What's on your mind?

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  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    more_oomph wrote: »
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    @Pennyloafers How are you doing? How is everything going?? Just been thinking about you.
    oh reenie, are you talking to your shoes again :(

    I do have a soft heart toward leather. Even fake leather. :)
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    I started a consistent healthy lifestyle about a year ago. I started out being lazy and no motivation, suffering from major depression on the verge of taking it all away, living day to day in constant pain from back issues. Essentially my life was miserable.

    Then I buckled down and got into fitness training and better nutritional health which helped my mental health improve tremendously. It was hard at first and I really questioned if it’d do me any good. I’m here to tell you, if you’re doubting it, stop. Getting into this lifestyle saved my life!

    I no longer live a stagnant life, I take each day by its horn and work to progress my growth to the best person I can be. I no longer live in pain or constant depression. I find value in every breathe I take! So, take it from me, if you’re thinking this way won’t improve every aspect of your life? Get it out of your head, because it will save you too!

    Way to go!! I agree that our eating, exercise, etc., can affect our self esteem, confidence, depression, etc., etc. Even though we say it shouldn't it's awfully damned hard to not go there, ya know? I'd love to get off my anxiety/depression meds and I know I could if I could stay in control of the physical part of my life. For almost 2 years I did amazing. Oh I'd have a bad day or week but always got back on track and felt good. Good physically, mentally, about myself, and others, much more positivity all the way around. Better sense of humor, reached out to others easily. Just a whole reset actually. But now, after 3 months(minus 8 days :()of losing that control again, I feel like I should be doubling the pills to stay on an even keel.
    So yes, it's all inter-related and I'm glad to hear of your positive turn around!!
  • Ketomoijo
    Ketomoijo Posts: 89 Member
    Someone (not mentioning any names here @slimgirljo15 ) sharing unwanted pics of her googol… somethings you can’t unsee it’s burned in my mind!!! 😵‍💫
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,230 Member
    Icy
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    I wanna go west and I wanna go east.
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    The poor little chickadee that bounced off my windows and was still laying out there later. I placed him in a bush and put some sunflower seeds with him. But something was definitely broken. :(

    I've had that happen where they appear to be dead for what seems like a very long time, then are gone a few hours later. Hopefully he recovered!

    @KickassAmazon76 -- I didn't know that about the water. I tend to let nature do it's thing (I think people generally make things worse, not better), but I'll make a mental note of this for the future. Thanks!
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    I've long thought that we don't understand or appreciate something without also understanding it's contrast, it's opposite. We only know happiness if we also know sadness. Warmth, cold. Wealth, poverty. etc.

    I've also long thought that, speaking in very broad strokes, all "systems" tend towards balance. Environments, relationships, finances, etc.

    I've been thinking lately that conflict is the manifestation of those opposing forces. It's where happiness and sadness meet. It's what causes a relationship to find equilibrium. It's the opposite to the feeling of being "too comfortable"... which is another thing I've been thinking a lot about lately. While I don't want to say that I need some confect in my life, I do think I need some contrast. My lane has gotten too narrow.
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    Why isn't there a 'deep' button?

    Ye @jjpptt2, I haven't dared to look today to see if he's still there or not. If he's gone, I'll be telling myself a cat got him. :/

    And yes @kickassamazon76, nifty tidbit of information to store. We've had many birds fly off our windows. :( I let all the blinds down on my year round porch yesterday, there are 11 windows. So hopefully no more flying into those now. I'm grateful I found the poor thing before my dogs did. I still remember the day I went back out to bring the dogs in and they were so excited, chasing each other around the yard. It was because big bad Holly had a bird in her mouth. :(
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Ketomoijo wrote: »
    Someone (not mentioning any names here @slimgirljo15 ) sharing unwanted pics of her googol… somethings you can’t unsee it’s burned in my mind!!! 😵‍💫

    Pfft, unwanted.. I got tired of your whiney begging 😛
    🤣😂 I am forever gunna call it a googol now.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,702 Member
    It is the most selfish thing a person can do.
  • Ketomoijo
    Ketomoijo Posts: 89 Member
    It is the most selfish thing a person can do.

    Has @slimgirljo15 been forcing her googol in your face too or is she not sharing?? Please clarify? 😏🤔
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,702 Member
    Ketomoijo wrote: »
    It is the most selfish thing a person can do.

    Has @slimgirljo15 been forcing her googol in your face too or is she not sharing?? Please clarify? 😏🤔

    Jo is always SO SWEET to me.
    I know nothing of googol. 😂

    A post on another thread, this is my reasoning to what I posted there.
    Didn’t feel like engaging with my disagreer.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited November 2021
    Ketomoijo wrote: »
    It is the most selfish thing a person can do.

    Has @slimgirljo15 been forcing her googol in your face too or is she not sharing?? Please clarify? 😏🤔

    Jo is always SO SWEET to me.
    I know nothing of googol. 😂

    A post on another thread, this is my reasoning to what I posted there.
    Didn’t feel like engaging with my disagreer.

    🤗 only a few have deserved the not so sweet side, you are not one 🙂
    Ner ner nee ner ner @Ketomoijo 😛
  • gigmaster
    gigmaster Posts: 20 Member
    Why do they call them Apartments, when they're all stuck together????
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 14,702 Member
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  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    How awkward I got when one of my female friends wanted to come shower at my place bcuz her shower was broken.

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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    How awkward I got when one of my female friends wanted to come shower at my place bcuz her shower was broken.

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    You didn't offer to scrub her back ? 😄
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,074 Member
    How awkward I got when one of my female friends wanted to come shower at my place bcuz her shower was broken.

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    You didn't offer to scrub her back ? 😄

    haha dang it
  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    How awkward I got when one of my female friends wanted to come shower at my place bcuz her shower was broken.

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    You didn't offer to scrub her back ? 😄

    omg you just made me shudder. My 88 yo neighbor has offered that many times.

    Please. Just. No. :s
  • Ketomoijo
    Ketomoijo Posts: 89 Member
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    Last December I moved... same town, but from a rural setting to right in town. I went from having 5 acres of land to have 3/4 of an acre. From having neighbors that I could see but not hear, to having neighbors that I can never NOT hear.

    One of the subtle side effects of this is that the lack of quiet stillness around me makes it difficult to be quiet and still with myself. To reflect and just sit with myself. Good side of the coin is that sitting quietly with myself is usually uncomfortable. The bad side of the coin is that NOT taking that time means I've lost connection with myself.

    The first step to fixing a problem is admitting there is one.

    I couldnt deal with that .. I downsized a few years back and feel like I’m suffocating sometimes, neighbours are lovely but can’t use hot tub or sunbathe in a bikini without the neighbours popping over the fence for a chat and the rest of the street coming out the houses over their fences too chiming in 😵‍💫
  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,734 Member
    I am not a fan of these new community forums.


    However....I am really excited that we can finally see who Likes, Hugs, and Disagrees our posts.

    Keep your enemies close..... >:)

    I thought we could see but couldn't figure out how.

    It's probably really intuitive but...how? 😀
  • jjpptt2
    jjpptt2 Posts: 5,650 Member
    Seems like far less chit-chatting is happening since the forum "upgrade" -- is it just me?
  • Sofiapilla
    Sofiapilla Posts: 284 Member
    jjpptt2 wrote: »
    Seems like far less chit-chatting is happening since the forum "upgrade" -- is it just me?

    Khaki pants make the world go ‘round 😭
  • Sweet_A
    Sweet_A Posts: 7,694 Member
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  • ReenieHJ
    ReenieHJ Posts: 9,724 Member
    glassyo wrote: »
    I am not a fan of these new community forums.


    However....I am really excited that we can finally see who Likes, Hugs, and Disagrees our posts.

    Keep your enemies close..... >:)

    I thought we could see but couldn't figure out how.

    It's probably really intuitive but...how? 😀

    I've been hearing we can see who 'they' are but I can't figure it out either. I think somebody's just messin' with us. :)
  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,734 Member
    edited November 2021
    Sweet_A wrote: »
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    God, yes.

    Edited because I was so excited, I forgot the comma. :)
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    glassyo wrote: »
    I am not a fan of these new community forums.


    However....I am really excited that we can finally see who Likes, Hugs, and Disagrees our posts.

    Keep your enemies close..... >:)

    I thought we could see but couldn't figure out how.

    It's probably really intuitive but...how? 😀

    I've been hearing we can see who 'they' are but I can't figure it out either. I think somebody's just messin' with us. :)

    Correct 😉
  • Ketomoijo
    Ketomoijo Posts: 89 Member
    edited November 2021
    @slimgirljo15 getting her baps out for the lasses 👀😵‍💫
  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,734 Member
    ReenieHJ wrote: »
    glassyo wrote: »
    I am not a fan of these new community forums.


    However....I am really excited that we can finally see who Likes, Hugs, and Disagrees our posts.

    Keep your enemies close..... >:)

    I thought we could see but couldn't figure out how.

    It's probably really intuitive but...how? 😀

    I've been hearing we can see who 'they' are but I can't figure it out either. I think somebody's just messin' with us. :)

    Correct 😉

    Hah! Would have been nice but also...chaos on the disagrees. :)