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  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,365 Member
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    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    If it was explicitly shared in confidence, no. Nor does the SO expect to hear private details about my friends' stuff since most of it doesn't concern him in the slightest.

    One of my friends was quite up front about the limits of her confidentiality, in that she would not withhold anything from her husband. I respect that and censored what I shared with her accordingly.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    nope.

    There are some things that I've never discussed with anyone, ever... and I'll take to the grave.




    Especially that whole Dallas grassy knoll thing, back in November of '63.
  • CacoEther
    CacoEther Posts: 2,465 Member
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    Motorsheen wrote: »
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    nope.

    There are some things that I've never discussed with anyone, ever... and I'll take to the grave.




    Especially that whole Dallas grassy knoll thing, back in November of '63.

    You’re really on an assassinated president kick 😆
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,492 Member
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    CacoEther wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    nope.

    There are some things that I've never discussed with anyone, ever... and I'll take to the grave.




    Especially that whole Dallas grassy knoll thing, back in November of '63.

    You’re really on an assassinated president kick 😆

    Have you heard any James Garfield jokes ?

    I'm coming up empty for him.
  • Diatonic12
    Diatonic12 Posts: 32,344 Member
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    ythannah wrote: »

    If it was explicitly shared in confidence, no.
    Nor does the SO expect to hear private details about my friends' stuff since most of it doesn't concern him in the slightest.

    One of my friends was quite up front about the limits of her confidentiality, in that she would not withhold anything from her husband. I respect that and censored what I shared with her accordingly.

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    That's the only way to keep a friend, men talk to their friends, too.
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,365 Member
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    Diatonic12 wrote: »

    That's the only way to keep a friend, men talk to their friends, too.

    Trust me, I have learned this! The SO works 12 hour shifts at a small remote site, it's like a little enclosed community, and the stuff I have heard about his coworkers :o I swear all they do up there is gossip and overshare.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    Depends on the relationships.
  • Yoshiboobs
    Yoshiboobs Posts: 1,090 Member
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    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    I just tell everything to the anonymous internet void.
    I also just tell ppl that I'm not good with secrets. My SO definitely knows everything. 👀
  • TRI_39
    TRI_39 Posts: 51 Member
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    Keep it private until its not.... Grows with the relationship
  • AlexandraFindsHerself1971
    AlexandraFindsHerself1971 Posts: 3,106 Member
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    It depends on what it is.
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    edited October 2020
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    hawkeye45_ wrote: »
    Mine rhymes with "drum gun"

    i got first word but not the second word and feel dumb

    u kids with your new slang wtf was wrong with lock shucker or tum whatsit
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
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    iMago wrote: »
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    i figure if they know you're in a relationship- they should expect anything they tell you to be shared with your significant other. otherwise they're coming at you from a place of expecting you to hide something from your SO, no matter how inconsequential it may be.

    agree it seems weird to think someone wouldn’t tell their boyfriend/girlfriend about their friends
  • hawkeye45_
    hawkeye45_ Posts: 812 Member
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    sweet_ermengarde wrote: »
    hawkeye45_ wrote: »
    Mine rhymes with "drum gun"

    i got first word but not the second word and feel dumb

    u kids with your new slang wtf was wrong with lock shucker or tum whatsit

    The second word is literally "gun"
  • hawkeye45_
    hawkeye45_ Posts: 812 Member
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    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    Same question, but I like it so much I put a ring on it. I.e. is it all right to share that private stuff with your spouse?
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    hawkeye45_ wrote: »
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    Same question, but I like it so much I put a ring on it. I.e. is it all right to share that private stuff with your spouse?

    Still depends on the relationships... As with all these relationship type questions, there are no blanket answers for what people should/shouldn't do.
  • hawkeye45_
    hawkeye45_ Posts: 812 Member
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    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    hawkeye45_ wrote: »
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    Same question, but I like it so much I put a ring on it. I.e. is it all right to share that private stuff with your spouse?

    Still depends on the relationships... As with all these relationship type questions, there are no blanket answers for what people should/shouldn't do.

    How dare you be reasonable.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
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    hawkeye45_ wrote: »
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    hawkeye45_ wrote: »
    eatpolerepeat wrote: »
    Guys and girls

    Is it ok to tell your boyfriend/girlfriend your friends private stuff?

    Same question, but I like it so much I put a ring on it. I.e. is it all right to share that private stuff with your spouse?

    Still depends on the relationships... As with all these relationship type questions, there are no blanket answers for what people should/shouldn't do.

    How dare you be reasonable.

    We all have our crosses...
  • hawkeye45_
    hawkeye45_ Posts: 812 Member
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    If your partner falls asleep in a funny pose, and you happen to have a phone camera that advertises low light photography as a selling point, is it okay to take a picture of them to poke fun at them later?

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