyyy

    Drives me crackers when someone does that, I like to thrash it out and get things sorted. 😁

    Same. And i hate that baby *kitten* game where they pretend that I’m unreasonable for insisting on talking it out.

    Yep.. I don't understand how they think silence solves a problem 🤷‍♀️ If you don't speak the problem festers and builds till there's one almighty freaking explosion. I think of talking it out as a pressure release valve.

    I agree 100%. If someone needs a few minutes to collect their thoughts and then come back to the discussion, that’s cool. Trying to just drop it without coming to a resolution is a recipe for disaster later.

    In the past I just left. Go to my room. Take a drive. Especially when it felt like we were going in circles.

    I do think there comes a point where every important thing has been said and after that it’s just... pointless. Rewording and repeating isn’t going to bring understanding. At that point maybe you just hope for respect.

    IMHO... Talking about it, for some people is just code for, let me convince you I'm right...

    Sometimes talking about it is pointless, only thing you can do is just give up being right and let it go... But the other side has to be able to let it go as well otherwise it's just too much sometimes...

    That being said there is a fine line between letting it go and bottling it up...

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    😂
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Overused, generic terms of endearment.
  • mydogisthebestdogever
    mydogisthebestdogever Posts: 703 Member
    Commenting on all the hot women they see in tv
    Not interested in your past or background
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    If he never asks for my phone number he is just not my type.
  • vanityy99
    vanityy99 Posts: 2,583 Member
    When he takes a #2 in the powder room without cracking the window open and the smell lingers into the hallway smh
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    he has a garage full of broken appliances just in case he needs parts
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    he has a garage full of broken appliances just in case he needs parts

    I could put this in the weakness thread. 😬
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    he has a garage full of broken appliances just in case he needs parts

    I could put this in the weakness thread. 😬

    Confession: i started typing it there and then moved it. It’s a love/hate thing
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    pointy elbows
    skeletor feet
    neck different color than face
    2nd toe longer than big toe
    doesn't floss
    dirty glasses nosepieces
    overly greasy phone screen
    trash in floorboards of car
    earrings smelling funny
    no tan lines
    can't walk in heels
    too much stuff on bathroom counter
    red bacteria growing on shower curtain/liner
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    pointy elbows
    skeletor feet
    neck different color than face
    2nd toe longer than big toe
    doesn't floss
    dirty glasses nosepieces
    overly greasy phone screen
    trash in floorboards of car
    earrings smelling funny
    no tan lines
    can't walk in heels
    too much stuff on bathroom counter
    red bacteria growing on shower curtain/liner

    THE WOMEN YOU KNOW ARE GROSS

    and how are you sniffing her earrings?
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    pointy elbows
    skeletor feet
    neck different color than face
    2nd toe longer than big toe
    doesn't floss
    dirty glasses nosepieces
    overly greasy phone screen
    trash in floorboards of car
    earrings smelling funny
    no tan lines
    can't walk in heels
    too much stuff on bathroom counter
    red bacteria growing on shower curtain/liner

    THE WOMEN YOU KNOW ARE GROSS

    and how are you sniffing her earrings?

    you never gone in for an ear nibble and get a whiff of ear stank before?
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    pointy elbows
    skeletor feet
    neck different color than face
    2nd toe longer than big toe
    doesn't floss
    dirty glasses nosepieces
    overly greasy phone screen
    trash in floorboards of car
    earrings smelling funny
    no tan lines
    can't walk in heels
    too much stuff on bathroom counter
    red bacteria growing on shower curtain/liner

    THE WOMEN YOU KNOW ARE GROSS

    and how are you sniffing her earrings?

    you never gone in for an ear nibble and get a whiff of ear stank before?

    🤮
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    pointy elbows
    skeletor feet
    neck different color than face
    2nd toe longer than big toe
    doesn't floss
    dirty glasses nosepieces
    overly greasy phone screen
    trash in floorboards of car
    earrings smelling funny
    no tan lines
    can't walk in heels
    too much stuff on bathroom counter
    red bacteria growing on shower curtain/liner

    THE WOMEN YOU KNOW ARE GROSS

    and how are you sniffing her earrings?

    you never gone in for an ear nibble and get a whiff of ear stank before?

    🤮

    o0by1bjutgqh.gif
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    pointy elbows
    skeletor feet
    neck different color than face
    2nd toe longer than big toe
    doesn't floss
    dirty glasses nosepieces
    overly greasy phone screen
    trash in floorboards of car
    earrings smelling funny
    no tan lines
    can't walk in heels
    too much stuff on bathroom counter
    red bacteria growing on shower curtain/liner

    THE WOMEN YOU KNOW ARE GROSS

    and how are you sniffing her earrings?

    you never gone in for an ear nibble and get a whiff of ear stank before?

    🤮

    o0by1bjutgqh.gif

    If that’s what’s out there I’ll just stay home
  • lexabeep
    lexabeep Posts: 232 Member
    I’m married, I do not allow people to date me. End of story. But I did enjoy reading this thread. Some extremely funny people on MFP. Good luck single people, it’s like the Wild West out there!
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    If he isn’t willing to demote his current wife to the number two spot
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    edited May 2020
    iMago wrote: »
    pointy elbows
    skeletor feet
    neck different color than face
    2nd toe longer than big toe
    doesn't floss
    dirty glasses nosepieces
    overly greasy phone screen
    trash in floorboards of car
    earrings smelling funny
    no tan lines
    can't walk in heels ~~Need straps 'cause ankles too skinny
    too much stuff on bathroom counter
    red bacteria growing on shower curtain/liner

    I feel like a 33% fail here, but I also do math weird - so its less
    ..slight pouty face, none the less

    nothing you can do about skeletor feet, just got to 'embrace' the fat in other places!! My scrawny feet are kinda cute, fyi!
    I'm proud of my no tanlines *kitten*! My one tone skin is amazing! (hated my freckles as a kid!)
    Heels - Dick! My stupid ankles are too skinny, I love heels, but need strappy ones around the ankle to not fall on my face walking
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    pointy elbows
    skeletor feet
    neck different color than face
    2nd toe longer than big toe
    doesn't floss
    dirty glasses nosepieces
    overly greasy phone screen
    trash in floorboards of car
    earrings smelling funny
    no tan lines
    can't walk in heels ~~Need straps 'cause ankles too skinny -
    too much stuff on bathroom counter
    red bacteria growing on shower curtain/liner

    I feel like a 33% fail here, but I also do math weird - so its less
    ..slight pouty face, none the less

    nothing you can do about skeletor feet, just got to 'embrace' the fat in other places!! My scrawny feet are kinda cute, fyi!
    I'm proud of my no tanlines *kitten*! My one tone skin is amazing! (hated my freckles as a kid!)
    Heels - my stupid ankles are too skinny, I love heels, but need strappy ones around the ankle to not fall on my face
    walking

    You are wonderful the way you are.
  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    You dont let me wear your oversized sweatshirts
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    When they constantly try to solve problems by coming up with things that you can do...

    Or when they create problems and they say things like "What do you want me to do?"... I don't know, figure it out maybe 🤷🏽‍♂️
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,510 Member
    lexabeep wrote: »
    I’m married, I do not allow people to date me.

    'Date' really wasn't the verb of our concern.