My Turn to Overshare My Adventure
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Congrats! You really are amazing!0
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@springlering62
I love your overshare! Mad congrats on your journey and I feel like you can see your energy return. I really enjoy your posts and wish you continued success ☺️3 -
Well, hello, again!
It’s my third anniversary since starting weight loss, and I’m checking in again.
I am maintaining around 133 these days, yet am a wee bit smaller size-wise than I was, even though I weigh seven pounds more than I did in January.
It was a tough decision to add weight, after working so hard to lose it, but I was too too low.
I have curved up a bit, and lost the cadaverous “grandaddy longlegs” look I had when I was in the 120’s at the beginning of 2021.
In that hypercritical way we see ourselves in the mirror, that “fat brain” side (which will always be with me, I think) says it looks like I’ve gained weight, but my logical mind says, no, my hips and thighs have shrunk more, which just emphasizes my belly.
Speaking of “fat brain”, I’m not sure I want to lose it. It is what keeps me on track in maintenance, and tells me I don’t ever want to be there again.
Folks, have hope!!!!! With nutrition and exercise, even at 59, a lot of my extra skin - including the turkey wattle - has disappeared since last year.
The Floam inner tube is still with me, but is slooooowly diminishing. We’re talking glacially, epoc, age of dinosaurs, biblically slow. Yet it does.
I’ve learned that If I see wrinkles on my inner elbows or bags around my knees, it’s my body’s way of saying “You’re dehydrated, dummy. Drink something!”
Because my weight dropped so low, I lost muscle. My trainer busted me down and in January made me start from ground zero all over again, focusing this time on form. It is a blessing to have a trainer who loves, cares for and is brutally honest with you.
One or two other “mature” ladies have joined my powerlifting gym, and the young guys in particular treat us like queens. (The older guys are either terrified or hyper respectful and ignore us. Yay!) Sometimes I have to remind them,”if I can’t move my own equipment to the bench, how am I going to lift the equipment on the bench?” Half the time they smile and do it anyway.
Yoga is going swimmingly. Every time something new is called, I surprise myself by being able to do it- if not then, then by the next time I run acrost it. My goal is to have chin stand down (up, technically) by the end of the year.
And in a few lovely recent NSVs:
I ordered a pair of European Desigual jeans on clearance, and they FIT like a glove!!!!! The last time I went in Desigual I couldn’t wear a single thing in the store. Except a scarf. 🤦🏻♀️
I noticed something looked odd about my shadow while I was holding a plank. I stared at it for a bit, until I realized, my shadow had guns, baby.
And best NSV of all, Mr Spring joined me on MFP about a month ago. We are now hacking our way through weight loss and maintenance together.
Next year I hope to present you with before and after pictures of both of us.
At the suggestion of @annpt77 , I am sharing some GIFs I posted in another thread. This (I’m on page 2 after the brilliant initial posts by @badassamazon76 )is what a net weight loss of 89 pounds (after deliberately putting seven back on) looks like three years.
Warning. You may not be able to unsee those GIFS.
https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10842208/moment-of-realness/p1
Happy weight loss and maintenance, y’all!!!!
2018 Versus 2021
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you are a rock star, seriously!2
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You are my inspiration. Thank you for sharing. ♥️2
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So proud of you and your hard work!
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Just found this thread for the first time, thanks for sharing and congratulations on all your hard work!1
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Absolutely amazing! Such inspiration for those of us over 50!3
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Truly amazing! My hips are groaning just looking at the yoga poses!1
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Amazing!1
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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Your most recent updates have taken the weight of so many "loose-skin-worries" from my shoulders. And your enthusiasm and fitness is awe-inspiring - and even more "maybe I can do this" inspiring!3
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You're amazing - read several of your posts! And now you're 15 yrs younger! Love it!2
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I just reread this thread. It has always been inspiring to me, so I wanted to make sure others saw it as well. Cheers to springlering62...I really appreciate what you bring to MFP.4 -
Thank you so much!
My bestest NSV (non scale victory) since I last posted here is that my husband joined me on MFP about a year and a half ago. He has shed a lot of weight, from XXXL to XL. I was admiring his tiny butt and crazy firm calves just yesterday. He’s still in “obese range” last time he weighed (months ago) but has a triangle shape with huge broad shoulders and everything else tapers down to his delicate ballerina ankles lol.
His health has improved vastly, he‘s off the diabetes meds, and best of all, he gets upset if he can’t exercise. Win!!!!!!!
We do aquafit together several times a week and it’s awesome that we can share a workout, and to watch my ordinarily dry husband turn into the class clown in the water. Everyone thinks he’s awesome and yeah, he is.
One of our kids also does MFP now, too, though she doesn’t follow it as tightly as we do.
I’m holding at 142 these days, versus my very frail looking “too-too” low of 127, when I had lost all my muscle. The extra weight is definitely all muscle, because it’s very visible now. All I have to do is a couple of bicep curls and everything starts popping all over. This gym has mirrors and it’s endlessly fascinating to watch this stranger in the mirror. I bet they all think I’m the vainest person on the planet, lol.
My beloved trainer retired, so I moved from her old school “metal gym” to my husband’s gym, which has an older clientele, but has ah-mazing amenities. I tried one of the trainers but he wouldn’t challenge me so I figured my days with trainers were over. But then one of the female trainers actually approached and asked if she could train me. I told her only if she wouldn’t baby me, and push me harder if I moaned.
OMFG. This gal is methodical and mildly sadistic, as in “Walk that off” and then adding extra plates while my back is turned.
I’m enjoying her workouts so much, I’ve backed off of so much yoga, and have added a couple of solo weight sessions a week, and some “Muscle Madness” cardio classes. I’ve also added mat Pilates back once or twice a week, after remembering how much it helped my hip pain, which flared after our weird spring weather.
I still do hot power yoga four or five times a week, back to back classes every Saturday morning. And I finally got that chin stand goal- and a flying pigeon, too. Now working on full grasshopper and allllmost there. Cannot balance on one leg to save my life, but arm balances? Pshaw. No problem, thanks to weightlifting strength. I love them.
Lifting and yoga are super complementary disciplines.
September will be my five year anniversary of beginning this whole weight loss and exercise thing, and next year, five years of being at goal.
People have forgotten I was obese, which is weird to me. I even had an argument with a woman in yoga class last week who insisted I’d never been overweight in the eight years we’ve come to that studio, and was exaggerating.
I’m absolutely determined not to be one of the “put it all back on in five years” statistics, so five years of maintenance is my current goal.
Weight loss is life, health, attitude, everything changing, and it’s something we can take ultimate control of by and for ourselves.11 -
"I’ve learned that If I see wrinkles on my inner elbows or bags around my knees, it’s my body’s way of saying “You’re dehydrated, dummy. Drink something!”" INTERESTING COMMENT FROM @springlering62, I was just speculating on same.
So, searching out threads to help me get myself back on track, have had a bad 4 months of failing myself.
One thing I've noticed, but not sure if it's just flat out negative, or whether it's a warning--but of the 4 pages of comments on this thread, I only found 13 people still active on MFP--& that may be some recounts if they posted more than once. That's so sad. All these, I'm in it FOREVER, but then they're not. I do wonder, what happened? Did they give up? Move on to another venue? Succeed & feel they no longer need a check in? Die? IDK, but meanwhile, whether I'm actually walking the talk, or not, it does show me that keeping on regardless of how feebly I'm doing it, is where the elusive prize ring is.
Not really anything useful to say, but I did want to acknowledge you, and let you know, you are inspiring people out here with your honest and fun to read threads! (PS, you've left us hanging too long on the BL why am I doing this again thread, lol)
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Terrific updates! And you guys are so lucky to have each other.1
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"I noticed something looked odd about my shadow while I was holding a plank. I stared at it for a bit, until I realized, my shadow had guns, baby."
I love your inspiring posts and photos (esp. those yoga poses--wow) but the above quote was my favorite thing I've ever read on MFP. Thanks for the inspiration and the honest talk. The tunnel metaphor was an apt one. I've always feared maintenance, but I'll keep reading your and others' experiences to know what to expect when I arrive in the next 30 lbs.2 -
@Sparkuvu You’re back in the game. That’s all that matters.
If we waste our time on what was, we have no time to enjoy the present or energy to give the future. Lordy that sounds trite, but regrets are an utter waste of time.
What we we’ve experienced conspires to make us who we are today. And today is a pretty darn good place to be, as long as you don’t waste today chewing on yesterday.
If I sound like a sixty year old grandma, because that’s what I am. Older and wiser, and sixty years to freaking “get” it.
Go out there today and kill it for tomorrow’s sake, sweetie! 😘
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@springerling62. You give all of us older women hope that we can build muscle. Although I am 10 years older than you, (I think, assuming the 62 at the end of your name is the year you were born), I am hoping to build back some of the muscle I have lost over decades of yo-yo dieting with no strength training and of course age. I started lifting weights about 6 months ago, but had to restart after some illness earlier this year. It's so nice to hear how successful you've been, and that all the cardio you do has not hampered you. I don't do as much as you do but I do quite a bit of cardio especially in the summer. I love it, so I don't plan on cutting back on that. Can I ask how much weight training you do a week, and for how long your sessions are? Not that I am going to increase mine anytime soon, but just interested. Currently I'm trying to work back up to 3 times a week for 45 to 60 minutes. I am also trying to prevent any worsening of my osteopenia by including weight training in my routine.
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@springerling62. You give all of us older women hope that we can build muscle. Although I am 10 years older than you, (I think, assuming the 62 at the end of your name is the year you were born), I am hoping to build back some of the muscle I have lost over decades of yo-yo dieting with no strength training and of course age. I started lifting weights about 6 months ago, but had to restart after some illness earlier this year. It's so nice to hear how successful you've been, and that all the cardio you do has not hampered you. I don't do as much as you do but I do quite a bit of cardio especially in the summer. I love it, so I don't plan on cutting back on that. Can I ask how much weight training you do a week, and for how long your sessions are? Not that I am going to increase mine anytime soon, but just interested. Currently I'm trying to work back up to 3 times a week for 45 to 60 minutes. I am also trying to prevent any worsening of my osteopenia by including weight training in my routine.
Good for you @Pdc654 !!!! That’s such a great attitude.
I work with a trainer twice a week for an hour each session. I work out on my own in the gym for 45 minutes or so twice a week, two or three cardio weight classes, several power yoga classes, and aquafit four or five times a week.
I know it sounds like a lot, but I’m like a kid in a candy store. I want to do it all. I was “that kid” who was always picked last, and who everyone rolled their eyes at in disgust when they got that last pick. So as a result, I loathed exercise or sports of any kind my whole life. This is like a whole new world for me.
BTW, I know a lot of people discount aquafit for strength (and pretty much anything else). . Aquafit is what you make it. You can be the ladies in the corner who gossip, or you can pound it, and anything in between. I like aquafit because it’s something my husband and I can do together and have fun. Pool time = Fun Time.
I use aqualogix aqua bells and resistance fins I bring to class myself, after someone here recommended them. The blue bells are supposed to be able to generate as much resistance as 50 lb weights. The harder you swing them, the heavier they feel. It’s a heckuva workout. You get the benefits of low impact but with a strength workout, too. https://www.hydrorevolution.com/product/total-body-system/
Husband uses the gym-provided foam barbells.
I pshawed it at first, but aquafit is now part of my strength routine. Highly recommend, unless you’re prone to gossip. 😬
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@springlering62 Yes, it does sound like a lot of exercise. A lot more than I currently do. Lol. From other posts I have read of yours, I knew you did a lot. I love love love my aqua aerobics classes! I have done aqua classes for about 20 years off and on, and even taught them for about 5 years. However, the aqua bells I have only used when the instructor pulls them out for the class to use, which is not near as often as most of the other equipment we use. I have not tried the fins. I purchase heavy duty ankle resistance weights last summer and used them on my own when I went the pool on weekends with family. Not in a class. Yes, water does provide good resistance. I am currently taking 5 classes a week Monday- Friday. In the summer we take our classes outside and the number of classes double, so I end up taking 2 hour long classes a day, 5 days a week. I also do around 30-60 minutes of brisk walking every day.
So based on what you said above, you are doing heavy weight lifting 4 times a week for 45-60 minutes in addition to all your other classes! You are a great role model for those that say you can't build muscle and do cardio at the same time.
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@springlering62 Yes, it does sound like a lot of exercise. A lot more than I currently do. Lol. From other posts I have read of yours, I knew you did a lot. I love love love my aqua aerobics classes! I have done aqua classes for about 20 years off and on, and even taught them for about 5 years. However, the aqua bells I have only used when the instructor pulls them out for the class to use, which is not near as often as most of the other equipment we use. I have not tried the fins. I purchase heavy duty ankle resistance weights last summer and used them on my own when I went the pool on weekends with family. Not in a class. Yes, water does provide good resistance. I am currently taking 5 classes a week Monday- Friday. In the summer we take our classes outside and the number of classes double, so I end up taking 2 hour long classes a day, 5 days a week. I also do around 30-60 minutes of brisk walking every day.
So based on what you said above, you are doing heavy weight lifting 4 times a week for 45-60 minutes in addition to all your other classes! You are a great role model for those that say you can't build muscle and do cardio at the same time.
Out on thin ice impinging on Spring's thread here:
The bolded is a common but pernicious, destructively awful myth.
Yes, if someone does so much of anything (cardio, strength, whatever) that they don't recover properly between strength sessions for the same muscle group, it can compromise strength/muscle gain from strength training.
Yes, if someone does a bunch of cardio and a bunch of strength training, and underfuels their total exercise/activity load (in calories, protein or general nutrition terms), it can compromise strength/muscle gain from strength training.
Yes, if there's someone whose goal is an actual bodybuilding physique (like for bodybuilding competitions), then they will want to allocate nearly all their exercise time budget to well-planned strength exercise, and only do just enough cardio to maintain a healthy cardiovascular system (and some of them will choose to do no cardio - their call).
Other than that kind of thing, as long as we're applying some common sense, us regular people don't have to worry about cardio "burning up our muscles" or anything of that nature. Build in adequate recovery, get good nutrition, don't have an outsized calorie deficit (the smaller the better, or even maintain/gain if body weight allows) - if strength or muscle mass gain is a key goal.
My sport (on-water rowing), for best performance, rewards strength and requires extreme cardiovascular fitness. The elites in the sport look like what most of us would call "muscular", though not bodybuilder-big. They do literal hours of cardio on typical days, do that for years, and they lift (some of them mostly/only in the off season, while still doing plenty of cardio off-season).
In the spoiler, a photo of one of the top female rowers in the world a few years back. "Skinny fat"? No muscle? I don't think so. Not a bodybuilder look, either, sure.
Statistically speaking, I have more muscle for my weight than most women in my demographic (age 67) and most of actually came from "cardio" (rowing), really lots of it, for many years (starting in my late 40s). I don't lift much, certainly not enough to make significant gains. That's not a great choice on my part - lifting for sure is the most efficient way to gain strength or muscle mass, by far, and it's good for general health.0 -
@Pdc654 get out those aquabells and use them. I no longer care what anyone thinks about my equipment or intensity level. Our classes have learnt to give me enough space to avoid being whacked by a bell, and instructors are used to my bell modifications (the bells have no flotation). Your workouts are for you, and if anyone else wants to give you evils, that’s on them. I just grin at them and keep at it, and ask them if they’d like to try the bells.
@AnnPT77 if you are ever on thin ice it’s with the poise of a Michelle Kwan or Dorothy Hamill (our generation lol).
IMHO, unless you want to be a bodybuilder, doing a range of activities has been very kind to me. I started weights specifically to build upper body strength so I could “get” the arm balances I wanted so badly in yoga. But flexibility from yoga gives me some advantages in lifting and cardio classes; cardio walking and aquafit develop endurance; and Pilates just helps with every darn thing.
Find what you love and enjoy doing, and it will all come together.
I’m the one jumping up and down when it comes to core time. I discovered I LOVE core- ironic, because the first core class I ever took (Pilates), I sat in the back silently shedding tears because I could. not. do. any. of. it. And it hurt sooooo bad. For days. A
Go back. Try again. Give yourself a second or third chance before you totally blow something off. Something that makes you feel totally inadequate makes you feel like an absofreakinglutin badass when you get the hang of it. And you will if you keep trying.
My favorite yoga instructor asks everyone to try every pose. His philosophy is that you gain as much in the trying as by the actual accomplishing.
Put yourself be in the front row of every class. There’s no better incentive to try your absolute hardest when you know 80% of the class is behind you.
Smile while you work out and unclench your hands and jaw. You can get through anything if you smile. It relaxes your face, your brain and I dunno, gives you a short blast of adrenaline or something to get through the moment. But try it, it works.
Bandwagon now driving off into sunset. Good night. I’ve got a 4am wake up call to bake scones and watch a coronation. History in the making, regardless of how ya feel about it.
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Thank you @springlering62 and @AnnPT77. Both of you give great advice. Ann, I agree that adequate recovery time is so necessary, especially at our age. Just another factor in the fitness equation, and I will be sure to keep that in mind, so as to be able to continue to progress and avoid injury.
I will soon be transitioning to maintenance and my focus will be more on health and fitness goals instead of weight loss. My ultimate goal is to stay as healthy, fit, and active for as long as I possibly can throughout the rest of my 70s, 80s, and dare I say 90s. I see so many people my age who have so many health issues related to obesity and lack of physical activity that I never want to be where they are, and where I almost was 2 years ago.
Springlering62, I think it's amazing that you do all the things you do. I'm sure the variety works together and provides the kind of synergy to help you increase your abilities in all the various activities. I can really see how the strength training helps you with the pilates and yoga poses. I know I need to do more stuff for flexibility and balance. Goals to work towards.1 -
This was a great post, Spring - one among many. I love the way you write: So lively!
I'm gonna risk a couple of comments, though improving on perfect isn't achievable.springlering62 wrote: »@Pdc654 get out those aquabells and use them. I no longer care what anyone thinks about my equipment or intensity level. Our classes have learnt to give me enough space to avoid being whacked by a bell, and instructors are used to my bell modifications (the bells have no flotation). Your workouts are for you, and if anyone else wants to give you evils, that’s on them. I just grin at them and keep at it, and ask them if they’d like to try the bells.
@AnnPT77 if you are ever on thin ice it’s with the poise of a Michelle Kwan or Dorothy Hamill (our generation lol).IMHO, unless you want to be a bodybuilder, doing a range of activities has been very kind to me. I started weights specifically to build upper body strength so I could “get” the arm balances I wanted so badly in yoga. But flexibility from yoga gives me some advantages in lifting and cardio classes; cardio walking and aquafit develop endurance; and Pilates just helps with every darn thing.
Find what you love and enjoy doing, and it will all come together.
So much yes. Aalllllll the yes.I’m the one jumping up and down when it comes to core time. I discovered I LOVE core- ironic, because the first core class I ever took (Pilates), I sat in the back silently shedding tears because I could. not. do. any. of. it. And it hurt sooooo bad. For days. A
Go back. Try again. Give yourself a second or third chance before you totally blow something off. Something that makes you feel totally inadequate makes you feel like an absofreakinglutin badass when you get the hang of it. And you will if you keep trying.
Endorsed. I feel sad for people who only try one (or half) a class of a thing and give up because it's "too hard". Things that are easy from the start get boring pretty fast (IME). Things that are challenging stay fun longer. Unless a thing is actually injurious in some way (possible), I encourage people to stick it out long enough to get past the newbie blues. Many things feel impossible at first. They aren't. Everyone present was new once, and the kind ones (most people) remember how that felt.My favorite yoga instructor asks everyone to try every pose. His philosophy is that you gain as much in the trying as by the actual accomplishing.
Put yourself be in the front row of every class. There’s no better incentive to try your absolute hardest when you know 80% of the class is behind you.Smile while you work out and unclench your hands and jaw. You can get through anything if you smile. It relaxes your face, your brain and I dunno, gives you a short blast of adrenaline or something to get through the moment. But try it, it works.
For your amusement: Unclenching hands is one of the very most magical things people can do as newbies to improve their on-water rowing. Unclenching any other body part not in active use is next best.
Heh. I just made banana chocolate chip cookies, need to get up early (for night owl me) to go to the rowing club's boathouse clean-up and open house.
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Just found this thread... and all I can say is WOW! Spring, you are such an inspiration to me! Ann, you've been an inspiration for years now. But after reading all of this, I'm going to be pushing myself harder than I have been the past few months. I've had osteopenia for years now, some years I make a small gain, other I lose a small percent. Lost my hubby in '21 and missed my scan that year, but had it in the fall of '22. I went from osteopenia (-2.2 in my last scan) to -10. I don't believe it, no way I lost that much bone in 3 years, but I also don't want to risk taking the meds for osteoporosis. So I've been gradually adding weight exercises to my routine. Hearing, and seeing, what you two have done over the years has forced me to look at myself more honestly, and see that I'm a lazy person that has to get her rump in gear before it's too late. I can't afford gym membership, or a trainer, but I do have YouTube, kettlebells (that I had already incorporated into my routine) resistance bands that haven't seen the light of day for years... and it's time to get my act together and not keep taking baby steps! Baby steps won't take me where I want to go, and at almost 72, if I don't start moving there soon I never will! So thank you ladies, for making me see myself as I am...and making me realize it's now or never if I want to see myself as I want to be! You two rule!5
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Thank you for sharing your amazing story. Keep it up! So inspirational and with humor as well. Love the yoga outfit!!!0
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What was the Amazon series you watched about the boatman in a tunnel?0
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What was the Amazon series you watched about the boatman in a tunnel?
Guy gets a divorce, sells everything, quits his job, buys a canal boat with zero experience and films and narrates himself.
Series moves as slow as the canal boat, super budget production, I found myself sympathizing with the ex wife, and experienced a distinct urge to slap him around some myself. But otherwise unique.
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@poisonesse i know for a fact you’re awesome from your contributions here on the boards.
If you’re in the US, some gyms give free Silver Sneakers memberships through Medicare. My neighbors go to Workout Anytime this way. Or maybe Planet Fitness? 🤦🏻♀️0
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