WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR FEBRUARY 2021

Zoom day today with my old school friends!
Don't know what we will do next week as my best friend is doing some locum work . She is a divorce solicitor and has to take on occasional jobs because her money situation is not sustainable without bouts of working. She will be 72 next week!
I've found the Zoom sessions very sustaining through the pandemic. That connection is around 60 years old, and we became best friends in 1965.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

evie1958 wrote: »

Facebook: I am on facebook quite a bit, I like it for keeping in touch with family and long distance friends. Well, all friends now, of course, because we can't get together in person! I am very careful about what I click on/like/share. I never open attachments that are sent to me via messenger, in fact, I don't always open videos that are emailed to me as most of the time I just can't be bothered. I prefer videos on Facebook as you can already see the beginning. I quite often hit the "hide all posts from ______" button when there is a bunch of junk showing up on my feed. Just about time to do that again. I have had very few issues, I just don't stray too far away from what I'm actually looking for. Technology is great but it's also a double edged sword!

Evelyn, Vancouver Island

Yep me too!

Machka9 wrote: »

evie1958 wrote: »

Facebook: I am on facebook quite a bit, I like it for keeping in touch with family and long distance friends. Well, all friends now, of course, because we can't get together in person! I am very careful about what I click on/like/share. I never open attachments that are sent to me via messenger, in fact, I don't always open videos that are emailed to me as most of the time I just can't be bothered. I prefer videos on Facebook as you can already see the beginning. I quite often hit the "hide all posts from ______" button when there is a bunch of junk showing up on my feed. Just about time to do that again. I have had very few issues, I just don't stray too far away from what I'm actually looking for. Technology is great but it's also a double edged sword!

Evelyn, Vancouver Island

Yep me too!

And now that all the news is gone - no longer allowed, Facebook is a whole different place. Some sites are finding themselves and evolving plus we can see more from friends.


Machka in Oz

Beth, i am so sorry. (((hugs)))

dentist, my dentist has retired and another was recommended and has good online reviews for what that's worth. BUT when i went their yesterday, he was supposed to do a temporary crown (which is about 200 covered by insurance) but i'm pretty sure he didn't do a temp crown, just put a nubbin of resin to cover the nub of molar. he didn't give me a bill which i found strange till i thought of that. cause if he bills me for a temp crown in its current state he'll be accused of fraud no doubt. not a big deal in the long run, BUT more concerning is--

i'm supposed to get FOUR CROWNS with him. so a bit of money and a long term thing in my body. And he put a little post in to hold a crown.
I asked him about materials of the post : if there is nickel in it, and about allergies, as i know people (and me) can be allergic to some metals (like i can really not easily wear any kind of earring, and i have a few allergies: pollen, dust mites, major gluten intolerance) and medium overall health. He was a bit evasive about the metal composition, and when i asked question whether there was contact with the so called temp crown he said "no, i"ll take care of the technical stuff", clearly implying he didn't appreciate my questions. so no record of the post (and materials) nor the non-crown. Not a good start for me. i do not like spending 2500 euros even if 1500 is reembursed by insurance, to have 4 things put long term in my mouth by someone who doesn't want questions.

i remembered my old previous dentist who is very good (but was very busy) who is in a circle of friends i used to hang with when i went to dance workshops 10 years ago.

I'm gonna try to get an appointment with her and see if it's not too dramatic if i put it off a bit, now that i have the nobbin.

and cancel with the guy who doesn't like questions.
bummer since hehas good reviews and i really trust the person who recommended him, but my experiences is alarming.

Oh yes, also, during our 20-25 min session,he was tapping his foot, humming and whistling while working on me.
not horrible things to do, and maybe i'm overjudgemental, but i thought that made him seem nervous while working on me (which maybe he is), and also, the next session is suppposed to be 2h and i would really rather not listen to him whistling and humming and tapping for 2h.

also he said it's not legal to pay in a few payments, but i have NEVER heard that.on the contrary it's very common for major dental work, legal or not.

i'm thinking of switching of course. a friend gave me the name of 2 other dentists too...

i have the sniffles and am wondering if it's a reaction to the metal post but probably not, i supppose. i just felt uneasy.

Beth -

I am glad your son will soon be home with you where he consistently receives the best care from his best advocate.

And that puppy is adorable!

Karen in Virginia
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bananasandoranges wrote: »

i read all, thanks ! working as i can today so commenting much.

I would trust yourself on this one. It is your mouth and you will have to live with the consequences of the dentists work.

Taxes will be turned into the preparer who has done it for years for us. She is reasonable and does a good job. I was able to get things ready early this year.

In future I will pay the bill that had double presentment on line. I paid that bill in person at a store so sad someone at the store or at the bank took that check. Just never occured to me this culd happen. Hopefully they can trace it to see it doesn't happen to someone else. I know businesses have a division who just work on fraud.

margaretturk wrote: »

bananasandoranges wrote: »

i read all, thanks ! working as i can today so commenting much.

I would trust yourself on this one. It is your mouth and you will have to live with the consequences of the dentists work.

Taxes will be turned into the preparer who has done it for years for us. She is reasonable and does a good job. I was able to get things ready early this year.

In future I will pay the bill that had double presentment on line. I paid that bill in person at a store so sad someone at the store or at the bank took that check. Just never occured to me this culd happen. Hopefully they can trace it to see it doesn't happen to someone else. I know businesses have a division who just work on fraud.

I haven't paid anything with a cheque since 2008 and then it was just monthly rent for 4 months.

I haven't paid a bill with a cheque since ... oh ... before 2004. I can't actually remember.

I don't think businesses would accept a cheque here.

M in Oz

Morning ladies
I got dressed and did my walk and made a tuna sandwich.. will do my PT in a bit ..
Made a mistake and the dogs dont go to the groomers until next Thursday ,thats ok..im hoping to have the car back in my possession by then..

Evelyn: I seldom visit facebook these days. I would rather call the people I care about on the phone., facetime with them, or zoom. I will go there to contact two or three special friends that I rarely hear from.

Machka: I love I before E—it put a smile on my face this morning. Thanks! :bigsmile:

Sue: I do need Arrow time, and he might be needing my time, too. DH has been needy and that has kept me home for a while. Arrow has had a foot problem. He needs to be walked, but not ridden. I would love to go out and walk him in the arena. The road to his home has recently been blocked due to trees across the roadway. I don’t know whether that has been cleared up yet. :ohwell: I ’ll give my friend a call later this morning and find out whether the road is open.

Pip: I am delighted for you that things are coming along. :flowerforyou:

Beth: I agree with Karen in VA. Your son will be so much better cared for when he is home with you. The puppy is a charmer. :flowrforyou:

Allie: Our dog goes to the groomer this morning. I am grateful that we have such a good and patient groomer.


No vaccine yet. The health department says they’ll call us when they get some vaccine. Their message is clear- “Don’t call us. We’ll call you.” :grumble:


Katla in beautiful NW Oregon

bananas: As a former dental hygienist (29 years), I would definitely recommend you going to a dentist who will answer your questions, as this is an important part of patient-care. I wouldn't trust anyone with my teeth who isn't willing to explain what their treatment plan is.

Carol - I hope your husband's health problems get cleared up with ease. My ex MIL had all her parathyroid removed. The only ill effects were a serious case of vit D poisoning. In the 70s they didn't check these things properly. They told her she was only saved by drinking so much tea!

Penny - I feel quite sad that you are moving. How long is it that you have been living there? However, it could be that a future cruise takes us to Tromsö, so I may get to see you again! How do you feel about it? You must have mixed feelings.

I'm currently trying to interest DH in a cruise for March 2022. He is not biting yet. This would be to the Mediterranean, taking in Sicily, Sardinia, and Tunis. He is worried about his vestibular problems, plus the viability of Saga after the covid layoff.
If he can't contemplate a cruise I may decide to go alone, I haven't made my mind up. We would pay the deposit with a credit card. The company is currently looking to refinance their debts, but they say they are viable.

Zoom was good, with a few connection issues. Nice to see them though.

Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx

I somehow twisted my ankle, not badly, but just enough that I can't do squats or lunges, stairs are a pain and my indoor marching in place is unlikely. I have to remember that injuries are an expected part of an active life, and not a catastrophe. I've wrapped my ankle even though it felt like overkill. I want to give it a reason to feel better tomorrow.

Hugs to those who need them, probably all of us these days!

Annie in Delaware

Hung out 1dt pic in the spare bathroom and the curtain is up