Women 200lb+, Let's Be Extra Awesome This August!!!
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I bought "Intuitive Eating" off Amazon.
Someone on this group was talking about it, but of course now I can't remember who it was.
I haven't had time to dig into it yet, but I have tomorrow and Tuesday off, so I'm hoping to get into it a little on those days. One of the things I struggle with the most is maintaining a healthy, "normal" relationship with food. I'm really proud of how far I've come so far in the last few months, and I really want to build something I can sustain for the rest of my life.
So I'm hoping this book will have some insights for me into building and keeping healthy patterns.
I want to eat delicious, flavorful, nutritious food- because otherwise I know I'll eventually give up on this whole thing. And I also want to be able to eat pizza, and cake, and french fries, etc! But not have to worry about backsliding into some terrible garbage eating habits every single day.
Anyway. I'm working 5 days this week, so I have a lot I'm going to try to cram into my two days off. That's ok though, I usually like being busy.
@BrownSugar174 your biking is super inspiring! I'd love to build up to that kind of mileage myself. So far I'm only doing about ~10 miles per ride.
@speyerj I know how stressful it is for teachers right now- I'll send good vibes your husband's way. At least they've decided to do 100% online for now. This virus is absolutely nothing to mess around with.
@wanderinglight boy, do I feel you on the doomscrolling. I'm definitely guilty of getting sucked into an endless loop of negativity and downward spirals. I especially need to quit doing this before I'm trying to go to sleep. I might steal this goal for myself, too and I'm super jealous of all the swimming holes! I'd really like to go tubing this summer- hopefully I can make it happen.3 -
LaLaDsWeighTakeTwo wrote: »Hi everyone and happy August. I’m a girl of few words, but here’s what I’d like to do this month:
☀️Log everything every day and complete journal
☀️Focus on increasing water
☀️Give up Sprite!!!
I love sprite! When I really want one I buy the diet sprite for no calories. But I understand, it’s my favorite:) Good luck! 💪🏻
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I have done some research on intermittent fasting and I know people who do it. I want to try it out as I don’t eat that much in the mornings anyway! (The evening is a different story ) From what I understand, an example would be eat from noon-8 pm, and the rest of the time would be fasting (drinking water, tea, black coffee) Is there anything else I am missing?3
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Welcome all newcomers and glad to see all who are returning! And thanks to @RavenSt.Cloud for starting this thread anew!
Michelle
46 years old
Height: 5' 6"
SW (09/08/2019): 239.2 lbs
August SW (8/1/20): 161.4 lbs
8/2/20: 159.2 lbs
August GW: under 160 lbs, solidly. By that I mean no more than a day a week above 160.
GW: 150 lbs – I’m hoping to get to it by the end of September. I think it might be a bit of a stretch. I’ve said before, but I now do not think 150 is the end of the road for me. I look like I have at least 20 pounds to lose.
Goals for August:- Running: Run or run/walk at least three days a week. Without a specific race to train for, I’m able to moderate my runs a bit. I did run about 8.5 miles yesterday. It may have been more, but I can’t be sure because my tracker decided to stop at some point and I missed about 15 minutes of tracking before I realized it.
- Cross training: At least three days a week of cross-training. I went to the gym this morning. I rowed for 20 minutes, then walked a hike workout on the treadmill. I’m pretty good about getting to the gym, work is my biggest impediment here.
- Weight training: Start incorporating strength training in the routine. I did planks yesterday and squats today. Did the squats at the gym so I could check my form in the mirror.
- Water: Keep drinking water, at least 128 ounces a day – This one’s a slam dunk but like any other habit it’s an easy one to fall out of.
- Skin: Be more regular with taking care of my skin. Exfoliating and moisturizing three times a week would be a good start.
@MuttiNM – You’ve lost a lot of weight. I can understand needing a diet break, or feeling that something has to change. I know my response is influenced by my own thoughts. I don’t think of what I’m doing as a diet. For me, that’s the change I needed to make to be successful. So with that philosophy, there would be no such thing as a break. However, I can empathize with the feeling you need to step back. Just be clear about everything and the whole process. I agree with @eliezalot, keep your head in the game in some way. It sounds like practicing intuitive eating might be a good idea.
@jspeyer – Happy anniversary! Sounds like you and your husband had a wonderful evening!
Well I’d also like to start posting on my regular weigh-in day, so I’ll stop here.
We can do this!
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Monday Check-in
SW 230.78 lbs (16/03/2020) 104.9 Kgs
CW 182.6 lbs / 83kgs
🌻 03/08 83Kg 182.6 (-0.3Kgs) (-0.66lbs)
🌻 The scale didn't really move at all this week, but a loss is a loss. I've noticed a pattern of two weeks of good loss and two weeks of slow loss.
I have a goal of losing 6,6 lbs a month (3kgs), which I have reached every month so far. I've increased my exercise to 45 min of fast walking a day, and do about 3 longer hikes with friends a week, those hikes have become an absolute joy, exploring our local area and just getting out in nature. I would like to be more consistent drinking water, so this week I'm planning on drinking 2l daily (I read that drinking water inconsistently will show on the scale, so I want to test it)
I have struggled with all sorts of eating disorders for most of my life. This weight loss journey is unfolding into something more than just losing on the scale. I feel in control and empowered with good choices, discipline, and most of all I feel stronger and healthier. I went into the office the other day and people started commenting on my weight loss, however one comment really struck me 'Oh you are going to have to have plastic surgery now!' Wow in my mind I'm smashing through ceilings, I realize I don't need validation from other people! So ladies lets empower ourselves and encourage each other through this Awesome August (🌻 Thanks Raven)7 -
@speyerj I have lots of friends who are teachers and are suffering from burn-out. Our government schools have been shut down again due to the unions as well as COVID surge. My son goes to a boy's school he is in grade 10, during lock-down they were online, and since beginning June different grades started returning, my son started mid-July, their school opted to split the grades in half and have a 10-day timetable of A & B groups coming to school on alternative days, which meant classes had at the most 15 boys. Now they are off until the end of August however grade 12s start today. The government is not allowing online teaching during August, there is a huge disparity between certain schools, and they are wanting to address this situation. Our country has such a long way to go with our education department. However, one thing is for sure our teachers have embraced this year with enthusiasm and courage and I'm so proud of our school, the staff have been AMAZING!
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Walking progress... I'm not good at exercising - I'm not motivated but I have been walking 30 mins/day for the last three days and feel better already! I also download the Map My Walk app that connects to MFP and this makes the walk funner to track and I like that it maps out where I walked. I believe I've not made the progress I want because I'm not very interested to do exercise but I'm holding myself accountable with the MMW app now. I hope to see progress in the coming weeks5
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@cosafe1 I'm also a walker, I've just been using my fitbit, Strava is big here. When I can't go on the road for a walk I use the Lesley Sansome utube walks, and really enjoy them.
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@rhsdancer5 I started intermittent fasting on 16 March 2020, I eat between 12pm-8pm and only drink tea/coffee/water the rest of the time. The first few weeks were hard, but it works for me, I count calories and log my food daily, I try not snack, so only lunch and dinner.
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@KeriA Glad, you got out and socialized, pity about the drunk chap, sadly booze can really make us do things we wouldn't normally do!! Look at our country our government has had to ban the sale of alcohol AGAIN because of how people behave under the influence, its NUTS!!!
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changeforeverlj wrote: »@cosafe1 I'm also a walker, I've just been using my fitbit, Strava is big here. When I can't go on the road for a walk I use the Lesley Sansome utube walks, and really enjoy them.
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@svm569 Welcome back!! We are also heading out of winter, Spring is 1st September although we have had a stunning weekend, no wind and hot days so our beaches were full of families and surfers.
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Hi all,
Just checking in for the start of August, unfortunately this morning on the scale I weighed in at 252.6. The scales initially said 252.8/253 but then changed the batteries as it had been a while since doing so, so goes to show how batteries can effect the calibration. I'm not overly worried about the gain as a few days ago I checked in and was at 251.8. I was still active last week with getting a few walks in and a bike ride so that is at least something.
SW 259.4
CW 252.6
July GW: 248/249
UGW 150-160
HT 5ft 7/5ft 7 1/2
Here's to getting the numbers down further this month!6 -
It's nice to wake up to the scale showing you a pound down. I'm at 39 pounds lost.
Today I have housework to do, and I need to see if I can put the new small a/c unit in, because it will make life better if I can. The old one had problems; it blew air, but not cold air, no matter what you set it on. Also some tidying up and putting things in order so that when the boys come they can help me with the things that need extra hands and strong men, as opposed to sitting round playing with the cat and chatting. We're going to do some of that anyway, of course.
Lunch will be chicken and jalapeno quesadillas, which is always well received.7 -
Hi everyone!
I Just wanted to check in to see how everyone is doing. I love how active this board is, really happy to see everyone here
@pamiede Thank you for the birthday wish
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AlexandraFindsHerself1971 wrote: »I tried having half an English muffin with my egg and sausage tonight so that Boyfriend could have the other half, and it worked out! I didn't miss the second half, although I would have eaten it if I had it.
You might give Gimme Lean vegetarian sausage a try, too. It's my favorite kind of fake meat!
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CW: 210.9 (7/27)
August GW: 199 (I know that's ambitious, and I won't be too sad if I miss it. But too hard to resist reaching ONEderland when it's so close!)
8/3: 207.7 (-3.2)
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Happy with today's loss! I think TOM bloating finally went away and took some weight with it lol. I made lunch for the week on Saturday so I should be good to go for at least two meals of the day - breakfast is a protein shake. I didn't get around to planning dinner and that's usually my pitfall. My son is 1 so I've been trying to work on cooking things that he can eat as well to save time, versus making him something separate.
Also I've been consciously trying not to have a late dinner so it's better if I can make something in the crockpot so it's ready by the time I get home. If I have to cook when I get home that usually means a late dinner. But try to keep my calories low for breakfast/lunch that I can still meet my calorie goal if I have to grab something quick that maybe isn't the best calorie option. Definitely a habit I need to break....that's a work in progress!
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motivatedsister wrote: »CW: 210.9 (7/27)
August GW: 199 (I know that's ambitious, and I won't be too sad if I miss it. But too hard to resist reaching ONEderland when it's so close!)
8/3: 207.7 (-3.2)
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Happy with today's loss! I think TOM bloating finally went away and took some weight with it lol. I made lunch for the week on Saturday so I should be good to go for at least two meals of the day - breakfast is a protein shake. I didn't get around to planning dinner and that's usually my pitfall. My son is 1 so I've been trying to work on cooking things that he can eat as well to save time, versus making him something separate.
Also I've been consciously trying not to have a late dinner so it's better if I can make something in the crockpot so it's ready by the time I get home. If I have to cook when I get home that usually means a late dinner. But try to keep my calories low for breakfast/lunch that I can still meet my calorie goal if I have to grab something quick that maybe isn't the best calorie option. Definitely a habit I need to break....that's a work in progress!
I think some meal planning might help you; you can plan what you will cook, and also plan in a small snack that you can have in the car on the way home, so you aren't starving. You could also cook some dinners on the weekend and have them in the fridge for yourself/the little one. That wouldn't be a late dinner, it would just warm up quickly in the microwave. Plus premade like that you can dish out so much plain for the child, then add spices to suit you and dish out yours, and generally do a little customizing in advance when you have the time to do it. If you know that you have some almonds in the car you can eat as you head over to pick up kid, and that there's pulled pork with mac and cheese and green beans at home waiting to be warmed up (and kid is having mac and cheese and green beans) then there's no worry, and no stress. Then you can drop your crockpot meals down to one or two a week when it's easier for you to plan them, and everything gets a little less fraught.5 -
@speyerj - Glad you enjoyed your anniversary and wine!
@MuttiNM - after 15 months, you definitely could benefit from a diet break! Even if it hasn't mentally felt difficult, that is a long time for your body to be in a calorie deficit. Make sure to take at least 2 weeks for it. The good news is that even if you go totally off the rails, there is a pretty limited amount of damage you can do in that short of time, lol. But I do understand that fear of not being able to go back to a deficit when it is all over! It was suggested to me to slowly go back down to your usual deficit, so after the break, eat at a half deficit for a few days and work your way back. It eased the adjustment a lot (mentally and hunger-wise). Keep us updated on it!
@pamiede - LOVE the Hamilton workout video. Amazing.
@mszoueb - Congrats on the loss so far! Don't spend too much energy worrying about little scale fluctuations. It will go up and down regularly, just keep in mind that scale weight does not reflect just fat weight. Your weight can change due to water retention from hormones, increased exercise, or high-sodium meals, and also from your digestive contents (if you eat a 150 gram apple, that 150 grams is now chewed up and hanging out in your intestines). This is a super helpful, well-regarded article that explains it well and I found very reassuring https://physiqonomics.com/the-weird-and-highly-annoying-world-of-scale-weight-and-fluctuations/
As long as over time (about 4-6 weeks) your weight is trending down, you are on track. You might want to think about using a weight trending app like Happy Scale too - it can help to focus more on the trends than on the daily fluctuations. You're doing great!
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Thanks! @AlexandraFindsHerself1971
Totally agree with you - I just need to do it! I loosely make plans so that I have a general idea of what I need for my grocery run. But nothing concrete. Using the crockpot twice a week is usually what I try to do as we tend to have leftovers.
I'll be good one week, and then not have a plan for the next week and just try to wing it! And I'm not someone who enjoys cooking (recipes are my friend if you catch my drift lol), so I don't do so well when I don't already have something picked out.
I'm not really a snacker. My kiddo is usually ready to eat once we walk in the door, so it can be a mad rush to get him fed. He's in a needy phase and my husband isn't home yet so I have to keep him occupied. So he eats, we take an evening walk, and by then it's pretty much time to get him down for bed. So sometimes I don't even get started on "our" meal until after he's asleep - so after 7.
I like your weekend idea! I'll give that a try this weekend. Even if I can get things chopped/cut/etc. that would make it easier to get a meal together during the week.5 -
Good morning! This week is a very busy week between work and back-to-school activities even with virtual classrooms in our area. @speyerj - I don't envy your husband in these times. As a parent, I know my children do better in the classroom, but I do not think that's a risk we should be asking our teachers, administrators, or children to make. They shouldn't be the canaries in the coal mines. I hope all goes smoothly for him as we move into back to school.
Knowing we'd be short on time - I did my best to pre-plan the week's meals and did some food prep yesterday. Also, it's my 20th wedding anniversary so - yippee! We are going out to dinner on Friday night to celebrate so that might be a little more indulgence, but my goal for our dinner is to celebrate the company I'm in (my wonderful husband), make healthy choices and be mindful about what I'm eating so I don't end up stuffed.
Today was my weight in day. I'm up by 0.4. Been hanging out between 271/272 for two weeks now. Trying not to sweat it or be discouraged as I'm 1. feeling better, 2. more in control of my eating, and 3. keeping active. That's where my attention should be, not the number on the scale.
I also started on my emotional eating workbook. I got through Chapter 2. I've always known I was an emotional eater but identifying the root of that was never something I was able/willing to confront because of the emotions that come with it. So far, it's an easy read and the exercises have been good.
Sending out love to all of you on this 3rd day of the month
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I've tried it.... stirfry makings can be bagged in a ziploc in the cooler and just dump into the pan. It makes it very quick.
And I frequently get an entire pork loin and cut it up myself; so many loin chops, so many large chunks (General Tso's) so many thin slices (ginger pork) and so much to roast whole for roast pork. But I do a five-week menu plan so I can do that.3 -
@mmdeveau I completely agree with you. I do not consider my modifications to my diet and exercise routines a "diet". I'm making permanent changes to how I live my life. I only included the word "diet" in my question about a diet/deficit break since "diet break" seems to be the commonly used term. I never anticipated taking a break from eating at a deficit until I started feeling really hungry and tired a few weeks ago. Mentally, I haven't felt the need to take a break from eating at a deficit. A while back, I did read the thread that @eliezalot mentioned. Maybe it's time to read it again. If I do take a deficit break, the only thing I would change is the number of calories I eat each day. My exercise, eating patterns, logging food, etc., would not change. That's the same thing I anticipate if (when!) I reach my yet-to-be-determined goal weight...no changes other than number of calories. But changes in the number of calories has been happening all along this journey. When I redo the guided setup after every 10 pounds or so, my calorie goal is decreased by about 50 calories so I guess I should be used to a changing calorie goal.
For those of you at or near goal your goal weight, if you did NOT take a deficit break, how long were you/have you been in a deficit without a break? I had never heard of the concept of a deficit break until I joined MFP. I just assumed I would stay at a deficit until my goal weight was reached. The hunger and fatigue has passed after just continuing on with my routine through those few bad weeks. I guess I'm still debating the purported benefits of a deficit break versus continuing on with a routine that has worked for 15 months so far. I know in my head that increasing the number of calories I eat during a deficit break should really change nothing. I guess I'm just worried that more calories will lead me to eat less nutritious food more often than I currently do. Maybe proving to myself that that won't happen is reason enough to try a deficit break.
Sorry for all the rambling. I guess I'm just trying to sort out my thoughts. Thanks again to all who have responded to my questions!4 -
Ignore the title of the book because the book is packed full of great information..it’s become our food bible for sure!
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@MuttiNM - I didn't take a diet break. I kept a 1000 calorie deficit for a year. The month of June I decreased it to a 500 day deficit. Now I'm trying to eat at maintenance, but I'm probably still eating at a 250 calorie deficit based on my slow weight loss.
I had planned to make March "Maintenance March" because It was Portland Dining month and I had a vacation and out of town conference planned, but then Corona happened -all those plans were canceled and so I just kept up with the deficit.
I had heard about diet breaks and practicing maintenance, but I really didn't think I needed a break. Things were working out well for me and my weight loss wasn't stalling. But as I started doing endurance training in preparation for running the half marathon, I realized that I needed to give my body more fuel - I didn't have enough energy to run for 90+ minutes on a low carb diet,1000 calorie deficit (even with eating exercise calories). So while I didn't go to maintenance, I slowed down my weight loss and increased my carbs.
So, you know the guy AAdam who writes the physiqonomics blog? The one who wrote the article referenced by @eliezalot about scale weight fluctuations earlier in this thread? Well, I actually emailed him this very question back in May. And he ANSWERED it in his next blog! Here was my question and his helpful answer:
"Q:) I've heard recommendations that one should eat at maintenance for a month or two for every 10% of body weight lost to 'reset' their weight set point. The idea is that this will result in more permanent weight loss. Is there any science to back up this claim? I've lost 100 pounds over the last year by eating at a consistent calorie deficit and never had the desire to take a diet break because I don't feel deprived. My diet feels sustainable and I feel prepared for maintenance when the time comes. I'd hate to think I've set myself up for failure because I didn't take diet breaks along the way. What do you think?
A:) There isn't any science to back up that specific claim. That is, weight set points can be reset by manipulating the diet. And neither will there be because you can't.
Just to clarify, when I say you can't reset your weight set point, I'm referring to the idea that intermittent breaks from the diet cause physiological changes to occur that eventually make maintaining a lower body fat percentage 'effortless' (according to the claims).
The only way to establish a new set point–and I use that terminology very loosely–so you can maintain a lower level of body fat is to build good habits that are conducive to weight maintenance. Regular exercise (structured workouts and daily movement). Ensuring the majority of your diet is filled with whole foods that are nutrient-rich and consuming adequate protein.
With all of that said, diet breaks are still something I recommend and use with my clients.
We know dieting leads to some hormonal downregulation that can make it harder to stick to the diet. A short diet break could, potentially, help reverse some of the negative side effects of dieting.
And if a 1-2 week break increases energy levels and lowers hunger, it helps improve adherence and motivation for the next round of dieting.
Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, it gives the client time to 'practice' maintenance. People become so obsessed with losing weight that the thought of never eating in a deficit is alien to them. Forcing them to increase calories and practice life after dieting reminds them of the ultimate goal (spoiler: it's not the weight loss).
But whether you decide to implement a diet break is up to you. If you feel fine and things are progressing, then keep dieting for as long as you need to and implement a break when it makes sense, like coinciding a diet break with a holiday. You know, when we used to do stuff like that."
His answer was really reassuring and also gave me permission that next month when my energy did start to flag, that it was okay to start eating more!
So, in short: You do you. If you think its time for a deficit break, than it's time. If things are going well, keep going, until they aren't anymore.
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@speyerj Thanks so much for your reply! It was very helpful. And how cool that he answered your question!
I'm not exercising as much as you are but I did drop my deficit from 1000 a day to around 750 a day a little over 2 months ago. And last week I decreased it just a hair more to around 650 a day. When my daily calorie goal became about 1250 or so, it just seemed harder to stick to, so I decided to decrease my deficit. Slower and sustainable is better than faster and miserable!
Anyway, like I said, the hunger and fatigue of a few weeks ago has seemed to pass. I'll monitor things for a few more weeks and see if a deficit break makes sense for me in September or October or not. Good to know I should be okay going through to maintenance without a break if that's what I determine is right for me. I still have a long way to go, so even if I don't do a break soon, there's a chance I'll do one before I hit maintenance. Thanks again!4 -
@nebslp Thanks for the idea. I'm going to roll with and go from here. It's just a number and nowhere near as important as the one on my scales. One of those nagging reminders like my pants are tighter with being back over 200lbs again.
@speyerj Happy Anniversary! The stress your hubby and all teachers must feel has to be difficult. I know they all want what is best for their students but I worry about the risks of in person after seeing situations like that camp in Georgia.
@MuttiNM During your break use maintenance range. If you want to log do so and if not at least sign in (but don't be like me and lose the streak lol). Taking the time to sign really helped even if I did gain some back. I think if I had stopped signing in the gain would have been more. Do what will help you both mentally and physically at this point in time.
Yesterday I only did 10m on the elliptical. I wasn't able to exercise early in the day which I prefer and by the afternoon my knees were shot. Ever little bit helps though. Today I was able to hop on in the morning and got 20m done without too much effort. Seeing as it has been a few months I was very happy to still be able to get that much in. Weights will probably be another story though. I plan on trying my 5lbs but may have drop back down.
Hope your day has been a good one
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Age 66
Highest weight 254 lbs (August 3, 2020
Goal weight 160lbs
Goal weight loss 1.5 lbs per wee
Individual Goals: Log all food, every day
*Eat all calories between 8 am and 6 pm
*Create a list of distractions for when I am craving sweets!
*Evaluate the risk of swimming in a public pool during COVID pandemic
I have just re-connected with MFP after seeing the attached picture at a recent family gathering. I have been dealing with RA and probably using it as an excuse to not lose weight. Just met with a Weight Loss physician today and am highly motivated to start this journey, but know I will need support along the way and have always struggled with asking for the help I need. I am both excited and fearful to get going so any helpful tips you have would be appreciated! Also I am new to posting on a message board, so suggestions for that would be greatly appreciated!6
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