Fat girls are easy

Chastityx
Chastityx Posts: 192 Member
in Health and Weight Loss
I am so angry! This was a part of a morning radio show a few days ago and I am still fuming and I just have to rant a little. The topic was a new study that came out that said that fat girls are more likely to give it up on a first date than "pretty" girls. So the suggestion was if you were looking into a dating website for a one night stand, to choose a larger girl. They even went on to say that eager beats pretty anyday. I can say that I will never listen to this station again, even though the music is better, and I will choose a more family friendly station like MIX. Oh, I can feel my blood pressure going up again.:mad:
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  • trud72
    trud72 Posts: 1,912 Member
    that is sooo awfull you should write in and complain!
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Wow! That is so degrading to women all together. What garbage was it that you were listening to?
  • chevy88grl
    chevy88grl Posts: 3,937 Member
    *sigh*

    Just another way of judging "bigger" people. I honestly do not believe your weight determines if you'll "give it up" on a first date or not. I think it depends on the person, their date, and such - NOT on their weight. It is ridiculous to me that people would base it on someone's weight, but...

    If it were me, I would probably contact the radio station and let them know that after hearing this (I'm not so sure it is appropriate for radio?) you won't be listening to their station anymore.
  • Chastityx
    Chastityx Posts: 192 Member
    It was on the BUZZ, rock music and obviously *kitten* in the morning
  • carolynmittens
    carolynmittens Posts: 344
    just curious, do you disagree with the results of the study or are you upset that they aired that type of content on the show?
  • GreenGettingLean
    GreenGettingLean Posts: 252 Member
    ew, what a horrible thing to think, let alone to say live on a radioshow.

    and in my own experience, self-esteem is the real factor in this situation, NOT weight.
  • vodkaswigger
    vodkaswigger Posts: 467
    I dont agree with the radio topic at all but i have heard the same sort of thing over the years from men especially, apparently big girls give it there all, xx
  • tropicalzephyr
    tropicalzephyr Posts: 16 Member
    Pffft - I am a fat girl tryong to lose weight and I cant find anyone to sleep with. So i am not too sure about the eager bit - we dont get any!!! Pretty girls - well, they act so hard to get.

    And yeah rubbish station. Absolute rubbishness.
  • MaudeBeige
    MaudeBeige Posts: 282
    I know that as individuals larger ladies may be insulted by this but...

    What do statistics say? Surely there must have been some research and there is evidence to back the findings? If so then it's a fact, not just somebody having a go at larger women?
  • Degren
    Degren Posts: 80
    Just the fact that they were talking about finding girls willing to "give it up" on the first date says A LOT about the low self esteem of the men involved in this study.
  • Puckermann
    Puckermann Posts: 52
    I find "shallow" woman to be very easy, whereas a woman with a bit more meat would simply question my motives. So I beg to differ.
  • Chastityx
    Chastityx Posts: 192 Member
    just curious, do you disagree with the results of the study or are you upset that they aired that type of content on the show?

    I agree that a woman with lower self esteem will more likely let herself be used, not just in that situation, but in life and that doesn't just pertain to fat women. I am also not happy that they are encouraging that type of mindset.
  • catwrangler
    catwrangler Posts: 918 Member
    seems to me almost everyone gives it up pretty easily these days :laugh:

    <<<<<<< old fogey
  • kissiefish
    kissiefish Posts: 55
    Please people. I was 270 pounds when I married my husband. I was told all my life that I was so fat and ugly that nobody would ever love me. I figured I'd jump at the first chance I had to get married. I had 5 marriage proposals before I chose my husband. Oh...i was also 1 month away from turning 30 years old...and yes...I was a virgin! Did I have opportunity to sleep around. Yes. But I had a belief that life is more than sex and a realationship more than jumping in a bed. Even though I was "verbally abused" by my family about my weight issue and still struggle with self esteem....I had enough PRIDE in myself to wait. I'm not an animal just because the world calls me 'fat'.

    Knock of the crap.
  • kissiefish
    kissiefish Posts: 55
    I find "shallow" woman to be very easy, whereas a woman with a bit more meat would simply question my motives. So I beg to differ.

    Thank you!
  • TheBigYin
    TheBigYin Posts: 5,686 Member
    seems to me almost everyone gives it up pretty easily these days :laugh:

    <<<<<<< old fogey

    Please point me in the direction of these people... they're certainly not giving it up in my direction :ohwell:
  • mabug01
    mabug01 Posts: 1,273 Member
    It's disgusting. Insert any other physical attribute or race or religious affiliation and you can see how offensive it was. Definitely write and complain. Give me their address and I'll complain, too. And, NO, there is no research that proves fat women give more; people lie about sex all the time and this was just a way to diss fat people.
  • kissiefish
    kissiefish Posts: 55
    Oh. let me add. I worked in radio for 23 years as an "on air personality" and MOST morning shows (I was never on the morning show except to fill in) will do about anything for ratings. Howard Stern (gag) is the 'model' for most of these jokers. Writing in and complaining will do no good. you want to make a change....get their market (who are they aiming for 18-24 yr olds probably) to change their thinking then THEY will change the station and the morning idiots will go away. STOP supporting them and radio stations listen. For them, it is truly all about the ratings.
  • bopefas
    bopefas Posts: 32 Member
    There is a reason people are on the radio and not TV.The reason is their face looks better on radio.You should get XM radio,great music and no idiots blabbing about the latest survey's.Hang in there,ignore the morons,they're small inside.
  • BlondeToast
    BlondeToast Posts: 38
    What is everyone here classing as "fat" exactly??
  • Chastityx
    Chastityx Posts: 192 Member
    And we probably paid for that research too
  • Dmbaker1974
    Dmbaker1974 Posts: 7
    Well, I hate that was the topic, but unfortunately it may be true. There are a large number of women who are over weight that have low self esteem. They feel as they need to have sex to be liked or accepted. That's why believe if you have kids that are over weight, expescially girls. Teach them that they are beautiful and they should respect their body. Compliment them daily. I have a plus size daughter. I had to learn this the hard way.
  • catwrangler
    catwrangler Posts: 918 Member
    seems to me almost everyone gives it up pretty easily these days :laugh:

    <<<<<<< old fogey

    Please point me in the direction of these people... they're certainly not giving it up in my direction :ohwell:

    check out the chit chat forum
  • roblow65
    roblow65 Posts: 156 Member
    We should all e-mail a complaint to them! :angry:
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
    *sigh*

    Just another way of judging "bigger" people. I honestly do not believe your weight determines if you'll "give it up" on a first date or not. I think it depends on the person, their date, and such - NOT on their weight. It is ridiculous to me that people would base it on someone's weight, but...

    If it were me, I would probably contact the radio station and let them know that after hearing this (I'm not so sure it is appropriate for radio?) you won't be listening to their station anymore.

    I would disagree. It's not judging "bigger people". It's judging women. All of us. There is a bizarre tautology going on in all the media that men prefer easy girls, only they don't really, cos you wouldn't want to marry one, women are too fat...no, too thin...OMG SHE HAS CELLULITE!!!!!! Oh why can't we celebrate real women with CURVES....but only size 6 curves, of course, diet, don't diet, women should work and stop freeloading, mothers who work are the source of all evil in the world...............

    The media basically hates women.
  • uhoh_billy
    uhoh_billy Posts: 94
    I'm going to guess you live in the GTA in Ontario and were listening to The Edge?? Because I heard the same thing on the Dean Blundell show... lol
  • Victoriav99
    Victoriav99 Posts: 260 Member
    Wow! Even if that were true. The radio station just belittled and put down women who are over weight and put them all in the same category of having a very low self esteem and easy to get in bed with. I would never listen to them either. They obviously didn't even think that more then likely having listeners who are overweight...Especially in this day in time when most people are overweight!
  • rockchick90
    rockchick90 Posts: 125
    OMG if anything bigger girls are less likely to give it up on the first date! I knew both my exs for months beforehand cos I was too worried about them seeing me naked cos I was big,
    cant believe they said that on the radio!!
  • Nina74
    Nina74 Posts: 470 Member
    Oh. let me add. I worked in radio for 23 years as an "on air personality" and MOST morning shows (I was never on the morning show except to fill in) will do about anything for ratings. Howard Stern (gag) is the 'model' for most of these jokers. Writing in and complaining will do no good. you want to make a change....get their market (who are they aiming for 18-24 yr olds probably) to change their thinking then THEY will change the station and the morning idiots will go away. STOP supporting them and radio stations listen. For them, it is truly all about the ratings.

    I agree. I *loved* one of the morning djs ( younger, in his late 20's) on a local radio station I listened to on the way to work in the AM. He was a self-professed high school band nerd and former fatty ( his words) [me too, except current fatty]. I loved him until the day he started making rude comments in passing on the air about fat people. Never listened to his show again & wrote the station about it.
  • Chastityx
    Chastityx Posts: 192 Member
    I'm going to guess you live in the GTA in Ontario and were listening to The Edge?? Because I heard the same thing on the Dean Blundell show... lol

    no Houston, Texas. That's scary that it was more than one station
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