What’s a red flag for you?

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  • PlentyofProtein00
    PlentyofProtein00 Posts: 3,684 Member
    Outside jokes.

    Sledgehammer watermelons

    Why can't bikes stand up on their own?
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Outside jokes.

    Sledgehammer watermelons

    Why can't bikes stand up on their own?

    Two tired😂
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    when they expect good morning and good night texts after one date
  • PaceAble
    PaceAble Posts: 6 Member
    Has no boundaries, filter or two-faced.
  • OnlyPans
    OnlyPans Posts: 629 Member
    PaceAble wrote: »
    Has no boundaries, filter or two-faced.

    How do you feel about two out of three? 😂
  • Rickimariefit
    Rickimariefit Posts: 64 Member
    I can’t believe this thread is still going 🤣🤟
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    I can’t believe this thread is still going 🤣🤟

    now you are just showing off, it's kind of a red flag actually ;)
  • Rickimariefit
    Rickimariefit Posts: 64 Member
    @happimess01 I’m actually kinda a walking red flag 🤣
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    @happimess01 I’m actually kinda a walking red flag 🤣

    naah I am upgrading you to a crawling orange flag for now
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    if they agree to getting some icecream but can't voice their opinion on what flavour to get
  • Rickimariefit
    Rickimariefit Posts: 64 Member
    @happimess01 if someone says they don’t got atleast one red flag, they are the red flag 🤣 I’m ✨self aware✨
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    @happimess01 if someone says they don’t got atleast one red flag, they are the red flag 🤣 I’m ✨self aware✨

    True. I will be the first to say I have more red flags than a Chinese military parade but I am working on it lol
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    People who habitually insult themselves so that everyone around them says, “no,no, you’re wonderful.”
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    if they have been attacked by a therapy dog on more than one occasion
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    if they have been attacked by a therapy dog on more than one occasion

    True story
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    if they have been attacked by a therapy dog on more than one occasion

    True story

    ;)
  • OnlyPans
    OnlyPans Posts: 629 Member
    People who habitually insult themselves so that everyone around them says, “no,no, you’re wonderful.”

    I know a couple of fantastic women who do this. It's annoying as hell, and they have a bunch of really attractive qualities. That one turns all of the attractive off.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    OnlyPans wrote: »
    People who habitually insult themselves so that everyone around them says, “no,no, you’re wonderful.”

    I know a couple of fantastic women who do this. It's annoying as hell, and they have a bunch of really attractive qualities. That one turns all of the attractive off.
    Yes & sometimes it feels manipulative
  • OnlyPans
    OnlyPans Posts: 629 Member
    edited September 2022
    OnlyPans wrote: »
    People who habitually insult themselves so that everyone around them says, “no,no, you’re wonderful.”

    I know a couple of fantastic women who do this. It's annoying as hell, and they have a bunch of really attractive qualities. That one turns all of the attractive off.
    Yes & sometimes it feels manipulative

    With one of them it does - she's sharp and pretty, and probably weaponizes those responses (or in my case, the lack of counter argument).

    With the other i think it's a mental health issue. Constantly apologizes too, like her existence being a burden has been beaten into her. Literally can't express her own opinion without an apology attached. She's managed to be very successful despite this glaring issue, which says to me she's highly capable otherwise.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    edited September 2022
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    OnlyPans wrote: »
    People who habitually insult themselves so that everyone around them says, “no,no, you’re wonderful.”

    I know a couple of fantastic women who do this. It's annoying as hell, and they have a bunch of really attractive qualities. That one turns all of the attractive off.
    Yes & sometimes it feels manipulative

    I promise that’s not what I was doing yesterday when I told you I felt fat lately.💀
    🤗I promise not to be passive aggressive with you. If I ever have something to say to you I will say it to you. Plus I sadly understand that feeling.
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    edited September 2022
    OnlyPans wrote: »

    With the other i think it's a mental health issue. Constantly apologizes too, like her existence being a burden has been beaten into her. Literally can't express her own opinion without an apology attached. She's managed to be very successful despite this glaring issue, which says to me she's highly capable otherwise.

    this isnt me but also i feel called out somehow
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    jesus *kitten* christ i need to learn bbcode bc it is messed up everytime i try

    maybe this is a sign
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    If they can’t be friends with, or respectful to, people they are sexually attracted to also.

    What dat mouf do?
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 665 Member

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  • Rickimariefit
    Rickimariefit Posts: 64 Member
    edited September 2022
    People who habitually insult themselves so that everyone around them says, “no,no, you’re wonderful.”

    Ugh a “pick me” is the worst ‼️
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    People who habitually insult themselves so that everyone around them says, “no,no, you’re wonderful.”

    Ugh a “pick me” is the worst ‼️
    Sometimes men do this Poor pitiful me song and dance that just drives me nuts
  • Reckoner67_again
    Reckoner67_again Posts: 184 Member
    Ugh this thread is describing me I'm so awful
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Ugh this thread is describing me I'm so awful

    I see what you did there